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johnshagb:
Stubborn kwanu? You hustle in the current harsh economy of ours just to make sure she's okay and you mean all she serve you is stubbornness everyday?
Bone that thing, na her papa house sure pass. If you develop high blood pressure and die from its complications (God forbid) she'll morn for a while and jump on the next man available. I don't pray for a broken home but I promise myself no woman will take me for a ride. YOLO

icedbeatz:
Nooooooo! someone didn't marry him rather a special, wonderful, amazing and graceful lady married him unlike you dumb, telemundo mofokas we see gallivanting and ranting about everywhere. Let me tell you something that lady is a rare gem because she has the qualities of a wife or a lady that deserves to be married.

1. her level of tolerance is adorable..
2. she loves unconditionally (like only a mother would)

3. she is caring to a fault which I and almost all guys would want in a lady.

4. she has a sweet heart that forgives so gracefully and that makes her an angel.

5. she's not vengeful like most of you mofos,

6. she knows/understands how a man's mind works (she truly thinks like a man) consciously or unconsciously which makes her a TRUE AFRICAN QUEEN,

7. Shes well trained because a lot if you would have killed that nigga or shower him with insults that are out if this planet because most if you are inventors when it's comes to insults, e.g here on nairaland.

8. she has a very strong mind and essence because after all she went through she didn't let it define who she is.

9. She's secure because she knows what she wants like her husband and most importantly HOW TO GET IT, which most of you twerps just don't and because she didn't leave the guy just to prove that she's "secured" (insecure people always want to prove that they're not insecure)

10. I can go on and on but lemme stop here she's wise unlike most ladies that walk around with HALF BURNT BRAIN CELLS from the saloon drier.

@freecocoa ihuomadinihu bukatyne evegreen

jadelyn007:
its unfortunate that as old as u claim to be, you do not have any scruples! Imagine an old man using such words as CUN-T on a public forum. What more can I say other than you and your wife deserve each other.

Fortunately, I am not part of your lowlife, pyschopatic, masochist bullshyte and I am lucky to have a man who LOVES me, TRUSTS me and RESPECT me, a self confident man who believes he has what it takes to attract the right kind of person.
He didn't have to test me to know if I am the right kind of woman for him because he is a highly intelligent individual whose 6th sense is functioning.
Cest fini

Ihuomadinihu:
Only Africa! Because African mindset has unconsciously wired to think like that.

freecocoa:
Lmao .

You must think yourself some sort of god to be worshiped or something, wake up from your slumber you dumb a$$, loser. Your type can only end up with women without self worth, only such people allow themselves be treated like trash because they practically can't use their brains, go play with yourself man, you can't measure up.

5minsmadness:
Omg!
Fantastic post bro!
Manlove! (no homo)

icedbeatz:
Nooooooo! someone didn't marry him rather a special, wonderful, amazing and graceful lady married him unlike you dumb, telemundo mofokas we see gallivanting and ranting about everywhere. Let me tell you something that lady is a rare gem because she has the qualities of a wife or a lady that deserves to be married.

1. her level of tolerance is adorable..
2. she loves unconditionally (like only a mother would)

3. she is caring to a fault which I and almost all guys would want in a lady.

4. she has a sweet heart that forgives so gracefully and that makes her an angel.

5. she's not vengeful like most of you mofos,

6. she knows/understands how a man's mind works (she truly thinks like a man) consciously or unconsciously which makes her a TRUE AFRICAN QUEEN,

7. Shes well trained because a lot if you would have killed that nigga or shower him with insults that are out if this planet because most if you are inventors when it's comes to insults, e.g here on nairaland.

8. she has a very strong mind and essence because after all she went through she didn't let it define who she is.

9. She's secure because she knows what she wants like her husband and most importantly HOW TO GET IT, which most of you twerps just don't and because she didn't leave the guy just to prove that she's "secured" (insecure people always want to prove that they're not insecure)

10. I can go on and on but lemme stop here she's wise unlike most ladies that walk around with HALF BURNT BRAIN CELLS from the saloon drier.

