Respect her feeling for you and not take it for granted nor waive it aside

Simply sit her down and explain how u feel bout her. She sud be able to take it in good faith.

figo77:

No b so bros,but I'm just considering d future cos I don't know where we could meet again and she should not be like I won't forgive u.I just want a a peaceful break up that won't hurt her

I like hw u reason. U sound like a gud guy with a strong conscience. Keep it up. Do wat u feel is right abt this issue

Lizabeth25:
Sorry to say, but me think that "you are foolish" You must have done something to lead her on. it either u slept with her once or u showed signs of interest in her before she noticed you. Guys will never change!!!

Now a matured guy is seeking advice from matured minds, suddenly an unrepentant hoe pops in from Bush and called the guy "foolish"... How low can these slots get down to?

Yan her d koko

Does she know any of your sisters? If no, tell one to visit you, pretend she is the love of your life and that you've known eachother since you were kids, that even your families are already aware of your relationship, after that, I don't think she'll bother with you again. But if she's persistence after your sister's visit, use the opportunity of the transfer to subtly discontinue any form of relationship with her.

This love thing sef.

Tell her ur mind before its too late

Bro, just pass her over to me na, lemme be taking care of her

Judeoxide:
Draw chair arrange am sitdone hold my Gionee typing start....guy I just came out of one like that..the funny thing is almost all the guy even my boss day fall for this girl..but name me she want..men I was single but have no steam drop of feeling for her...I gave her a chance sha..bad idea though...guy even as she pull all her cloth men to my greatest surprise I still felt nothing...name me carry my hand dress her back..she later traveled for Xmas that's when I hit d red botton...though I end up hurting her..so bro it has to start now especially with or transfer at hand..it might also be a trap ohh cos gaskiya it was later I found out she just finished her monthly period..if tor say I try am..I for be papa junior in 7months time..

who told u she go carry belle cos she jst finishd ha period? no b immedtly jo

Op you're clearly not ready to break up with her.
It is such a weird relationship, I can never get myself entagled in such. I'm too concerned about details and making sure everyone knows their part.

If you wanna break up with her, you're gonna have to tell her you're not interested in being her boyfriend or lover- you simply wanna be friends and if she cant be that, then you're sorry-you guys cant be anything. For crying out loud you're a man. Funny I have this weird feeling that you're a loner and she's the only one who has your time-so you still want her around and wanna be friends not an intimate thing.

Or simply, have another girl over and introduce the other girl to her as your girlfriend, kiss, touch and show love to the other girl in her presence. She'll totally get the message. But smh some girls are desperate tho! Scary!

chimkaire:
Some gehs dey fall hands misrep sha

How do you mean? She's in love, what else should she do?

Another silly post! Chai!! wtf is wrong with young people these days!

evegran:
Op you're clearly not ready to break up with her.
It is such a weird relationship, I can never get myself entagled in such. I'm too concerned about details and making sure everyone knows their part.

If you wanna break up with her, you're gonna have to tell her you're not interested in being her boyfriend or lover- you simply wanna be friends and if she cant be that, then you're sorry-you guys cant be anything. For crying out loud you're a man. Funny I have this weird feeling that you're a loner and she's the only one who has your time-so you still want her around and wanna be friends not an intimate thing.

Or simply, have another girl over and introduce the other girl to her as your girlfriend, kiss, touch and show love to the other girl in her presence. She'll totally get the message. But smh some girls are desperate tho! Scary!

Have you been in love before?

That Moment when you are trying to breakup with or get over someone you never dated.

My friend go and focus on your study.lol Imagine how productive you would be, if you spend half of the time your occupy your thoughts on her to your career..Having said that, If you don't love her. Be a man and tell her how you truly feel because if the revise has been the case she will tell you without a blink of eye or even without consulting the public..

Lizabeth25:
Sorry to say, but me think that "you are foolish" You must have done something to lead her on. it either u slept with her once or u showed signs of interest in her before she noticed you. Guys will never change!!!

Why do you call him foolish. He said they've never had sex, so he must have led her on? He has admitted as much, but he was never an official boyfriend.

In my opinion, she is simply friendzoned. Ladies do it to guys all the time.

Fit2Rule:
Another silly post! Chai!! wtf is wrong with young people these days!

