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Re: Was I Wrong? by amodaade: 5:26pm On Apr 16, 2015

I can see that you are interested in the girl. You have no right to want to make her leave your friend. She is old enough to decide on her own.
She probably came in the night prepared to sleep over. If they had a quarrel, your best bet was to settle it for them or stay till your friend calms down.

Re: Was I Wrong? by Nobody: 5:27pm On Apr 16, 2015

Not wrong at all to try to calm your neighbour down...but as a peace maker,settling the dispute and ensuring she goes home safe is good enough-but taking her home might not go down too well on him. Try to make him see why you had to go drop her.

Re: Was I Wrong? by mek2002(m): 5:29pm On Apr 16, 2015

Better maintain your relationship with your friend instead of trying to be a good guy to desperate girl. She knows what she's doing. No love here.

Re: Was I Wrong? by surugede(m): 5:33pm On Apr 16, 2015

Did you just call the guy your friend, sorry ooo show me your friend....

You have no biz having such as a 'friend'

Re: Was I Wrong? by nkem123(m): 5:33pm On Apr 16, 2015

Hmmmnn na wa o!

Re: Was I Wrong? by Owliver(m): 5:34pm On Apr 16, 2015

If the guy was broke he wouldn't treat her that way. And also if the guy was broke she most-likely wouldn't date him or receive such treatment and still stay. So in conclusion MONEY na hin curse am. Hahahaha. Money makes people lose their minds undecided

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Re: Was I Wrong? by Owliver(m): 5:35pm On Apr 16, 2015

mek2002:
Better maintain your relationship with your friend instead of trying to be a good guy to desperate girl. She knows what she's doing. No love here.

GBAM!!!

Re: Was I Wrong? by folabayo1(f): 5:35pm On Apr 16, 2015

YUNGLURD:
shebi u be vandam nau

I be commando angry

Re: Was I Wrong? by Nobody: 5:38pm On Apr 16, 2015

what da Bleep!!i hate guys who lay their hands on women,it sounds so crazy to me.Anyway op go beg d guy for her cos some babes like suffering undecided

Re: Was I Wrong? by nochio(m): 5:38pm On Apr 16, 2015

She must have done something serious or bad, did you ask your friend further or did you ask the girl?

Re: Was I Wrong? by Nobody: 5:42pm On Apr 16, 2015

Yomieluv:
he's doing very well,lives in a well furnished flat,and drives two cars. He's into entertainment,and this isn't the first time of the abuse,that's why I want to help out. I always feel she's out of her senses.

is the guy not Mr may d?

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Re: Was I Wrong? by Nobody: 5:42pm On Apr 16, 2015

Yomieluv:
Lemme make it short.

Went to a friend's place on Tuesday to watch Real-Madrid match. After a while,I heard a knock at the door,my friend went to open,I started hearing noise,on getting to the door,I saw my friend beating his girlfriend. I had to ask,he said the girlfriend came unannounced,and want to force herself in,which resulted to fracas.

I settled them,and went drop the girl in her hostel in unilag,went I came back to my friend's place,he was shouting that why should I go drop the girl off to her hostel,that I should have left her outside,when he locked the door against her. That my loyalty should be to him.

My question is this,was I wrong to have dropped her? I went to drop her because she was crying,bruised,and her sandal was torn.it will be unfair to leave her outside.

How can I help her out of the toxic relationship,without being seen as a traitor,or back-stabber by my friend, because its obvious my friend didn't like her at all,she's the one forcing herself on him.

Imagine after the whole beating,while driving her to school,she was pleading with me to beg my friend for her,I was like WTF in my mind,but didn't say anything,that I will get back to her.

let me advise you as a man, your loyalty forever shd always be with ur friend.

it was ok for u to stop him from beating the girl, u shd hv either given stopped a bike or cab for her or seen her off to the door. why will u go as far as her hostel, are u plannin on snatching her away from ur friend. u knw hw women reason, small time na she go dey see u as the hero. calls and then u will say my friends woman has a crush on me.

Haven said that you need to also counsel ur friend, shout at him badly or counsel him and stress the implications of violence on women, it nt cool no mata the reason.

You can criticize him internally but not opening his shit outside for the world to see. follow her to her hostel in my opinion was too much.

but its just my opinion.

Re: Was I Wrong? by grad2012(f): 5:44pm On Apr 16, 2015

Wat ur friend did was so wrong u need to caution him.women are not to be abused,we are ur mothers, sisters and wives. To the gal she might be inlove wit him but dat kind of luv is TOXIC and u being his friend u need to tell her to move on and make her see reasons for her too and pls after advicing her dont keep contacting her because U MIGHT END UP INLUV WIT HER.

