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Re: When A Girl Has Feelings For You And You Don't by Nobody: 2:11pm On Feb 20, 2015
Cutehector:
yh dnt.
Thanks
Re: When A Girl Has Feelings For You And You Don't by Malawian(m): 3:35pm On Feb 20, 2015
figo77:
Hello guys, I'm passing through this right now and don't know what to do. I have a girl that is forcing herself on me but I have no feelings for her.
Right from d time that we saw each other, i never developed any feelings for her. It's not that she is ugly and flat, she is OK, but yet I don't like her more than friendship stuff

She is my hall at school, staying with her Friend, she came to my hall last year ending and since then she has been turning green lights, u should know what I mean.

I find it hard to cope with her maybe because I'm seeing her everyday and it's like we're living couple's life which I hate. I thought of breaking up with her but my friends are like it's wrong to break up with a girl in this kind of situation. Dz girl loves me so much but I don't. D day I told her I wasn't interested, all my hall mate knew something was wrong, she cried so much that I have to go and tell her I was just testing her faith whereas I was so fed up of d relationship.

I will soon be transfered from dz town to another.. It's how d system is...I will go to another campus to continue my course. Someone is like when d distance is there, that I should not call her often maybe once in a week dat it's better dan breaking up with her to avoid hatred. Why another friend said it's when I go I will start developing feelings for her but I think that's not possible but he said that's what will happen.
I think of changing my number and every details of me that she knows

I've not have sex with her buh she is ready to give herself if I ask her but I made sure I didn't have sex with her cos I have no feelings for her.

She thinks I love her but I'm just playing along not to cause any damage

D question I want to ask u guys is what can I do?
How can I break up with her without causing hatred??
dey there dey speak grammar. if you like, no tidy am now, when your guy start to tidy am, you go understand jealousy.

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Re: When A Girl Has Feelings For You And You Don't by Sijo01(f): 3:36pm On Feb 20, 2015
op, so you wanna friend zone her abi embarassed

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Re: When A Girl Has Feelings For You And You Don't by DesChyko: 3:39pm On Feb 20, 2015
Just one advice. Mind your business.
Re: When A Girl Has Feelings For You And You Don't by ceejay80s(m): 3:40pm On Feb 20, 2015
Upload her pic and let's see, that's the only way I can judge, and also upload ur unclothedness,
Seeing is believing
Re: When A Girl Has Feelings For You And You Don't by LewisO: 3:40pm On Feb 20, 2015
Still this same guy will open a thread tomorrow, lamenting *Ha she dump me for no reason, what should I do? Please help!!!* I pity u. sad
Re: When A Girl Has Feelings For You And You Don't by EmekaBlue(m): 3:40pm On Feb 20, 2015
chop her
Re: When A Girl Has Feelings For You And You Don't by ugosonic1: 3:41pm On Feb 20, 2015
notin to advice rada move ahead with ur life. u will definitely someone dt loves u
Re: When A Girl Has Feelings For You And You Don't by elawee55(m): 3:42pm On Feb 20, 2015
Op just continue playing along till marriage, kwo?
Re: When A Girl Has Feelings For You And You Don't by ceejay80s(m): 3:43pm On Feb 20, 2015
lilflipnerd:
i need a job asap
employers contact me


grakem58@gmail.com
U go do lawma work?
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Re: When A Girl Has Feelings For You And You Don't by Nobody: 3:43pm On Feb 20, 2015
Sorry to say, but me think that "you are foolish" You must have done something to lead her on. it either u slept with her once or u showed signs of interest in her before she noticed you. Guys will never change!!!

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Re: When A Girl Has Feelings For You And You Don't by kilmix: 3:45pm On Feb 20, 2015
Figo77
Me too need help o.. in a similar situation right now.


Hope she's not on nl oo
Re: When A Girl Has Feelings For You And You Don't by prettyjo(f): 3:45pm On Feb 20, 2015
am also in this type of situation.
am so tired of explaining to the guy that I don't have any iota of feelings for him but he would still persist.
since 2013.

@op ,never have any canal knowledge of her.
Re: When A Girl Has Feelings For You And You Don't by lilflipnerd: 3:46pm On Feb 20, 2015
ceejay80s:

U go do lawma work?
Sweep from adekunle third mainland bridge to obalende---#19000 per month
I Need Job ASAP
EMPLOYERS CONTACT


grakem58@gmail.com
Re: When A Girl Has Feelings For You And You Don't by lolaxavier(m): 3:47pm On Feb 20, 2015
Picture of you running away from her or we dont bliv it....
Re: When A Girl Has Feelings For You And You Don't by kilmix: 3:47pm On Feb 20, 2015
Lizabeth25:
Sorry to say, but me think that "you are foolish" You must have done something to lead her on. it either u slept with her once or u showed signs of interest in her before she noticed you. Guys will never change!!!
That's not true.

*defending the OP from my own predicament*
Re: When A Girl Has Feelings For You And You Don't by free2ryhme: 3:49pm On Feb 20, 2015
figo77:
Hello guys, I'm passing through this right now and don't know what to do. I have a girl that is forcing herself on me but I have no feelings for her.
Right from d time that we saw each other, i never developed any feelings for her. It's not that she is ugly and flat, she is OK, but yet I don't like her more than friendship stuff

She is my hall at school, staying with her Friend, she came to my hall last year ending and since then she has been turning green lights, u should know what I mean.

