timilehing:
It happened to me while in school, not that I broke up with my gf but this friend keeps looking for ways to get in line. This very day, she came to visit her friend in my hostel, she decided to stay late with her & later left her room saying it's late already that she can't sleep with her cos her friend's bf is around & she can't go to her place that night. Though I knew what she's up to but I played along. She started by undressing claiming she can't sleep with cloths on (but she can sleep with only bra & panty with a guy on the same bed). She was surprised I didn't even said anything to her big boo.bs or curvy hips, we went to bed but both disguising as sleeping. About an hour later, she starts her trouble, gently & softly still I played along & helped her to the mood she want but when it got to a place that she wants more than caressing, she was urging me to go in like that (full aboard) I use my last lifeline (I don't have con'dom at home & I'm even a virgin lol) I can't start nursing STDs at this stage. She got annoyed calling me different names but I didn't bulge. Though I see free punny in my front but I've decided not to give in. She tried times after times but I stand on my decision every other day. Don't ever give

Mr man you don't belong here, go back to mars

obynocj:
since she has been your best friend all this while..i think u should gv her chance..cos from bff to gf is d best thng dat will happen to ur reationship, she understands u more than any girl...so ur relationship with her will last longer even to marriage lol..unless she is nt as beautiful as ur EX..if she is...den my man gv her a shot..she z a sure deal #experincetalkshere

im not exactly a shallow guy, but my ex has it all, physical features and all and killer curves my friend is pretty too but if i had to compare on the bases of looks then my ex would win but coming to personalities my friend has a great one and its like we know what we are both thinking and we have similar behaviours, the opposite with my girlfriend, we really dont have anything in common but i love her maybe because it was difficult to get her to be my girlfriend (took me close to six months)

Well OP
I fink u should give ur bestie a chance if u av any feelings 4 her @ all.
She may nt av openly declared she didn't like ur last relationship.. Regardless she bottled are feelings, gv u advice .. Think bck is der any advice shis suggested that frm hindsight. Shows she was wishing 4 d elationship 2 fail. Is not shis got ur bck. She must av ad ur whine n cmplain and she knws u deserve a beta gal dan d 1 u r currntly wiv. And abt d seduction part.. I dnt knw much abt ur friendship but did u eva pix her as sum1 2 act dat? m sure shis actin unda d advice recievd frm a female frnd to act all dus drama 2 secure ur undivided amorous attention. Well my own take is dat dis gal already liks u n she understands u beta dn ur ex.. If u want 2 save ur friendship and stil start a new relationship. PLS dnt start dis new relatonship wiv sex, I repeat dnt start off wiv sex. Think abt it lik delayed gratification. Shis jst knd of desperat n if shis d 1 offering dnt b scared d kitty kat is nt runnin away it will cum bck 2 u. As frinds u gys shuld sit dwn n communicate ur feelings. Go for a few dates et al den u cn av it unda d ryt condition. g

eyinjuege:


How come nobody seems to understand the lady's comments
What she's saying is that its not possible for people of opposite sex be best friends without either one having romantic feelings for the other.

I'm sure she's an English Teacher. why she go knack that kind grammar when sleep dey worry us?

Timitunechi:
like the way you beat yours abi?? awon aye GBA FIFA Lori e do you ever rethink what you wrote before posting

Gbam!! he should beat her the same way Kratos beat Herlios ...

danbrowndmf:
Oga Seun Ban dis guy claimn to be girl,hez dp is promoten Porn on NL here!

nah him get the site?you jealous say I no dey answer you for bbm! bloodyMALEWHORE.

lordthree:

im not exactly a shallow guy, but my ex has it all, physical features and all and killer curves my friend is pretty too but if i had to compare on the bases of looks then my ex would win but coming to personalities my friend has a great one and its like we know what we are both thinking and we have similar behaviours, the opposite with my girlfriend, we really dont have anything in common but i love her maybe because it was difficult to get her to be my girlfriend (took me close to six months)

You got carried away in beauty not a wifey material!

pbs4real:
i hope its nt wat am tinking.

nah, it's just a figure of spit.

