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Curvinus:
And you lot still manage to parade naked before the world during your native zulu dance.

Hmmm. Got to love those reed dance videos anyway.

I said Xhosa not Zulu. Two different tribes

Op that's nothing, its just the way they grew up, in my teens my sisters used to dress up in front of me though they'll have underwear on. I sometimes helped them with their bras. Recently when I went to visit my sister and her husband in south africa she once came into my room with just a bra and panties on and we chatted for like 30 minutes, the husband even came in and joined in our discussion. As a brother u don't even notice she's half unclad. Its nothing really but if don't like it u don't like it, so just tell her so. My wife can do that in front of her brother as long as she's not totally unclad there is nothing to worry about.

Smooyis:
"know' and not 'no' please. Always take to correction so you can grow in life! No one is too big to be corrected.

What are you on about?

Ernieman:
I want to believe you heard her right, she said "IT IS NOTHING". So why bring up the issue here? That is exactly how they were raised, a reflection of their childhood....something you can't take away from them.

OP, don't allow the devil to manipulate your mind. How on earth could you be thinking her brother would want to sleep with his sister, in your house? Haba! Rebuke that thought and move on....

I don't av a dirty mind

godjohnson:
There should be apostrophes after the letter 's' in "Is and Ts"

And? You want me to do what exactly? Told you people that I'm not here drafting a business proposal & most importantly, MY phone, MY internet etc...meaning My decisions. I'll write how I want.

olola4:
It happened last Thursday when my brother-in-law came back from school because of the election. I was outside the house doing some stuff when I heard my wife and her brother arguing over a political matter.

After i finished with what I was doing I went inside the house to join in the discussion, and to my greatest surprise I saw my wife half naked.

Immediately I left the room and she followed me not knowing why I left the room like that. I explained to her that I didn't like it. To my greatest disappointment when my wife will reply me, she just said "it's nothing".

Please to my fellow nairalanders. I want to ask is it right? Because since that time I have been confused.

That's how we grew up in my family, I would not excuse my sister until lately when she told me that her husband ain't comfortable with it. I count it as nothing too anyway.

godjohnson:
No your English is not flawless Learn to take corrections

No.

icedbeatz:
can you stop being stupiid and quit displaying your ignorance for a moment, just a moment?!?!? that's the crazy thing we see today. we have two types of people, the ones that learn from mistakes and takes corrections and the BRAINLESS TWIRPS, AIRHEADS and maybe in your case a bimbo (I.e if you are beautiful) that CAN'T learn even if they're paid to learn. Damn!!! someone take this one to the zoo

LMFAO. If only you knew what job I do, dumbass. Anyway, after reading your novel, number of fùcks given is still NAUGHT.

It's wrong and it's right"

but the point is you don't like it so go and tell her that*

All dressup's should be done in ur presence only

(But dat boy and Im sista sef suppose know say dem no dey for papa and mama house again oo' make d husband no go get stroke)

Bluetooth2:
Cousin is a distance relation. @OP is talking about his wife's younger brother and I don't see anything wrong in the brother seeing her sister's body.



Read the write up again before commenting, please. The male here is the woman's brother !

And I don't care. Will still comment whether the scenarios are different or not. A male is a male is a male. Whether he is a brother or cousin. Makes no difference.

Redoil:
long time no see how are you and ur folkes?

Hey you!
We are okay, patiently waiting for result. Hope you are good?

I think the woman and her bro should know that they are no longer in there parents house. Dressing/undressing before her bro in her husband's house to me is disrespectful. The bro should be sensible enough to excuse his self while his is undressing.

PunkyOh

godjohnson:
No your English is not flawless Learn to take corrections

But why"
d arguments nawww,

There's always an amicable way to settle stuff than back lashes tho"

olola4:
No sis,we live in a 3 bed room flat

I didn't mean you, I mean your wife's family.