I find it hard to cope with her maybe because I'm seeing her everyday and it's like we're living couple's life which I hate. I thought of breaking up with her but my friends are like it's wrong to break up with a girl in this kind of situation. Dz girl loves me so much but I don't. D day I told her I wasn't interested, all my hall mate knew something was wrong, she cried so much that I have to go and tell her I was just testing her faith whereas I was so fed up of d relationship.

I will soon be transfered from dz town to another.. It's how d system is...I will go to another campus to continue my course. Someone is like when d distance is there, that I should not call her often maybe once in a week dat it's better dan breaking up with her to avoid hatred. Why another friend said it's when I go I will start developing feelings for her but I think that's not possible but he said that's what will happen.
I think of changing my number and every details of me that she knows

I've not have sex with her buh she is ready to give herself if I ask her but I made sure I didn't have sex with her cos I have no feelings for her.

She thinks I love her but I'm just playing along not to cause any damage

D question I want to ask u guys is what can I do?
How can I break up with her without causing hatred??


Save yourself a life and future of frustrations tell her the bitter truth and reality.

You don't want to regret in future
Re: When A Girl Has Feelings For You And You Don't by abdillahee(m): 3:49pm On Feb 20, 2015
Mr man becareful and think twice, if Table turns to you u'll suffer a lot and it's too late to come back you know what I mean, table can turn at any time, just keep ur relationship with her as time goes it will reduce gradually by not doing any harm or damage to her, cz u'll break her heart by doing what u are planin to do
Re: When A Girl Has Feelings For You And You Don't by ceejay80s(m): 3:50pm On Feb 20, 2015
figo77:
Hello guys, I'm passing through this right now and don't know what to do. I have a girl that is forcing herself on me but I have no feelings for her.
Right from d time that we saw each other, i never developed any feelings for her. It's not that she is ugly and flat, she is OK, but yet I don't like her more than friendship stuff

She is my hall at school, staying with her Friend, she came to my hall last year ending and since then she has been turning green lights, u should know what I mean.

I find it hard to cope with her maybe because I'm seeing her everyday and it's like we're living couple's life which I hate. I thought of breaking up with her but my friends are like it's wrong to break up with a girl in this kind of situation. Dz girl loves me so much but I don't. D day I told her I wasn't interested, all my hall mate knew something was wrong, she cried so much that I have to go and tell her I was just testing her faith whereas I was so fed up of d relationship.

I will soon be transfered from dz town to another.. It's how d system is...I will go to another campus to continue my course. Someone is like when d distance is there, that I should not call her often maybe once in a week dat it's better dan breaking up with her to avoid hatred. Why another friend said it's when I go I will start developing feelings for her but I think that's not possible but he said that's what will happen.
I think of changing my number and every details of me that she knows

I've not have sex with her buh she is ready to give herself if I ask her but I made sure I didn't have sex with her cos I have no feelings for her.

She thinks I love her but I'm just playing along not to cause any damage

D question I want to ask u guys is what can I do?
How can I break up with her without causing hatred??

Just tell her that u are HIV positive and she will leave u for good

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Re: When A Girl Has Feelings For You And You Don't by DidiLove1: 3:51pm On Feb 20, 2015
So many kids running loose on NL......smh
Re: When A Girl Has Feelings For You And You Don't by major466(m): 3:51pm On Feb 20, 2015
Cutehector:
If u keep playin along and u suddenly break her heart, she might do smth dangerous to herself along d process. She might start to hate evryoda guy she meets later on. Pls I advice u neva to take advantage of her, just tell her u r a virgin and u r keen on keepin it til marriage. And as for d feelings aspect, trust me, it will die down someday. Fact!
Totally agree.

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Re: When A Girl Has Feelings For You And You Don't by Koolking(m): 3:53pm On Feb 20, 2015
What is this Op saying?

"she is giving you green light, she is ugly and fat, you like her as a friend, you want to break up with her without causing hatred". What are you breaking up? You have never aired your feelings to her. Not even a mutual relationship. I am wondering what you are breaking up. How old are you dude?
Re: When A Girl Has Feelings For You And You Don't by kilmix: 3:55pm On Feb 20, 2015
ceejay80s:


Just tell her that u are HIV positive and she will leave u for good

Hahaha.. nice advice.. but risky sha.

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Re: When A Girl Has Feelings For You And You Don't by louiskay(m): 3:56pm On Feb 20, 2015
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Re: When A Girl Has Feelings For You And You Don't by watchindelta(m): 3:58pm On Feb 20, 2015
Why some ppl just can't control their emotions? Am d best when it come to emotion control cool but am a boi cool
Re: When A Girl Has Feelings For You And You Don't by mmsen: 3:58pm On Feb 20, 2015
Be careful - you try an end it as a man and she will go out of her way to try and destroy you or sabotage your reputation.

The sad thing is that she will be given license to do so, no one will tell her that she is wrong.
Re: When A Girl Has Feelings For You And You Don't by Kedam(m): 4:00pm On Feb 20, 2015
Tell her you are already in a committed relationship and that you don't wanna hurt her. I also think changing ur location will help a lot.
Re: When A Girl Has Feelings For You And You Don't by XBLadez: 4:00pm On Feb 20, 2015
I don't know why I hate seeing all these love stories on front page. They should remain in their appropriate thread jo undecided
Re: When A Girl Has Feelings For You And You Don't by Nobody: 4:02pm On Feb 20, 2015
Some gehs dey fall hands misrep sha embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed sad sad sad

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