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brownlord:
Your elder brother is offering to those girls something in return....not preaching love even if he's an orator like Barack Obama, he's talk won't land two chicks on his bed.

It may not be money, it maybe academic favour or anything, get it, that is not love

true talk or the guy might be good looking or has a se.x appeal. there must be something tangible that he must give out not just money.

I agrEe a lot with the OP. Most of the things he says are similar to what Some PUAs preach on their blog.

Truth is, money is not everything. I know a guy without a house who toasted a banker and she fell for him. The only challenge he faced was finding a place to straff her. Lol. Not just the banker, other babes also fell for him.

Having a good game is very important because if you have money without game, you'll be treated as a mugu. I've seen young goodlooking guys that were mugu. When time comes I'll tell you.

Money is important because it improves your appearance and brand. Money also takes care of logistics, so in essence, the more money, the more opportunity.

Missonas:
Correct me if i'm wrong but statistically speaking nairaland has more of secondary and university guys on here than full fledged men.So the op is addressing the right crowd i think

Ur bro is so on point tho esp @even a naïve man being the best option for his destined wife

mumu. U are through with ur higher institution nd u still live in ur father's house, a single old rag cos of ur dirty mouth. As 4 me through since 2013 even though I'am supposed to have been through since 2011. A Man is a Man whether in higher institution or not, employed or not. A Man always remains a Man irregardless of d circumstance he is in. A man lawfully is an adult male sex, 18years and above.

djon78:
true talk or the guy might be good looking or has a se.x appeal. there must be something tangible that he must give out not just money.

Now, what is sex appeal ?

@OP.....Na because of this thing U wan park for road side begin dey type?.....SMH

CharlesNneji1:
I was driving back from my office this afternoon when the idea for this article hit me. For a moment i thought about parking my car by the side of the road to pull out my laptop and write this but thought against it; stopping to type by the road seemed too "crase-manish" for my liking...

But still;

THE EXCITEMENT TO WRITE THIS WAS THAT STRONG...

Now, stay with me - this is very important. The thing about these reasons i will list out in a moment is that they are not really a secret, i tagged it "secret" because guys hide these problems of theirs and keep it to themselves

I spent the whole of last night replying tons of email from guys who are going through hell in the hands of Girls they like; reading those emails was really a painful experience - nothing pains me like seeing a guy been treated like he is nothing by a girl he is crazy about.

This is why i do this; to make sure that as many guys as i can reach with my articles would never make the same mistakes that get girls to take them less seriously.

*smiles*

Of course, not everyone will like these articles - infact, most people won't agree with them. But it's fine - na so life be - everybody must not agree with you and you mustn't say things just to impress people.

Now; lets get to business.

#1: THE "MONEY WILL GET GIRLS FLOCKING TO ME" MENTALITY:

Trust me, i have come to find out that when a guy says: "get money first and girls will come flocking around you", such guys usually say this because they have been frustrated by girls in the past. such guys get so frustrated that, to console themselves, they "wish" for a time when they will have a fat bank account and girls will come rushing into their arms.

THIS IS PURE FANTASY - Wake up, bro.

Also, most of these guys freak out when they see a girl they like, some of them cannot even hold a conversation with a female for 5 minutes.

See, don't get me wrong - having money is cool, pull up with a Bugatti to a party and girls will look at you like "who is that boy". Some would even want you to get them pregnant.

But here is the hard plain truth...

At a point in time you start wondering if these girls really like you or if they like your money.

Money brings you lazy, materialistic, cheating, "no dream" kind of girls who just want to stay at home and make babies and eat. If that is the kind of girl you want, then i agree with you - money will get them flocking to you (For sure)

But when it gets to getting a girl who has real value, who has a job, rides her own car (My type of girl) - you have to show her something else; money alone can't get her interested in you - you have to dazzle her with your personality and when your personality is wack - guy, nothing for you.

I have very rich friends, when i mean rich, i mean - RICH. I have worked with over a dozen extremely wealthy guys and they all have the same problem, which is: "How Do I find a girl who is not just interested in my money", "how do i find a girl who will love me for who i am"

*Go and listen to chorus of Iyanya's Orei - he is presently having that same problem too*

I hear alot of guy say things like: "be ugly, have a bad personality, have pot belly, have mouth odor - but once you have money girls will throw themselves at you".

This maybe true, gold digging girls will scramble over such a guy (I no go drag am with una).

but the question is this...

