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Re: Dating Nigerian Men by Nobody: 6:37am On Apr 26, 2015
EZEIGBO1OFIMO:
99% of BLACK GIRLS IN AMERICA are USELESS. my close friends in america give a better pucture of them. They meet a Nerdy, Techy, and americanized[ due to nerd culture] kibd of Nigerian guy, they reject him with numerous kind of stupid reasons; then they meet a typical NAIJA BAD BOY, and BAAAAAAM!!! they fall, LATER THEY GO ON YOUTUBE AND START CRYING LIKE RABID DOGS......... TAAAAAAAAAAAAAH!!!
Lol. You're probably describing girls in their early 20s (20-23). At that age, they mostly admire guys with 'swag' and a little "bad boy attitude. But as they grow older, those preferences change.

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Re: Dating Nigerian Men by EZEIGBO1OFIMO: 6:41am On Apr 26, 2015
CFCfan:

Lol. You're probably describing girls in their early 20s (20-23). At that age, they mostly admire guys with 'swag' and a little "bad boy attitude. But as they grow older, those preferences change.
so you'll agree that our BIRRIFUL MISSUS is a damaged overused good, and no sane loving Nigerian brother will come withing a 5 mile radius of her breath

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Re: Dating Nigerian Men by Idowuogbo(f): 6:47am On Apr 26, 2015
SirShymexx:


Lol. Not picking on the chic, but everything she said is basically an excuse to mask the lack of suitors
. I honestly don't know why she had to blame Nigerian men for that.
.
at bolded, *nods in agreement* Spot on!!!

Shy, go check out her 'i told him i'm celibate' video and tell me if this chick is pretty. grin grin Coco Nd the lots are finding it difficult to define the word 'FINE'. grin grin

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Re: Dating Nigerian Men by jaybee3(m): 6:52am On Apr 26, 2015
what's with her complex though?
Why make a video to whine if you are supremely comfortable in your own skin

She ain't even all that

#Next!

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Re: Dating Nigerian Men by Idowuogbo(f): 6:52am On Apr 26, 2015
SirShymexx:


So, who's checking for a 33-year old chic that's as tall as a giant? Err, I'd say with the availability of so many beautiful young chics around - she's better off asking her parents to hook her up with some Nigerian guy in Nigeria; any Nigerian man finding it difficult to find a suitable partner in America (it's somewhat difficult for some Nigerian guys to get black chics out here, hence a lot settle for white chics); or an older partner who's either a divorcee, widower, or any guy with kids - than faking the funk on youtube.
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Dating Nigerian Men by EZEIGBO1OFIMO: 6:52am On Apr 26, 2015
Idowuogbo:

at bolded, *nods in agreement* Spot on!!!

Shy, go check out her 'i told him i'm celibate' video and tell me if this chick is pretty. grin grin Coco Nd the lots are finding it difficult to define the word 'FINE'. grin grin

as iiiiin..... so far shes BASHING NAIJA DUDES then shes as BIRRIFUL as kim k

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Re: Dating Nigerian Men by Idowuogbo(f): 6:54am On Apr 26, 2015
jaybee3:
what's with her complex though?
Why make a video to whine if your are supremely comfortable in your own skin

She ain't even all that

#Next!
God bless you my brother! See them screaming pretty like it's going out of fashion. embarassed

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Re: Dating Nigerian Men by cococandy(f): 6:56am On Apr 26, 2015
babyosisi:


But I have to give you a word of caution ahead of time
When his family visits,if they are the vocal type,I promise you someone may say something
Just be prepared
It all depends on if the person is just looking for what to say .. My father-in-law is almost 80 years old and he cleans the toilets in the house by himself.
If you clean them, he will still clean them again. So no need grin.
The first time I went to visit, I woke up in the morning to see him sweeping outside the compound and I was like shocked
" daddy how can you do that when there are grown up kids and grandkids everywhere?"

He refused to let me take it from him.
The kids have given up on trying to convince him otherwise. I don't know if it is a new habit to keep himself busy in old age or something he has always been doing.
Maybe that's where DH got it from
But anybody who sees all that and comes to my house to complain about my DH doing things around the house must be a 'winch'.
I won't even take them seriously.

It is just habit that one can't really break. And I'm glad it is a good habit.

