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Re: Where did Nigerian girls get their superiority complex over male folks? by naijaboiy: 11:34am On Mar 26, 2015 |
Vickybee:Yea that's right. Fizzyboy take note. vickybee:Na you kill am 2 Likes |
Re: Where did Nigerian girls get their superiority complex over male folks? by Nobody: 11:40am On Mar 26, 2015 |
naijaboiy:The one and only naijaboiy |
Re: Where did Nigerian girls get their superiority complex over male folks? by Nobody: 11:48am On Mar 26, 2015 |
naijaboiy:Lol |
Re: Where did Nigerian girls get their superiority complex over male folks? by naijaboiy: 11:50am On Mar 26, 2015 |
ziick19:Oga! You don finally land? |
Re: Where did Nigerian girls get their superiority complex over male folks? by YoshiMaster: 11:58am On Mar 26, 2015 |
Vickybee: Sooo, I should stop chasing you? |
Re: Where did Nigerian girls get their superiority complex over male folks? by Nobody: 12:00pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
I WILL SPEAK FOR MYSELF NOW.. I ACTUALLY HAVE TOO MANY GIRLS AND HAVE HAD FAR TOO MANY FOR SOMEONE TO NOW START FORMING FOR ME. IT'S VERY NATURAL FOR A GUY TO TREAT A GIRL NICE AND MAKE HER FEEL ON TOP OF THE WORLD. (IF HE'S COMFORTABLE WITH THAT) IMAGINE JUST LAST NIGHT, I CALLED UP A BABE AND TOLD HER I WAS CLOSE BY AND SHE STARTED RAKING.... NOTE: WOMEN FOLLOW THEIR EMOTIONS WHILE GUYS FOLLOW REASON. MIND YOU, THIS IS A LADY WHO I'VE ONLY MET ONCE. SHE CLAIMED RIGHTLY THAT I SHOULD HAVE INFORMED HER I WAS COMING AROUND. THEN I HAD TO CAUTION HER AND TOLD HER MY COMING THERE WAS MERE COINCIDENCE... MEANWHILE, I'VE NOT BEEN MAINTAINING REGULAR CONTACT WITH HER CUZ I'VE BEEN BUSY AND SHE'S PROBABLY REACTING BECAUSE OF THAT. NOW WILL YOU BLAME HER FOR RAKING LAST NIGHT? CERTAINLY NOT. SHE WAS JUST ANGRY THAT I'M TAKING HER FOR GRANTED. MEANWHILE, I ON MY OWN PART WAS BUSY DEALING WITH PERSONAL STUFF, I HARDLY HAD TIME TO CALL HER. #FOODFORTHOUGHT |
Re: Where did Nigerian girls get their superiority complex over male folks? by akinsadeez(m): 12:02pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
Very interesting arguments both ways really. I just feel the way you put yourself out to people is the same way they will approach or address you. To start with, everyone should have a high sense of self-worth whether male or female. The fact however, is that the man will set the tone for the way the woman will address right from the start. If you convey a sense of desperation the girl will treat you accordingly. One of the things I hate most is seeing a guy abandon or even embarrass his friends all because of a lady. You are unwittingly telling her you will do anything and go to any length to please her. The OP said an average girl wants a guy to lick her feet nowadays. The operative word there is 'want'. She wants it but can't compel it. The guy has d choice of either licking d damn feet or telling her 'to hell with you and ur feet'. Now if that same lady has had about 5 guys telling her 'to hell with you and your feet', she would be forced to do a critical self appraisal. On the other hand, if all d guys asking her out keep licking her feet with gusto and relish, she will take it as something she is entitled to. However, I won't agree with the OP on the issue of looking for a perfect partner. That one goes both ways. You cant blame the ladies alone for that. Every guy wants a brilliant, beautiful but humble babe who can cook and clean while also good in bed. The ladies will also yearn for that tall, dark and handsome fella. Deep down, we all want that perfect soulmate and I don't think there is anything wrong with that. Its just that one should be realistic enough to know that no one is perfect and that spurring each other on in the pursuit of perfection is one of the joys of any relationship. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Where did Nigerian girls get their superiority complex over male folks? by naijaboiy: 12:14pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
Lalasticlala sir! |
Re: Where did Nigerian girls get their superiority complex over male folks? by lalasticlala(m): 12:16pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
naijaboiy: Yea |
Re: Where did Nigerian girls get their superiority complex over male folks? by naijaboiy: 12:23pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
lalasticlala:I saw you viewing so I say make I send greetings |
Re: Where did Nigerian girls get their superiority complex over male folks? by lalasticlala(m): 12:24pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
naijaboiy: OK. I hail oo |
Re: Where did Nigerian girls get their superiority complex over male folks? by naijaboiy: 12:25pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
lalasticlala:i hail you too sir |
Re: Where did Nigerian girls get their superiority complex over male folks? by Misogynist2014(m): 12:56pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
Fizboy:I notice this, I just brush them aside. I think its there nature, coupled with high and escalating gender expectations placed on male folks, backed by tradition and religion. |