@freecocoa ihuomadinihu bukatyne evegreen

nairalife2013:
don't wallow in self, pity woman. I thot u were an americana who uses words indiscriminately. So u have honour? I thot u schooled in yankee. Well, to break it down for u, the words is an adage used by elders to put a lock to chattering mouths that defies all bids to have it even partially closed. Women dey red cun-t, dem no dey red mouth. Go and wash yur hands well so u can dine wid elders.

onelife97:
@op,permit me to tell u my personal experience.
I got married abt 5 years ago and have a 4yr old boy.But ever since my wife delivered the boy,my life has become unbearable and very difficult to move on.my opinion in any matter with my so called wife mother of my son never counts.But she LL have to confide ir seek advice from unknown people online or her racist family b4 she LL to what I say even though she LL never bring any I her own idea to the table.If u ask my wife a million questions,I bet u csn only get one answer everytime"I DON'T KNOW".those has been goin on for the past 4 years.for more than 3 years,she won't even sleep with me in the sane too let alone make love/have sex with me.I can count how many times we did it in the past years.
Anyway,to cut the long story short,I decided to look for another girl because I won't kill myself with depression.
So sometimes last week,I was talkin to a girl on phone and she was eavesdropping and I got caught.
However,I was thinkin there would be problem in the house and heaven might fall and the hell would break loose.But to my deepest surprise my wife has been treating m like a man of the house now.askin me for sex without rubber etc.
So I have learnt a new lesson now.WOMEN DON'T APPRECIATE GOOD GUYS WHICH I HAVE BEEN ALL THESE YEARS.
Unfortunately for her,I am gone and no looking back.just waiting for something and she LL be completely out of my life.

I won't tell u what to do with urs.u know her and u know the best for ya.think it thru and take ur best decision without anybody interference pls.

Women are not supposed to be over- pampered.

cococandy:
@bold, just hire a maid and your problems will be solved.

I don't believe all that nonsense you typed there is for a woman born and raised by someone.
If she's my daughter, I'll come take her back and douse you in cold water so that you will sit down for a moment and think about your foolishness.

Who's raising all these men with warped mentality everywhere? what's actually responsible for the lack of respect most of you have for your wives?
SMH.

icedbeatz:
are you in America?!? or Asia?! even in these countries white women that understands men and how to enjoy the best of their marriage do that too, while those that want child support payments and free life without direction and guidance do the crazy things that the media is using to brainwash the naive ladies. If you really read your Bible you would learn a lot if things because that's the best and most educative book to study. A MAN and a woman were never meant to be at the same level, a woman is supposed to be "UNDER" her husband( a reasonable man and not the few id1ots portraying as men) whom is supposed to love, care, protect and cherish his wife while the wife reciprocate the feelings, so if you want to be under/with a man then you should be ready to take guidance and other positive things that comes with and the few bad parts because no one is perfect likewise the man.
at the end of the day some SMART ladies will learn while MOST of the dumb, porous brained ones will still do what they do best.

Eke40seven:
You must understand that there are so many weaklings parading as men, the only way they can assert "power" over another is by using brutal force to do that over someone who is seemingly weaker physically.
I personally can't stand that, the last time that happened in my presence, I climbed over the fence and I gave the guy a beating, because I knew most woman beaters are weak, and my then 19 year old muscles was enough to deliver a few tysonlike punches and it was a relishing and got him sprawling on the ground writhing in pains. I wouldn't do that again now though..

cococandy:
Yea. Hail the pyscho.

After you will come to another thread and pretend like you don't support emotional and physical abuse on women when the truth is that you do.

When asked you try whitewash it and make it sound like you don't know what you're rooting for or supporting.
We know all of you
Supporters of abusers are abusers themselves. there's no euphemism for it.

icedbeatz:
lol LMAO ihuoma dear you are funny ooo, that your ex boyfriend was really a bitcch lol, no offence dear he's just a pussi nigga. BTW I don't any physical violence unless it's due or for a reason or unavoidable. I like your spirit though but my dear easy relationship is not a thug of war its about loving, sharing and caring .

icedbeatz:
Nooooooo! someone didn't marry him rather a special, wonderful, amazing and graceful lady married him unlike you dumb, telemundo mofokas we see gallivanting and ranting about everywhere. Let me tell you something that lady is a rare gem because she has the qualities of a wife or a lady that deserves to be married.

1. her level of tolerance is adorable..
2. she loves unconditionally (like only a mother would)

3. she is caring to a fault which I and almost all guys would want in a lady.

4. she has a sweet heart that forgives so gracefully and that makes her an angel.

5. she's not vengeful like most of you mofos,

6. she knows/understands how a man's mind works (she truly thinks like a man) consciously or unconsciously which makes her a TRUE AFRICAN QUEEN,

7. Shes well trained because a lot if you would have killed that nigga or shower him with insults that are out if this planet because most if you are inventors when it's comes to insults, e.g here on nairaland.

8. she has a very strong mind and essence because after all she went through she didn't let it define who she is.

