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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Ajarney(m): 11:29am On Feb 22, 2015 |
I would have plead on her behalf though but her committing abortion is out of it all |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by fyneboi79(m): 11:32am On Feb 22, 2015 |
dpoladapo604:Asking the Alfa for abortion money only means she slept with him without a condom not knowing how often d randy Alfa sleeps around with numerous girls he uses.So you can go on with her till she infects you with the HIV virus |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by divine247(f): 11:36am On Feb 22, 2015 |
Give her one more last chance if she doesn't change move on |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Odunharry(m): 11:46am On Feb 22, 2015 |
Kingsasian:lol...it quite painful people are nt loyal |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Odunharry(m): 11:47am On Feb 22, 2015 |
divine247:one what?? |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by temmym4(m): 11:55am On Feb 22, 2015 |
Acidosis: God bless you bro! U v just poured out what I had in mind!! |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by lharstborn(m): 12:01pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
OP.. e be like say you no value your life at all. Alfa,of all people? Ohh okay so you want to wait till the Alfa dude impregnate your gal before the scales fall of your eyes ba? Have you even thought of the health implications of your gal having sex with him without protection? There's the risk of STD's because its obvious the Alfa us a randy goat,not forgetting she supposedly aborted a pregnancy he was responsible for. How about the fact that she refused to heed to your objections of her going to this Alfa's place? She clearly ignored your warnings and even topped it by having sex with him (Chai,the gal sharp o!). Lastly have you even considered the spiritual implications of your gal engaging in what the Yorubas call 'Toju Bo Ile'? It amazes me that most gals nowadays are so gullible that they frequent spiritual individuals for one spiritual guidance or the other with reckless abandon,in their quest for doing these they fall prey into the manipulations of these so called alfas and pastors which was the exact situation your gal fell into. Lastly dude,you need to wake up before the Alfa does something to your gal which will eventually affect your own personal and spiritual journey. Let her go! |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by joxxy01(m): 12:01pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
never. Just forget her, she can kill |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by medacares: 12:05pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
My advice stop checking ur woman's phone It's best that way. Then pray about it God knws best. |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by savanto: 12:13pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
IYANGBALI: I respectfully disagree with you on this matter. There's nothing like privacy between married couples. Both of you are ONE flesh by the reason of marriage. Marriage aint a union between a boy and a girl but between a man and a woman. My advise is, don't go into a marriage if you know that you aren't ready to 'forsake others and stick to your husband or wife' if you hide or password your phone because of me....wherein have you loved me? We don't eat love, we humans can only feel it and appreciate it. If you hide or password your phone because of privacy issues, then you have a PROBLEM with 'yourself' May we not be found wanton on the judgement day. Marriages today are fraught with numerous challenges and that is why divorce rate is on the increase and it may continue to be so if you and I don't change our mindset. Only recognise privacy in marriages when you are discussing with your family (my in-laws when we are together, I can give you space to relate with them because they gave me their blessings) If you truly love me, I see no reason why you should hide things from me. Love is open! After all, I know when you are on monthly mensuration, I see your unclothedness daily without you having to be shy about it. So why hiding of phone? Judging from peoples' comments, you can easily deduce those that are married and those in serious relationships that cheat. It is the trend these latter days. I will conclude by saying again that women are God's special gift to men. They are wonderful to be with only IF you FIND the right one for you. Then and only then will you enjoy your union. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Nobody: 12:16pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
Continue with her. no be fool you be? |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by duduade: 12:17pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
dpoladapo604:i tot u said she would do anything to protect her relationship... Despite your warmings she did the contary.. Guess u still dont know her that much......! |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by mayor007(m): 12:24pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
The lady is a cold-hearted SOB. Read the part where the alfa asked whether she loves him or not. She wanna have her cake and eat it so tey belle enter the matter. Honestly dude, if you were my friend; I'd have to projectile-slap you into reality. Talking about "going on with her". |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by AmarachiOnuoha(m): 12:25pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