Re: Where did Nigerian girls get their superiority complex over male folks? by Nobody: 12:58pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
naijaboiy:I don land ooo..... To dey peep as guest no good at all ooo |
Re: Where did Nigerian girls get their superiority complex over male folks? by Nobody: 1:15pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
Misogynist2014: Why did you choose to use this moniker ? |
Re: Where did Nigerian girls get their superiority complex over male folks? by Mhizizzy(f): 1:16pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
naijaboiy: M just explaining why we AV high self esteem |
Re: Where did Nigerian girls get their superiority complex over male folks? by Misogynist2014(m): 1:25pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
Why did you choose that profile pic? missclasssy: 2 Likes |
Re: Where did Nigerian girls get their superiority complex over male folks? by yahx(m): 1:29pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
Nigerian movie |
Re: Where did Nigerian girls get their superiority complex over male folks? by Nobody: 1:30pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
Misogynist2014:I used the profile picture because I am a fan of chimamanda So why did you use that moniker? |
Re: Where did Nigerian girls get their superiority complex over male folks? by Misogynist2014(m): 1:33pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
Because of my signature missclasssy: 1 Like |
Re: Where did Nigerian girls get their superiority complex over male folks? by Nobody: 1:35pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
Misogynist2014: Why are you scared to state what you feel, if you hate women, just say it.... I have two questions for you. You can choose not to answer if you want ~ Are you gay ? ~ Why do you hate women ? ( I want you to explain it to me) 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Where did Nigerian girls get their superiority complex over male folks? by Nobody: 1:53pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
missclasssy: Story for the gods. Lol 1 Like |
Re: Where did Nigerian girls get their superiority complex over male folks? by naijaboiy: 2:00pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
Mhizizzy:Yea it's good for everybody to have high self esteem. Nobody is disputing that. |
Re: Where did Nigerian girls get their superiority complex over male folks? by Misogynist2014(m): 2:03pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
missclasssy:I'm kinda shy guy, I couldn't talk to women till I got out of Secondary school, never for once thought there were differences, though I out perform my sister to her dismay, since I had a lot of time to browse through the internet, I got to know a lot of things about women and how they are treating men in west, coupled with how they destroyed morality and marriage in the west, not shy talking to women anymore, God forbid! Just a little bit of steadily growing resentment. 2 Likes |
Re: Where did Nigerian girls get their superiority complex over male folks? by Nobody: 2:10pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
Okay |
Re: Where did Nigerian girls get their superiority complex over male folks? by Nobody: 2:12pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
Misogynist2014: So if I understood you clearly, the reason why you are growing resentment towards ladies is because you were shy to talk to them growing up, coupled with what you heard about women in the west... I think that's a wrong basis for you to nurture "hatred" towards women..... 1 Like |
Re: Where did Nigerian girls get their superiority complex over male folks? by Misogynist2014(m): 2:30pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
missclasssy:Shyness is not part of it. I'm not shy anymore, I think the post is lucid enough to forestall any misinterpretation. 1 Like |
Re: Where did Nigerian girls get their superiority complex over male folks? by Nobody: 2:35pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
Misogynist2014: Well I didn't think it was lucid enough! Why are you being evasive by the way? |
Re: Where did Nigerian girls get their superiority complex over male folks? by teasel: 2:56pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
naijaboiy: Typical of the Nigerian male to try to bring family into everything. No maturity I said 'average Nigerian man'. If you're not one of them, then move on. The truth is that even the ones that don't do those things support it in one way or another. There are exceptions but they're extremely few. Let's not deceive ourselves here 1 Like |
Re: Where did Nigerian girls get their superiority complex over male folks? by Misogynist2014(m): 3:03pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
missclasssy:Of what? |
Re: Where did Nigerian girls get their superiority complex over male folks? by Fizboy(m): 3:06pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
Vickybee:noted and don't be a lousy girl 1 Like |
Re: Where did Nigerian girls get their superiority complex over male folks? by Fizboy(m): 3:07pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
Tnx for your contributions.. I think I av learnt some things.. |
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