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Re: How To Attract A Real Husband Material by Nobody: 9:24pm On Apr 13, 2015
emusmith:


But seriously, did she tell you that? grin
yes....why do you ask?
Re: How To Attract A Real Husband Material by Nobody: 9:26pm On Apr 13, 2015
Classyzi:
yes....why do you ask?


I want to see her undecided
Re: How To Attract A Real Husband Material by Nobody: 9:31pm On Apr 13, 2015
emusmith:


I want to see her undecided
lol funny dude.
Re: How To Attract A Real Husband Material by Nobody: 9:36pm On Apr 13, 2015
Classyzi:
lol funny dude.


How do I say, I'm not kidding? angry
Re: How To Attract A Real Husband Material by mentorandfriend(m): 9:45pm On Apr 13, 2015
You have strong points there.
Also, everyone must strive to be a real person.
Ladies and gents alike must spend time adding virtues such as compassion, patience, endurance, submission, hardwork/industry, openness, fidelity, etc to our lives.
We almost always attract who we are.

I had a lady friend who once told me that she was never in short of admirers and suitors, but that all of them will always want to get into her pants within one month of communication and getting to know each other.
I then curiously asked her the traits she wanted in a man, I was shocked at her answer. Tall, dark, handsome, wealthy dude from a wealthy home, generous gentleman, funny, muscular build, etc.
No mention of virtues. Just physical qualities. That is why she kept attracting guys who also came for her cookie.
Once she shifted her attention from those mundane things, quit the night clubs, changed her clothes, and became more committed in our church, she got a nice gentleman within four months who even had all she initially wanted. That guy happens to be my close friend sef.

The law of attraction is at work in the earth. We will almost always attract who we are.

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Re: How To Attract A Real Husband Material by ijecks(f): 9:47pm On Apr 13, 2015
ABEG HOW MAY YARDS CUZ MINE IS 1,0000.000 YARDS
Re: How To Attract A Real Husband Material by Nobody: 9:52pm On Apr 13, 2015
ijecks:
ABEG HOW MAY YARDS CUZ MINE IS 1,0000.000 YARDS


Hahaha
Re: How To Attract A Real Husband Material by demicupid(f): 10:15pm On Apr 13, 2015
LesbianBoy:
8. Dont use a car while you are single!!!


9. Don't live alone as a single lady


10. Stop watching african magic yoruba
Lol..whar has yoruba movies got 2 do wif dis..?
Re: How To Attract A Real Husband Material by Nobody: 10:28pm On Apr 13, 2015
mentorandfriend:
You have strong points there.
Also, everyone must strive to be a real person.
Ladies and gents alike must spend time adding virtues such as compassion, patience, endurance, submission, hardwork/industry, openness, fidelity, etc to our lives.
We almost always attract who we are.

I had a lady friend who once told me that she was never in short of admirers and suitors, but that all of them will always want to get into her pants within one month of communication and getting to know each other.
I then curiously asked her the traits she wanted in a man, I was shocked at her answer. Tall, dark, handsome, wealthy dude from a wealthy home, generous gentleman, funny, muscular build, etc.
No mention of virtues. Just physical qualities. That is why she kept attracting guys who also came for her cookie.
Once she shifted her attention from those mundane things, quit the night clubs, changed her clothes, and became more committed in our church, she got a nice gentleman within four months who even had all she initially wanted. That guy happens to be my close friend sef.

The law of attraction is at work in the earth. We will almost always attract who we are.


Thank you for that intelligent expatiation. You'll always attract who you are.

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Re: How To Attract A Real Husband Material by sinizia: 2:05am On Apr 14, 2015
LesbianBoy:
8. Dont use a car while you are single!!!


9. Don't live alone as a single lady


10. Stop watching african magic yoruba

I've read a lot of nonsense this week, but this one takes the cake. WTF?! shocked

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Re: How To Attract A Real Husband Material by Deejavuu(f): 3:01am On Apr 14, 2015
LesbianBoy:



10. Stop watching african magic yoruba

Lool cheesy cheesy grin grin

This number 10 got me cracking badly.

What has that got to do with finding "a husband material"
Re: How To Attract A Real Husband Material by Truckpusher(m): 3:03am On Apr 14, 2015
Deejavuu:


Lool cheesy cheesy grin grin

This number 10 got me cracking badly.

What has that got to do with finding "a husband material"
Chai! men are being regarded as ''material''?

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Re: How To Attract A Real Husband Material by Deejavuu(f): 3:05am On Apr 14, 2015
Truckpusher:
Chai! men are being regarded as ''material''?

Na so me sef see am o


How many yards you be?

Will it be enough for aso-ebi cheesy
Re: How To Attract A Real Husband Material by Truckpusher(m): 3:08am On Apr 14, 2015
Deejavuu:


Na so me sef see am o


How many yards you be?

Will it be enough for aso-ebi cheesy
Na only shimmy and one bra dem fit use my own sew. angry
Re: How To Attract A Real Husband Material by Deejavuu(f): 3:11am On Apr 14, 2015
Truckpusher:
Na only shimmy and one bra dem fit use my own sew. angry


Hahahaha!!

grin grin grin grin..

You be case i swear..Abeg bye bye
Re: How To Attract A Real Husband Material by Truckpusher(m): 3:12am On Apr 14, 2015
Deejavuu:



Hahahaha!!

grin grin grin grin..