Not sure this is a silly post. Do you have a ready answer to his question?

figo77:
Hello guys, I'm passing through this right now and don't know what to do. I have a girl that is forcing herself on me but I have no feelings for her.
Right from d time that we saw each other, i never developed any feelings for her. It's not that she is ugly and flat, she is OK, but yet I don't like her more than friendship stuff

She is my hall at school, staying with her Friend, she came to my hall last year ending and since then she has been turning green lights, u should know what I mean.

I find it hard to cope with her maybe because I'm seeing her everyday and it's like we're living couple's life which I hate. I thought of breaking up with her but my friends are like it's wrong to break up with a girl in this kind of situation. Dz girl loves me so much but I don't. D day I told her I wasn't interested, all my hall mate knew something was wrong, she cried so much that I have to go and tell her I was just testing her faith whereas I was so fed up of d relationship.

I will soon be transfered from dz town to another.. It's how d system is...I will go to another campus to continue my course. Someone is like when d distance is there, that I should not call her often maybe once in a week dat it's better dan breaking up with her to avoid hatred. Why another friend said it's when I go I will start developing feelings for her but I think that's not possible but he said that's what will happen.
I think of changing my number and every details of me that she knows

I've not have sex with her buh she is ready to give herself if I ask her but I made sure I didn't have sex with her cos I have no feelings for her.

She thinks I love her but I'm just playing along not to cause any damage

D question I want to ask u guys is what can I do?
How can I break up with her without causing hatred??

Let me tell u a short story....


A boy once had zis same so-called problem u're facing. He felt he didn't want her, he didn't love her afterall men don't love without some form of convincing logic behind why he should genuinely love a woman.

She did all she could to make him see that her love for him is real but he wouldn't bulge.

Not until there comes a distance between them both of place and marital status, that he knew he had loved her without realizing it.
his fondness of her is still strong up till today and guess what....
she never forgave him for she isn't happy in her marriage and this is really a worrisome position for him...

guess who d idiot that hurt her is... yeah, u got it- ME

think twice and make sure u make a decision that u won't regret.

I've now learned from experience(if I have a second chance) to love d one who loved me first for who I am than to love someone and try to entice and make them love me back...

Men are capable of loving but only that ours is not d same with d way women loves.


Go in peace bro, I wish u d best

The best thing you can do to make her stop loving you is to give her a bad side of you, this bad side include:
1. Stay unkept around her
2. Act foolishly around her
3. Disgrace yourself in her present while with other school ladies

believe me, these work like maggic, i've done it severely when I begin to sense STRING ATTACHMENT

Try turning her to an ATM machine
Demand cash from her more often than not n I bet u, her brain will reboot,
I trust Nigerian girls, she'll eventually run from u

pls help me ooo
am avin dsame problem jst dt d dif is dt we are having sex lyk hell... even wen I try stopn sex sh jst cant stop. I even pretended to be an ex cultist yet she jst cant go... pls I dnt know wat to do ryt now..... nd I dnt wana hurt her at all bt yet dis love feelings cnt jst grow frm me

Inbox me her number I will help you out

Ve nt seen any gud & constructive comment by a 'female' Nairalander...jst imagine say nah guy dix tin relate2,d way comment4flow.

Chylo:


Have you been in love before?

Of course and I'm presently still in love. Not lust. Okay?

figo77:
Hello guys, I'm passing through this right now and don't know what to do. I have a girl that is forcing herself on me but I have no feelings for her.
Right from d time that we saw each other, i never developed any feelings for her. It's not that she is ugly and flat, she is OK, but yet I don't like her more than friendship stuff

She is my hall at school, staying with her Friend, she came to my hall last year ending and since then she has been turning green lights, u should know what I mean.

I find it hard to cope with her maybe because I'm seeing her everyday and it's like we're living couple's life which I hate. [b]I thought of breaking up with he[/b]r but my friends are like it's wrong to break up with a girl in this kind of situation. Dz girl loves me so much but I don't. D day I told her I wasn't interested, all my hall mate knew something was wrong, she cried so much that I have to go and tell her I was just testing her faith whereas I was so fed up of d relationship.

I will soon be transfered from dz town to another.. It's how d system is...I will go to another campus to continue my course. Someone is like when d distance is there, that I should not call her often maybe once in a week dat it's better dan breaking up with her to avoid hatred. Why another friend said it's when I go I will start developing feelings for her but I think that's not possible but he said that's what will happen.
I think of changing my number and every details of me that she knows

I've not have sex with her buh she is ready to give herself if I ask her but I made sure I didn't have sex with her cos I have no feelings for her.

