obeezydabs:
Hi.

I am also Chicago. I guess its not a cheap city thats why. My hospital options are around 10k plus (Dr + c/s or normal + epidural + 2day stay). I should be there in June by God's grace. I remember sending you a mail last week but i got no response.

All the best.

cutesilva1992:
with due respect at @Olokings, am sure u are not an illiterate to understand that not been financially capable is not the same a been broke? Is true that I have not travelled and I lack experience in travelling to usa for child birth but that doesn't mean that I should create a twist or are u going to pay me if I do so? Nobody knows me here and am the person that asked my question by myself so why should I twist my words to pls u or what? Thanks phema and co for ur ans am humbly grateful.

cutesilva1992:
thanks very much for your answers. But is true that I don't have an official job yet but I own a boutique which I combine with my schooling and I also hav upto 2.3m in my acct. I don't want use my acct bcs I feel that the money there might not be enough for VO interview and also bcs I don't want to appear as a fraud since am just a student and a part time businesswoman. On the part of my UK bf, I don't want to use him as my sponsor since his a U K citizen bcs of the obvious questions like y don't I want to give birth in UK. We decided that USA is better bcs I have some family there. My male friend who I want to use as my sponsor, I want to use him bcs of his statement of acct not bcs his going to sponsor me financially. My Bf and I are going to take care of all our expenses.

cutesilva1992:
thanks so much @Girlmummy, but I have a friend who applied for visa late last year and she said she was disqualified bcs she had only 3m her acct, she's not schooling anymore, she's a working class. Am really scared that was why I was thinking that using another person's own will be better. But I believe in God and I will do like you said. I will apply for interview tomorow. And let the house know how it went.

cutesilva1992:
with due respect at @Olokings, am sure u are not an illiterate to understand that not been financially capable is not the same a been broke? Is true that I have not travelled and I lack experience in travelling to usa for child birth but that doesn't mean that I should create a twist or are u going to pay me if I do so? Nobody knows me here and am the person that asked my question by myself so why should I twist my words to pls u or what? Thanks phema and co for ur ans am humbly grateful.

Phema:


Is your business registered? How long have you had it running?

Phema:


1. You are not working (Not financially stable)
2. You are not married (No ties)
3. You do not have any kids (No ties)
4. Your boyfriend is not sponsoring you. A married male friend is. What does this friend intend to gain by sponsoring you to go have another man's child in the US?
5. Your boyfriend is British, yet you two are not considering having your baby in the UK. What reason will you give for choosing the US?

You are in your early 20s. Young, no ties to home country, pregnant and being sponsored by a male friend (who is not the father of the unborn child ooo). . .

Be honest, if you are a VO, will you give you a visa?

No pun intended.

Phema:


Another person's husband "your husband to be''? . Bia this girl, do your parents even know you're pregnant?

[s]Aswear, I've been itching to ask you that question[/s]

cutesilva1992:
Pls pardon me, I just noticed that some good people tried to send me an e mail but I really don't know how it works! Pls if u can send it directly to my e mail I will be grateful. Marynwaoba@yahoo.com

Sister, isn't you BF a british citizen? And from the little I know his status ensures your kid is born one too, so why doesn't he marry you and give his child his name&identity?

Unless there is another twist in this plot?

modath:




@Nogen,
Thank God for your life, you were just a step away from going missing? Covetous people don't need a reason to snap & take you out.

modath:


Sister, isn't you BF a british citizen? And from the little I know his status ensures your kid is born one too, so why doesn't he marry you and give his child his name&identity?

Unless there is another twist in this plot?


@Phema,
Diaris goodu ooo

@Nogen,
Thank God for your life, you were just a step away from going missing? Covetous people don't need a reason to snap & take you out.

Phema:


Another person's husband "your husband to be''? . Bia this girl, do your parents even know you're pregnant?

[s]Aswear, I've been itching to ask you that question[/s]

Tiwalope:
a chara mara

Hi dear,everybody has got our past issues,the most important thing is to have a right standing with Godd,that settles it.

