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Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by lezz(m): 2:30am On May 09, 2015
jpphilips:
Don't waste your energy enlightening Lezz, he will no longer be relevant if he is enlightened his role as an aggravated Nincompoop serves a purpose.
He reads Igbo tradition from Wikipedia then feel he is armed enough to challenge the status quo.
It speaks volume of his IQ.
and how is the difference between ibo and Igbo becomes the study of ibo tradition?

jpphilips the desperate failure magnet trying hard to redeem himself.

an english destitute and half breed looking to mitigate the hurt i have inflicted on you.

Ofu!!!
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by Ihuomadinihu: 7:07am On May 09, 2015
Someone has truly gone mad! Some men are what they are just because they have male organs. Hehehe....they even had to stay up all night and compose vain insults!
Arrant rubbish!
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by adebayour26: 7:47am On May 09, 2015
netsurf:
fear of some ladies here sef don catch me...
truth be told, some ladies here wouldn't last 2 weeks in a marriage.
This got me laffin
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by Nobody: 9:43am On May 09, 2015
5minsmadness:
ROTFL!!!

Am sure your wife is looking like a saint now in your eyes after u have seen some people display here grin
She is indeed a saint compared with what am seeing here. If she had bn anything close to what we are witnessing here, we wouldn't have lasted a week. I wouldn't have had a second thought about showing her the door. God pls protect me and my son and my generations yet unborn from such women.
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by Ihuomadinihu: 10:53am On May 09, 2015
It's really getting out of hand. Men ko, Cowards ni! www.nairaland.com/2301958/wife-beating-campaign-nairaland
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by Ewuro4: 5:20pm On May 09, 2015
What is ofu? grin
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by XKZ(m):
lezz:
but here's an idea; this could make a nice interesting topic in a new thread entiled : WHICH IBO COMMUNITY CAN A FEMALE CHILD INHERIT HER FATHER'S ESTATE TRADITIONALLY ?

then we can have a wilder oppinion and contributions.

shall we ?
And how would that prove anything?
Those who say it doesn't happen could be arguing out of ignorance.
And those who say it happens could be making it up.

One thing people who are not Igbos (and some modern day Igbos) fail to realise is that before the coming of the Europeans Igbos were fragmented politically and Igbo communities had little to do with one another besides their immediate neighbours.
Consequently, there is wide variation in Igbo culture.
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by tonychristopher: 9:02pm On May 09, 2015
XKZ:
And how would that prove anything?
Those who say it doesn't happen could be arguing out of ignorance.
And those who say it happens could be making it up.

One thing people who are not Igbos fail to realise is that before the coming of the Europeans Igbos were fragmented politically and Igbo communities had little to do with one another besides their immediate neighbours.
Consequently, there is wide variation in Igbo culture.
Simple question was asked

Which comunity do women inherit fathers estate ..opls state themn

Now igbo have almost same culture with tiny variations
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by XKZ(m): 5:08am On May 10, 2015
tonychristopher:
Now igbo have almost same culture with tiny variations
How do you define "tiny variations"?
Some Igbo communities have heriditary kingship (son takes over from father), other have a royal lineage (kingship rotates among certain families), while others practically elect their Igwes or have them appointed by the state governor.
Historically, outside Onitsha, Agbor and Aro, most Igbo communities do not have kings.

Is this a tiny variation?
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by lezz(m): 9:13am On May 10, 2015
XKZ:
And how would that prove anything?
Those who say it doesn't happen could be arguing out of ignorance.
And those who say it happens could be making it up.

One thing people who are not Igbos (and some modern day Igbos) fail to realise is that before the coming of the Europeans Igbos were fragmented politically and Igbo communities had little to do with one another besides their immediate neighbours.
Consequently, there is wide variation in Igbo culture.
brilliant , factual and honest.

that's what true exchange of ideas and opinion is about. Thank you for your being mature and explanatory without coming off as an over zealous tribal bigot.

I have taken so much from this short post of yours.
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by lezz(m): 9:19am On May 10, 2015
Ewuro4:
What is ofu? grin
Ofu traditionally is a slave, an outcaste that is bought by full bloods. they are denied certain rights although their situation isn't as dire as that of an Osu.

although modernity and Christianity has made them acceptable today. but the discrimination lingers.
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by babygirlfl:
XKZ:
How do you define "tiny variations"?
Some Igbo communities have heriditary kingship (son takes over from father), other have a royal lineage (kingship rotates among certain families), while others practically elect their Igwes or have them appointed by the state governor.
Historically, outside Onitsha, Agbor and Aro, most Igbo communities do not have kings.

