vislabraye:


So if everyman marries the average looking lady, who will marry the beautiful ones ?

It is smart to marry an Average looking woman is not equals to All men should marry Average looking women... Hope you get my point now?

Boland:
Yeah.. I think NL ladies are cool outside here, they just like to form badoos..

Nah I doubt

Boland:
If you have the option of takin something good that will later harm you will you go for it? I'm not saying beautiful ladies do harm o!...lol...
Btw, the statement: ".All girls are beautiful" is a scam..

Lmao. A scam indeed.
But I've never fallen for it.
There's inner beauty and there's artificial beauty.

The artificial beauty with all the makeup is SCAM.

But the natural or inner beauty is original.

When I say beautiful, I don't mean your normal pretty, cute, attractive and all those adjectives. I mean the normal beauty.
No girl is ugly.
Ugly should be used for inanimate things not human beings.

A beautiful girl to you might be an 'ugly' girl to another person. Viceversa.


And to address your earlier point.
I don't believe I can be 'harmed' if I date a beautiful girl.
I'll even be happy.
It makes me happy when I see a lot of guys trying to toast her and d likes.
And also its her joy when she sees a lot of girls trying to get my attention.
That's how it should b.

Don't date a girl you won't b proud of.
You can't boast of.
You can't argue about and so on.




Moreover, we are all different with our different taste buds.

LogoDWhiz:


Lmao. A scam indeed.
But I've never fallen for it.
There's inner beauty and there's artificial beauty.

The artificial beauty with all the makeup is SCAM.

But the natural or inner beauty is original.

When I say beautiful, I don't mean your normal pretty, cute, attractive and all those adjectives. I mean the normal beauty.
No girl is ugly.
Ugly should be used for inanimate things not human beings.

A beautiful girl to you might be an 'ugly' girl to another person. Viceversa.


And to address your earlier point.
I don't believe I can be 'harmed' if I date a beautiful girl.
I'll even be happy.
It makes me happy when I see a lot of guys trying to toast her and d likes.
And also its her joy when she sees a lot of girls trying to get my attention.
That's how it should b.

Don't date a girl you won't b proud of.
You can't boast of.
You can't argue about and so on.




Moreover, we are all different with our different taste buds.

You should be proud of your woman irrespective of how beautiful she is....
I believe if a woman's self esteem is intact, one would be proud of her...

kevinberry:

Nah I doubt

Most of them are good girls... You know ladies love to belong...lol

Boland:
I can't be intimidated by a smart lady broh..

Lol! Then why can't u date them?

As well as beautiful girls.

Especially the maami water type.

Boland:
You should be proud of your woman irrespective of how beautiful she is....
I believe if a woman's self esteem is intact, one would be proud of her...

Okay. Same exactly with the male.

Guess you've understood my POV now?

Boland:
Most of them are good girls... You know ladies love to belong...lol

I doubt..I have my reasons...hardly have I come across one that I can strike an intelligent convo with....

They are all one..following the crowds

LogoDWhiz:


Lmao. A scam indeed.
But I've never fallen for it.
There's inner beauty and there's artificial beauty.

The artificial beauty with all the makeup is SCAM.

But the natural or inner beauty is original.

When I say beautiful, I don't mean your normal pretty, cute, attractive and all those adjectives. I mean the normal beauty.
No girl is ugly.
Ugly should be used for inanimate things not human beings.

A beautiful girl to you might be an 'ugly' girl to another person. Viceversa.


And to address your earlier point.
I don't believe I can be 'harmed' if I date a beautiful girl.
I'll even be happy.
It makes me happy when I see a lot of guys trying to toast her and d likes.
And also its her joy when she sees a lot of girls trying to get my attention.
That's how it should b.

Don't date a girl you won't b proud of.
You can't boast of.
You can't argue about and so on.




Moreover, we are all different with our different taste buds.

@bolded oh well!

The rest of your post, i liked what you said

LogoDWhiz:


Lol! Then why can't u date them?

As well as beautiful girls.

Especially the maami water type.

We won't play fair..
She will want me to praise her like a god, I won't wanna do all that and later everything will heat up and Gbam! We break it up...

kevinberry:


I doubt..I have my reasons...hardly have I come across one that I can strike an intelligent convo with....

They are all one..following the crowds

About the conversation thing, just roll with it Mahn! It might be stup1d but you've got to roll with their dull flow...lol..

Boland:
It is smart to marry an Average looking woman is not equals to All men should marry Average looking women... Hope you get my point now?

What happens if all men are smart according to your definition and marry average looking wpomen?

Nneka123:
@bolded oh well!

The rest of your post, i liked what you said

It's like the post is directed to you.. I guess you are the pretty type?

Boland:
We won't play fair..
She will want me to praise her like a god, I won't wanna do all that and later everything will heat up and Gbam! We break it up...

Lol! You're just being pessimistic.
Because it happened with one, doesn't mean it will happen with the rest!
Be optimistic.

Not all girls are thesame.


Yes! I agree with you.
Girls love attention. They want it like its some chocolate.
They can keep asking for it all day.
That's them. Accept them for they are and find a way to reach a compromise with your partner.
Find a limit btw seeking attention/ fanning of ego to relationship matters.

Its not bad, if you as a guy wakes up in d morning and give her a compliment.
Give her another one when she's leaving for work.
That's okay and enough.
She'll appreciate u for it. And she'll be satisfied.

Only kids and less matured individuals will keep asking for praises.

vislabraye:



What happens if all men are smart according to your definition and marry average looking wpomen?

Then, there won't be reason for any lady to feel superior to others just because she is beautiful.. .. You get it now?

Nneka123:
@bolded oh well!