I'll tell the person:

"if you can convince him to not do it, then goodluck.He will even clean what or where you've cleaned before and on weekends when he doesn't work, he will make breakfast before you wake up. so the earlier you stop stressing me, join and enjoy with me,the better for you grin"

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Re: Dating Nigerian Men by Idowuogbo(f): 6:56am On Apr 26, 2015
EZEIGBO1OFIMO:
as iiiiin..... so far shes BASHING NAIJA DUDES then shes as BIRRIFUL as kim k
Lolz...Kim k ke? Whoopi Goldberg set pass am angry grin

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Re: Dating Nigerian Men by cococandy(f): 7:00am On Apr 26, 2015
Idowuogbo:

Lolz...Kim k ke? Whoopi Goldberg set pass am angry grin
Whoopi?
Idowu!

Wait let me watch this thing again sef. Maybe I need glasses.

Ha an. See fine girl with her white teeth cheesy

Re: Dating Nigerian Men by ABEngine(m): 7:07am On Apr 26, 2015
Now I am officially pissed. See you when you get off your high horses, thanks for the advertisement anyway.. That's so bleeping what you want, keep looking. Why is it so dearly difficult to deal with this "Nigerian Men" thing?

Y'all on this high speed lane of thought better try to hit the brakes already rather than force a large chunk of your wants down our throat. You need the kind of dude you can work through and thorough like you make-up bags? We have our needs too, you ain't even with this? Fine, nothing wrong with one more errant kitty, Arrivederci!

Sorry what generation of the Nigerian girl do you belong to again? Take this advise very seriously, go fvck yourself!

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Re: Dating Nigerian Men by Idowuogbo(f): 7:21am On Apr 26, 2015
cococandy:

Whoopi?
Idowu!

Wait let me watch this thing again sef. Maybe I need glasses.

Ha an. See fine girl with her white teeth cheesy
Taa!! Na pancake tinz joor!

See the real thing na...Whoopi cancel this babe big time tongue

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Re: Dating Nigerian Men by Idowuogbo(f): 7:27am On Apr 26, 2015
Lwkmd! This chick is crazy o! She told him she's celibate and when he asked how she copes,she told him she owns a d!Ldo. grin grin grin grin grin E b like say na d machine she go marry last last. grin grin grin grin

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Re: Dating Nigerian Men by cococandy(f): 7:27am On Apr 26, 2015
Idowuogbo:

Taa!! Na pancake tinz joor!

See the real thing na...Whoopi cancel this babe big time tongue
ok I give up lipsrsealed
Re: Dating Nigerian Men by Idowuogbo(f): 7:29am On Apr 26, 2015
cococandy:
ok I give up lipsrsealed
Lmao! Yayy!!! I won!!! *dancing nzogbu nzogbu* grin

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Re: Dating Nigerian Men by Notyourb1tch(f): 8:09am On Apr 26, 2015
Idowuogbo:

Lmao! Yayy!!! I won!!! *dancing nzogbu nzogbu* grin
I don't get why you have to make fun of her looks. You may not think she is beautiful but there is really no reason to tear her down. Women are really our own worst enemy. You will never find a man doing this about another man smdh. I hope you are Beyonce yourself undecided

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Re: Dating Nigerian Men by Notyourb1tch(f): 8:16am On Apr 26, 2015
Firstly she also listed some positives about Nigerian or African men in general. It wasn't all bad. People have different opinions and experiences and she specifically stated that it's not all Nigerian men but the ones that she encountered.

In life people will always say something you don't like. That's the reality of it and you don't have to accept it or like it but there is really no need for certain holier than though people to go on a tangent about this.

Some people will relate to what she has said cos they have experienced it and some people will not because they have not.

About the age thing. She did not become 33 in 1 day. It's obvious this thing has been going on for a long time. She has said that she does not want to get married because of age and settle. A lot of women find themselves in this boat and settle for anything because of age and then we start hearing about stories that touch.

Lastly 33 isn't old. It's grown. This type of thing is always said by a man who is in his 40s himself. Smh.

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Re: Dating Nigerian Men by Idowuogbo(f): 8:52am On Apr 26, 2015
Notyourb1tch:
I don't get why you have to make fun of her looks. You may not think she is beautiful but there is really no reason to tear her down. Women are really our own worst enemy. You will never find a man doing this about another man smdh. I hope you are Beyonce yourself undecided
I'm not Beyonce. I'm ME!!! Idowuogbo aka BADOSKY. Secondly, I have a right to air my opinion on someone generalising and going on like she's all that.To bad you see it as tearing her down.IMHO, i would expect someone posting videos up n down ranting about Nigeria men to be all that and more! She's none of the above. Ya Dig?! undecided

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Re: Dating Nigerian Men by xynerise(m): 9:00am On Apr 26, 2015
Idowuogbo:

Taa!! Na pancake tinz joor!