Re: Was I Wrong? by harrysterol(m): 5:45pm On Apr 16, 2015

chimkaire:

Na so cheating dey start

n dt was how u allow stinggy snatch u away from me angry

chimkaire:

Na so cheating dey start

n dt was how u allow stinggy snatch u away from me

Re: Was I Wrong? by Nobody: 5:48pm On Apr 16, 2015

I wonder where people would have been getting common sense from if seun never existed. But thank God seun Was born, so here is my own say...... Booting ok ready go. You see my uncle you should have settled them in that room and drop the girl with the boxer inside the car in her hostel . but the girl needs serious broom flogging for engaging herself in a such a wrestlemania relationship. Girls and money though undecided

Re: Was I Wrong? by manuelpepper: 5:49pm On Apr 16, 2015

Yomieluv:
Lemme make it short.

Went to a friend's place on Tuesday to watch Real-Madrid match. After a while,I heard a knock at the door,my friend went to open,I started hearing noise,on getting to the door,I saw my friend beating his girlfriend. I had to ask,he said the girlfriend came unannounced,and want to force herself in,which resulted to fracas.

I settled them,and went drop the girl in her hostel in unilag,went I came back to my friend's place,he was shouting that why should I go drop the girl off to her hostel,that I should have left her outside,when he locked the door against her. That my loyalty should be to him.

My question is this,was I wrong to have dropped her? I went to drop her because she was crying,bruised,and her sandal was torn.it will be unfair to leave her outside.

How can I help her out of the toxic relationship,without being seen as a traitor,or back-stabber by my friend, because its obvious my friend didn't like her at all,she's the one forcing herself on him.

Imagine after the whole beating,while driving her to school,she was pleading with me to beg my friend for her,I was like WTF in my mind,but didn't say anything,that I will get back to her.

op u are wrong.

Nigerian ladies dont listen to advise and hates it when u try to be good to them.

Despite ur hospitable approach to save her from her boyfriend she will still see u as one he goat.

Them no dey advise nigerian ladies oooooo......do it and she will hate you for life.

Re: Was I Wrong? by YUNGLURD(m): 5:49pm On Apr 16, 2015

folabayo1:
I be commando

Re: Was I Wrong? by ifoundmyperfect: 5:51pm On Apr 16, 2015

Yomieluv:
he's doing very well,lives in a well furnished flat,and drives two cars. He's into entertainment,and this isn't the first time of the abuse,that's why I want to help out. I always feel she's out of her senses.

Papi, you have played your own part by rescuing her that night. Comot hand for the matter. Shez an adult.!Shez not your sister or relative neither are you a human right activist. She had myriad of choices, yet she chose this. Let it be her choice to walk out. Its also not so easy convincing a delusional female adult cut in the web of misplaced affection or infatuation... Comot your hand!

Re: Was I Wrong? by SIRTee15: 5:52pm On Apr 16, 2015

@ op
the truth is most of these girls are not worth it.
not to talk of creating enmity between you and your padi.
forget the victim game they play, these girlz know what they are doing.
your friend also has a game plan and he's playing to the script.
you just came in and spoilt the show.
next time, just stay out of it and remain loyal to your friend.
nobody appreciates the good boy u're trying to be.

Re: Was I Wrong? by mightycrown1(m): 5:54pm On Apr 16, 2015

FRIEND YOU DID SOMETHING WRONG. THE BEST YOU COULD HAVE DONE IS TO HAVE MAKE SURE YOU SETTLE THE MATTER BETWEEN THEM OR BETTER STILL YOU HAVE GOT HIS CONSENT BEFORE TAKING HER TO THE HOSTEL. I THINK YOU SAID HE IS YOU FRIEND AND FROM YOUR STATEMENT, HE DEMAND YOUR LOYALTY MEANING THAT HE MUST BE YOUR VERY CLOSE FRIEND. AND BY THAT, YOU CAN TAKE ANYTHING EASIER FROM HIM. LADIES ARE VERY VERY UNPREDICTABLE BEFORE YOU KNOW IT SHE WILL BE GETTING CLOSER TO YOU IN PRETENSE OF BEING IN AN EMOTIONAL TRAUMA AND THAT COULD BE VERY DANGEROUS. A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE

Re: Was I Wrong? by stinggy(m): 5:55pm On Apr 16, 2015

harrysterol:
n dt was how u allow stinggy snatch u away from me n dt was how u allow stinggy snatch u away from me

Harry stop mentioning my name in vain, uhmmm lipsrsealed

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Re: Was I Wrong? by zynzyn(m): 5:56pm On Apr 16, 2015

Yomieluv:
Lemme make it short.

Went to a friend's place on Tuesday to watch Real-Madrid match. After a while,I heard a knock at the door,my friend went to open,I started hearing noise,on getting to the door,I saw my friend beating his girlfriend. I had to ask,he said the girlfriend came unannounced,and want to force herself in,which resulted to fracas.