With the 2.3,i believe u should be aable to make a case if you stick to the truth and package every necessary documents,just take the pains of reading the thread carefully,u will find answers to your questions and if. VO doessnt feel so strongly abt ur stories,u can apply again,may be with the sponspor,but in all don't be desperate to make the vo have an impression you want to migrate.

All the best

cutesilva1992:
no is not registered yet but I have been doing it for 2years now.

Newmum0615:
Phema stop naa. Let me work. My hands are shaking from laughter. U will not make heaven with all these comments

woaini:

Hhhahahhahahahhahahahhahaha ewooooo....... phema ooo

Hawttattoo:
Biko Mbok I need urgent help from those wey Sabi pass me. I don ask this question in the visa forum but no answer yet

.... I was helping my sister with her DSL-160 form.we got to the last applicant being our mum and our system short down. I think maybe the time elapsed. Now we have gotten confirmation email for other applicant but we can't retrieve Her application(we are to input the application number which we totally forgot to copy but we've put the application number of the applicant befor hers with the security question but it's saying incorrect even thou it correct. Pls my question is, how do we go about completing this form and scheduling an appointment. Do we need to fill all the forms afresh ?Pls I need all the help. Thanks

olokings:


some? .... naah.. there are lots...he 's not the father.. he is a married man.. he is your sponsor..!
bekoo.. i am a man and there is no way.. even under juju weh i go sponser another dude's baby to be birthed in the states..

buh then.. this is naija.. anything can happen

shimk:
@ slimwendy and dittobaby

cutesilva1992:
. Lol! The way some matured people ask some certain question u will actually wonder if they are all a saint, plz if u can ans these questions, I will be grateful. Did u marry all the guys you dated? Will u abort ur child or kill urself is ur bf is not ready for marriage? Can u force him to marry u just bcs u are pregnant and and his a UK citizen but of u are not ready for marriage? Plz don't ask any question for asking sake. What ever decision I take now, I do bcs of our baby! If we marry later good and if we don't, my child wil have a bright future. Ndi oka chara mara

Phema:


You are just a few weeks gone right? Is there anyway you can register your business sharperly?

You two should apply so you can attend the interview together. If he's asked why he doesn't want to go through the 'visa on arrival' route, he should say he wants a visa that can allow him stay more than 90days, just incase there is a need for that. You two should co - sponsor. Go with both account statements. If your business issue comes up, say you have been doing the business for some time now, but just got it registered.

I know marriage is not in the plan, but you might just have to put it in the plan, atleast for the interview. Go as 'would be couple' getting married towards the end of the year. Go with pictures you two took together. Anything that shows a real relationship.

Make appropriate arrangement for hospital, Dr, accommodation etc. Draft a budget plan. If the issue of why u chose US over UK comes up, go with the popular 'cos US has the best healthcare in the world '

I won't say your chances are great, but with good packaging and God on your side, you might just be pleasantly surprised. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Go for it. Good luck.

Phema:


If you have forgotten her app number, maybe you should fill another ds 160 for her, book another appointment, but let her go with the others on the day of their interview.

Phema:


You are just a few weeks gone right? Is there anyway you can register your business sharperly?

You two should apply so you can attend the interview together. If he's asked why he doesn't want to go through the 'visa on arrival' route, he should say he wants a visa that can allow him stay more than 90days, just incase there is a need for that. You two should co - sponsor. Go with both account statements. If your business issue comes up, say you have been doing the business for some time now, but just got it registered.

I know marriage is not in the plan, but you might just have to put it in the plan, atleast for the interview. Go as 'would be couple' getting married towards the end of the year. Go with pictures you two took together. Anything that shows a real relationship.

Make appropriate arrangement for hospital, Dr, accommodation etc. Draft a budget plan. If the issue of why u chose US over UK comes up, go with the popular 'cos US has the best healthcare in the world '

I won't say your chances are great, but with good packaging and God on your side, you might just be pleasantly surprised. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Go for it. Good luck.