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midolian:
28-16..12..when you were 11, she was still in her mother's womb.

You are crazy!

it sounds crazy cos she is 16, but when she is 21,and he is 32, or 25 and he is 36, i don't think it will really sound crazy.

Seriously I don't think you are insane.

Its a normal thing to happen to anyone.

Buh what I will just advice you tp do is to keep her till she gets to the statutory age of 18.
How old was buhari wen aisha was born?

Jus make sure u don mess with her.

opeoluwa20:
You must be jobless

I am sorry to say this to you...I can afford to feed, clothe and house you for 2 years at stretch without feeling it.

Crixina:
it sounds crazy cos she is 16, but when she is 21,and he is 32, or 25 and he is 36, i don't think it will really sound crazy.

That's the point..I don't have any problem with the age difference, but the girl's age.

sirjohnson:
Okay, the 16 year old girl lives on the same street as mine. She is a very pretty girl, looks like a 20 year old. She is very intelligent as well. And I have no ulterior motive; I dont want to sleep with her or mess around with her. She gave me the green light, I got it, I followed it, now we have something going. Can someone tell me I am crazy? BTW, I am 28.

No 1. She is still a minor before the law
No. 2 She cannot understand herself let alone taking decision critical to her well-being by herself.
No. 3 What is the possibility that even tho you dont intend to defile her, you may later not be tempted beyond your resistance either by her or the usual accuse (the devil).
No. 4 It is a sin to be involved in canal unholy relationships.( if you like you can say i am doing too much self righteousness, am not bothered provided the heaven knows what i said is true)
No. 5 If she was your kid sister will you like her to start a date with anybody let alone 28yrs guy while she is still 16? be honest.
I think it is better we dont venture into somethings that to start blaming the devil at the end of it all.

I am 38 my girlfriend is 18 what is the difference? Bros go ahead but ensure u marry her.

AhmadMind:
You are in fro a BIG TEST.....And the Test is WAITING fro at least 2 years....without ANY FORM OF ROMANCE.....CAN U PASS THE TEST?

Or else the RAPE bill will be your stepping stone.

elantraceey:
The age difference is not a problem but I'll advice you to quit dating her for now instead be like a guide for her and be a good friend , be someone she can discuss anything with but don't abuse her for any reason , when she has come of age , like 20-22 you can then take the next step. She's just to timid right now and knows not what love is about , let not her looks deceive you.

Ure scareding for d girl already..lolz


Bo ya lomo gbe d guy don de chop kpomo already

sirjohnson:
Trust me gurl, I aint nearing her pants, am not after that. I have slept with enough girls in my life already. The days I used to be sex freaked are behind me. At most I would kiss her. I just wanna nurture her.

That's whr u got it wrong @ op. She doesn't knw anything abt , she's just being curious, eager to explore the unknown. Giver her today and tomorrow she will bring her lips, kiss her lips and nxt time she will bring her punny and if u deny her she might become desperate and fall into the hand vulture.
I know u won't like dat if truly lover her as u claim.

I was not interested in what the op wrote the answers he got

donnypool:
IF YOUR MOM was 16, then your dad is a pedophile likewise yourself

son of a rapist father

Wow,probably u didn't read wat I typed carefully.Well am really sorry nd yes I hv forgiven ur stupidity.When mature people comment,u will come nd start posting .Well I don't blame u,ur problem is from.....u know who.

midolian:
28-16..12..when you were 11, she was still in her mother's womb.

You are crazy!

guy Toto no talk like dat ooo... but frankly speaking that's child abuse.

midolian:
28-16..12..when you were 11, she was still in her mother's womb.

You are crazy!

He don really mad...Make people for society no hear this oo cos them go lynch am death ni!!!

She gave you green light, meaning what? So you parked at the traffic light of a 16 year old girl waiting for green light abi! The thunder way go strike you still dey trek from sambisa forest! Yeye man!

If you still get attracted to 16 year old girls now then you go soon end up like Yerima the pedophile!

At this age you should be looking to find a life partner not a child that is still confused about her body and sexuality.

Leave that girl alone oooo!

StarMogul:
Wow,probably u didn't read wat I typed carefully.Well am really sorry nd yes I hv forgiven ur stupidity.When mature people comment,u will come nd start posting .Well I don't blame u,ur problem is from.....u know who.

you should reason first. I only meant if your was 19 and above and your Dad is even 50, then its no problem. but if your mom was 17 and below and your dad was 25 and above, then your family foundation is built on a pedophile soil.

You are crazy(((following instruction)))


BTW, you are the one who would lose out eventually. Here is how it will play...