Is this a tiny variation?
Do you mean Agbor in Delta state, that is not an Igbo town and read your history well because the Obi (Dein) of Agbor is known as the youngest crowned monarch in history. He was crowned at the age of 2 and remains in the Guinness book of record as the youngest crowned monarch.
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by cococandy(f): 9:27am On May 10, 2015
babygirlfl:
Do you mean Agbor in Delta state, that is not an Igbo town and read your history well because the Obi of Agbor is known as the youngest crowned monarch in history.
i always thought agbor people are Igbo. I've a sis-in-law from there and she passes for Igbo. Even speaks it Better than I do. Hmm. We learn everyday. If people ask me to name delta Igbo regions, i always start from asaba then agbor cheesy

Ok so why is their king an Obi if they are not Igbo? angry
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by lezz(m): 9:29am On May 10, 2015
babygirlfl:
Do you mean Agbor in Delta state, that is not an Igbo town and read your history well because the Obi of Agbor is known as the youngest crowned monarch in history.
Agbor is Igbo alright with some touches of Bini influence.
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by lezz(m): 9:31am On May 10, 2015
cococandy:
i always thought agbor people are Igbo. I've a sis-in-law from there and she passes for Igbo. Even speaks it Better than I do. Hmm. We learn everyday. If people ask me to name delta Igbo regions, i always start from asaba then agbor cheesy

Ok so why is their king an Obi if they are not Igbo? angry
absolutely correct.
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by babygirlfl: 9:39am On May 10, 2015
cococandy:
i always thought agbor people are Igbo. I've a sis-in-law from there and she passes for Igbo. Even speaks it Better than I do. Hmm. We learn everyday. If people ask me to name delta Igbo regions, i always start from asaba then agbor cheesy

Ok so why is their king an Obi if they are not Igbo? angry
I don't know if it is the right way to put it but our language is part Igbo and part Bini. We bear names that sound Igbo but a little bit different like Emeke instead of Emeka. I know many people from there who will just accept to be called that maybe because they did not grow up there or they just can't be bothered with any aguement. Formally there is no such thing as delta Igbo. It's just a name that stayed after being used to describe us for a long time. For example you could never fill any official document as an Anioma Deltan and say you are Delta Igbo.
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by cococandy(f): 9:40am On May 10, 2015
lezz:
absolutely correct.
what's correct? Na question I ask not a statement.
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by crackhaus: 9:41am On May 10, 2015
lezz:
You had this coming!!!

Listen, lifeless one. i know you seek the relevance that has deluded you in reality in the virtual world of the internet where lovelorn and frustrated females like you take up permanent residence in the hope of making a meaning of your oblique existence.


Old hags like you who eat, sleep and breath in a forum usually have nothing going for them in reality.

you have successfully won the most domiciled nairaland rat without even trying.

your intellectual standing is as shallow as your village stream, your selfworth is so thin you actually choke on opposing views.

females like you are often always victim of gender identity crisis with a confusing overflow of testosterone.

i can guess it is that time of the month when you bleed once a month from your eternal injury causing the shortage of blood-flow to your brains. HOW ELSE COULD YOU BE THIS DUMB AND INSECURE ?


village slave without any heritage of morals, family culture or ethics.

A 21st century Jezebel who has all the desire for evil but lack feminine power to see it through.

when i bade you good bye it is because i have concluded that you aren't worth my keystrokes or my time.

you are not even a female, you are just one of the many bad examples of internet mothers will do well to point out to their daughters .

you quote EVERYBODY. Even those who did not mention you. how insecure can anyone be. you automated internet nuisance.

for 2 whole days you have not bathed, washed, cleaned your home or looked after your father

or husband. you have sat behind your screen with a grin from your mouth filled with reeking teeth and and a oozing body from stale sweat and kept typing your idiocy away.

women have achieved far more with a better skill of communication and true feminine grace and manners than your mgbeke and market woman approach.


at the very end the lasting impression you have left is a that of a low breed female from a backwater heritage who used her pepper and tomato proceed to acquire internet subscription to spew rubbish and force-feed people about an opinion you haven't finished understanding.

This is what i wanted to spare you when i bade you goodbye but you still had to quote me when i wasn't even talking with you.

you really are a disgrace-magnet. The gods' favourite.

now slowly climb into your coffin.

the world wont notice,
feminism and "your" culture wont care,
your family wont even blink.

HUMANITY IS BETTER OFF WITHOUT YOU.

I believe i have literally e-murdered you. if you have an ounce of shame left in your drooling gaping azz, you will logout of nairaland and go look for your missing moral compass and fix your life together.

i can feel your shock with your gaping lips across this platform.

you just got a sting of the Troll. Now run along and do some weeping, dirty slutz like you don't bother me.

i shan't be giving you a glorified response any further. bye for real.
https://www.reactiongifs.com/r/2sbp.gif

I have missed Nairaland for sure... grin
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by cococandy(f): 9:44am On May 10, 2015
Ok. Her name is isioma. You know that's a proper Igbo name so I took it for granted that they are Igbo.