stan241:
Like i said she has always had a thing for you but couldn't act on it because of your ongoing relationship then but now that you free its open season she'd try to get you to see her than more than just a friend

my man go and take what is yours

If u enter the place u might not be lucky as 2 baba cos I guess she get cunny interest in you, guess she get hiv and needs to share with a good friend.. My son careful o

timilehing:
It happened to me while in school, not that I broke up with my gf but this friend keeps looking for ways to get in line. This very day, she came to visit her friend in my hostel, she decided to stay late with her & later left her room saying it's late already that she can't sleep with her cos her friend's bf is around & she can't go to her place that night. Though I knew what she's up to but I played along. She started by undressing claiming she can't sleep with cloths on (but she can sleep with only bra & panty with a guy on the same bed). She was surprised I didn't even said anything to her big boo.bs or curvy hips, we went to bed but both disguising as sleeping. About an hour later, she starts her trouble, gently & softly still I played along & helped her to the mood she want but when it got to a place that she wants more than caressing, she was urging me to go in like that (full aboard) I use my last lifeline (I don't have con'dom at home & I'm even a virgin lol) I can't start nursing STDs at this stage. She got annoyed calling me different names but I didn't bulge. Though I see free punny in my front but I've decided not to give in. She tried times after times but I stand on my decision every other day. Don't ever give

Chai!
if you refuse girl se.x dem go wan die.
To refuse them on purpose dey sweet me die.
Keep refusing them oh. They think guys are dogs. Dem no tell them about our breed of self-control guys..

teamVirgin guys rule jhor!

Baddestguyp:
and you expect us to understand what u just typed

Except this is a modified version of an earlier post, I can't see whats hard to understand.

lordthree:

lmao which nairalander

See for your self
www.nairaland.com/2163909/boyfriend-said-not-wife-material

Evina:
This is why I always give the side eyes when some heterosexuals delude themselves into thinking they can have really close platonic relationships with the opposite sex.

this one just they rant like say she be macho,since the accuse u that nobody quote you,let me make your day by quoting you,happy now

femi4:
Consider her, after all you are not in a relationship. Yes, you love your girl and believe you guys will be back but do you really think your ex want you back?

we haven't talked in a while but i know she feels bad about the quarrel we had, just wish she would change

lordthree:

she has helped me through a lot and i always ask her for advice when i have problems with my girlfriend she has been a good friend why her behavior now confuses me

She's always admired you but couldn't show it and respected your relationship but you've friend zoned her. She had no choice but to hang there and wait for an opportunity. Now is the opportunity.

Again like stan241 said she's not your friend, she's never being your friend but you friend zoned her.

y choose a grl as ur bst frd wen u ar nt ready 2lov her,she's a lady n she already emotionally attach 2u.woman lovs wu de spent mst of dare tym wit..stop killin d grl by lovin her or leavin her 2go luk her lov 2.besids wich kind frds man n woman de do sef?

katzz:
regret what? Having s**x, dude r u listening to urself? Go and complicate ur life for a for a few minutes of fun.....if u really believed in what u have with ur gf/ex u wouldnt b confused abt what to do.

thats why i didnt do anything with her i know its wrong but i keep having different thoughts and lately it has been about my friend but then again i think of how id ruin a really good friendship because afterwards itll be awkward but then i think what if its not awkward and what if it'll be the best thing ever.. just so many thoughts

jomoh:


She's always admired you but couldn't show it and respected your relationship but you've friend zoned her. She had no choice but to hang there and wait for an opportunity. Now is the opportunity.

Again like stan241 said she's not your friend, she's never being your friend but you friend zoned her.

we friendzoned each other, i had a girlfriend and she had a boyfriend, she used to ask me relationship questions about him, and i did the same.

lordthree:

i really dont know, i love my girlfriend and i know we will get back together but my friend really gets me more than anyone, what if i regret not doing anything in the future.

If you truly love your girl, why the breakup in the first place?

valony:


You mean like this!?

LOL.

lordthree:
Lately, I and my girlfriend have been having problems so we broke up two weeks ago and immediately my best friend heard about it she has been behaving weird. She called me to her place and when i got there she was in her underwear and told me to help her pick out clothes to wear it took like ten mins and she was in her underwear all through. She even rubbed her butt a couple of times asking what i thought about it .

Another day while we were talking, she asked if i found her attractive and i said i did but we are just friends then she asked why I'm not emotional with her, i said i have a girlfriend, she said "you have an ex" while saying this she had her hand on my thigh and was stroking it. It took the grace of God to leave there without doing anything

I'm confused. Do i go ahead and give her what she wants or do i just wait till i get back with my girlfriend because we have been dating for a while and sometimes we break up.I'm just confused.

