faith2ogesco:
naso Luv dey start

leofab:
so does that mean you don't expect appreciation either verbal or financial after having sex with him? Make Ashawo's dem nor hear am from you. Funny things is that guy will still want to satisfy ashawo's too after paying #10k or more for just a night. Life shaaaa

craziebone:


btw, where is your friend Inkerd Nerd?

all4naija:
What are the feminists views on this topic? Where are Mandu94 and MrsChima to elaborate on this issue?

MrsChima:


What do you want mumu?

all4naija:
Please..., I am not mumu. But, it hasn't gotten to that yet. Just a topical question that needs an answer, lady. Are you trying to shy away from feminism?

MrsChima:


Am I her mother

MrsChima:


If you want to know if I am a feminist....yes I am. How do one shy away from feminism and what does that got to do with sex

all4naija:
What are the feminists views on this topic? Where are Mandu94 and MrsChima to elaborate on this issue?

Mandu94:


Its not in my opinion, its mutual benefit, simple. Unless, she compromises on her feelings and takes part because of his wants.

I will have sex only if I want to.

all4naija:
What about if the opposite sex is not in the mood and you are? You are an introvert and a notorious feminist!

Mandu94:


You are so irrelevant. Talk to someone else.

craziebone:
must we always fight? Cant we just be civil and ask after each other sometimes?

all4naija:
What about if the opposite sex is not in the mood and you are? You are an introvert and a notorious feminist!

all4naija:

It has everything to do with it when looking at it if from the role playing! Jeez!

MrsChima:


Feminism now is a form of pre-intimacy? W5F

all4naija:
Don't quote me again because you reason like a primitive African woman.

Mandu94:
He is insane Mrs Chima, he begs for me to take a ride in his car. Completely lost his head.

MrsChima:


Lol. That's A Nigerian man for you! I swear he thinks he is proving himself. I don't know why there is such hate for feminism!

micktoxin:
"
Firstly, feminism should be about gender equality". Anyone who has ever talked to a feminist for any length of time will know that this is far from being true. Most feminist i know consistently view the world from the perspective of women, while sometimes adding the phrase 'and men have problems too' in order to create a smokescreen of gender equality.
Like some posts here on nl, the generalisations that nigerian men are not allowed to defend themselves from include, but are not limited to: thinking a home invite/car ride is sexual consent, being rape apologists, seeing women as nothing more than vaginas, having perfectly fitted shirts, always sending women creepy messages etc leaves nothing to desire about feminist.

Mandu94:
There is a MASSIVE issue, these are some ideas, but feminism is about history and movement. It is about gender equality and puts women's safety before men's feelings. <<

When that woman was raped on the bus in India and then later DIED some men said it was her fault for going out late. When a Nigerian girl was gang raped on a college campus in Nigeria many girls and boys said 'what is she doing in a room full of boys.'

THIS IS WHY IM A FEMINIST, ENOUGH IS ENOUGH. NO TO IGNORANCE

PEOPLE LIKE TO BLAME THE OPPRESSED. >>Women are looked upon and valued based on looks rather than content in society, e.g advertisements, on the news all they discuss is what she is wearing. TODAY IT SHOULD BE ABOUT WHO IS MORE INNOVATIVE, CREATIVE and INTELLIGENT. >>>
THAT HAS NO GENDER!!

#POWER TO WOMEN

Mandu94:
He is insane Mrs Chima, he begs for me to take a ride in his car. Completely lost his head.

all4naija:

Oh, shut it! Nobody is against power for women and all that blahblahblah! What we are saying here is that the notion surrounding feminism is not completely about gender equality but some idea that would make them have more problems while fighting for their rights. You aren't making any sense any way, including that primitive old lady.

Mandu94:


Now I know you seriouslyy need help. I'm ignoring you now. If you read Im not saying you guys are I'm talking generally. But I'm wasting my time with you, because u are an angry little man.

all4naija:
Many women just want men to see them as the center of the world.If you don't give them the attention they would want to withhold that right from you as a man. As if man's life depends on it.

Mandu94:


Firstly, look at my previous post.
Secondly feminism is about women, but also re education, because everything from education to science is mainly created by men. Many problems exist because a women's influence has not been exercised enough through history.

There are many movements to embody other problems but feminism is for women particularly. Each movement has an emphasis, feminism wasn't created to carry the load for all worldly problems e.g lack of green energy resources. So it does show the feminist perspective and the woman experience. Many men are feminists, and these men have great empathy, if we are to move forward more people need to be active in the struggle. Ofcourse women in different parts of the world have it hundred times bad, so this is a global effort. To tell females, you are worth so much, put yourself first because you deserve it.

Mothers emphasise good upbringing with girls rather than boys and I think this is a large problem, because boys get a narrow view of what it is to be a 'MAN' and these ideologies pressurise many young men to be athletic, emotionally unavailable (hard), into cars and sex. In the UK, many men read the Sun newspaper (our largest newspaper) because on page 3 shows a naked woman. What messages does it send out to our boys and girls? For girls to fit that ideal of 'beauty', for men to have increasingly sexual attitudes to women in general. Women have many problems such as not being taken seriously at workplace and perceived as being less capable to do her job relative to her male counterparts. In Nigeria the problems are a thousand times worse e.g women coerced to sleep with the boss for a promotion. "IS THIS LIFE".

Sexykarma:
Hold popcorn in d front seat watching nairaland wrestlemania... Contestants
Mandu94 vs all4naija