See the real thing na...Whoopi cancel this babe big time tongue
.
Damn!
Re: Dating Nigerian Men by Notyourb1tch(f): 9:09am On Apr 26, 2015
Idowuogbo:
I'm not Beyonce. I'm ME!!! Idowuogbo aka BADOSKY. Secondly, I have a right to air my opinion on someone generalising and going on like she's all that.To bad you see it as tearing her down.IMHO, i would expect someone posting videos up n down ranting about Nigeria men to be all that and more! She's none of the above. Ya Dig?! undecided
How is she generalising when she specifically stated that its based on her own experience? I know that if this video was why I don't date Nigerian Women there would be a lot of different comments and the guy would not be bashed and insulted like how this lady is. Anyways do whatever you need to do. If bashing people on their looks is your thing well who am I to say otherwise

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Re: Dating Nigerian Men by Idowuogbo(f): 9:19am On Apr 26, 2015
Notyourb1tch:
How is she generalising when she specifically stated that its based on her own experience? I know that if this video was why I don't date Nigerian Women there would be a lot of different comments and the guy would not be bashed and insulted like how this lady is. Anyways do whatever you need to do. If bashing people on their looks is your thing well who am I to say otherwise
@ bolded, did you watch the first video? if yes, please tell me what you class as generalising. So its ok for her to rant like she's dated all African men to know exactly what their expectations are right? Tbh, she had some valid points in her second video but IMO that vid was used to save face.

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Re: Dating Nigerian Men by Nobody: 10:13am On Apr 26, 2015
T3Amo:
This is not a bashing video but I just found it interesting especially those Nigerians in the Diaspora will definitely relate to this. What do you ladies think? Men do you agree with what she is saying?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KILpmi8f2js





i love her. she is totally right

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Re: Dating Nigerian Men by 50calibre(m): 10:16am On Apr 26, 2015
T3Amo:
This is not a bashing video but I just found it interesting especially those Nigerians in the Diaspora will definitely relate to this. What do you ladies think? Men do you agree with what she is saying?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KILpmi8f2js



Cc: Idowuogbo, Ilekeh, Subom1, Babyosisi, Cococandy, Efemenaxy, onila, coogar, sagamite, SirShymexx, truckpusher,50caliber, MrsChima

This androgenic looking chic thinks she's Queen of sheeba, for fuc*k sake she's 33 years old and 6 ft 3... for a woman, thats a proper giant height, she's as tall as that freak lady from Game of Thrones. Shi*t!!!

I'm not even that tall, I'm 6 ft 1/2 without shoes, but fairly buff so I'd say I'm hardly intimidated by a woman's height but I just don't like the idea of dating a taller chic, it looks weird. I don't want to be walking around with some female Lebron James.

This chic can put African men on blast all she wants but the truth is that most guys won't go anywhere near a chic that tall, it's unfortunate that at 33 she's yet to figure that out, she's proud to say she wears heels, making her anywhere near 6 ft 6 damn!!!!

The earlier this deluded chic drops her lofty standards, the better for her. She should temper that height and age with a meek attitude

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Re: Dating Nigerian Men by Nobody: 10:16am On Apr 26, 2015
SirShymexx:


Lol. Not picking on the chic, but everything she said is basically an excuse to mask the lack of suitors. I honestly don't know why she had to blame Nigerian men for that.

I'd wager that the US is like the UK, just like the rest of the black diaspora in the west. The chic is far older than me, and 80-90% of my friends have got at least one kid (some had the first kid during teenage years in College). And the rest of us who're still living that free life with no baggage, date chics younger than us, and we look at chics around our age as damaged goods.

So, who's checking for a 33-year old chic that's as tall as a giant? Err, I'd say with the availability of so many beautiful young chics around - she's better off asking her parents to hook her up with some Nigerian guy in Nigeria; any Nigerian man finding it difficult to find a suitable partner in America (it's somewhat difficult for some Nigerian guys to get black chics out here, hence a lot settle for white chics); or an older partner who's either a divorcee, widower, or any guy with kids - than faking the funk on youtube.

i think a lot of guys are checking her because she has everything in her and her video was especially about u. don't be a drama queen and just shut it

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Re: Dating Nigerian Men by Nobody: 10:19am On Apr 26, 2015
woky:
Don't care to know what the video is
talking about
All I know is.. if your boyfriend is not a Nigerian, you are missing cool

praise yourself because to be honest nothing else left there ... undecided
Re: Dating Nigerian Men by EZEIGBO1OFIMO: 10:46am On Apr 26, 2015
50calibre:


This androgenic looking chic thinks she's Queen of sheeba, for fuc*k sake she's 33 years old and 6 ft 3... for a woman, thats a proper giant height, she's as tall as that freak lady from Game of Thrones. Shi*t!!!

