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Re: Parents, How Will You Handle This Without Embarrasing Yourself ? by Kelklein(m): 11:49am On Mar 08, 2015
[size=14pt]Knock on the door;your daughter the guy comes out...ask for your daughter 'politely'
Take her home..QED! [/size]

Re: Parents, How Will You Handle This Without Embarrasing Yourself ? by antiboko(m): 11:50am On Mar 08, 2015
My business is with the man if I were the mother, I would allow my daughter to go home and ask the man what he did to my girl and if he said he was tutoring her then both the man and I av to be locked in his room so he can tutor me 6 hours
Re: Parents, How Will You Handle This Without Embarrasing Yourself ? by shacxy(f): 11:50am On Mar 08, 2015
walaitalai i no go leave till them open d door. In yoruba's voice ''Bola o ku loni''

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Re: Parents, How Will You Handle This Without Embarrasing Yourself ? by Icekyng: 11:51am On Mar 08, 2015
clem2love:


to all who made comment you will that. abeg reserve your power for better things.

after banging the door the door open and you discover your child or girl is not there what happen?

to safe yourself from been mock. 2 things involve

1 wait
2 if you can wait take the shoe home

that att.



what will be will be


That is my advices
What are u typing

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Re: Parents, How Will You Handle This Without Embarrasing Yourself ? by Nuezha(m): 11:55am On Mar 08, 2015
afolag:
take those shoes home to wait for ur daughter. .....its a case to settle at home.

If you do that, her fear for the worst may take her permanently to the streets.

In my opinion, you needn't go yourself, but get someone to confirm it. When she returns, calmly confront her with facts.

You may loose temper but don't spill.

Get you someone she so dearly respects to do her the counselling.
Re: Parents, How Will You Handle This Without Embarrasing Yourself ? by LordVoldemort(m): 11:57am On Mar 08, 2015
I will do nothing, go home straight and nxt time she is going out, I will give a pack of condom and postinor 2 and tell her in case she might need it where she is going.
Re: Parents, How Will You Handle This Without Embarrasing Yourself ? by deltateam: 11:58am On Mar 08, 2015
lofty900:
You heard that your teenage daughter is in a man's house, as a mother/father you rush down in panic to the place, only to find the door locked.

You try to peep inside, no way.

You try to call her phone but it's switched off. The only proof u have is her shoes that are in front of the guy's house!

As a smart parent, how will you handle this delicate issue without embarrassing yourself ?

Embarrassment ke? Knock down the damn house and apologize if false.
Re: Parents, How Will You Handle This Without Embarrasing Yourself ? by justmag(m): 11:58am On Mar 08, 2015
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Re: Parents, How Will You Handle This Without Embarrasing Yourself ? by justmag(m): 11:59am On Mar 08, 2015
Icekyng:

Lol and if she comes out nko

then all hell will break lose. angry
Re: Parents, How Will You Handle This Without Embarrasing Yourself ? by tsdarkside(m): 12:01pm On Mar 08, 2015
break down the door.....
Re: Parents, How Will You Handle This Without Embarrasing Yourself ? by Odunharry(m): 12:02pm On Mar 08, 2015
VickyRotex:
undecided undecided lipsrsealed undecided

Il get a carpenter to pull the door down


Thats not embarrassing right? undecided

person door? you go pay for damages I swear
...you for follow ur daughter go school na
Re: Parents, How Will You Handle This Without Embarrasing Yourself ? by AreaFada2: 12:07pm On Mar 08, 2015
You mean go home & wait until he has impregnated your 13 to 18 years old daughter?
Mbanu.

Just gather the meanest agbayas in the hood, smash the door to smithereens and rub a mixture of pepper & vinegar on the boy's d.ick & a.nus. That will complement the initial beating nicely.

That's more like it.

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Re: Parents, How Will You Handle This Without Embarrasing Yourself ? by Nobody: 12:07pm On Mar 08, 2015
The best thing is to confirm the shoes are her's then come back home and wait for her to come back home for interogation and neccessary actions. Either to invite the Guy and take up a case with him! But when things like this are happening we need to check our self spiritually where have we went wrong then seek for forgiveness and guidiance from the Lord, on the best way to handle the matter!!![i][/i][font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font]
Re: Parents, How Will You Handle This Without Embarrasing Yourself ? by iphanyiuma(m): 12:07pm On Mar 08, 2015
Ill raise a fire alarm...fire fire!!! Your generator is burning !!! gringrin
Re: Parents, How Will You Handle This Without Embarrasing Yourself ? by holyokoto(m): 12:08pm On Mar 08, 2015
afolag:
take those shoes home to wait for ur daughter. .....its a case to settle at home.

Thats it
Re: Parents, How Will You Handle This Without Embarrasing Yourself ? by tellwisdom: 12:08pm On Mar 08, 2015
Op, does your daughter have big yansh??...Give me her number sad
Re: Parents, How Will You Handle This Without Embarrasing Yourself ? by TrishaP(f): 12:08pm On Mar 08, 2015
VickyRotex:
undecided undecided lipsrsealed undecided

Il get a carpenter to pull the door down


Thats not embarrassing right? undecided

That'll be more embarrassing and complicated to you, your daughter, the guy and the carpenter join.

Depending on your daughters age tho, To me,.. I think the best way to handle this kind of situation is by staying a Mile away from the environment for them to come out. I said that because, what if it turns out not being your daughter or someone else's shoe that looks exactly like that of your daughter, you can just walk away from there.

But if the reverse is the case, then you can make sure they both see you waiting outside, pick your daughter home for alot of explanations.

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Re: Parents, How Will You Handle This Without Embarrasing Yourself ? by patkoton(f): 12:11pm On Mar 08, 2015
afolag:
take those shoes home to wait for ur daughter. .....its a case to settle at home.
Will dt solve anytin?
Re: Parents, How Will You Handle This Without Embarrasing Yourself ? by Icekyng: 12:14pm On Mar 08, 2015
justmag:


then all hell will break lose. angry
Lol u neva born am, so neva dy kill am
Re: Parents, How Will You Handle This Without Embarrasing Yourself ? by lusciouslex: 12:17pm On Mar 08, 2015
If a mum can break into a room she suspected her son to be therein smoking weed just like DEA would do, how much more that in which her daughter is being/about to be SHAFTED?

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Re: Parents, How Will You Handle This Without Embarrasing Yourself ? by Ishilove: 12:27pm On Mar 08, 2015
My mum's motto is "beating first, explanations later".

She will:

Knock on the door and won't stop knocking until the whole neighbourhood gathers at the door. When the guy finally opens, she will push him aside, enter and give you part 1 of The Beating Of Your Life.

You will get Part 2 at home. Any counselling will follow after the beating.

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Re: Parents, How Will You Handle This Without Embarrasing Yourself ? by Odunharry(m): 12:28pm On Mar 08, 2015
lofty900:
You heard that your teenage daughter is in a man's house, as a mother/father you rush down in panic to the place, only to find the door locked.

You try to peep inside, no way.

You try to call her phone but it's switched off. The only proof u have is her shoes that are in front of the guy's house!

As a smart parent, how will you handle this delicate issue without embarrassing yourself ?
IMO I go wait make she come out the compound then she go follow me go house
Re: Parents, How Will You Handle This Without Embarrasing Yourself ? by Odunharry(m): 12:29pm On Mar 08, 2015
Ishilove:
My mum's motto is "beating first, explanations later".

She will:

Knock on the door and won't stop knocking until the whole neighbourhood gathers at the door. When the guy finally opens, she will push him aside, enter and give you part 1 of The Beating Of Your Life.

You will get Part 2 at home. Any counselling will follow after the beating.
lol
Re: Parents, How Will You Handle This Without Embarrasing Yourself ? by Odunharry(m): 12:32pm On Mar 08, 2015
grin parents make dey too overprotect their pikin Na their pikin dey worse pass..
Re: Parents, How Will You Handle This Without Embarrasing Yourself ? by simdam500(m): 12:37pm On Mar 08, 2015
lofty900: You heard that your teenage daughter is in a man's house, as a mother/father you rush down in panic to the place, only to find the door locked.
Ok


You try to peep inside, no way.
Ok too

You try to call her phone but it's switched off.
Hmmm ok too cos I don't trust naija electricity, most especially if she uses a BlackBerry.

The only proof u have is her shoes that are in front of the guy's house!
which already give me no reason to doubt she's inside the house with the guy undecided


As a smart parent, how will you handle this delicate issue without embarrassing yourself ?

U didn't mention knocking .... I'll knock like a normal guy, not calling my daughter name at all, if after more than enough knocking no one answered and I still can hear whisper of the living in that house. Then I know the shît is real no doubt...

Am a father already I have no reason to care of whatever people are going to stay about my attitude or embarrassing attitude I display... I'll bring the place down in the instance undecided

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Re: Parents, How Will You Handle This Without Embarrasing Yourself ? by Nobody: 12:38pm On Mar 08, 2015
Drop a note for the guy, giving him ultimatum to come and pay her bride price, else...
Re: Parents, How Will You Handle This Without Embarrasing Yourself ? by dammytosh: 12:45pm On Mar 08, 2015
mmsen:
You raised a ho.

You already failed as a parent.

Nothing more to be done.

Thank you.
Re: Parents, How Will You Handle This Without Embarrasing Yourself ? by hamilton62(m): 12:52pm On Mar 08, 2015
phabuloz:
R naija modas no go mind to embarrass demself. Like say dem bin no d do am
Train your children with such ideas and see your house jiving in whoredom.
Re: Parents, How Will You Handle This Without Embarrasing Yourself ? by Nobody: 12:53pm On Mar 08, 2015
Only in Nigeria.....Here in Beppu, the mother will wait for the daughter to get home and ask if she had safe sex. You just gotta love the Japanese. #Teamforeigngirls.
Re: Parents, How Will You Handle This Without Embarrasing Yourself ? by dimkpanibo(m): 12:56pm On Mar 08, 2015
If the guy lives in a flat, how can she see the shoe
Re: Parents, How Will You Handle This Without Embarrasing Yourself ? by Kingsasian(m): 1:00pm On Mar 08, 2015
phabuloz:
R naija modas no go mind to embarrass demself. Like say dem bin no d do am
meaning ur mother dey do....lol. Abeg na u indirectly tell us o.
Re: Parents, How Will You Handle This Without Embarrasing Yourself ? by williamspaul22(m): 1:04pm On Mar 08, 2015
Me I go get much talk as a father. Na my pump I go carry scatter d door grin. No be devil go tell d man make him escape frm window.

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