OP made some incontrovertible points. People have no rebuttal, hence the lousy insults.

takoi:


What right do you have to judge anybody? What's your business with any woman's bride price. My good guess is that you are gay and you will never ever have to pay anybody's bride price.

gbenu soun ntie johr,Try reason with what he's saying.He's damn right!!.If you are part of them the you shut ur yap and pass by.With your orientatn or IQ u support those rubbish gals.#Booth

takoi:


What right do you have to judge anybody? What's your business with any woman's bride price. My good guess is that you are gay and you will never ever have to pay anybody's bride price.

gbenu soun ntie johr,Try reason with what he's saying.He's damn right!!.If you are part of them the you shut ur yap and pass by.With your orientatn or IQ u support those rubbish gals.?#Booth

Blebleswag:
Same they wil do to ur sisters, cos she's bn jumpin 4rm peter2james, fryingpan2pot etc.
Or if u dnt hav sisters, then to ur girl child/children

I understand u definitely cohabited all those years and that guy dat ate for free is not your boyfriend, fiancee or your husband currently still you no need to let am pain you niii.....

Blebleswag:
Same they wil do to ur sisters, cos she's bn jumpin 4rm peter2james, fryingpan2pot etc.
Or if u dnt hav sisters, then to ur girl child/children

I understand u definitely cohabited all those years and that guy dat ate for free is not your boyfriend, fiancee or your husband currently still you no need to let am pain you niii.....

Thanks for the gentlemanly conduct! We actually need more of this on Nairaland!

kobonaire:
OK, fair enough, good point. I've 'liked' your post too ...

takoi:
There is no doubt that you are sex starved and that no girl will ever agree to visit talk less of cohabiting with you.
Rubbish!!!!

madam y u d vex na...u be victim?

BraniacX:


Dude!!!

To each his own

While I respect your opinion

Am also entitled to mine

In the end, our paths will most likely not even cross, so it doesn't really matter

But go easy on 'em gals
Because you never mentioned that co-habiting also devalued the fellas too, esp financially

Check my threads. I opened one in Education section for guys!

takoi:
There is no doubt that you are sex starved and that no girl will ever agree to visit talk less of cohabiting with you.
Rubbish!!!!

Can u listen to urself?...smh

Once again, you've hit the nail on the head! I actually gave the guy my undiluted opinion because I am currently dealing with a situation akin to this! The guy would have murdered his new wife! He found out that she co-habited for 4 years with a cousin of his, and none of them mentioned it till after marriage! He has also invested lots in terms of cash and emotions on this new wife. He wants out, but is in an emotional turmoil. I truly wish I could help him in more concrete ways other than saying sorry! I don't know how I'd react if I am in his shoes!

50calibre:


You're right!! I believe people shouldn't be too emotionally or financially invested in a relationship (especially ones they can't predict) it limits the disappointment.

However when a grown man choses to go down that path, I can only hope he knows what he is doing and hopefully it will be worth it in the end.

Rapmoney:
Check my threads. I opened one in Education section for guys!

Will do

Okay

leGeExus:
gbenu soun ntie johr,Try reason with what he's saying.He's damn right!!.If you are part of them the you shut ur yap and pass by.With your orientatn or IQ u support those rubbish gals.?#Booth

You get mouth! God bless you plenty.

Rapmoney:
I often wonder where Nigerian youths copied this nonsense from because even students in universities in America, Asia and Europe do not engage in this trashy act as we do over here!!! Yet, we still call them agents of immorality?

I just feel, deep within my heart, that girls who cohabit or cohabited in the university do not desrve any dime as bride price paid on them! They should just follow their would-be husband to his house, free of charge and continue where they stopped in school!

A girl cohabits with a guy for 4 to 5 years in school; this means the dude would bleep her through out those years (free of charge o!), she would perform wifely duties for him...cooking, cleaning, washing, providing emotional wifely support, etc (free of charge too o!). Now, what's still left in such a body? If she can bleep a dude for years without any dime paid on her, coupled with the numerous wifely duties, then what's the need of paying a dime on her as diary or bride price? If that bloke that bleeped her for years didn't pay a dime on her where families would meet, eat and drink and pray, why should I pay a dime on her head? Worse of it is that this dude enjoyed all what he enjoyed free of charge! Now, why should I be requested to pay for same? Common, that's not fair! What's sauce for the goose is also sauce for the gander!!!

From Delsu to Lasu, from Uniben to OOU, from Uniport to Unical, from UniAbuja to Esut...it is the same story! Any girl who cohabits with a dude in school who has never paid a dime on her has lost her feminine value! She doesn't deserve anything paid on her!!!

op see the age you are ranting? How much is bride price now

ideykwum:
Once again, you've hit the nail on the head! I actually gave the guy my undiluted opinion because I am currently dealing with a situation akin to this! The guy would have murdered his new wife! He found out that she co-habited for 4 years with a cousin of his, and none of them mentioned it till after marriage! He has also invested lots in terms of cash and emotions on this new wife. He wants out, but is in an emotional turmoil. I truly wish I could help him in more concrete ways other than saying sorry! I don't know how I'd react if I am in his shoes!