I'm not even that tall, I'm 6 ft 1/2 without shoes, but fairly buff so I'd say I'm hardly intimidated by a woman's height but I just don't like the idea of dating a taller chic, it looks weird. I don't want to be walking around with some female Lebron James.

This chic can put African men on blast all she wants but the truth is that most guys won't go anywhere near a chic that tall, it's unfortunate that at 33 she's yet to figure that out, she's proud to say she wears hills, making her anywhere near 6 ft 6 damn!!!!

The earlier this deluded chic drops her lofty standards, the better for her. She should temper that height and age with a meek attitude
GBAM!!!
Re: Dating Nigerian Men by EZEIGBO1OFIMO: 10:50am On Apr 26, 2015
gofyourself:



i love her. she is totally right


yeah yeah yeah..... she's right because all Nigerian men are loosers...... including your DAD!!

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Re: Dating Nigerian Men by 50calibre(m): 11:54am On Apr 26, 2015
Idowuogbo:
Lwkmd! This chick is crazy o! She told him she's celibate and when he asked how she copes,she told him she owns a d!Ldo. grin grin grin grin grin E b like say na d machine she go marry last last. grin grin grin grin

Holy shi*t hahahahahahaha

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Re: Dating Nigerian Men by SirShymexx: 2:21pm On Apr 26, 2015
gofyourself:


i think a lot of guys are checking her because she has everything in her and her video was especially about u. don't be a drama queen and just shut it

Lol. How was her silly video about me when I'm not in the "Nigerian men" box (the ones she was blaming for lack of suitors)? And when did I start checking drag queens with big bones? If I decide to smack you with the hand of God just for the fun of it right now, you lot are going to start crying everywhere about how abusive and harsh shymmex is. I still don't know what's wrong with you insolent and utterly disrespectful chicken headed biitches on this forum. Like seriously, can't you skets quote folks politely without running ya mouths like blinkered i.diots with no home training by decent parents?

Who gives a shiit about a Nephilim looking heifer and a drag-queen with extremely big bones? I wouldn't even be on the thread, if my handle wasn't tagged. And I watched the video to get a good laugh about culture clash - not all the tripe she was alluding to.

Biitch doesn't even sound like a Nigerian born in America (her accent is a give away). She probably moved there when she was young. Tell her to find a day job. And if anything I've seen on Jerry Springer and Maury is anything to go by, she might be lucky to find a ghetto hoodrat to wife her up. Lawd knows I've seen extremely undesirable fat biitches married to decent looking bums on there (pause! no homo!). grin

Get a life, biitch and stay off my mentions. The truth is bitter!

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Re: Dating Nigerian Men by Subom1(f): 2:48pm On Apr 26, 2015
The way some of you are killing yourselves over a lady who does not even know you exist. Pele o grin grin

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Re: Dating Nigerian Men by Nobody: 2:48pm On Apr 26, 2015
cococandy:
It all depends on if the person is just looking for what to say .. My father-in-law is almost 80 years old and he cleans the toilets in the house by himself.
If you clean them, he will still clean them again. So no need grin.
The first time I went to visit, I woke up in the morning to see him sweeping outside the compound and I was like shocked
" daddy how can you do that when there are grown up kids and grandkids everywhere?"

He refused to let me take it from him.
The kids have given up on trying to convince him otherwise. I don't know if it is a new habit to keep himself busy in old age or something he has always been doing.
Maybe that's where DH got it from
But anybody who sees all that and comes to my house to complain about my DH doing things around the house must be a 'winch'.
I won't even take them seriously.

It is just habit that one can't really break. And I'm glad it is a good habit.

I'll tell the person:

"if you can convince him to not do it, then goodluck.He will even clean what or where you've cleaned before and on weekends when he doesn't work, he will make breakfast before you wake up. so the earlier you stop stressing me, join and enjoy with me,the better for you grin"

Yours is a unique case wallahi
Incredible !!
You have no issues there then
Your man is a chip off the old block and his family is used to that
Very impressive

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Re: Dating Nigerian Men by EZEIGBO1OFIMO: 2:51pm On Apr 26, 2015
the way people potray their family and marital life on NL, one would think NL'ers are children of aphrodite and descendants of the godess of love.

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