Baby girl loves you like kilode now(infatuation) she's soooo happy to be your girl( feels superb to beat her aunties in the hurdle) she's so happy to show you off to her friends( labels her a big girl) you're not stressing her like boys her age would and not bugging her for seeeex( cool) you spend on her and make her feel like she has her life figured( groovy)...but she's a teenager going on 25yrs, soon enough she would see the world and perhaps fall for her mate or... who knows? Just give her time, let her grow some. I am 100% pro-love!

chrisxxx:
I am 38 my girlfriend is 18 what is the difference? Bros go ahead but ensure u marry her.

So you still dey do girlfriend and boyfriend at 38? Nna nawa oo! And she is 18? Technically the age of your daughter? Guy borrow yourself sense

sirjohnson:
Okay, the 16 year old girl lives on the same street as mine. She is a very pretty girl, looks like a 20 year old. She is very intelligent as well. And I have no ulterior motive; I dont want to sleep with her or mess around with her. She gave me the green light, I got it, I followed it, now we have something going. Can someone tell me I am crazy? BTW, I am 28.

Ur name is Yerima.

chrisxxx:
I am 38 my girlfriend is 18 what is the difference? Bros go ahead but ensure u marry her.

38 and you spending your time on nairaland?

joblessness bad sha. 18 is mature enough, 16 is still a child. use your 38 year old brain for once

;DIf u go reason 16yrs na him tight pass truth me,but don't near it now she till small,wait patiently till legal age of 18

broda, u dey vex gan o

sirjohnson:
Trust me gurl, I aint nearing her pants, am not after that. I have slept with enough girls in my life already. The days I used to be sex freaked are behind me. At most I would kiss her. I just wanna nurture her.

ashawo man. U just indiscreetly exposed Ur intentions for that little egg that a fellow man like u is nurturing to assist him in his advanced age. Y not focus on Ur future rather than on this little girl? Y do u want to ruin her future? The kisses u are planning to share with such underage is against the constitution is f the federal republic of Nigeria. You are committing a very serious crime that may seal Ur future. Pls stay away from kids. She's not Ur type.

daresimon:
Seriously I don't think you are insane.

Its a normal thing to happen to anyone.

Buh what I will just advice you tp do is to keep her till she gets to the statutory age of 18.
How old was buhari wen aisha was born?

Jus make sure u don mess with her.

hmmmm

yerima tinz yerima tinz

pedophile

midolian:
28-16..12..when you were 11, she was still in her mother's womb.

You are crazy!

Abeg i no fit laugh

donnypool:
you should reason first. I only meant if your was 19 and above and your Dad is even 50, then its no problem. but if your mom was 17 and below and your dad was 25 and above, then your family foundation is built on a pedophile soil.

Hehe...,My dad actually married at d age of 40 nd my mom was in her late twenties.But respect nd love still reigns in d house.Now as a man I can only pray to hv such love nd understanding wif my future man.If u actually checked my earlier comment,I said such relationships shud be handled wif caution.

I remember I was also in love with a 13years old girl when I was 25years..but the girl was well mature and romantic than even those I felt were older..I just had to leave her because of the age difference and what people would say..that was the best relationship ever we didn't have sex because I felt she was still young and we enjoyed every moment..if you love her and she is mature go for her..what people would say don't matter to me again..so far u love her my cousin father was 39yrs and their mum was 20yrs when they married..they have been married for 33years now..and still stronger,the respect is there

crime against humanity. how una go dey relate self?

StarMogul:
Hehe...,My dad actually married at d age of 40 nd my mom was in her late twenties.But respect nd love still reigns in d house.Now as a man I can only pray to hv such love nd understanding wif my future man.If u actually checked my earlier comment,I said such relationships shud be handled wif caution.

bro hope you are not a kid

Explanation

Its legal for a 40 year old to marry a 20 year old

but it is illegal for a 20 and above to marry a 16 and below, because she is still consider a child.
Its not about the age gap, but its about the legal status of the participant.

Under the constitution, she is still a minor (a child). and he is a rapist

But if she turn at least 18, then he can go ahead and even sex her, because its legal.

babasade:
I remember I was also in love with a 13years old girl when I was 25years..but the girl was well mature and romantic than even those I felt were older..I just had to leave her because of the age difference and what people would say..that was the best relationship ever we didn't have sex because I felt she was still young and we enjoyed every moment..if you love her and she is mature go for her..what people would say don't matter to me again..so far u love her my cousin father was 39yrs and their mum was 20yrs when they married..they have been married for 33years now..and still stronger,the respect is there

yo its not about the age gap, its about the legal status.

she is still a child (minor)

you guys just go to school to waste your parents money

All dos ppl wen old pass dia wives wyt 15 to twenty yrs nko....its just because she's sixteen n his 28....if he told us he ws older dan her wyt 12 yrs and didn't indicate d age wetin we for yan....u guys shud face reality sm ppl hv worse age difference dan dt...cos she's less dan eighteen ...if he said he is 34 and she's 22 I guess we wud v said its okay....abi d diffrnc no still be 12?