WONDERFULL!!!!

I wonder why when issues like these are being disscussed it's always the lady that receives the thrash. She does not deserve this bla bla and bla. So the guy who cohabits with her is very right to do so? Thank God heaven and hell is real and the judgement that would be melted on the lady will be thesame for the guy. So when you want to condemn an act, please condemn both parties involved because the guys aiin't special than the ladies.

I met a babe and we began close. One day we were talking abt NYSC days and she said she lived with a guy... Her words: "We were living like couple". For one year dat corper was bleeping sum1 for free! I ran frm her with my cap in my hand...

Gracyel:


I agree with u. Plus I strongly believe You should ask yourself the same question.

I would have asked myself dat if I've ever done it but I haven't. Plus we both knw dat this issue of worthiness and worthlessness in dis context affects laides much much more dan men

Rapmoney:
I often wonder where Nigerian youths copied this nonsense from because even students in universities in America, Asia and Europe do not engage in this trashy act as we do over here!!! Yet, we still call them agents of immorality?

I just feel, deep within my heart, that girls who cohabit or cohabited in the university do not desrve any dime as bride price paid on them! They should just follow their would-be husband to his house, free of charge and continue where they stopped in school!

A girl cohabits with a guy for 4 to 5 years in school; this means the dude would bleep her through out those years (free of charge o!), she would perform wifely duties for him...cooking, cleaning, washing, providing emotional wifely support, etc (free of charge too o!). Now, what's still left in such a body? If she can bleep a dude for years without any dime paid on her, coupled with the numerous wifely duties, then what's the need of paying a dime on her as diary or bride price? If that bloke that bleeped her for years didn't pay a dime on her where families would meet, eat and drink and pray, why should I pay a dime on her head? Worse of it is that this dude enjoyed all what he enjoyed free of charge! Now, why should I be requested to pay for same? Common, that's not fair! What's sauce for the goose is also sauce for the gander!!!

From Delsu to Lasu, from Uniben to OOU, from Uniport to Unical, from UniAbuja to Esut...it is the same story! Any girl who cohabits with a dude in school who has never paid a dime on her has lost her feminine value! She doesn't deserve anything paid on her!!!

You sound like you closely associate women with items for sale, at worst a goat in the market. The worth of a human -- a woman seems directly proportionate to her bride price. Such primitive thinking.

I think the bride price is for having the guy's children and not having sex with him which any girl can do.

I can't and will never do it,but you have no right to judge them,btw I have noticed most guys on nl are so shallow-minded and full of hatred for ladies,if a girl says 'no sex,until marriage,she's pretending',and if she accept the sex before marriage trend 'she's a LovePeddler'.

The guilty ones will be the one to complain and object this. Just check them out.

mondob2k:
I met a babe and we began close. One day we were talking abt NYSC days and she said she lived with a guy... Her words: "We were living like couple". For one year dat corper was bleeping sum1 for free! I ran frm her with my cap in my hand...

LoL

garriboy:

I would have asked myself dat if I've ever done it but I haven't. Plus we both knw dat this issue of worthiness and worthlessness in dis context affects laides much much more dan men

Oh really??.....and why is that?

Women used to be the moral barometer of the home! Ever heard of the term "Christian mothers"? Our culture expects more from the female gender as a mother and true custodian of the home! A man can sit with his legs wide apart, but should a woman do so when wearing skirts?? That's our society, like it or lump it!

elomez:
I wonder why when issues like these are being disscussed it's always the lady that receives the thrash. She does not deserve this bla bla and bla. So the guy who cohabits with her is very right to do so? Thank God heaven and hell is real and the judgement that would be melted on the lady will be thesame for the guy. So when you want to condemn an act, please condemn both parties involved because the guys aiin't special than the ladies.

Why am I not surprised by the hypocrisy of the males cheering the OP blaming only the females and as usual, making the males saints?

OP, I'd have taking you serious if you'd blamed the men too, but since your angst is on the female gender alone, I render your complaint a total bullshít!!.

For your info, who told you the Westerners weren't those we learnt co-habitation from? What have Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt been doing all these years under ONE ROOF together? Lemme guess, conducting night vigils? Is it not the same Westerners where a girl or boy will leave his or her parents' house at 16-17 years of age to live with their lovers? Has your hypocrisy rendered you biased? As a male, your biasness gives me the creeps!!


For your info, there's no difference between you that your GF visits occasionally and you guys make love 3-4 times in a week before she leaves after every visit, and that guy that lives with his GF permanently. The truth is at the end of her visits, you both will fúck. So your analogy holds no water. If you want to marry a prostìtute tomorrow, you must pay her bride price no matter the mileage of her pússy. You fúck your GF whether she stays with you permanently or not and you castigate those that make love more frequently because of co-habiting? You are a joker. if you are serious, then you'd be against all manner of séx outside marriage. A boy and a girl both co-habit and you take out your inconsequential frustration on the girl alone? Nice judgment, Mr. Biased!!