I settled them,and went drop the girl in her hostel in unilag,went I came back to my friend's place,he was shouting that why should I go drop the girl off to her hostel,that I should have left her outside,when he locked the door against her. That my loyalty should be to him.

My question is this,was I wrong to have dropped her? I went to drop her because she was crying,bruised,and her sandal was torn.it will be unfair to leave her outside.

How can I help her out of the toxic relationship,without being seen as a traitor,or back-stabber by my friend, because its obvious my friend didn't like her at all,she's the one forcing herself on him.

Imagine after the whole beating,while driving her to school,she was pleading with me to beg my friend for her,I was like WTF in my mind,but didn't say anything,that I will get back to her.

You took a gallant but somewhat dumb risk:

1. You don't know the cause of the quarrel, whether she was caught c h e a t i n g!!

2. Your padi may begin to suspect u want to bang her!

Re: Was I Wrong? by fretnot(m): 5:59pm On Apr 16, 2015

Heed this advice, friend. For that matter, this may be an opportunity for you to save a life.[color=#990000][/color]

jaymichael:
Your loyalty should be to nobody, but to the path of TRUTH, JUSTICE, EQUITY and FAIRNESS. If you ve done the right thing according to the best of your ability and conscience, you need no justification from anyone.

Re: Was I Wrong? by fretnot(m): 6:00pm On Apr 16, 2015

Heed this advice, friend. For that matter, this may be an opportunity for you to save a life.

jaymichael:
Your loyalty should be to nobody, but to the path of TRUTH, JUSTICE, EQUITY and FAIRNESS. If you ve done the right thing according to the best of your ability and conscience, you need no justification from anyone.

Re: Was I Wrong? by andyanders: 6:08pm On Apr 16, 2015

harrysterol:
U did the wrong thing op.
Instead of dropping the gal to her hostel, you will have settled it in ur friends house, your friend maybe thinking something else

Exactly. I have seen a guy who took advantage of similar case and started bedding the girl.op, you should have sorted the problem out there and asked the lady to go or even help her get a cab to go by herself and now stay with your guy to find out what the problem was.

Op, was not there when they contracted their relationship and therefore should not have acted the way he did.

OP, you are wrong.

Re: Was I Wrong? by Moana(f): 6:10pm On Apr 16, 2015

im just wondering how you are friends with someone like that?

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Re: Was I Wrong? by nanizle(m): 6:10pm On Apr 16, 2015

justified19:
she just wants to b wit a rich guy. dats all. she needs a psychologist to help her out.

That's the key word.

Re: Was I Wrong? by onyebuchiii(m): 6:11pm On Apr 16, 2015

do ur friend hv cash to to spend?
if yes dont be suprised cos most girls
wil do anything possible to remain in
a relationship wth a rich nigga.....
...
abt ur friend. .maybe he felt insecure dat u
dropped her off....stil u are nt wrong atol
u did d right thing....bt dont do anything to
separate them o.

Re: Was I Wrong? by tellwisdom: 6:11pm On Apr 16, 2015

Ok u wan use style tell us sey u get car, abi??...ok we don hear... Bye undecided

Re: Was I Wrong? by espn(m): 6:11pm On Apr 16, 2015

OP it's none of ur business except u v something else in mind.. she will borrow that sense when her eye clear..stay off..i don't want to hear bad news ooo..of friend stabbing best friend cos of a unilag babe..be warned.

Re: Was I Wrong? by AAinEqGuinea: 6:14pm On Apr 16, 2015

Yomieluv:
Lemme make it short.

Went to a friend's place on Tuesday to watch Real-Madrid match. After a while,I heard a knock at the door,my friend went to open,I started hearing noise,on getting to the door,I saw my friend beating his girlfriend. I had to ask,he said the girlfriend came unannounced,and want to force herself in,which resulted to fracas.

I settled them,and went drop the girl in her hostel in unilag,went I came back to my friend's place,he was shouting that why should I go drop the girl off to her hostel,that I should have left her outside,when he locked the door against her. That my loyalty should be to him.

My question is this,was I wrong to have dropped her? I went to drop her because she was crying,bruised,and her sandal was torn.it will be unfair to leave her outside.

How can I help her out of the toxic relationship,without being seen as a traitor,or back-stabber by my friend, because its obvious my friend didn't like her at all,she's the one forcing herself on him.

Imagine after the whole beating,while driving her to school,she was pleading with me to beg my friend for her,I was like WTF in my mind,but didn't say anything,that I will get back to her.

You're wrong op

These Bros ain't loyal... cool

Re: Was I Wrong? by deadie(m): 6:19pm On Apr 16, 2015

jaymichael:
Your loyalty should be to nobody, but to the path of TRUTH, JUSTICE, EQUITY and FAIRNESS. If you ve done the right thing according to the best of your ability and conscience, you need no justification from anyone.

Word.

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