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**Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by Rapmoney(m): 9:21pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
Sincerely speaking, my Nigerian brothers are falling my hands big time!!! Often times, I hear people (including the male folks!) Saying 'young women that are successful in their respective careers and probably drive cars are no-go area!' That's a huge sign of inferiority complex and an exhibition of shallow mentality! Is it really an exclusive right for men only to be successful and own cars? Why do we have young women schooling or learning a trade? Is it not to be successful in their chosen careers? Do we expect these women to subject themselves to lack and poverty? Today, most Nigerian ladies who are successful and unmarried are normally seen as a no-go area for men. They label such women as disrespectful and not submissive under wrong assumptions! This clearly shows a poor mentality of the male folks!!! Nigerian guys need to live above this poor mentality and accept the fact that becoming successful is not an exclusive right of the male folks...success is all encompassing and can be attained by anyone, irrespective of gender! Please, feel free to share your views. Peace! 98 Likes 16 Shares |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by elantraceey(f): 9:30pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
Preach on 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by bukatyne(f): 9:34pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
Nigerian society measure the headship or 'goodness' of a husband based on his pocket. They also see the headship as a license to do as they wish aka unquestionable A typical Nigerian husband wants to be the 'head' So his pockets has to be heavier than that of his wife. A number of women do not want to marry a husband that is not the 'head' Some of the women who earn higher are also very heady too 114 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by Rapmoney(m): 9:35pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
elantraceey:Am just stating the fact because it seems male folks in this part of the world are still holding on to some trashy societal beliefs and having numerous false assumptions! 1 Like |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by DahtzFestjayz: 9:40pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
Its true. 1 Like |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by elantraceey(f): 9:42pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
Rapmoney: will you get married to a woman who is far richer than you without feeling inferior at times? 16 Likes |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by Rapmoney(m): 9:42pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
bukatyne:So women are even helping the men with such assumptions? My sympathy! 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by bukatyne(f): 9:43pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
Rapmoney: It is a cycle. |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by oloyede252(m): 9:44pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
so if your scared of something it equally mean you have low mentality abi,,,,,,op I tire for you o..... 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by Rapmoney(m): 9:45pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
elantraceey:So why do men in other climes not having same thinking if it is not a false trashy societal belief held by Nigerian men? 5 Likes |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by cococandy(f): 9:46pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
So it's all about head huh? bukatyne: 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by Rapmoney(m): 9:47pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
oloyede252:Low mentality in thinking must have led to them being scared! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by cococandy(f): 9:49pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
elantraceey:my dear you will only feel inferior if you're really inferior as a person compared to Your partner. Money or not. So if a guy feels inferior to his woman, he's probably truly inferior. If you're a great quality person, even the one with money will respect you willingly or unwillingly. You will just command the respect without trying to. 34 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by Nobody: 9:54pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
Oga wetin be low mentality again Meanwhile no body was born with. A Mind of his own U learn from what u model from ur environment 5 Likes |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by whizjay(m): 9:59pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
Nice write up... Well.... The idea of the female being more financially buoyant in a relationship tends to weigh down the alpha status of the male.. The Ordinary Nigerian man won't like to be involved in a relationship with such women because he fears that she would become depend less on him as the provider, this eventually make her less submissive and disrespectful... This type of relationship works, Only when there's understanding.... Humility, from both partners.. One-ness... And most importantly Love.. 32 Likes 1 Share |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by bukatyne(f): 9:59pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
cococandy: Absolutely! Their reasons might be: She will be heady She will be uncontrollable He will not have a say Etc. Etc. All back to 'headship' |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by elantraceey(f): 10:02pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
Rapmoney: Well that didn't answer my question, you're a part of the nigeria men remember. 4 Likes |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by elantraceey(f): 10:04pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
cococandy: you're right but sadly they don't know this and that's why they'll continue to feel inferior. 3 Likes |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by Rapmoney(m): 10:11pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
cococandy:You deserve a medal for this, I must tell you! 4 Likes |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by Rapmoney(m): 10:12pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
elantraceey:Yeah, am a Nigerian man but I don't have such backward mentality! 10 Likes |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by Rapmoney(m): 10:15pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
bukatyne:When you feel insecure about the success of another person, be it your spouse or not, there's an atom of inferiority complex. 6 Likes |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by okotv(m): 10:16pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
Thank God for the church I was raised up in. |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by Rapmoney(m): 10:17pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
DahtzFestjayz: |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by cococandy(f): 10:17pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
bukatyne:It is all about the head. Always has been Who's head is bigger? "My head is bigger than yours. damn right. It's bigger than yours" 14 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by Rapmoney(m): 10:18pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
okotv:What is it about the church? 2 Likes |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by naijaboiy: 10:20pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by okotv(m): 10:26pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
Rapmoney:What I was taught about marriage helps in excluding all these inferiority complexes and all what not in the 21st century marriages. 3 Likes |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by Twaci(f): 10:30pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
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Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by Twaci(f): 10:30pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
There was this story I heard one time, a guy saw a girl in a shopping mall and approached her. They talked...gisted was more like it and even exchanged numbers. The guy didn't call back and refused to pick her calls later on. Why? "She paid my bills -" he had replied. And I asked myself, so what? But then he finished his sentence. "- it was worth N52, 500" More to that, another thing that had got to him was the fact that the girl drove off in a sweet ride while he had hailed a taxi. Thanks for the info Rapmoney, hope guys read and understand this. 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by bukatyne(f): 10:34pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
Rapmoney: True 3 Likes |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by bukatyne(f): 10:35pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
cococandy: Lol! I need to get tape rule immediately |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by Nobody: 10:37pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
cococandy:Must men want women to worship them? Jeez! Even if she's not successful that doesn't mean she should worship him. For what? Respect is reciprocal. Husband and wife should respect each other, irregardless. 14 Likes 1 Share |
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