The rest of your post, i liked what you said

Yes o.
Imagine the scenario where you walk into a gathering with your partner and everyone is appreciating your sense of beauty for getting such a beauty lady. That's awesome!


Thanks!

LogoDWhiz:


Lol! You're just being pessimistic.
Because it happened with one, doesn't mean it will happen with the rest!
Be optimistic.

Not all girls are thesame.


Yes! I agree with you.
Girls love attention. They want it like its some chocolate.
They can keep asking for it all day.
That's them. Accept them for they are and find a way to reach a compromise with your partner.
Find a limit btw seeking attention/ fanning of ego to relationship matters.

Its not bad, if you as a guy wakes up in d morning and give her a compliment.
Give her another one when she's leaving for work.
That's okay and enough.
She'll appreciate u for it. And she'll be satisfied.

Only kids and less matured individuals will keep asking for praises.

Lol... I don't need a beautiful woman as a wife, I can only desire it... You see: There are somethings that cannot be changed... I believe you get my point...

Boland:
It's like the post is directed to you.. I guess you are the pretty type?

You just told me, so i guess I am.

Nneka123:
You just told me, so i guess I am.

Nah.. Don't give that Modesty game.. Checked your profile, you look good.

Boland:
Then, there won't be reason for any lady to feel superior than others just because she is beautiful.. .. You get it now?

May be U na re trying to say taht a man shouldn't get carriesdaway bya womans beauty and start behaving like a woman wrapper.
Whilw your postulation ia true to some extent, there are some average looking and ugly ones who are badly behaved. I know of some women who are nearer to ugly in the looks scale but the see themselves as super models. Thats delusion.

Boland:
Lol... I don't need a beautiful woman as a wife, I can only desire it... You see: There are somethings that cannot be changed... I believe you get my point...

Okay. You don't need but you desire. What's d difference?
You desire what you need.

Okay.

Lastly, I'm sorry to say but I don't get your point.
Can u just enlighten me more.
Can't find a cogent reason.

vislabraye:



May be U na re trying to say taht a man shouldn't get carriesdaway bya womans beauty and start behaving like a woman wrapper.
Whilw your postulation ia true to some extent, there are some average looking and ugly ones who are badly behaved. I know of some women who are nearer to ugly in the looks scale but the see themselves as super models. Thats delusion.

Lol, I know.. Infact I know some, deluded beings... I stated in the Op that , the good ones among the average looking ladies are the ones I'm referring to..

LogoDWhiz:


Yes o.
Imagine the scenario where you walk into a gathering with your partner and everyone is appreciating your sense of beauty for getting such a beauty lady. That's awesome!


Thanks!

I know right!

LogoDWhiz:


Okay. You don't need but you desire. What's d difference?
You desire what you need.

Okay.

Lastly, I'm sorry to say but I don't get your point.
Can u just enlighten me more.
Can't find a cogent reason.

But you may not need what you desire.... Money is a need, wealth is a desire.. Hope you get my point now bro?

Boland:
About the conversation thing, just to with it Mahn! It might be stupid but you've got to roll with their dull flow...lol..

Alrit then

Nneka123:
I know right!

Boland:
But you may not need what you desire.... Money is a need, wealth is a desire.. Hope you get my point now bro?

Lol! You're getting all confused.

U desire wealth. U need money to get wealth.
The end result is what? Wealth.
U desire wealth. U need wealth. U want it.


A better scenario could have being that you desired to be burnt (who desires that) Or u desire to be heartbroken.
But u don't need it.
Maybe at that particular time u don't need it.

But for u desire it, that means a part of u want it, which indirectly makes u to need it.

LogoDWhiz:


Lol! You're getting all confused.

U desire wealth. U need money to get wealth.
The end result is what? Wealth.
U desire wealth. U need wealth. U want it.


A better scenario could have being that you desired to be burnt (who desires that) Or u desire to be heartbroken.
But u don't need it.
Maybe at that particular time u don't need it.

But for u desire it, that means a part of u want it, which indirectly makes u to need it.

That depends on your definition of need and desire my brother..We'll talk about it tomorrow...Enjoy...

Boland:
That depends on your definition of need and desire my brother..We'll talk about it tomorrow...Enjoy...

Okay na.

Just mention me when you're ready.

Enjoy!
Nice dreams!

op u r so on point......my siblings av green there b4 so I gerrit

Great topic @op

Speaking from a purely African American perspective because many AA women look like other shades of gorgeous black women around the planet. There's no big mystery there, different cultures but same black beauty.

I did the whole get a nice degree, well paying job, I workout, but currently I'm not completely happy until I get my own business going here in the States. How I see my job is I'm merely a rat running on someone else's wheel... and a poor choice of woman can derail entrepreneurial ambitions directly and indirectly. While direct subversion is easily spotted (damaging your business equipment, messing up your contacts, etc), indirect subversion is the most dangerous and many men feel obligated to play along (you should be saving, but feel compelled to take dinner dates, passively gifting her materialism, buying flashy clothes/gadgets to keep her impressed/interested, some men go further but yet are one paycheck away from being broke, then the girl be gone). I understand if you need these gadgets for a business. black nice looking women will look right past you unless you show signs of playing along, they're not remotely put on by your ambitions. IT'S ALL ABOUT THEM

Hot, or maybe not, women with degrees may show slightly more support for you, but they tend to see a big family, staying home, taking care of children, cooking meals, etc as a nightmare. They wanna be another rat running on the employment wheel too. It's as if you have to settle for a woman who's dumb or unnoticable. Black men call them "basic b1tches", a woman with a boring life. But the masses have told black women here that they're getting thicker and finer (and they are), which is turning otherwise basic women to egotistical ones, not caring about anyone else.

I'll just wait until the storm clears, fellow bachelor

if only they will listen
God forbid i trade my happiness with a fine face. Of what benefit