- Do they really like him??
- Will they be faithful to him if a better guy shows up?
- Will they stay on if the money dries up?

Think about that.

If you are the type that tremble when you talk to a girl, getting rich won't solve that fear - you are still the same guy, bro.
If you are a boring guy when you are broke, get rich - you are still boring, bro.

Moreover, the richer you get the more quality women you will meet. This women will have their own money and won't give a damn about yours. This women meet guys who are way richer than you everyday; the competition go still dey bro.

You need something more than money - You need a charming personality. Simple and short. If you Like console yourself from today reach tomorrow, money won't erase your lack of a charming personality (for those who don't have one).

Funny thing is that most broke guys go after girls with this mentality - they buy her gifts, pay her school fees, send her recharge card upon recharge card - and still get dumped.

Haba na


www.facebook.com/attractbabes

Pque:
mumu. U are through with ur higher institution nd u still live in ur father's house, a single old rag cos of ur dirty mouth. As 4 me through since 2013 even though I'am supposed to have been through since 2011. A Man is a Man whether in higher institution or not, employed or not. A Man always remains a Man irregardless of d circumstance he is in. A man lawfully is an adult male sex, 18years and above.

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Nice thread, I'll try dem out and get back to you...Happy Sunday

reminiscing:
Nigerians!!!!! Did u have u have to tell us day you have a car and laptop??
Back to the topic at hand,guys with money don't move me.I look out for certain quality in a guy and if he doesn't have it even if his Dad is Dangote,am not moved.

this your lie eh, oyibo de call m BIG FAT LIE.

brownlord:
STOP

Please don't allow girls in your neighbourhood nickname you "hi, good day" because you want to learn how to toast girl.

... Kemi I saw this guy today

Who

That guy now...hi, good day

Just a brotherly advise

lol. what do you suggest i do?

@Op u r right,some guys think with their money they can get any girl they want#mentalityofthehighestorder#

brownlord:
This is not the first time of reading from you about your worth and how modest you are.

Allow others blow your trumpet.

No body gives a phuck about it on a faceless forum, trust me brownlord don't

Apologies if my first comment hurts.

Good morning and happy Sunday

oh,you've been e-stalking me?Tanks for the advice,it's taken my Lord

OpraMenu:
this your lie eh, oyibo de call m BIG FAT LIE.

I don't want to hype myself. Brownie advises that I shouldn't blow the trumpet about how modest I am

Fatalveli:
Girls will only flock around you if you're a drug dealer; a ruthless one..

u stay at detriot? I use to stay there too.. Lets hook up!

CharlesNneji1:
#2. FEAR

Do you know that most guys shiver and sweat all over just at the mere THOUGHT of walking up to a girl they like - some of these guys even go as far as been single all their adult lives believing that when they get money it would be easier, at the end of the day they end up not been as rich as the thought they would be or end up having their mother look for a wife for them or end up marrying someone they don't like just because na only she gree for them, or end up (should i go on??).

I recently read a post by Farano on how "sweet" it is for guys to be shy sometimes.

Well, i guess the keyword there is SOMETIMES.

If you are the type who ALWAYS get the shivers EVERY SINGLE time you think of walking up to a girl you are interested in then you need to work on that fear ASAP.

See eh, most of the time all the terrible things you think will happen when you approach a girl will just not happen - trust me.

- She will laugh at me.
- She will embarrass me.
- She will shout at me if i talk to her....

All these are just your imagination playing tricks on you.

Yes, there are really childish saucy girls out there who will go all out to embarrass a guy just for saying hi.

But the truth is that most girls are really very nice wonderful tender things, only if you approach them right. The reaction You get from a girl will DEPEND ON HOW YOU APPROACH HER

- I mean; why would you walk up to a girl and say something silly like: "Hey, BABY " (You be American Gangster?)

- What do you expect when you walk up to a girl YOU ARE JUST MEETING for the first time and start telling her how much you love her (Of course she will embarrass you na). Girls of value don't fall for that trash.

- Why on earth will you expect to be respected by a girl when you can't even look her in the eye while you talk (By the way; will soon release a free report on how to eliminate fear of approaching girls; like my page: www.facebook.com/attractbabes to grab the info when it is released)

I know, guys who have this problem wish they can just take a pill that will completely eliminate the fear they feel around a girl they like.

