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Re: What Is Happening To Me? I'm In Love With A 16 Year Old Girl by shammahyaro(f): 4:07pm On Jun 04, 2015 |
I know of a dude who fell for a 12 yr old when he was 20,,,eventually he waited for her till she was 18,,,,and guess what??..the girl left him...... I undastnd wat u mean.. If it's true love it'lll stand the test of time........ Bro..listen to your heart not Nairalanders...... 3 Likes |
Re: What Is Happening To Me? I'm In Love With A 16 Year Old Girl by Cavenchy(m): 4:22pm On Jun 04, 2015 |
shammahyaro: Hmm I hope you are not that girl oh. lol. Anyway good advice to the OP. |
Re: What Is Happening To Me? I'm In Love With A 16 Year Old Girl by Haryohdeji(m): 4:32pm On Jun 04, 2015 |
Pls let the Poor gurl go sch...let her reach some level in her education 1st bfor thinking of marrying her.... Dnt let her b like our ex president wife PEJ later in future |
Re: What Is Happening To Me? I'm In Love With A 16 Year Old Girl by mamadsquare: 4:33pm On Jun 04, 2015 |
@sirjohnson Let me share my story with you. When I was 18, I met a man during the course of a business transaction, we exchanged names and phone numbers. We spoke on phone a couple of times, no strings attached. A year later, I was 19, the guy called me up, I had even forgotten his name or number or even if he existed, and was asking about my life, welfare and all. He asked that we meet and we did. He 'toasted' me and I was quite attracted to him but had reservations concerning what our age difference would be. I assumed he would be in his early 30's. I declined based on that. He wanted to know why, and I told him my assumption and then he told me he was 36! He was patient till I could get past the age difference thing and after that time, I forgot about the 17 years btw us, we literally became age mates. That man, today, is my husband. And he waited till I graduated from the university before we got married. It all depends on what you have in mind towards her. If she gave u the green light like you said, it might be infatuation and she might even just want to experiment. You could go ahead with a relationship with her but be more of a listening friend, guardian, adviser and the likes. If at any time in the near future, she begins to pursue sexual desires with you, pls do not take advantage of her and don't even lead her on by kissing her, make it purely 'platonic' and assure her of that from the start. On the flip side, if you refrain from pursuing a relationship with her, the next guy that comes along may not be like you, he would just 'chop and clean mouth'. Start seeing yourself as someone who should protect her and her well being. Above all, pls pray for guidance from God. I would have loved a situation where you are close, not just to her but also, members of her family. You are the one who would know if this is achievable or not. Also, if you have the capability, move out of that street. Peace! Sorry for the 'epistle of mamadsquare'. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Is Happening To Me? I'm In Love With A 16 Year Old Girl by nigelcoop: 4:37pm On Jun 04, 2015 |
Love knows no age bro but distance urself anyway |
Re: What Is Happening To Me? I'm In Love With A 16 Year Old Girl by Nobody: 4:41pm On Jun 04, 2015 |
sirjohnson:U C UR LIFE.U AV SLEPT WIT LOTS OF GALS ALREADY. AND NOW U WNT TO USE HER TO DO CLEARING. CHAI BROS. WHY? IS TOTALLY UNFAIR. NO P. GOD KNOWS UR MIND. IF ITS 4 EVIL INTENTION, MAY U WALK NAKED 4 2YRS. IF ITS 4 GOOD, MAY U SPEND 4 HER UNTIL THEN 1 Like |
Re: What Is Happening To Me? I'm In Love With A 16 Year Old Girl by GodMode: 4:43pm On Jun 04, 2015 |
mamadsquare: That means you married before you were 24.. Chai... Old men taking away the young beauties since 400 B.C. ... |
Re: What Is Happening To Me? I'm In Love With A 16 Year Old Girl by UyiIredia(m): 4:49pm On Jun 04, 2015 |
sirjohnson: There's nothing wrong with it but I don't think it's advisable to have sex with her at her age. If you must wait till she's 18. 1 Like |
Re: What Is Happening To Me? I'm In Love With A 16 Year Old Girl by alphalpha(m): 4:51pm On Jun 04, 2015 |
what if the girl been worwor? |
Re: What Is Happening To Me? I'm In Love With A 16 Year Old Girl by NgwaManNaija4LF(m): 5:01pm On Jun 04, 2015 |
None of these comments will stop me from marrying a woman that is 15 years as long as she is a virgin. 1 Like |
Re: What Is Happening To Me? I'm In Love With A 16 Year Old Girl by Belmot(m): 5:16pm On Jun 04, 2015 |
16 years nitori olohun @op walahi uno get plan for ya life... Na she you wan marry? You better start looking for a future partner and allow the girl concentrate for school. No vex op u be agbaya. |
Re: What Is Happening To Me? I'm In Love With A 16 Year Old Girl by ehis05(m): 5:25pm On Jun 04, 2015 |