You be case i swear..Abeg bye bye
Go sleep.

people like you go sabi turn desk to hard pillow. grin
Re: How To Attract A Real Husband Material by Deejavuu(f): 3:15am On Apr 14, 2015
Truckpusher:
Go sleep.

people like you go sabi turn desk to hard pillow. grin

After you..

I'm a night owl. wink

Goodnight jare kiss
Re: How To Attract A Real Husband Material by Truckpusher(m): 3:17am On Apr 14, 2015
Deejavuu:


After you..

I'm a night owl. wink

Goodnight jare kiss

Re: How To Attract A Real Husband Material by Mhizizzy(f): 3:23am On Apr 14, 2015
Personal wishes of emusmith for his to be wife undecided

Nice points tho
Re: How To Attract A Real Husband Material by Nobody: 6:55am On Apr 14, 2015
Deejavuu:


After you..

I'm a night owl. wink

Goodnight jare kiss



Night owl? shocked
Re: How To Attract A Real Husband Material by Nobody: 6:55am On Apr 14, 2015
Mhizizzy:
Personal wishes of emusmith for his to be wife undecided

Nice points tho


Thanks sweet
Re: How To Attract A Real Husband Material by dagentility(f): 8:28am On Apr 14, 2015
Slimzjoe:
Always give all Guys a chance
Stop writing them off because they are mummy's Boy or Because they are too nice
like seriously, did you just say give all guys a chance, you must be joking.
Re: How To Attract A Real Husband Material by DSuperWoman(f): 8:40am On Apr 14, 2015
7. Spend Some Of Your Time With Married Ladies


As earlier quoted: Success is where preparation meets with opportunity. In life, you don't get what you want when you want it. You get it when you've prepared (to an extent) for it. Hanging out with those Ladies kinda build a marital disposition in you, somehow. Getting advice from romance section Ladies can only take you so far.

[/quote] emu your thread is lovely. I actually read it first before I realized it was you again. I beg to make some adjustments on number 7. I would say "spend some time with HAPPILY married ladies whose measurement of happiness tallies with yours" if the lady is happily married and she believes that happiness in marriage is cooking with firewood and you believe in gas cookers I don't think that kind of lady will impact you much. there is nothing wrong with your different views but just as we are different, no two marriages are the same. just like taking someone to be your mentor, there are so many great people in the world but u picked who you picked as a mentor because you agree with his/her principles. I have met a lady who told me that if her husband doesn't beat her she wont be happy and she wont treat him like a man. so if a lady whose definition of a good husband is mutual respect meets her I don't think lady A will be a good marriage mentor to lady B.

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Re: How To Attract A Real Husband Material by Slimzjoe(m): 8:41am On Apr 14, 2015
dagentility:

like seriously, did you just say give all guys a chance, you must be joking.


I don't really mean 'All' Males in the real sense
All am saying is Guys who a mummy's boys or Mr Nice guys shouldn't be written off just like that
Re: How To Attract A Real Husband Material by Deejavuu(f): 10:36am On Apr 14, 2015
emusmith:


Night owl? shocked

grin cheesy grin
Re: How To Attract A Real Husband Material by Nobody: 10:39am On Apr 14, 2015
Deejavuu:


grin cheesy grin



You said it o
Re: How To Attract A Real Husband Material by Nobody: 10:43am On Apr 14, 2015
DSuperWoman:



7. Spend Some Of Your Time With Married Ladies


As earlier quoted: Success is where preparation meets with opportunity. In life, you don't get what you want when you want it. You get it when you've prepared (to an extent) for it. Hanging out with those Ladies kinda build a marital disposition in you, somehow. Getting advice from romance section Ladies can only take you so far.

emu your thread is lovely. I actually read it first before I realized it was you again. I beg to make some adjustments on number 7. I would say "spend some time with HAPPILY married ladies whose measurement of happiness tallies with yours" if the lady is happily married and she believes that happiness in marriage is cooking with firewood and you believe in gas cookers I don't think that kind of lady will impact you much. there is nothing wrong with your different views but just as we are different, no two marriages are the same. just like taking someone to be your mentor, there are so many great people in the world but u picked who you picked as a mentor because you agree with his/her principles. I have met a lady who told me that if her husband doesn't beat her she wont be happy and she wont treat him like a man. so if a lady whose definition of a good husband is mutual respect meets her I don't think lady A will be a good marriage mentor to lady B.


Hmm, you're really smart.
I purposely left that out for our imagination smiley.

Nice one...ermmm...You sound married tongue
Re: How To Attract A Real Husband Material by Deejavuu(f): 10:45am On Apr 14, 2015
emusmith:


You said it o

Yeah i did.
Re: How To Attract A Real Husband Material by Nobody: 10:58am On Apr 14, 2015
Deejavuu:


Yeah i did.



Hmm hmm
Re: How To Attract A Real Husband Material by Deejavuu(f): 11:02am On Apr 14, 2015
emusmith:


Hmm hmm

Fear not!.
Re: How To Attract A Real Husband Material by Nobody: 12:25pm On Apr 14, 2015
Deejavuu:


Fear not!.


Hahaha... Why shouldn't I fear? cool
Re: How To Attract A Real Husband Material by Svelteb(f): 1:16pm On Apr 14, 2015
that is it. There is no guarantee @ all, u see some modest babes wt d best xters nd yet dey end up with d worst husbands ever nd on d oda hand d ladies dat exhibit d above listed get lucky wt d best guys. Hian, dis life sha
xynerise:
And what is the guarantee that those ladies that adhered to these points got married to a "husband material"?

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