Take note that I hate co-habiting with passion, and can only co-habit when I'm officially married, but I won't watch you be a hypocrite. Cheers.

Edusouls:
noo he is not,any woman that gets married on campus, through out the years and still come out,hoping and presenting himself to get married the 3rd time..is a big DISSAPOINTMENT AND DISGRACE TO WOMANHOOD WORLD WIDE...

WORLD WIDE YOU SAY?

NIGGA BE THROUGH WITH YOUR FAMILY BEFORE TALKING ABOUT THE WHOLE WORLD!

Blebleswag:
Same they wil do to ur sisters, cos she's bn jumpin 4rm peter2james, fryingpan2pot etc.
Or if u dnt hav sisters, then to ur girl child/children

Let me guess.... You are either cohabiting or cohabited to react this way..... Jesus is calling you and if you dont respond.... Well....... THAT IS NON OF MY BUSINESS....

classicB:
That's nonsense of the highest order. You leave your parents house to school only to go and start actin like a wife to a guy your parents don't know, you eventually get pregnant and start aborting your babies for someone not mentally ready for anything in life
After the guy must have used you left right and center, he dumps your sorry ass after school then you will come and start shouting guys are bad? No! It's you that is foolish

Not in support of cohabiting though but I just want to remind you that you don't have to sleep over night with a man for him to get you pregnant and abort, even a girl that visits once a month can get pregnant.

Lets preach abstinence
Just saying.

sinizia:
Why am I not surprised by the hypocrisy of the males cheering the OP blaming only the females and as usual, making the males saints?

OP, I'd have taking you serious if you'd blamed the men too, but since your angst is on the female gender alone, I render your complaint a total bullshít!!.

For your info, who told you the Westerners weren't those we learnt co-habitation from? What have Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt been doing all these years under ONE ROOF together? Lemme guess, conducting night vigils? Is it not the same Westerners where a girl or boy will leave his or her parents' house at 16-17 years of age to live with their lovers? Has your hypocrisy rendered you biased? As a male, your biasness gives me the creeps!!


For your info, there's no difference between you that your GF visits occasionally and you guys make love 3-4 times in a week before she leaves after every visit, and that guy that lives with his GF permanently. The truth is at the end of her visits, you both will fúck. So your analogy holds no water. If you want to marry a prostìtute tomorrow, you must pay her bride price no matter the mileage of her pússy. You fúck your GF whether she stays with you permanently or not and you castigate those that make love more frequently because of co-habiting? You are a joker. if you are serious, then you'd be against all manner of séx outside marriage. A boy and a girl both co-habit and you take out your inconsequential frustration on the girl alone? Nice judgment, Mr. Biased!!

Take note that I hate co-habiting with passion, and can only co-habit when I'm officially married, but I won't watch you be a hypocrite. Cheers.

HONEY.. THIS FCCK THREAD DOESN'T DESERVE THIS MUCH TYPING. THE LOCALS COMMENTING HERE CANNOT EVEN READ THE ENGLISH LANGUAGE CORRECTLY.

Rapmoney:
I often wonder where Nigerian youths copied this nonsense from because even students in universities in America, Asia and Europe do not engage in this trashy act as we do over here!!! Yet, we still call them agents of immorality?

I just feel, deep within my heart, that girls who cohabit or cohabited in the university do not desrve any dime as bride price paid on them! They should just follow their would-be husband to his house, free of charge and continue where they stopped in school!

A girl cohabits with a guy for 4 to 5 years in school; this means the dude would bleep her through out those years (free of charge o!), she would perform wifely duties for him...cooking, cleaning, washing, providing emotional wifely support, etc (free of charge too o!). Now, what's still left in such a body? If she can bleep a dude for years without any dime paid on her, coupled with the numerous wifely duties, then what's the need of paying a dime on her as diary or bride price? If that bloke that bleeped her for years didn't pay a dime on her where families would meet, eat and drink and pray, why should I pay a dime on her head? Worse of it is that this dude enjoyed all what he enjoyed free of charge! Now, why should I be requested to pay for same? Common, that's not fair! What's sauce for the goose is also sauce for the gander!!!

From Delsu to Lasu, from Uniben to OOU, from Uniport to Unical, from UniAbuja to Esut...it is the same story! Any girl who cohabits with a dude in school who has never paid a dime on her has lost her feminine value! She doesn't deserve anything paid on her!!!

some Naija girls playing mugu since 23BC ,how can a sensible girl who aspire to be a good mother live with another jobless boy in the name of cohabiting. so after having sex with this dude 599 times in 5 years,this fool(useless girls) will still play hard to get another innocent suitor..

Op, what in the universe is wrong with you??

Dexema:

With the color of ur face I'm not sure if ur ass would be black,(just thinking aloud).

oh really, thinking aloud. why not hit your your head on the wall, it will sound out more loudly.

Nwachiizu:


I think this will help more if you will post her full names. You can even go further by revealing her image here

and who deluded you into thinking I'm out here to help you or anyone else here for that matter?