Bros una dey try o!
Whenever I read stories like this, I wonder if it is true.

Them dey waste tym 2 comot chinos (aslong as the babe be my spec.)
I 4 don Piaks since.

but the konji these days are not even smiling...now I understand since oil price is down I guess Vaseline is cheaper...

lordthree:
Lately, I and my girlfriend have been having problems so we broke up two weeks ago and immediately my best friend heard about it she has been behaving weird. She called me to her place and when i got there she was in her underwear and told me to help her pick out clothes to wear it took like ten mins and she was in her underwear all through. She even rubbed her butt a couple of times asking what i thought about it .

Another day while we were talking, she asked if i found her attractive and i said i did but we are just friends then she asked why I'm not emotional with her, i said i have a girlfriend, she said "you have an ex" while saying this she had her hand on my thigh and was stroking it. It took the grace of God to leave there without doing anything

I'm confused. Do i go ahead and give her what she wants or do i just wait till i get back with my girlfriend because we have been dating for a while and sometimes we break up.I'm just confused.

Op, i bet by the time you receive this message, you would have already done it.

This is not the best time to jump into anything with your friend. She has a thing for you or she thinks she does because she no longer has a boyfriend. She may just be lonely and making assumptions.

Her approach is wrong and I would say give her a wide berth to be sure what you really want. Best friends should not be trying to seduce their male friends, taking advantage of their loneliness when they should be giving them a shoulder to cry on when they're getting over a relationship and there's even a chance of getting back with their ex. It's wrong in a lot of ways. You are tempted and you're only human to be. But please don't give in. Let your head be clear. Give yourself time to get over your relationship if you and your girlfriend don't get back together. Don't let the green light she's giving you be the motivating factor to start something with her.

Best friends don't automatically transition into best relationships. Many times we think it does but I've had scenarios where the whole equation changes once a friendship transitions into a relationship. If the friendship did not start with a relationship premise from the beginning don't turn it to one just because you've broken up with your girlfriend. Look six months, one year from now. And let it be a thing of the heart and not a thing of the libido and loneliness.

WORLDPEACE:

Except this is a modified version of an earlier post, I can't see whats hard to understand.

well, what can I say?

lordthree:

thats why i didnt do anything with her i know its wrong but i keep having different thoughts and lately it has been about my friend but then again i think of how id ruin a really good friendship because afterwards itll be awkward but then i think what if its not awkward and what if it'll be the best thing ever.. just so many thoughts

well dont open that door until u close the other one or ull b playing with fire, u must sit down with each of them nd find out what their intentions are....then u can decide

femi4:
Its possible...... I do have platonic relationship with the opposite sex. Most times, its not planned, it just happpend

Like really close? Such that you are always together, "best friends". And you say no romantic feelings from you? Well, what about the chick(s)?

DWJOBScom:


actually I had a closer(est) with 2 self and the 3 of us walked together and nothing crossed my heart or even the thought of dating them self. whenever friends tease me telling about marrying one of them I simply tell them it's too late
it's possible - I must hail the OP for keeping to the terms of friendship

You know your own mind for now which can still spring a surprise on you. You do not however, know the mind of the ladies. You don't know who has fallen in and out of love. I sensed feelings developing in a close friend when she was dumped and vulnerable. I had to use my medula and withdraw that period. whats the use of being close friends with someone of the oposite sex when they can't be maintained after marriage? You can hang out regularly with your male friends after you're married but you can't be doing that with another man's wife.
Boys and girls can't be close friends.
Which kind friendship Tiger wan follow dog dey do? One friend must turn to food.

DWJOBScom:


actually I had a closer(est) with 2 self and the 3 of us walked together and[b] nothing crossed my heart or even the thought of dating them self.[/b] whenever friends tease me telling about marrying one of them I simply tell them it's too late
it's possible - I must hail the OP for keeping to the terms of friendship

Well, what about the girls? Nothing crossed their hearts too?

phenol33:
er u telling me homosexuals only can have platonic relationships hahahahaha pity

Yes! With the opposite sex. That's why they are gay right? But I guess you wouldn't know the difference.
Yet you're laughing at your display of ignorance. How pathetic.