But bro, here is the plain truth - in as much as you want sharp sharp easy change, the truth is that it will NEVER happen.

To eliminate the fear of approaching pretty girls, girls you like or every girl in general, you have to GRADUALLY work on yourself.

Over the years i have helped guys eliminate this fear using a method i call "Fine girl Chewing Gum". If you are shy around girls or feel afraid walking up to them, this strategy i am about to show you will help in drastically reducing that fear by 70%

Here is how it works:

- Look for a pretty girl who doesn't seem like the gossiping type (She must be very pretty).

- Walk up to her (feel free to tremble when you meet her), Tell her you want her help. tell her you get scared around girls and you believe hanging around her will help. at this point she will start to freak out, like, which kind mumu boy be this...don't let the eye she will give you get to you. Tell her you are not attracted to her, make she no fear - that all you want is just to be her friend. To hang around her

NOTE: DON'T FALL IN LOVE WITH HER because IT WON'T WORK, A GIRL WHO KNOWS THAT YOU GET SCARED AROUND GIRLS WOULD NEVER FEEL A THING FOR YOU (unless you jaz her.

- After she has agreed to be your friend; start using her to improve - call her up, make conversation with her then ask her to tell you where and where you were boring, hang out with her. as in, become her buddy - she should be like your manest man - do practically everything with her (but don't overdo it, she is seeing you as a nuisance already - if you chewing gum the poor thing all the time it will freak her out).

Now here is why this strategy works so well in eliminating women related shyness in guys.

The more you get to know her the more you find out that girls are HUMAN - Just like you, she dey mess, she squeezes her face when passing out "stuffs" in the loo, her mouth stinks when she wakes up in the morning.

simple basic psychology 101; these realization makes you find her less intimidating and the more you find her less intimidating the more you find other girls less intimidating.

She will introduce you to her "fine fine" friends, plus plenty other benefits....

IT ALWAYS WORKS; i have watched over a hundred guys i have worked with use this simple psychology secret to improve.

When you keep approaching girls with the intention to date them, they will keep rejecting you when they notice your timidity, and the more they reject you the more your ego is hurt and the more timid you become.

You go soon marry, so invest in your social skill around girls or else na your mother go find woman for you

*smiles*

I reject it for you, bro.

@ d end of the day, d girl end up falling madly in love wit d guy. Nigerian movie

ALKARULEZZ:
dis ur "k" dey fall pesin hand anyhow o bros

D guy jur weak

The OP clearly stated..."Of course, not everyone will like these articles - infact, most
people won't agree with them. But it's fine - na so life be -
everybody must not agree with you and you musn't say
things just to impress people"....

Op no offense o but only broke guys dey talk like this. Men are rich only as they give.He who gives great service gets great rewards.

emrain:
save your energy bro. money answereth all things....

if you have too much money, there's no way you can't make a conversation last more than 1 hr. all you have to do is sit and watch her do all the talking.

Yes oo, as a boss

I don't write these articles to "impress people", i write it to educate "the right people".

SO....

if you don't like it, it is okay...enjoy

if you feel money can get you love; then enjoy....use money to get love.

If you feel that you don't have enough will power and that having someone you like around you will distract you and make you not to get rich, then i agree with you, please whenever you see babe you like close your eyes and pass.

BUT BEFORE YOU JUMP INTO conclusions that money can get you love, i said LOVE, not one night stands; first - read the comments of every girl that commented on this article.

Two; get closer to rich bachelors

Because sometimes; when we swim in fantasies we start believing them

Happy sunday ya'all, *smiles* If you like no go church

MimeeTee:
The OP clearly stated..."Of course, not everyone will like these articles - infact, most
people won't agree with them. But it's fine - na so life be -
everybody must not agree with you and you musn't say
things just to impress people"....

Word of LYF

DrAify:
Really

My Doc!

Justfollowit:
Just like the OP had clearly explained, to attract the real deal you have to have more than just ‘the money'

A friend of mine is in this dillema right now. The guy likes her but he keeps pushing money at her, she wants the money but she also wants more than the money. She is likely to fall hard for him like she had with her ex who did not even have up to one-tenth of what he has. There is no way she would marry without the other ingredient.

ojukwu didn't look like a talkative or a womanizer to me, but guess who he married? the most beautiful girl in Nigeria as at that time.

any day, anytime; money talks, bullshit works.

my kinda gurl talking....

morethanadoll:
I agree with this statement. I don't care how much money a guy has. If he can't make me laugh, be romantic without spending a dime, and I don't enjoy being in his presence, all of his fortune means nothing. I make my own money and can provide for myself. I look for a man to grow old and share life with, not for the dollars.

reminiscing:
oh,you've been e-stalking me?Tanks for the advice,it's taken my Lord

Very stupiid talk,what for?

