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Re: Get Me Employed And Marry Me by njuwo(m): 11:53am On May 19, 2015
Daseed4:
I'm a 33 years old university graduate of technology. I'm very handsome(this is no flattery). I don't want to add that I'm intelligent, because I use to tell myself that, 'if a man is wise, why is he poor?' I'm a Christian (Christianity is a mystery whose positive impacts can't be denied; I'm just missing some rules, I think). My ideals are so vast that no one in my family believes I'm heading somewhere enviable. Instead of detesting them, I realized I need to become a formidable force in this life and liberate them all. I teach in a secondary school currently, earning crumbs. One of my setbacks or a fly in the ointment is that I want a woman that will love me, and help me find a good living. My mind seems closed to intimacy, but that loneliness never stopped hounding me like an evil fiend. Let that destined woman find me, and I will cling to you forever.
You come feel say na this thing go help you? How your relationship dey with God to start with?
Re: Get Me Employed And Marry Me by Nobody: 11:54am On May 19, 2015
chuckdee4:
If you have achieved all these things, why do you need a woman to help you find a job?
What makes you think a woman will guarantee you that job?
Police authority in that school wanted to help me enrol in the force, but I hate that profession. A monarh in that Akoko LGA wanted to help me get into Ondo Teaching Service Commission but the commission wanted education degree and I have B.Tech. I included that woman aspect due to loneliness that's becoming deadlier than joblessness in my life.
Re: Get Me Employed And Marry Me by Nobody: 12:01pm On May 19, 2015
Daseed4:
Police authority in that school wanted to help me enrol in the force, but I hate that profession. A monarh in that Akoko LGA wanted to help me get into Ondo Teaching Service Commission but the commission wanted education degree and I have B.Tech. I included that woman aspect due to loneliness that's becoming deadlier than joblessness in my life.
bro, guess u need some sweet and sensuous fvck to calm ur er0tik nerves down. Why not try a charlet, who knows she might make u the hotel manager.