She thinks I love her but I'm just playing along not to cause any damage

D question I want to ask u guys is what can I do?
How can I break up with her without causing hatred??

are you guys in a relationship post sounds contracdictory

really, one man food is another man's poison,Na opportunity wey some guys dy hustle for b dis ooo,girls you should learn from this generous woman

If you play with her emotions. You may live her scared for life. If you don't see her that way then be blunt and honest while Considering her feelings. What you do now will shape her impression of men. She may never approach a man she likes ever again. And that man could be me.

just continue the relationship first, any kind of proving smart can cause so much damage, let her know later then u could have been sure that the feeling is gone, that she is not Ur ideal gal...nothing will happen, then that d feelings is gone

figo77:
Hello guys, I'm passing through this right now and don't know what to do. I have a girl that is forcing herself on me but I have no feelings for her.
Right from d time that we saw each other, i never developed any feelings for her. It's not that she is ugly and flat, she is OK, but yet I don't like her more than friendship stuff

She is my hall at school, staying with her Friend, she came to my hall last year ending and since then she has been turning green lights, u should know what I mean.

I find it hard to cope with her maybe because I'm seeing her everyday and it's like we're living couple's life which I hate. I thought of breaking up with her but my friends are like it's wrong to break up with a girl in this kind of situation. Dz girl loves me so much but I don't. D day I told her I wasn't interested, all my hall mate knew something was wrong, she cried so much that I have to go and tell her I was just testing her faith whereas I was so fed up of d relationship.

I will soon be transfered from dz town to another.. It's how d system is...I will go to another campus to continue my course. Someone is like when d distance is there, that I should not call her often maybe once in a week dat it's better dan breaking up with her to avoid hatred. Why another friend said it's when I go I will start developing feelings for her but I think that's not possible but he said that's what will happen.
I think of changing my number and every details of me that she knows

I've not have sex with her buh she is ready to give herself if I ask her but I made sure I didn't have sex with her cos I have no feelings for her.

She thinks I love her but I'm just playing along not to cause any damage

D question I want to ask u guys is what can I do?
How can I break up with her without causing hatred??

This story kinda look like the one i ws facing a while ago.

Look at dis mugu babe dey give u true love give her what she wants now no be to dey yanch her once in a while but u dey claim fine boy so u won end ur life in buying phones, airtime, etc for babes u really love u be big mumu

Tallesty1:
That Moment when you are trying to breakup with or get over someone you never dated.

ceejay80s:

U go do lawma work?
Sweep from adekunle third mainland bridge to obalende---#19000 per month

Nna you mean o

figo77:
Hello guys, I'm passing through this right now and don't know what to do. I have a girl that is forcing herself on me but I have no feelings for her.
Right from d time that we saw each other, i never developed any feelings for her. It's not that she is ugly and flat, she is OK, but yet I don't like her more than friendship stuff

She is my hall at school, staying with her Friend, she came to my hall last year ending and since then she has been turning green lights, u should know what I mean.

I find it hard to cope with her maybe because I'm seeing her everyday and it's like we're living couple's life which I hate. I thought of breaking up with her but my friends are like it's wrong to break up with a girl in this kind of situation. Dz girl loves me so much but I don't. D day I told her I wasn't interested, all my hall mate knew something was wrong, she cried so much that I have to go and tell her I was just testing her faith whereas I was so fed up of d relationship.

I will soon be transfered from dz town to another.. It's how d system is...I will go to another campus to continue my course. Someone is like when d distance is there, that I should not call her often maybe once in a week dat it's better dan breaking up with her to avoid hatred. Why another friend said it's when I go I will start developing feelings for her but I think that's not possible but he said that's what will happen.
I think of changing my number and every details of me that she knows

I've not have sex with her buh she is ready to give herself if I ask her but I made sure I didn't have sex with her cos I have no feelings for her.

She thinks I love her but I'm just playing along not to cause any damage

D question I want to ask u guys is what can I do?
How can I break up with her without causing hatred??

figo77:
I have a huge crush on a girl in my street but i've been looking 4 a way to chat with her bt didnt see any

bt nw i did something,i stole her number from someone close to her but dont knw wat 2 do

if i call her and i tell her i got her num. 4rm sum1 i tink she will be like i cant approach or sumtin.

I have her number nw,but what can i do with it? Or what should i do?
Pls guys,need ur help

Karma is a b***ch indeed. You are dumping one lady to chase another. How are you not the victim in your own story