SkinnyDude:
lol. what do you suggest i do?

Do something to fetch you money, more money and the real money.

All the line and boldness you need to catch a woman will follow, you may not be a player but atleast have a girl friend.

Follow the ops advise and you become a nuisance in your neighbourhood.

I warned you

brownlord:
Very stupiid talk,what for?

You use abusive words a lot.Its very lame of u

morethanadoll:
I agree with this statement. I don't care how much money a guy has. If he can't make me laugh, be romantic without spending a dime, and I don't enjoy being in his presence, all of his fortune means nothing. I make my own money and can provide for myself. I look for a man to grow old and share life with, not for the dollars.

if I hear

reminiscing:
You use abusive words a lot.Its very lame of u

Sorry, but do not accuse people falsely, what proof do you have that I stalk you, do you have any mail from me or ever quote you until last night and this on this thread.


I'm also not responsible for the way you see my comment, if abusive or not.

I'm Loving this thread already.

brownlord:
Sorry, but do not accuse people falsely, what proof do you have that I stalk you, do you have any mail from me or ever quote you until last night and this on this thread.


I'm also not responsible for the way you see my comment, if abusive or not.

Am sorry.Let this whole talk end.It was nice knowing u

CharlesNneji1:
I was driving back from my office this afternoon when the idea for this article hit me. For a moment i thought about parking my car by the side of the road to pull out my laptop and write this but thought against it; stopping to type by the road seemed too "crase-manish" for my liking...

But still;

THE EXCITEMENT TO WRITE THIS WAS THAT STRONG...

Now, stay with me - this is very important. The thing about these reasons i will list out in a moment is that they are not really a secret, i tagged it "secret" because guys hide these problems of theirs and keep it to themselves

I spent the whole of last night replying tons of email from guys who are going through hell in the hands of Girls they like; reading those emails was really a painful experience - nothing pains me like seeing a guy been treated like he is nothing by a girl he is crazy about.

This is why i do this; to make sure that as many guys as i can reach with my articles would never make the same mistakes that get girls to take them less seriously.

*smiles*

Of course, not everyone will like these articles - infact, most people won't agree with them. But it's fine - na so life be - everybody must not agree with you and you mustn't say things just to impress people.

Now; lets get to business.

#1: THE "MONEY WILL GET GIRLS FLOCKING TO ME" MENTALITY:

Trust me, i have come to find out that when a guy says: "get money first and girls will come flocking around you", such guys usually say this because they have been frustrated by girls in the past. such guys get so frustrated that, to console themselves, they "wish" for a time when they will have a fat bank account and girls will come rushing into their arms.

THIS IS PURE FANTASY - Wake up, bro.

Also, most of these guys freak out when they see a girl they like, some of them cannot even hold a conversation with a female for 5 minutes.

See, don't get me wrong - having money is cool, pull up with a Bugatti to a party and girls will look at you like "who is that boy". Some would even want you to get them pregnant.

But here is the hard plain truth...

At a point in time you start wondering if these girls really like you or if they like your money.

Money brings you lazy, materialistic, cheating, "no dream" kind of girls who just want to stay at home and make babies and eat. If that is the kind of girl you want, then i agree with you - money will get them flocking to you (For sure)

But when it gets to getting a girl who has real value, who has a job, rides her own car (My type of girl) - you have to show her something else; money alone can't get her interested in you - you have to dazzle her with your personality and when your personality is wack - guy, nothing for you.

I have very rich friends, when i mean rich, i mean - RICH. I have worked with over a dozen extremely wealthy guys and they all have the same problem, which is: "How Do I find a girl who is not just interested in my money", "how do i find a girl who will love me for who i am"

*Go and listen to chorus of Iyanya's Orei - he is presently having that same problem too*

I hear alot of guy say things like: "be ugly, have a bad personality, have pot belly, have mouth odor - but once you have money girls will throw themselves at you".

This maybe true, gold digging girls will scramble over such a guy (I no go drag am with una).

but the question is this...

