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Hero10001:
what if she's Madueke, Alakija, Beyonce or Kadashian?
What if your wife caught you in the act too? Would you want her to throw you to the dogs?
Grow up nigga, real marriage is more than sex.
Meanwhile, Toto is meant for fvcking and if you'r jigging it and she aint tweaking, she'll look for another mvthafucker to dig it.
That's why i prefer arranged marriage though.

rokiatu:
One of the reasons she cheated on him in the first place is because he's too nice and she take that for granted. I still can't believe his reaction.
HE really need to man up and grow some balls.
You give some women too much freedom and they will sit on your neck.

garriboy:
How can u even say dis. The woman is wrong. Period! Are you supposed to place ur wife in some sort of bondage in dis 21st century. We are talking abt his wife here, not his daughter, she's supposed to be grown up enuff not to abuse whatever sort of freedom she gets. Funny enuff u r a woman, would u want ur freedom to be limited by ur husband? Marriage is all about commitment and infidelity should be very much far from it, and wen u say grow some balls what exactly do u want him to do wit dose. Beat her up or what?

MayorNaija:
Fellow Nairalanders,a problem shared they say is a problem half solved,on that faithful morning,my friend left for work in a hurry cuz he was already late,after about thirty minutes he discovered that he was not with his tablet"phone",he had no choice but to go back home to get his phone,on getting home the first thing he discovered was that the door was locked which is unusual at that time of the day as his wife was supposed to be busy preparing the children for school before going to her shop,he rang the door bell but it took sometime for his wife to get the door,even when she did she wasn't her usual self and that raised his suspicion because of what neighbors have been telling him about his wife but he chosed not to believe.
He told his wife that he came back because he forgot his phone,his wife offered to fetch the handset but he followed her inside,the children who ought to hv taken their bath were still sleeping,since it was a room and parlor the guy entered the bedroom and behold the intruder was hiding beside their wardrobe.
without making any trouble he asked the guy to leave his house which he did.
My friend left for work but have not returned to his house till date,my friend always complained of his wife starving him of sex,he also told me that for the five yrs of his marriage his wife has never for once initiated sex,anytime he makes the move she always have one excuse or the other.their marriage is blessed with two kids,a boy and a girl,he has been sending money for the children's upkeep but now his mum and family members are sueing for peace,he said he left his house for the woman because of his children whom he said ll be better taken care of by their mother since they are still very young,he has also vowed never to marry again but now his mother is mounting pressure on him to forgive his wife and go back home,what should he do?go back to his wife or go ahead and get another apartment for himself?the woman in question said it was the devil that pushed her into it but have not shown deep remorse for her action,each time she calls my friend its always about the money for the children's wellfair.
Nairalanders the ball is now in your court,pls matured advice if needed.

Joy1706:
First, let your friend check himself. He might have 'pushed' his wife out. Maybe he stopped satisfying her in bed. Maybe he stopped paying attention to her. How about his appearance? I'm guessing the young bobo she cheated with is trim and fit. Maybe her husband added a lot of weight and stopped grooming himself. Secondly, he's the head of his home. He should get on his knees and pray for his wife and show her more love. Sit her down and have a heart to heart with her. It's for better, for worse o. Besides what is the guarantee that the next woman he marries will be different? He needs to forgive her and make it work.

fellis:
don't mind her, she just wanted to make a controversial statement so that more men will click her profile and checkout her yansh.

kliq:
Hahahahahaha

The Great MJ,guess he pulled down the rim too

Lol!

Respect to MJ I love watching that Nigga' slam it into the net!

alberto2k:
Lol!

Respect to MJ I love watching that Nigga' slam it into the net!

fellis:
don't mind her, she just wanted to make a controversial statement so that more men will click her profile and checkout her yansh.

KAYD007:
These women won't kill us oo! You my friend should be arrested and prosecuted for what you just wrote above.

In the realm of marital infidelity and as far as this case is concerned, forgiveness is a sin!!

princemi:
wat do u mean accident? let me guess, she walked into her bedroom,.tripped n landed on an erected manhood?

kliq:
Yeah,one of the few NBA players that shattered the backboard(rim) with vicious dunks....O'Neil did that twice

All hail O'Neil

You play BBall or u're just a cray fan like me?

KAYD007:
These women won't kill us oo! You my friend should be arrested and prosecuted for what you just wrote above.

In the realm of marital infidelity and as far as this case is concerned, forgiveness is a sin!!

ebonflex:
That's a very silly outlook.
So in your mind, a man is only a man if he is yelling and shouting and punching and making a scene?
Besides the guy's wife (who is a walking sack of warm vomit as far as I'm concerned), females like you are part of an even deeper problem in these dark final days.
Praising/rewarding emotionally weak and selfish behavior (especially from guys), yet penalizing/demonizing feats of true-strength, care, honor, calm and internal control.

Do you know how much internal control is needed to handle and maintain things the way he did?
If God himself was to "man up" according to you, there would be piles of smoldering ashes where human beings used to stand every second....including you.