You are crazy 1 Like |
Re: What Is Happening To Me? I'm In Love With A 16 Year Old Girl by Kaysalas(m): 5:42pm On Jun 04, 2015 |
My case Na 19 yr old 100L girl VERSUS myself(29 yr old) working class. She schools a couple of states away. I nor even fit tell ANYBODY! Na how una see am?? 1 Like |
Re: What Is Happening To Me? I'm In Love With A 16 Year Old Girl by chrisxxx(m): 5:55pm On Jun 04, 2015 |
donnypool:This shows your understanding and interpretation of what nairaland is. For your information my day is not complete without visiting nairaland. Even when I was/am outside the shore of Nigeria. I prefer nairaland to the national dailies. I am sure of the authenticity of information you find here since it is a forum of over 1m Nigerians. In case you are unemployed, I dont mind giving you a job but you must be respectful as my number one and only criteria. I sincerely doubt if you meet this cut since it is evident from the way you responded and replied my opinion. It will interest you to know that I am the ATM of my company. I mean Assistant Training Manager of a multinational company. 1 Like |
Re: What Is Happening To Me? I'm In Love With A 16 Year Old Girl by Segse(m): 5:59pm On Jun 04, 2015 |
sirjohnson: That's child abuse! 1 Like |
Re: What Is Happening To Me? I'm In Love With A 16 Year Old Girl by chrisxxx(m): 6:00pm On Jun 04, 2015 |
hamingra:Your reply sadly shows u have run out the sense you borrowed. People like you would do worst. If I am 38 cant I marry a girl of 18? 1 Like |
Re: What Is Happening To Me? I'm In Love With A 16 Year Old Girl by jagatalks: 6:03pm On Jun 04, 2015 |
You guys all yelling at him, can someone just tell me what's wrong with being in love with a 16 years old babe. Perhaps they aren't thinking of tie the knot ryt away. Soo what's wrong with waiting for the next 4 years. 1 Like |
Re: What Is Happening To Me? I'm In Love With A 16 Year Old Girl by modebabe(f): 6:06pm On Jun 04, 2015 |
opeyemisteph:she's still very young and a teenager for dat matter....she may later want to experience more in life........wat makes u think she wil stick to him only... as she matures? Interest changes as one grow older in life. 1 Like |
Re: What Is Happening To Me? I'm In Love With A 16 Year Old Girl by 6fit(f): 6:24pm On Jun 04, 2015 |
opeyemisteph: u make sence...21st century teenager are sexually ripe dis days...i hav dem as my student. U need 2c there seductive display |
Re: What Is Happening To Me? I'm In Love With A 16 Year Old Girl by SEYIOKE: 6:24pm On Jun 04, 2015 |
MEGGATRON:learn from d choirmaster! |
Re: What Is Happening To Me? I'm In Love With A 16 Year Old Girl by Omolola1(f): 6:33pm On Jun 04, 2015 |
You are not in love with her, you just like the fact that she's young and inexperienced...and it turns you on At 28, you are too old to have even a 'fling' with the said 16 year old girl...and even if you intend being serious with her, you would get heartbroken in the long run, because she is just starting out her life and would still meet lots of people... A 16 year old girl nitori olorun, you are crazy 1 Like |
Re: What Is Happening To Me? I'm In Love With A 16 Year Old Girl by nonnyconcept(f): 6:56pm On Jun 04, 2015 |
You have a sister?yes! I guess or even if u don't have assume u hv one now and someone does that to her what will u tell him.now judge urself. and if u r a father someone does that to ur child,how will u react? I believe kissing goes with much process like caress her and d rest abi? whteva u do or u hv done to that girl will surely turn back to u just one day. |
Re: What Is Happening To Me? I'm In Love With A 16 Year Old Girl by shalommeri(f): 7:59pm On Jun 04, 2015 |
derz ntin wrng in datn someone ur older dan wid 12 yrs bt d case here is shez too small nd nt matured enouf to handle it cox definetly ur view on tinz wud b quite diffrent frm herz nd wen u guys av a lil misunderstandn it wud tak a while to resolve it cox of eachoda views nd wid tym u get fed up wid her nd u guys brk up nd den u leave her wid a broken hrt while u move on....lik i said datn someone ur 12 yrs olda dan isnt bad bt knw derz a diff btwn 18 nd 16,..i'll advice u to go for one datz 18-20 nd upwards...meanwhile ur relatnshp cud wrk o.it depends on circumstances sorrundin it...wu knws,a lot of tinz dat r insane actually tend to b sane..u knw her beta dan us nd u shud b d ryt persn to determine ur stand wid her...tanx |
Re: What Is Happening To Me? I'm In Love With A 16 Year Old Girl by texanomaly(f): 8:01pm On Jun 04, 2015 |