- Do they really like him??
- Will they be faithful to him if a better guy shows up?
- Will they stay on if the money dries up?

Think about that.

If you are the type that tremble when you talk to a girl, getting rich won't solve that fear - you are still the same guy, bro.
If you are a boring guy when you are broke, get rich - you are still boring, bro.

Moreover, the richer you get the more quality women you will meet. This women will have their own money and won't give a damn about yours. This women meet guys who are way richer than you everyday; the competition go still dey bro.

You need something more than money - You need a charming personality. Simple and short. If you Like console yourself from today reach tomorrow, money won't erase your lack of a charming personality (for those who don't have one).

Funny thing is that most broke guys go after girls with this mentality - they buy her gifts, pay her school fees, send her recharge card upon recharge card - and still get dumped.

Haba na


www.facebook.com/attractbabes

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CharlesNneji1:
I was driving back from my office this afternoon when the idea for this article hit me. For a moment i thought about parking my car by the side of the road to pull out my laptop and write this but thought against it; stopping to type by the road seemed too "crase-manish" for my liking...

But still;

THE EXCITEMENT TO WRITE THIS WAS THAT STRONG...

Now, stay with me - this is very important. The thing about these reasons i will list out in a moment is that they are not really a secret, i tagged it "secret" because guys hide these problems of theirs and keep it to themselves

I spent the whole of last night replying tons of email from guys who are going through hell in the hands of Girls they like; reading those emails was really a painful experience - nothing pains me like seeing a guy been treated like he is nothing by a girl he is crazy about.

This is why i do this; to make sure that as many guys as i can reach with my articles would never make the same mistakes that get girls to take them less seriously.

*smiles*

Of course, not everyone will like these articles - infact, most people won't agree with them. But it's fine - na so life be - everybody must not agree with you and you mustn't say things just to impress people.

Now; lets get to business.

#1: THE "MONEY WILL GET GIRLS FLOCKING TO ME" MENTALITY:

Trust me, i have come to find out that when a guy says: "get money first and girls will come flocking around you", such guys usually say this because they have been frustrated by girls in the past. such guys get so frustrated that, to console themselves, they "wish" for a time when they will have a fat bank account and girls will come rushing into their arms.

THIS IS PURE FANTASY - Wake up, bro.

Also, most of these guys freak out when they see a girl they like, some of them cannot even hold a conversation with a female for 5 minutes.

See, don't get me wrong - having money is cool, pull up with a Bugatti to a party and girls will look at you like "who is that boy". Some would even want you to get them pregnant.

But here is the hard plain truth...

At a point in time you start wondering if these girls really like you or if they like your money.

Money brings you lazy, materialistic, cheating, "no dream" kind of girls who just want to stay at home and make babies and eat. If that is the kind of girl you want, then i agree with you - money will get them flocking to you (For sure)

But when it gets to getting a girl who has real value, who has a job, rides her own car (My type of girl) - you have to show her something else; money alone can't get her interested in you - you have to dazzle her with your personality and when your personality is wack - guy, nothing for you.

I have very rich friends, when i mean rich, i mean - RICH. I have worked with over a dozen extremely wealthy guys and they all have the same problem, which is: "How Do I find a girl who is not just interested in my money", "how do i find a girl who will love me for who i am"

*Go and listen to chorus of Iyanya's Orei - he is presently having that same problem too*

I hear alot of guy say things like: "be ugly, have a bad personality, have pot belly, have mouth odor - but once you have money girls will throw themselves at you".

This maybe true, gold digging girls will scramble over such a guy (I no go drag am with una).

but the question is this...

- Do they really like him??
- Will they be faithful to him if a better guy shows up?
- Will they stay on if the money dries up?

Think about that.

If you are the type that tremble when you talk to a girl, getting rich won't solve that fear - you are still the same guy, bro.
If you are a boring guy when you are broke, get rich - you are still boring, bro.

Moreover, the richer you get the more quality women you will meet. This women will have their own money and won't give a damn about yours. This women meet guys who are way richer than you everyday; the competition go still dey bro.

You need something more than money - You need a charming personality. Simple and short. If you Like console yourself from today reach tomorrow, money won't erase your lack of a charming personality (for those who don't

have one).

Funny thing is that most broke guys go after girl
s with this mentality - they buy her gifts, pay her school fees, send her recharge card upon recharge card - and still get dumped.

Haba na





www.facebook.com/attractbabes

true talk