But I think you're correct about the different spellings because they tend to use the E alphabet in place of A. When she talks to her sister in their language, I can't understand a word she says but she understand every word of Igbo I speak and speaks better than me even though I'm very good at speaking and writing Igbo.
I just assumed theirs was a harder dialect.

Maybe not so Igbo afterall.
babygirlfl:
I don't know if it is the right way to put it but our language is part Igbo and part Bini. We bear names that sound Igbo but a little bit different like Emeke instead of Emeka. I know many people from there who will just accept to be called that maybe because they did not grow up there or they just can't be bothered with any aguement. Formally there is no such thing as delta Igbo. It's just a name that stayed after being used to describe us for a long time. For example you could never fill any official document as an Anioma Deltan and say you are Delta Igbo.
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by lezz(m): 9:55am On May 10, 2015
cococandy:
what's correct? Na question I ask not a statement.
Agbor is Ibo.
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by babygirlfl: 10:03am On May 10, 2015
cococandy:
Ok. Her name is isioma. You know that's a proper Igbo name so I took it for granted that they are Igbo.

But I think you're correct about the different spellings because they tend to use the E alphabet in place of A. When she talks to her sister in their language, I can't understand a word she says but she understand every word of Igbo I speak and speaks better than me even though I'm very good at speaking and writing Igbo.
I just assumed theirs was a harder dialect.

Maybe not so Igbo afterall.
I understand every word of Igbo and speak too but all my friends that are Igbo do not understand any word I speak let alone speak. We bear similar Igbo names but maybe spelt differently. Some bear names similar to bini names too and some of my friends surname sounds Bini though mine sounds Igbo. My name sounds Igbo too. Anyway, at the end of the day, we are all Nigerians. Please read this Nairaland debate as it will give you an idea of what I am saying.

https://www.nairaland.com/458875/delta-igbo-bendel-igbo-what/78#16360809
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by lezz(m): 10:10am On May 10, 2015
crackhaus:
https://www.reactiongifs.com/r/2sbp.gif
I have missed Nairaland for sure... grin
Believe me ,she likes it rough.
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by jpphilips(m): 10:37am On May 10, 2015
lezz:
you call someone an "authority " whose only qualification is an Ibo name.

you claim to know better than Wikipedia and all the modern dictionaries including Webster et al.

phew !!! in your attempt at getting back at me, you threw logic and common sense out of the window.

you stalked me for months and when you did find me, you were too desperate to pull your tact together.

your own logic has failed you, exposing you for what you are.
Igbo phrase not Igbo name, I don't expect a buffoon to know that.
One thing is certain, you desperately want to learn, only a f00l will oblige you.
when I read the nonsense you type here, I always wonder how old you are.
Guess the national adulthood limit needs to be extended to accommodate people like you.
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by jpphilips(m): 10:53am On May 10, 2015
lezz:
Agbor is Igbo alright with some touches of Bini influence.
grin
lezz:
Agbor is Igbo alright with some touches of Bini influence.
Lolzzzzzzz
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by lezz(m): 11:35am On May 10, 2015
jpphilips:
Igbo phrase not Igbo name, I don't expect a buffoon to know that.
One thing is certain, you desperately want to learn, only a f00l will oblige you.
when I read the nonsense you type here, I always wonder how old you are.
Guess the national adulthood limit needs to be extended to accommodate people like you.
Still hurting . when i told you your problems is beyond intellectual destitution, it was no troll.

you are emotionally and psychologically maladjusted.

your quackery you have displayed like fried turkey in a show-glass for all to see.

i told you your education never went beyond Google search.

you are only an example of the time- an era where mediocrity is embolden by simple ignorance.

where internet access has passed for formal education.

jpphilips, the time spent on the earth is not an indication you have grown and developed in mind.

you are a sore loser at best,
an intellectual hazard at worse

and an ignorant fraud eager to be seen teaching what he hasn't finished learning.


now tell me how do you qualify someone you met in the internet whose only claim of being Ibo is an Ibo name and an Ibo phrase for her signature as an "authourity" in ibo history and culture ?


How so intelligent you are yet you are ignorant of the difference between a lie and an error ?


At the very height of your educational maladjustment, you claimed to know better than wikipedia and all the world's best dictionaries. i would have taken this for an honest mistake but alas, it isn't the first time you have proven to be nairaland's prince buffoon.


During our tete-a-tete in the military thread where i dealt you a nasty e-cut and exposed you for the intellectual fraud you are (you have followed me here in the hopes of healing your hurts and regaining your lost reputation), you had the scruples to challenge the written works and opinion of a serving Nigerian academic professor just in order to prove me wrong. hmn.

today you are also faulting wiki and current , traditional dictionaries just to get back at me.

