CFCfan:
I think she's got the cultural differences nailed on. To be honest, it would be difficult for a Nigerian man who has lived a greater part of his life in Nigeria, to share domestic duties with his (Nigerian) wife. After all, he paid a substantial bride price (including stuff on the 'list'); so to him the 'wifely' duties should strictly be left to the woman.

But this is not what the video is about. Basically what she was trying to say was that firstly from her own experiences with some Nigerian men they seem to be a certain way and also want a certain type and she does not fit into that type ( eg her strong personality, age and esp height)and she is okay with that. She is a strong headed woman and if she feels that something is wrong or she is unhappy about something she will let the guy know and a lot of Nigerian guys don't like that too. They prefer docile timid women. She said she is not desperate and also not the type to rush for marriage and just because of age constraints and in the process settling/giving up who she is and what she believes. She is okay with being single even of it means that she has to 'harvest her eggs' . She said she knows there are good Nigerian men out there namely her Dad, bro, brother in law etc. The second video gives a clearer picture of what she was trying to convey.

Subom1:
But this is not what the video is about. Basically what she was trying to say was that firstly from her experiences with some Nigerian men they seem to be a certain way and also want a certain type and she does not fit into that type ( eg her age and height). She is a strong headed woman and if she feels that something is wrong or she is unhappy about something she will let the guy know

The bolded part is still a cultural thing. Like I said earlier, the man (if he grew up in Naija) has the mindset of him being the alpha and omega of the house. There could be some exceptions though, but they could be statistically insignificant.

As for the men being intimidated by her height, it only shows that they are insecure. If I were 5'7" I wouldn't even think of dating her

CFCfan:

The bolded part is still a cultural thing. Like I said earlier, the man (if he grew up in Naija) has the mindset of him being the alpha and omega of the house. There could be some exceptions though, but they could be statistically insignificant.

As for the men being intimidated by her height, it only shows that they are insecure. If I were 5'7" I wouldn't even think of dating her

lol her point exactly that's why if she had to get married to a Nigerian it will have to be a first generation. Btw how tall are you? You seem quite tall

Subom1:
lol her point exactly that's why if she had to get married to a Nigerian it will have to be a first generation. Btw how tall are you? You seem quite tall

I'm 6'2''

CFCfan:

I'm 6'2''

Nice. So would you date a 6'3?

This worwofic chick should shut da hell up already abeg! I stopped watching it when she started coming out with shyte like 'African men like quiet women'. Like seriously? That's so 1920's. Gurl, go get yourself a dummy biko And leave naija men alone.You don't do submissive, then marry your damn dild0! Nansense! And someone please tell her she has nothing going for her in the looks department, she just there...nothing special!

Subom1:
Nice. So would you date a 6'3?

Definitely.

But the age difference between me and this lady would be deal-breaker. She is like 7 years older; not that I would be dating someone similarly younger than me though. I and my gf are almost the same age.

CFCfan:

Definitely.

There is hope after all. She just needs to meet more men like you. Btw I like your profile pic. So sweet

EfemenaXY:


It's a good thing she knows exactly what she wants but at 33 she's not a child and shouldn't be hung up on Nigerian men. Our men are what they are and no tribe/race is perfect. Sure our men have their imperfections, but who doesn't?

She can go marry a Black American if she likes. Why is she so hung up on our men? Na by force to marry? If she's meeting the wrong type, then she should either expand her dating pool (like she knows she should), or she should take a deeper look within herself to find out what sort of person she portrays herself as or the message she gives off about her person

She says she's not trying to bash our men but her video isn't far off from it. Let her find who'll make her happy and quit with the slagging off.

Her comment annoys me jor.

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You get luck say your hubby N'a first generation.
she is so right in everything.
When I sing 24hrs here for Nigerian men to change you think I'm joking.



Esp those typical bushmen that hold on to culture to suffer people around them.

Idowuogbo:
This worwofic chick should shut da hell up already abeg! I stopped watching it when she started coming out with shyte like 'African men like quiet women'. Like seriously? That's so 1920's. Gurl, go get yourself a dummy biko And leave naija men alone.You don't do submissive, then marry your damn dild0! Nansense! And someone please tell her she has nothing going for her in the looks department, she just there...nothing special!

lol Idowuogbo this your mouth o. I must admit her first video was not clear and would offend some people but her second video showed a different side. I kinda understood her better. I think she is pretty though. People just need to calm down it ain't that serious

@ Efemenaxy I see you

Subom1:
There is hope after all. She just needs to meet more men like you. Btw I like your profile pic. So sweet

Thanks

Idowuogbo:
This worwofic chick should shut da hell up already abeg! I stopped watching it when she started coming out with shyte like 'African men like quiet women'. Like seriously? That's so 1920's. Gurl, go get yourself a dummy biko And leave naija men alone.You don't do submissive, then marry your damn dild0! Nansense! And someone please tell her she has nothing going for her in the looks department, she just there...nothing special!

she's fine joor.