Just a suggestion sha, don't take it personal
Re: Get Me Employed And Marry Me by Nobody: 12:01pm On May 19, 2015
njuwo:
You come feel say na this thing go help you? How your relationship dey with God to start with?
God is far too great for us to fully understand. What I know is that whenever God moves into your field of spiritual awareness, you 're sure to be astonished by His power to overwhelm the mind and fascinate the soul. I may liken what's happening to me to faith failure.
Re: Get Me Employed And Marry Me by njuwo(m): 12:07pm On May 19, 2015
Daseed4:
God is far too great for us to fully understand. What I know is that whenever God moves into your field of spiritual awareness, you 're sure to be astonished by His power to overwhelm the mind and fascinate the soul. I may liken what's happening to me to faith failure.
Then repair the faith and make it strong and unshakeable.
Re: Get Me Employed And Marry Me by chuckdee4(m): 12:11pm On May 19, 2015
Daseed4:
Police authority in that school wanted to help me enrol in the force, but I hate that profession. A monarh in that Akoko LGA wanted to help me get into Ondo Teaching Service Commission but the commission wanted education degree and I have B.Tech. I included that woman aspect due to loneliness that's becoming deadlier than joblessness in my life.
I feel your pain bro, find yourself a good gf first (with no conditions or ultimatum) and she will influence change in your life, doesn't necessarily have to be a job, keep an open mind and keep working hard, you will be rewarded.
Re: Get Me Employed And Marry Me by Nobody: 12:21pm On May 19, 2015
njuwo:
Then repair the faith and make it strong and unshakeable.
I can't deny the fact that God made me, but to think I can do more than what I'v done to please Him is what I can't venture into. It seems some laws were not designed to last. The popular law of thermodynamics does not obey in nuclear Chemistry. Law of gravity will not hold in the moon. So, you should nt think my approach to this issue is flawed.
Re: Get Me Employed And Marry Me by Nobody: 12:34pm On May 19, 2015
chuckdee4:
I feel your pain bro, find yourself a good gf first (with no conditions or ultimatum) and she will influence change in your life, doesn't necessarily have to be a job, keep an open mind and keep working hard, you will be rewarded.
No girl wants to date me without considering the substance in my hand. The one that tried it left when I couldnt meet her simple needs like money for hairdo.
Re: Get Me Employed And Marry Me by BecaciaBarbie(f): 12:36pm On May 19, 2015
Holatunde007:
So u leave him to die of hunger?
undecided
Re: Get Me Employed And Marry Me by Lanretoye(m): 4:33pm On May 19, 2015
This could either be a result of condition or konjition.
Re: Get Me Employed And Marry Me by Rapsodee(m): 4:47pm On May 19, 2015
I feel your pain bro but Nairaland girls are not that nice except you want a sugar mummy
Re: Get Me Employed And Marry Me by Nobody: 4:53pm On May 19, 2015
Daseed4:
I'm a 33 years old university graduate of technology. I'm very handsome(this is no flattery). I don't want to add that I'm intelligent, because I use to tell myself that, 'if a man is wise, why is he poor?' I'm a Christian (Christianity is a mystery whose positive impacts can't be denied; I'm just missing some rules, I think). My ideals are so vast that no one in my family believes I'm heading somewhere enviable. Instead of detesting them, I realized I need to become a formidable force in this life and liberate them all. I teach in a secondary school currently, earning crumbs. One of my setbacks or a fly in the ointment is that I want a woman that will love me, and help me find a good living. My mind seems closed to intimacy, but that loneliness never stopped hounding me like an evil fiend. Let that destined woman find me, and I will cling to you forever.
In short terms... You want a sugar mummy¿
Re: Get Me Employed And Marry Me by samtol4(m): 6:52pm On May 19, 2015
Daseed4:
No girl wants to date me without considering the substance in my hand. The one that tried it left when I couldnt meet her simple needs like money for hairdo.
At 33 and a graduate I know u have good ideas and dreams.why not gradually start your dreams and TRUST in God for better days .You looking for a lady to give u job and marry u means u will turn yourself to wife in the marriage while she will become husband .Such marriage never last Pursue success and the right woman will locate you .First change your mindset that a woman will give you job.
Re: Get Me Employed And Marry Me by samtol4(m): 7:09pm On May 19, 2015
@Op I think the greatest problem confronting you is the wrong mindset i.e looking for jobs ! You can create jobs with yourGod given ideas and talent .Imagine u re graduate of technology yet u re lamenting and crying here for a woman to marry u !haba bros wake up !That is the problem of wrong mindset once someone graduate he start job hunting whereas he has the skills and potentials to create and employ people ..I believe you are good in mathematics and core science subject ...Start Math clinic or tutorial centers in your area .Second advertise graphic skills to people and through other social media .Third Pray for God's favor. Above it is only a man of failure that beg a woman to marry him .
Re: Get Me Employed And Marry Me by Nobody: 7:46pm On May 19, 2015
The last time a design establishment tried taking me for their designs, the next time I went there for orientation, the man saw my CV and said he would call me about when to resume. He never called. I suspectd that B.Tech discouraged him. The marriage aspect I included is just a random way of stating my frusttrations. I'm strong-willed; even if a girl considers me, she's taking me on as a project. You never can tell how God answers the prayer of a man after when all conventional ways of getting His help failed.
Re: Get Me Employed And Marry Me by Nobody: 8:06pm On May 19, 2015
Rapsodee:
I feel your pain bro but Nairaland girls are not that nice except you want a sugar mummy
I've seen one here who is of the best intention.
Re: Get Me Employed And Marry Me by Nobody: 8:10pm On May 19, 2015
samtol4:
At 33 and a graduate I know u have good ideas and dreams.why not gradually start your dreams and TRUST in God for better days .You looking for a lady to give u job and marry u means u will turn yourself to wife in the marriage while she will become husband .Such marriage never last Pursue success and the right woman will locate you .First change your mindset that a woman will give you job.
If this ever works, that means fate wants it that way.
Re: Get Me Employed And Marry Me by Rapsodee(m): 8:32pm On May 19, 2015
Daseed4:
I've seen one here who is of the best intention.
Wow....congrats sire!
Re: Get Me Employed And Marry Me by Nobody: 9:48pm On May 19, 2015
Rapsodee:
Wow....congrats sire!
I mean she's good, but I didnt tel her about this thread.
Re: Get Me Employed And Marry Me by Nobody: 11:33pm On May 21, 2015
We are studying the judgement. Sorry! We're on top situation.
Re: Get Me Employed And Marry Me by McEwen(m): 12:06am On May 22, 2015
HELP HIM IF YOU CAN!!!
Re: Get Me Employed And Marry Me by Nobody: 10:07am On May 22, 2015
McEwen:
HELP HIM IF YOU CAN!!!
Op wants a woman that can make his life better. We men can't help him.
Re: Get Me Employed And Marry Me by marvelous000: 10:35am On May 22, 2015
Daseed4:
No girl wants to date me without considering the substance in my hand. The one that tried it left when I couldnt meet her simple needs like money for hairdo.
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Lolgringrin..this part cracked me up