PunkyOh:
LOL, I know what a male cousin is & no I won't take correction for a word I chose deliberately. My English is flawless. Thank you.

ur pee is EGO, bliv me it doznt pay,always learn 2 tk corrections. .tnk u

[quote author=Bluetooth2 post=32188672]Cousin is a distance relation. @OP is talking about his wife's younger brother and I don't see anything wrong in the brother seeing her sister's body.


PunkyOh:
It's wrong. No respect.
My cousin brother is two years younger but
he'll get out of the house if anyone (female)
is about to take a bath. In our culture privacy
is very important, just like I can't just enter
his room without knocking 1st.
Cousin is a distance relation. @OP is talking
about his wife's younger brother and I don't see
anything wrong in the brother seeing her
sister's body.

mya1:
It is wrong
Married or not. A grown woman has no
business undressing in front of a male
( except he's her lover, husband or doctor)
Read the write up again before commenting,
please. The male here is the woman's brother !

Y'all made good points, but you see"
"Blue" I disagree wit ya

Even tho I get your point of view and you and I totally understand what u mean by "it's no big deal they are brother and sista. ..

Put yourself in d shoes of the husband, who would make him understand' (dats if he dosent have a stroke first) besides there might be nothing wrong with that
"but it's just simple curtsy if the young lad leaves the room wen sis dresses up"

Eljay24:
PunkyOh

But why"
d arguments nawww,

There's always an amicable way to settle stuff than back lashes tho"

Sorry but I will NOT play possum to these people forming Shakespeare on this thread. Not my style. People wanna flex, Punky will flex back. End of.

alberto2k:
yeah... i've done that countless of times, sometimes it just happen that she walks in while am dressing up.
blood is thicker than water they say

How old is she, if I may ask?

ignis:
How old is she, if I may ask?

17 and 4months old

olola4:
It happened last Thursday when my brother-in-law came back from school because of the election. I was outside the house doing some stuff when I heard my wife and her brother arguing over a political matter.

After i finished with what I was doing I went inside the house to join in the discussion, and to my greatest surprise I saw my wife half naked.

Immediately I left the room and she followed me not knowing why I left the room like that. I explained to her that I didn't like it. To my greatest disappointment when my wife will reply me, she just said "it's nothing".

Please to my fellow nairalanders. I want to ask is it right? Because since that time I have been confused.

ma broda no cause for alarm....it depends De way De grew up

internetpirate:
"Usuality" Certainly, you're not one of them!! I rest my case!!

Oga, your own too much o. Free the girl na.

softysparky:
Hey you!
We are okay, patiently waiting for result. Hope you are good?

result or no result live goes on. I promise to buy you a bigger house to live in so that you will never say anything about one room aprtment. Salute ur folks for me tell them i love you.

alberto2k:
17 and 4months old

It will be cool if you can stop it. It's not a good practice.

Ur mind is dirty small sha.
but I feel u,nothing in this world is impossible,things dey happen .
I dress half nude in my brother's present.
If na brother in-law then its bad.
Guy,I advise u don't go worrying urself over it.U have told her u don't like it and I believe she will stop.
No vex plenty

PunkyOh:
Sorry but I will NOT play possum to these people forming Shakespeare on this thread. Not my style. People wanna flex, Punky will flex back. End of.

Ok
but just take it
Eazy on 'em

internetpirate:
What an excuse for mediocrity! Naija must get better! Let's seek for excellence in all we do!

That's the white man's secret! No half-measures!!

....let's seek for...... Poor you. And you were all over the lady as if you are an excellent speaker yourself.

ignis:
It will be cool if you can stop it. It's not a good practice.

okay... thanks, i'll try.

PunkyOh:
I'm not accepting correction on a forum. Please. Like I said, I fare well without assistance over here in the real world, so any "help" from anyone in the virtual world of the internet, will be regarded with scorn. End of. Now leave me alone.

tk it or leave it. .u hv a big problem. . #PRIDE

It's nothing joor

ronald4lif:
Wrong!

Very Wrong!!!

It is wrong for a married woman to dress up in front of anyone Atall except her husband...

Yes