T3Amo:
lol Idowuogbo this your mouth o. I must admit her first video was not clear and would offend some people but her second video showed a different side. I kinda understood her better. I think she is pretty though. People just need to calm down it ain't that serious

Hmmm...pretty indeed! without the braids and makeup,the chick looks manly. let me watch second video sha, I can bet with my efo riro it'll be full of generalisations.

cococandy:
she's fine joor.

fine? Really? Coco, she's just there! Brandy lookalike

Gosh! At 6ft3, she is my height. I can understand why guys might be freaked out by her height.
I will reserve my comment, but she surely isn't helping her cause.

Idowuogbo:

fine? Really? Coco, she's just there! Brandy lookalike

well brandy is fine too. Na una know o.
A lady must be really really ugly for me to say she's not fine.

Xiadnat:
I hear you on age, height and so called strong personality.

*sighs*. I date all kinds of men.

I consider myself to have a strong personality, but I think you just need to have proper balance.

There is a proper time for everything; time to be strong and time to be weak. Time to lead, time to follow. Time to be smart and time to be dumb. Time to speak up, time to shut up. Time to laugh, time to cry. Time to work, time to have fun. Time to wear pants, time to wear skirt. Get the point?

Extreme of anything is not good-for most of life's issues. IMHO

Gbammmmmmmmmmest! Chop it!

cococandy:
well brandy is fine too. Na una know o.
A lady must be really really ugly for me to say she's not fine.

hehehe...she's not ugly but she's not smoking hot either. She's in between worwor/fine. ;

Idowuogbo:

hehehe...she's not ugly but she's not smoking hot either. She's in between worwor/fine. ;

ok sha let's leave it at that.

Na her type sha dey reach super model level with that height and slim stature.

cococandy:
ok sha let's leave it at that.

Na her type sha dey reach super model level with that height and slim stature.

Oh yea! I agree. But dem tell you na only fine dey make persin super model?

Idowuogbo:

hehehe...she's not ugly but she's not smoking hot either. She's in between worwor/fine. ;

Idowu leave the girl alone,when are you returning my wig?

I am almost as tall as she is...

edwife:


Idowu leave the girl alone,when are you returning my wig?

I am almost as tall as she is...

So you're a tallie.

@idowu well yea you're right it is not only beauty that qualifies one to be a model.

cococandy:

So you're a tallie.

@idowu well yea you're right it is not only beauty that qualifies one to be a model.

Yes o,mum and dad tallies....my brother is a giant,at the airport people think he is a basketball player...they even ask for his autograph one day

edwife:


Yes o,mum and dad tallies....my brother is a giant,at the airport people think he is a basketball player...they even ask for his autograph one day

wow.

So I'll be looking up to you when we meet
Remind me to wear my tallest heels.

My DH calls me smallie because of how he towers over me when talking to me.
I'm like "sit down and talk to me."

cococandy:
wow.

So I'll be looking up to you when we meet
Remind me to wear my tallest heels.

My DH calls me smallie because of how he towers over me when talking to me.
I'm like "sit down and talk to me."

Lol and to top it all,i wear high heels all the time,except when i am doing school runs...
I am obsessed with heels.

But it's cute,when you have a tall hubby...

edwife:


Yes o,mum and dad tallies....my brother is a giant,at the airport people think he is a basketball player...they even ask for his autograph one day

Tall chelsea fan

CFCfan:

Tall chelsea fan

Lol,you too

edwife:


Idowu leave the girl alone,when are you returning my wig?

I am almost as tall as she is...

for real? Iroko, mehn you tall oo... see me thinking my 5'9 na giraffe tins babe forget that wig joor! I am using it to catch rich men. mama gats look on point 2,4.

EfemenaXY:


It's a good thing she knows exactly what she wants but at 33 she's not a child and shouldn't be hung up on Nigerian men. Our men are what they are and no tribe/race is perfect. Sure our men have their imperfections, but who doesn't?

She can go marry a Black American if she likes. Why is she so hung up on our men? Na by force to marry? If she's meeting the wrong type, then she should either expand her dating pool (like she knows she should), or she should take a deeper look within herself to find out what sort of person she portrays herself as or the message she gives off about her person

She says she's not trying to bash our men but her video isn't far off from it. Let her find who'll make her happy and quit with the slagging off.

Her comment annoys me jor.

CC: Chillisauce. Smartmom. Bukatyne. Ifyalways. Edwife.

Too bad she came across bad Nija men, but then like Efe said every woman to her own, its her choice. I know of AA that make our so 'bad nija men' look like angels. We have the good, bad and the ugly in every part of the world. She can make her choice. It is her life.