Personally, I think virginity is highly overrated because some ladies think that alone will guarrantee them a happy home even when they don't know how to cook, they are dirty, proud, agressive, nag and are not even willing to succumb to the dictates of marriage.
Indeed, we have seen couples who's marriage lasted forever even when none of the parties met each other a virgin.
My fellow ladies, please keep your virginity if you so desire but don't ever see it as a passport to a happy and fulfilled marriage. A husband that will cherish you will still do so even if you are not a virgin.


Who else thinks virginity is overrated??
#teamvirginityisoverrated#

Virginity is not a sign that she will make a good wife to me its like an added advantage just like in a CV. I have seen the so called bad girls getting married and having a good home and the so called virgin doing the opposite.


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D reason why virginity is overrated is because virgins demselves are so spoilt u won't believ thery r virgins...

natas22:
Virginity is not a sign that she will make a good wife to me its like an added advantage just like in a CV. I have seen the so called bad girls getting married and having a good home and the so called virgin doing the opposite.


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You are so on point

misssclassy:
I don't think virginity is overrated. I just think it has been overemphasized to the extent that it has lost value.

There are certain reasons why virginity as a subject and all these emphasis on it remains prevalent.
Some of these reason include:

~The moral code it represents.
Ladies who are virgins are seen are morally upright in the sense that they would definitely not be sleeping around and having their bodies used by males.
It is seen as symbol for dignity of the female.

~Another reason is for prevention of STDs and other diseases. Someone who hasn't had sex with another would definitely not be prone to be infected by these diseases

~There is also the issue of teenage pregnancies and having children out of wedlock or outside the umbrella of marriage.

~But the main reason behind all this is religion and culture.
Most religious books always emphasize on protecting your virginity and all that.
Various traditions especially here in Nigeria value virginity and you always see mothers talking to there daughters about how vital and important their virginity is.

Am impressed its coming from you nice answer.

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softnipples:
Personally, I think virginity is highly overrated because some ladies think that alone will guarrantee them a happy home even when they don't know how to cook, they are dirty, proud, agressive, nag and are not even willing to succumb to the dictates of marriage.
Indeed, we have seen couples who's marriage lasted forever even when none of the parties met each other a virgin.
My fellow ladies, please keep your virginity if you so desire but don't ever see it as a passport to a happy and fulfilled marriage. A husband that will cherish you will still do so even if you are not a virgin.


Who else thinks virginity is overrated??
#teamvirginityisoverrated#

you are definitely a hater of virgins probably because you lost yours long ago. virginity is the pride of a woman........once its gone its gone
anything good is good, you can only make it better and then best hence over rating is allowed.

Virginity is not overrated , Its only a foolish virgin that'll think that just her virginity will get her a good husband. In fact due to the moral decadence that has overtaken the society today men hardly care if you're a virgin or not so long you're faithful and decent you're good to go but that still doesn't erase the importance of virginity.

VIRGINITY is definitely lack of opportunity and overrated

pongwa:
you are definitely a hater of virgins probably because you lost yours long ago. virginity is the pride of a woman........once its gone its gone
anything good is good, you can only make it better and then best hence over rating is allowed.

There are secondary virgins you know

pongwa:
you are definitely a hater of virgins probably because you lost yours long ago. virginity is the pride of a woman........once its gone its gone
anything good is good, you can only make it better and then best hence over rating is allowed.

As a woman, I cannot be a hater of virgins. My only take is ladies who see their virginity as the only gateway to a happy home.
And wether I have lost mine or not is not your bizness dude...or is it your virginity?

softnipples:
Personally, I think virginity is highly overrated because some ladies think that alone will guarrantee them a happy home even when they don't know how to cook, they are dirty, proud, agressive, nag and are not even willing to succumb to the dictates of marriage.
Indeed, we have seen couples who's marriage lasted forever even when none of the parties met each other a virgin.
My fellow ladies, please keep your virginity if you so desire but don't ever see it as a passport to a happy and fulfilled marriage. A husband that will cherish you will still do so even if you are not a virgin.