Let her go or u will finally regrate it when she finally leaves u. U will now become the mugu and she the wiser. Know it that she herself will never live with the memory, that u are now aware of her bad deed. because definetly she will not continue with the relationship after u might have forgiven her. So be the one to end the partnership, don't let her end it herself. because it will be a blow to u at the time she quit it herself. So be wise. |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Beyhiodie(m): 12:28pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
Prixus:na then yu go see them repent and become holy sisters, God save brothers in church ooo |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by itohanmercy(f): 12:31pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
Pls let her be...u can't build ur confidence in dat kindda lady...sleeping with an alfa? WOw..disgusting. |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by malbro(m): 12:31pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
BRODA NW LISTEN CAREFULLY......I DONT LIKE GIVIN ADVICE ON FINKZ LIKE DIS COS ALL ACTION DEPENDS ON U....FROM WAT I READ N MAI OBSERVATION YOU DONT TRUST HER DATZY U RE CHECKIN UP HER FONE......U EVEN WAN HER.BF D DEMAGE WAS BIN DONE...PADDY ME....U LOVE HER YEAP.....BT I SEE A GURL PLAYIN YOU.....LIKE I SAID IZ UP TO U....FOR ME I CANT STAY WITH HER SOWIEEEE. |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Originalsly: 12:35pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
Partner or no partner....IT IS WRONG TO GO THRU SOMEONE'S FONE. If you think you should have full access to everything because you are in a relationship ... then why didn't you give her your bank account number and code? On the one you sooo much love.....the writing is on the wall ... red flags are waving .... you have seen the nature of the beast .... you know what you're up against.... the choice is yours. |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by malbro(m): 12:39pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
divine247:SEE THEM |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by marvelito: 12:44pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
ivyT:i guess u r nt different frm her. Rubbish ladies |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by nekaa(f): 12:49pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
satope1: Youngpo413:My point is whose fault is it he didn't look before he leapt? |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by savanto: 12:49pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
kolykoldy: @OP, May her supposedly 'last chance' not turn out to be your most dreaded 'one chance' Life is about choices. We shall respect your choice. Having said all these, I rest my case. Shall we all rise? ''The summer is ended, the harvest is past, and we are not saved'' Jer. 8:20 (KJV) |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Newmanluckyman(m): 12:51pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
@OP,why is it that common sense is not common to u? |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by KingsleyBuubba(m): 12:54pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
Bro. Listen to Bubba cos Bubba wil tell u from a related xperience...... U wil neva forget dis, so dis is my candid advice. Let her go cos u wil neva stop checking her fone and u wil neva trust her. Bro a relationship is not wat it ought to be without trust. The earlier u let her go d beta |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Nobody: 12:56pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
It's crazy the way women are sleeping around like chimps these days! Is it something in the water? |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by tempel(m): 1:03pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
Forgive her but run |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Nobody: 1:06pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
divine247:if you were in his shoes would you give the guy another chance ni, face the fact jhor! |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by greall12(m): 1:15pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
i feel Your Pain Bro.. To tell you the fact the lady is not your wife Just let her go, i'm very sure she will regret that she loose you at the end.. Some ladies can lie eh |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Gsmiles26(m): 1:18pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
Its not just abt the sex now but it is very possible the alfa has cast a spell upon her and she remains under his bondage.I attend a deliverance church and I have seen several times demons of such satanic priest speaking out on such issues.I suggest if you really like her,u must take her for proper deliverance from a geniu deliverance pastor |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Bigsteveg(m): 1:19pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
blackchukky: Nonsense, drug the bull by the horn. U started well but finished badly. If you have nothing to hide, ur spouse checking your phone should not be an issue. Am sure u won't even allow ur spouse to pick ur calls. |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Nobody: 1:19pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
emmillyfaith:abegii comot for hia! |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Bigsteveg(m): 1:21pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
Acidosis: U said it all. God bless you |
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