You ought to have known that naija galz don't love your person.
Its all about your substance,unlike our mamas of those dayz8)

Brda,looking for love in nigeria is lyk a camel trying to fit through a niddle holewink.

WE REP FOREIGN cool
I can connect you with some foreign chaps.wink
Please I don't want all this aproko galz,quoting me to say trash.

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Re: Get Me Employed And Marry Me by Nobody: 11:28am On May 22, 2015
marvelous000:
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Lolgringrin..this part cracked me up

You ought to have known that naija galz don't love your person.
Its all about your substance,unlike our mamas of those dayz8)

Brda,looking for love in nigeria is lyk a camel trying to fit through a niddle holewink.

WE REP FOREIGN cool
I can connect you with some foreign chaps.wink
Please I don't want all this aproko galz,quoting me to say trash.

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I'll PM you ASAP.
Re: Get Me Employed And Marry Me by Kayoski(m): 3:12pm On May 22, 2015
Daseed4:
I'm a 33 years old university graduate of technology. I'm very handsome(this is no flattery). I don't want to add that I'm intelligent, because I use to tell myself that, 'if a man is wise, why is he poor?' I'm a Christian (Christianity is a mystery whose positive impacts can't be denied; I'm just missing some rules, I think). My ideals are so vast that no one in my family believes I'm heading somewhere enviable. Instead of detesting them, I realized I need to become a formidable force in this life and liberate them all. I teach in a secondary school currently, earning crumbs. One of my setbacks or a fly in the ointment is that I want a woman that will love me, and help me find a good living. My mind seems closed to intimacy, but that loneliness never stopped hounding me like an evil fiend. Let that destined woman find me, and I will cling to you forever.
I fit no get sense or I fit no know book.. but from wat I av read ..this is my deduction....
op needs a sugar mummy...and am so dissapointed for someone who says he Is a motivational speaker or a Christian..
also op forget all dos motivational rubbish ..Nigerians are now wiser ..nobody wants to hear stories anymore.. result it wat speaks.. so before u can speak to anyone ..let us see ur result.....
lastly where were u 10 years ago... u are already 33 ..7 more years u will be certified permanently foolish remember wat dey say about a fool at 40...... but notwithstanding i believe the nxt 3 years is very important for u ..how much have u managed to save over the years from your little salary.. am sure u have business plans considering someone or your intellectual capabilities.. but money to execute it.
my advice is for u to cut ur spending.... because of ur lost time try to save 50% of what u earn.. forget woman and girlfriend for now..... u can start small.. remember little drops of water..............
brother save. save save ....everyone is already occupied with his or her own challenges nobody has hears to listen to yours..
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