I don't support him remaining with her, but as far as how he handled the situation, he has my 10 points.
Do the next generation of females a favor and work on your reasoning!

alberto2k:
All hail O'Neil

You play BBall or u're just a cray fan like me?

MayorNaija:
Fellow Nairalanders,a problem shared they say is a problem half solved,on that faithful morning,my friend left for work in a hurry cuz he was already late,after about thirty minutes he discovered that he was not with his tablet"phone",he had no choice but to go back home to get his phone,on getting home the first thing he discovered was that the door was locked which is unusual at that time of the day as his wife was supposed to be busy preparing the children for school before going to her shop,he rang the door bell but it took sometime for his wife to get the door,even when she did she wasn't her usual self and that raised his suspicion because of what neighbors have been telling him about his wife but he chosed not to believe.
He told his wife that he came back because he forgot his phone,his wife offered to fetch the handset but he followed her inside,the children who ought to hv taken their bath were still sleeping,since it was a room and parlor the guy entered the bedroom and behold the intruder was hiding beside their wardrobe.
without making any trouble he asked the guy to leave his house which he did.
My friend left for work but have not returned to his house till date,my friend always complained of his wife starving him of sex,he also told me that for the five yrs of his marriage his wife has never for once initiated sex,anytime he makes the move she always have one excuse or the other.their marriage is blessed with two kids,a boy and a girl,he has been sending money for the children's upkeep but now his mum and family members are sueing for peace,he said he left his house for the woman because of his children whom he said ll be better taken care of by their mother since they are still very young,he has also vowed never to marry again but now his mother is mounting pressure on him to forgive his wife and go back home,what should he do?go back to his wife or go ahead and get another apartment for himself?the woman in question said it was the devil that pushed her into it but have not shown deep remorse for her action,each time she calls my friend its always about the money for the children's wellfair.
Nairalanders the ball is now in your court,pls matured advice if needed.

Femistico:
The man shld do the needful by sending her wife packing cuz datz nt a wife material

datalossvictim1:
She can't be eating egwusi soup for the rest of her life nah....

datalossvictim1:
She can't be eating egwusi soup for the rest of her life nah....

nma24:
please let the woman be jare, afterall guys cheat and u Don't see us screaming they ain't husband material

iiiyyyk:
Though I find it hard to believe ur story,
But for real, I will never continue marriage with a woman who cheats on me.
My lord Jesus in all his mercy and compassion, said we divorce a woman in cases of unchestity.
Do u know y, any woman that cheats on you, can easily kill you.
So my brother flee.

rokiatu:
One of the reasons she cheated on him in the first place is because he's too nice and she take that for granted. I still can't believe his reaction.
HE really need to man up and grow some balls.
You give some women too much freedom and they will sit on your neck.

ebonflex:
That's a very silly outlook.
So in your mind, a man is only a man if he is yelling and shouting and punching and making a scene?
Besides the guy's wife (who is a walking sack of warm vomit as far as I'm concerned), females like you are part of an even deeper problem in these dark final days.
Praising/rewarding emotionally weak and selfish behavior (especially from guys), yet penalizing/demonizing feats of true-strength, care, honor, calm and internal control.

Do you know how much internal control is needed to handle and maintain things the way he did?
If God himself was to "man up" according to you, there would be piles of smoldering ashes where human beings used to stand every second....including you.

I don't support him remaining with her, but as far as how he handled the situation, he has my 10 points.
Do the next generation of females a favor and work on your reasoning!

MayorNaija:
Fellow Nairalanders,a problem shared they say is a problem half solved,on that faithful morning,my friend left for work in a hurry cuz he was already late,after about thirty minutes he discovered that he was not with his tablet"phone",he had no choice but to go back home to get his phone,on getting home the first thing he discovered was that the door was locked which is unusual at that time of the day as his wife was supposed to be busy preparing the children for school before going to her shop,he rang the door bell but it took sometime for his wife to get the door,even when she did she wasn't her usual self and that raised his suspicion because of what neighbors have been telling him about his wife but he chosed not to believe.
He told his wife that he came back because he forgot his phone,his wife offered to fetch the handset but he followed her inside,the children who ought to hv taken their bath were still sleeping,since it was a room and parlor the guy entered the bedroom and behold the intruder was hiding beside their wardrobe.
without making any trouble he asked the guy to leave his house which he did.
My friend left for work but have not returned to his house till date,my friend always complained of his wife starving him of sex,he also told me that for the five yrs of his marriage his wife has never for once initiated sex,anytime he makes the move she always have one excuse or the other.their marriage is blessed with two kids,a boy and a girl,he has been sending money for the children's upkeep but now his mum and family members are sueing for peace,he said he left his house for the woman because of his children whom he said ll be better taken care of by their mother since they are still very young,he has also vowed never to marry again but now his mother is mounting pressure on him to forgive his wife and go back home,what should he do?go back to his wife or go ahead and get another apartment for himself?the woman in question said it was the devil that pushed her into it but have not shown deep remorse for her action,each time she calls my friend its always about the money for the children's wellfair.
Nairalanders the ball is now in your court,pls matured advice if needed.

KingTom: