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Re: Can Guys Really Do Without Cheating by tosyne2much(m): 1:39pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
falconey:I dey reason drop one list this evening self |
Re: Can Guys Really Do Without Cheating by mirexxx(f): 1:40pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
tosyne2much:lemme remove it! happy sunday |
Re: Can Guys Really Do Without Cheating by Nobody: 1:41pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
mirexxx:you welcome.... Hope it doesnt come with a hunch?. |
Re: Can Guys Really Do Without Cheating by ronald4lif(m): 1:42pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
Cutehector: I fail to see how that is relevant. But I have and does it mean people should justify immorality. Hope not. Cheating has nothing to do with the phase of a relationship; dating, courtship or married. It's based on in an individual disposition, principle and moral views to life. |
Re: Can Guys Really Do Without Cheating by mirexxx(f): 1:43pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
blublahd:nah |
Re: Can Guys Really Do Without Cheating by Nobody: 1:44pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
falconey:easy with the exaggeration dude, i only complimented her pic. |
Re: Can Guys Really Do Without Cheating by tosyne2much(m): 1:44pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
Re: Can Guys Really Do Without Cheating by Nobody: 1:46pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
mirexxx:guess u av a firm back or good posture. |
Re: Can Guys Really Do Without Cheating by falconey(m): 1:46pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
blublahd: you used the word "heavy" didn't you exaggerated 1st? |
Re: Can Guys Really Do Without Cheating by mirexxx(f): 1:47pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
tosyne2much: |
Re: Can Guys Really Do Without Cheating by ronald4lif(m): 1:47pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
tosyne2much: |
Re: Can Guys Really Do Without Cheating by falconey(m): 1:48pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
Re: Can Guys Really Do Without Cheating by mirexxx(f): 1:48pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
blublahd: |
Re: Can Guys Really Do Without Cheating by Nobody: 1:48pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
tosyne2much:i know its sunday buh u fired the first shot. So i ask, what if she were naked? |
Re: Can Guys Really Do Without Cheating by tosyne2much(m): 1:50pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
mirexxx:Seriously |
Re: Can Guys Really Do Without Cheating by Nobody: 1:52pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
falconey:i see....not quite heavy to you? |
Re: Can Guys Really Do Without Cheating by Cutehector(m): 1:55pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
ronald4lif:hmm. Smh. |
Re: Can Guys Really Do Without Cheating by tosyne2much(m): 1:56pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
falconey:My head no dey boot like better.. He dey hard me these days to rack my brain |
Re: Can Guys Really Do Without Cheating by falconey(m): 1:57pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
blublahd: if not that I just returned from service I would have said only cossy's boobs can beat that!! I need hands of that of BIG SHOW to take those down!! |
Re: Can Guys Really Do Without Cheating by Nobody: 1:58pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
mirexxx:what? |
Re: Can Guys Really Do Without Cheating by falconey(m): 2:00pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
tosyne2much: Maybe you go join these guys them association...... NPWA (NAIRALAND PROFESSIONAL WEEDERS ASSOCIATION) |
Re: Can Guys Really Do Without Cheating by SkinnyDude(m): 2:02pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
look at her face like one bombarded building in Gaza.. mtcheew *pisses on the thread |
Re: Can Guys Really Do Without Cheating by Nobody: 2:03pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
marymaria:are you 100% honest? |
Re: Can Guys Really Do Without Cheating by Nobody: 2:05pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
falconey:hmmm.....the taste defines the man. |
Re: Can Guys Really Do Without Cheating by akinsadeez(m): 2:13pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
ronald4lif: Hmmmmmm. Very true. I guess his point is that until two people are married with the attendant exchange of vows, then neither can really lay claim exclusively to the other. (cause he seems to be laying emphasis on the vow aspect) Like if I ask a girl out and she says yes, does that automatically stop me from falling in love or considering other women? I also can't stop her from going away with another guy. But the day we get solemnized in marriage, we have automatically come to our bus stop. Any thing untoward done by both of us in that wise becomes 'cheating' There is a kind of logic to it, even though I don't agree with that position. |
Re: Can Guys Really Do Without Cheating by ronald4lif(m): 2:31pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
akinsadeez: My point is, marriage is not the end result of (every) relationship. There are couple who have lived happily together for years without appending their signatory to a paper etc. Having said that, given that marriage is not an end to a relationship, should we agree that a man/woman doesn't have any right to obstruct their partner fidelity stance provided they are not married? If yes, what happens to couple who have been together for donkey years happily, without exchanging nuptial vows. What difference does a piece of marital paper make. |
Re: Can Guys Really Do Without Cheating by akinsadeez(m): 2:53pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
ronald4lif: Personally, I can't argue with your point. But his point, I believe, is that the relationship of such a couple remains 'illegal'. (for want of a better word) The fact that they are living happily does not stop d man or woman from one day packing up their loads and going with another person. But the day they become married, they become bound by vows of faithfulness. Do you know a married woman can seek divorce on grounds of desertion if d man leaves d house without returning for a year? But in d couple u cited, she can't file anything because their relationship is not legal and he has no duty to cohabit with her. So if d man goes to live with another woman for two years, there is nothing she can do. without that marital piece of paper the man can not be called into account which means technically he cannot be said to be cheating. On another note entirely, that marital paper means a lot, Bro. If d man dies without it, d woman does not have any right to any of his property no matter how long they lived as couple. |
Re: Can Guys Really Do Without Cheating by ronald4lif(m): 3:10pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
akinsadeez: You have very valid points baba. But the bolded doesn't apply in the UK and EU and some other advance nations. Could also be same too in Canada. In the UK for example, civil partnership is accorded same rights as marriage. Civil partners are entitled to same property rights as married opposite sex couple. And there's a formal process of divorcing civil partners akin to marriage. Anyways, good we all agree it's morally wrong. I wonder how one who can't question their partners promiscuous lifestyle whilst in a courtship will have the temerity to want to spend the rest of their lives with them, should we tow this legal and illegal path of relationships. |
Re: Can Guys Really Do Without Cheating by LogoDWhiz(m): 3:25pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
Yeah! Someone like me! |
Re: Can Guys Really Do Without Cheating by grimandevil: 3:27pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
the truth is when a guy decides to be faithful that is when d gf will start having headache or not in d mood for sex etc. |
Re: Can Guys Really Do Without Cheating by grimandevil: 3:29pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
the truth is when a guy decides to be faithful that is when d gf will start having headache or not in d mood for sex etc. me currently having that problem. funny enuf all I ask for is just kissing nd boob action. she is never in d mood. I HV no choice but to mayday all my ex I dump cos of her. let me hear her complain |
Re: Can Guys Really Do Without Cheating by akinsadeez(m): 3:38pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
ronald4lif: Hmmmm. Interesting. Nigerian law is not in any way as advanced as that and it would take a lot for us to get to that level. Even our intestacy laws only favor a recognized wife. At least I have learnt something new from you this afternoon sha. 1 Like |
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