Only cheap internet and an availability of mobile phones will make a jungle crab like you cross paths with me.

officially, i usually reach for a stick and allow you climb onto it like the termite you are ,and then fling you far into a virgin forestation where your only usefulness will be to eat and produce dirt in a circle of worthless evolution.


It is a pity after several engagements in different threads none of my greatness has robbed off a little on you.



if you are content with the tittle of being the roach on nairaland who is to say you were not given an alternative.

jpphilips you belong to the dogs and dregs of society.


defeat never parts company with you like stink never part with shiit!!!
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by Ihuomadinihu: 1:23pm On May 10, 2015
babygirlfl:
I don't know if it is the right way to put it but our language is part Igbo and part Bini. We bear names that sound Igbo but a little bit different like Emeke instead of Emeka. I know many people from there who will just accept to be called that maybe because they did not grow up there or they just can't be bothered with any aguement. Formally there is no such thing as delta Igbo. It's just a name that stayed after being used to describe us for a long time. For example you could never fill any official document as an Anioma Deltan and say you are Delta Igbo.
Influences doesn't make it non Igbo. They are popularly called Ika Igbo.
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by Ihuomadinihu:
lezz:
Believe me ,she likes it rough.
You are still jumping all over this thread. This thread and arguements must mean so much to you. Only fellow cowards will approve that shit you composed. In your deranged mind,you defeated me with that trashy essay?
Hahaha!
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by babygirlfl: 1:28pm On May 10, 2015
Ihuomadinihu:
Influences doesn't make it non Igbo. They are popularly called Ika Igbo.
My dear just like you know your history well, I know mine very well and we are Ika not Igbo. Let's agree to disagree.
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by Ihuomadinihu: 1:29pm On May 10, 2015
lezz:
Still hurting . when i told you your problems is beyond intellectual destitution, it was no troll.

you are emotionally and psychologically maladjusted.

your quackery you have displayed like fried turkey in a show-glass for all to see.

i told you your education never went beyond Google search.

you are only an example of the time- an era where mediocrity is embolden by simple ignorance.

where internet access has passed for formal education.

jpphilips, the time spent on the earth is not an indication you have grown and developed in mind.

you are a sore loser at best,
an intellectual hazard at worse

and an ignorant fraud eager to be seen teaching what he hasn't finished learning.


now tell me how do you qualify someone you met in the internet whose only claim of being Ibo is an Ibo name and an Ibo phrase for her signature as an "authourity" in ibo history and culture ?


How so intelligent you are yet you are ignorant of the difference between a lie and an error ?


At the very height of your educational maladjustment, you claimed to know better than wikipedia and all the world's best dictionaries. i would have taken this for an honest mistake but alas, it isn't the first time you have proven to be nairaland's prince buffoon.


During our tete-a-tete in the military thread where i dealt you a nasty e-cut and exposed you for the intellectual fraud you are (you have followed me here in the hopes of healing your hurts and regaining your lost reputation), you had the scruples to challenge the written works and opinion of a serving Nigerian academic professor just in order to prove me wrong. hmn.

today you are also faulting wiki and current , traditional dictionaries just to get back at me.

Only cheap internet and an availability of mobile phones will make a jungle crab like you cross paths with me.

officially, i usually reach for a stick and allow you climb onto it like the termite you are ,and then fling you far into a virgin forestation where your only usefulness will be to eat and produce dirt in a circle of worthless evolution.


It is a pity after several engagements in different threads none of my greatness has robbed off a little on you.



if you are content with the tittle of being the roach on nairaland who is to say you were not given an alternative.

jpphilips you belong to the dogs and dregs of society.


defeat never parts company with you like stink never part with shiit!!!
^^
Epic bullshit! Does this epistle make sense to anyone?
There is a thin line between trolling and dementia!
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by Ihuomadinihu: 1:32pm On May 10, 2015
babygirlfl:
My dear just like you know your history well, I know mine very well and we are Ika not Igbo. Let's agree to disagree.
It is ok,this is topic for another day. As it stands, Ika language is Igboid. Are you aware that all igbo groups can stand on it's own without being associated with Igbo? Anybody can wake up and denounce Igbo and nobody will kill them.
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by babygirlfl: 1:37pm On May 10, 2015
Ihuomadinihu:
It is ok,this is topic for another day. As it stands, Ika language is Igboid. Are you aware that all igbo groups can stand on it's own without being associated with Igbo?
I like your person and won't like us to get into an aguement because before you know it, some people will say things and try to turn us against each other. My dear lets just forget it. We are on Nigeria after all. kiss
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by Ihuomadinihu: 1:43pm On May 10, 2015
babygirlfl:
I like your person and won't like us to get into an aguement because before you know it, some people will say things and try to turn us against each other. My dear lets just forget it. We are on Nigeria after all. kiss
Ok. Let's face the cowards and drop Ika and Igbo palaver.
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