9. She's secure because she knows what she wants like her husband and most importantly HOW TO GET IT, which most of you twerps just don't and because she didn't leave the guy just to prove that she's "secured" (insecure people always want to prove that they're not insecure)

10. I can go on and on but lemme stop here she's wise unlike most ladies that walk around with HALF BURNT BRAIN CELLS from the saloon drier.

@freecocoa ihuomadinihu bukatyne evegreen

cococandy:
Yea. Hail the pyscho.

After you will come to another thread and pretend like you don't support emotional and physical abuse on women when the truth is that you do.

When asked you try whitewash it and make it sound like you don't know what you're rooting for or supporting.
We know all of you
Supporters of abusers are abusers themselves. there's no euphemism for it.

icedbeatz:
are you in America?!? or Asia?! even in these countries white women that understands men and how to enjoy the best of their marriage do that too, while those that want child support payments and free life without direction and guidance do the crazy things that the media is using to brainwash the naive ladies. If you really read your Bible you would learn a lot if things because that's the best and most educative book to study. A MAN and a woman were never meant to be at the same level, a woman is supposed to be "UNDER" her husband( a reasonable man and not the few id1ots portraying as men) whom is supposed to love, care, protect and cherish his wife while the wife reciprocate the feelings, so if you want to be under/with a man then you should be ready to take guidance and other positive things that comes with and the few bad parts because no one is perfect likewise the man.
at the end of the day some SMART ladies will learn while MOST of the dumb, porous brained ones will still do what they do best.

Ihuomadinihu:
If you feel tormenting a woman is right and should be a test of loyalty,faithfulness and love,then most women will end up in psychiatrist wards today. I find it hard to understand how people support this test. If you married a woman and she turns bad after marriage wouldn't you understand that she was only hiding her true intentions and only hooked you with marriage.
Tormenting her and subjecting her to all types of test will only cool her down for a while and that doesn't make you a real man.
97percent of men on this thread are just cowards.
If per adventure you are going through same experience,you are only responsible for your errors.
I bet you also approved where he stated that all women must be controlled cos they have nothing upstairs?

Evegreen:
you should have read my 2nd comment/quote further down the page before saying all these. With all these your slangs and abusive words at people you don't even knw, you don't sound like a good husband material. Work on yourself before looking for a wife to turn into a dummy. Its an open forum here; share your opinion and I share mine.

vislabraye:
I don't really agree with your first paragraph. As a father and a husband, you can't be ignorant about what happens to your child. If what the op said is accurate, then the husband has to be involved to some aspect.

lezz:
the word tormenting has been used only by critics here.

Love,fidelity and loyalty in a relationship are not to be demanded. they should be earned. that's when the TESTING comes in.

Note , the OP never said he hit his wife. if he ever said so, he refuted it in a later post. and in all honesty psychological testing seem to be the exclusive skills of females.

while i wont like to further address the OP because he is a married man with a family who wrongly gauged the maturity level of his critics here.

marriage is a sacrament and a mystery forever to be revered and respected.

many of you aren't married yet and busy boasting about an exam you have not written yet.

Ihuomadinihu:
Bible? Am yet to read that Adam,Abraham,David,Solomon, Joseph and Jacob subdued and dominated a woman for respect. You probably have to read your bible again. All these men had wives and they never had to see them as lower beings, who are supposed to bow before their rubbish. Infact all the women in the Bible were wise enough to leave 1diot. Read up the story of Abigali,the wife of David.

Ihuomadinihu:
Why are you still talking about your wife's red cun-t? Tell her to go and wash it,you have abused it enough. Shameless coward!

5minsmadness:

nairalife2013:
thatz not the latest gist. Go through the thread again and be well guided.

icedbeatz:
I never used the word SUBDUE OR DOMINATE, of course a lady or wife should have her own opinions about things in relationships and marriages. My point is that a stubborn, disrespectful, stupid, uncaring, nagging or insulting wife is what and I mean what I CANNOT TOLERATE AT ALL apart from when she's pregnant with the mood swings and all that but never from a sane woman because I just simply HATE foolishness. is that a bad thing?!

cococandy:
it is not funny

Let me catch you lying again.

Bollinger:
Yep. Posting for the sake of it. This m.oron forgets we are not dealing with a loving wife but a troublesome wench. Drastic times requires measures. Nowhere in my post did i say lay a finger on her. Just psychological manipulation to correct a deficiency. Let me guess you are going to suggest loving her till she changes. Newsflash, that's how the OP got into the mess he is now. And this mentality that once you are married love alone will solve everything. Good luck with that. Being married is like running a company, as much as you use your heart, you also use your head.

cococandy:
Bla bla bla. Baby goat