Pineapp: opeyemisteph: zinachidi: I keep seeing comments like this here and all over NL. It is true that many girls today look and act much older than they are. She may even posses great "book smarts". Just because a girl is physically mature enough to have sex and is smart, doesn't make her emotionally mature. This girl has not lived. Give her time to mature in every way. Don't rob her of experiences that will help shape her into a mature adult. Give her the opportunity to grow into a strong mature woman. If you truly love her you wouldn't deny her that. sirjohnson: What do you mean here, because then you say the comment below? The above comment sounds like you've already had sex. sirjohnson: |
Re: What Is Happening To Me? I'm In Love With A 16 Year Old Girl by Cavenchy(m): 8:08pm On Jun 04, 2015 |
texanomaly: Technically, you're saying girls need to go through many Douchebags and heartbreaks for them to be mature in your eyes? I understand your concern, but a well-raised girl knows what the right thing to do is and doesn't need to date 100 men before she is mature enough to know when Mr.Right comes knocking. I would rather the OP prays about it, and if it doesn't work out accept the outcome and wish her the best. |
Re: What Is Happening To Me? I'm In Love With A 16 Year Old Girl by Nobody: 8:21pm On Jun 04, 2015 |
bro the good news is that it's no more illegal. Senate said legal age for sex is 11 fire on bro u 're within the law https://www.nairaland.com/2357862/senate-makes-11-years-legal |
Re: What Is Happening To Me? I'm In Love With A 16 Year Old Girl by texanomaly(f): 8:34pm On Jun 04, 2015 |
Cavenchy: First, I wasn't talking about dating at all. Dating 100 men does not make you mature. She hasn't experienced life outside of the protective cocoon of her family and friends. Give her the chance to finish school at least. Second, where do they go as a couple? He obviously knows his friends and family and her friends and family will not accept this. He wouldn't be here asking if he were confident in his choices. Third, will he isolate her from her friends? Her friends are 16ish, except for him. Will he hang out with her friends? What about his friends, will he take his 16 year old gf to hang out with his almost 30 year old friends? (I'm sorry, I choke on saying that while I think of my own daughter. If he has a sister, would he wish this for her, or would he beat the guy to a pulp for even looking at his little sister?) 1 Like |
Re: What Is Happening To Me? I'm In Love With A 16 Year Old Girl by kraftykc(m): 8:42pm On Jun 04, 2015 |
Well there is sort a girl up my street too difference is that I'm quite able to see the stupidity of choking her so my mind finds her quite unattractive. But na still dis my dumbest mind dey push my look my cousin nahh one time... The struggle is real |
Re: What Is Happening To Me? I'm In Love With A 16 Year Old Girl by Cavenchy(m): 9:01pm On Jun 04, 2015 |
texanomaly: You have a point, however the heart doesn't care about age or class differences, people would only laugh at what you're ashamed of and respect what you honour. The truth is, the success is determined by his maturity and her's too (assuming she was well brought up and behaves matured like he says ''she acts 20'') should overcome whatever challenges they might encounter and people would soon begin to overlook the age difference. However I would agree with you on two things: 1. The chances of her being mature enough to understand love and life are pretty slim for most girls her age though there are exceptions. 2. The chances of him being genuinely interested in a girl who he only describes as giving him the green light (he doesn't explain in details how the relationship goes beyond merely physical) or how he sees their future together. The OP might not know he is taking advantage of her naivety and think it's mutual. In UK for example, a girl can't give consent till she is 16, as it is assumed she doesn't fully comprehend her emotions and is likely to regret such actions afterwards. I think the issue here might be her age rather than the gap. I agree he needs to let her mature (if he feels she probably isn't there yet), but I'm sure the OP knows her more than any of us do. I would advice him not to take advantage of the situation if his conscience tells him she is just being naïve. |
Re: What Is Happening To Me? I'm In Love With A 16 Year Old Girl by Olaone1: 9:31pm On Jun 04, 2015 |
"I just wanna nurture her" "At most, I would kiss her" Ole osi. Your cousins and sisters are there if you need teenagers to nurture. Nurture your cousins and sisters. You have been 'doing' it. Eleke gben gbe |
Re: What Is Happening To Me? I'm In Love With A 16 Year Old Girl by Nobody: 9:38pm On Jun 04, 2015 |
chrisxxx: GIVE me their contact so i cant make a complaint about their pedophile ATM chasing after their client female Children. Shameless pedophile |
Re: What Is Happening To Me? I'm In Love With A 16 Year Old Girl by Saharablavi(f): 9:39pm On Jun 04, 2015 |
My hubby is 13yrs older ,I don't see anything wrong with that |
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