Who else thinks virginity is overrated??
#teamvirginityisoverrated#

some times it is.. but sometimes its not

Rikidony:

There are secondary virgins you know

My dear, secondary virginity is nothing but constructive fraud . Because of this overating, some ladies have resorted to self deception.
Secondary virgins my foot very soon, we will begin to hear tertiary or even universal virgins

virginity is highly overrated,,,keep your virginity till you are 30 and heavy smell await you cos na only heaven fit count how many times you go don do menstruation with that tight hole,get laid and smell go burst buahhh

Yeah,virginity is overrated and is not everything totally needed to make for a happy home

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off course it is overrated.
Many virgins have their heart as dark as night.
What edge does a virgin that is arrogant,a traitor or backbiter have over a non virgin that does not possess such traits?

softnipples:

My dear, secondary virginity is nothing but constructive fraud . Because of this overating, some ladies have resorted to self deception.
Secondary virgins my foot very soon, we will begin to hear tertiary or even universal virgins

girls with self deciet, Nice moniker though but I like them hard

Cutehector:
D reason why virginity is overrated is because virgins demselves are so spoilt u won't believ thery r virgins...

you'll hear things like secondary virgins

Itisnt overated. There has just started to be a hype about it cos in todays society its becoming scarce. When a common commodity becomes scarce, such sommodity's price rises and pplke start talking about getting it.
U gerrit?

It yhe society that has made it so.

yes a virgin that cannot cook, is lazy and disrespectful will make a lousy wife, just like a non-virgin woman with those kind of qualities would also make a lousy wife. But a woman that is a virgin, that is beautiful, respectful, loving, hardworking, and can do homely duties would make an excellent wife, just like a non-virginal woman with those qualities would also make a good wife.

Virginity is not overrated, it is a beautiful thing. It s like icing on a cake...a delicious cake will be delicious regardless, but if you could get it with icing wouldn't you prefer that??

It can only make a sweet thing even sweeter, but it is definitely not the cake.

if anything i think virginity is UNDERRATED, in this sex filled world it is sooooo hard for a woman to remain a virgin, especially if she is beautiful and has a good personality. it's not easy at all!

qbd2:
Itisnt overated. There has just started to be a hype about it cos in todays society its becoming scarce. When a common commodity becomes scarce, such sommodity's price rises and pplke start talking about getting it.
U gerrit?

Cool I gerrit

Personally, I don't even consider it a criterion in the search for a soulmate. There are other more important qualities that could make or mar a woman than to bother on "virginity". Jeez.

All this talk of V especially on NL is sickening

misssclassy:
I don't think virginity is overrated. I just think it has been overemphasized to the extent that it is gradually losing it's value.

There are certain reasons why virginity as a subject and all these emphasis on it remains prevalent.
Some of these reason include:

~The moral code it represents.
Ladies who are virgins are seen are morally upright in the sense that they would definitely not be sleeping around and having their bodies used by males. Virgins are seen as those that have respect for their bodies.
It is seen as symbol of dignity as far as the female gender is concerned

~Another reason is for prevention of STDs and other diseases. Someone who hasn't had sex with another would definitely not be prone to be infected by these diseases

~There is also the issue of teenage pregnancies and having children out of wedlock or outside the umbrella of marriage.

But the main reason behind all this is religion and culture.
Most religious books always emphasize on protecting your virginity and all that.
Various traditions especially here in Nigeria value virginity and you always see mothers talking to there daughters about how vital and important their virginity is.

Well I don't believe in virginity being the main criteria when choosing a partner. I don't even see it as a criterion.
Being a virgin doesn't give you a pass mark to being a good wife.

If a girl chooses to keep her virginity, then she should. But if she doesn't ,then she shouldn't be chastised for it.

u are saying dis because u are not a man... You dnt realy know how happy a man can be when he finds out that his wife is a virgin... This alone attract respect and trust from him. Nobody is saying virgin makes good wife but believe me, 9o% of guys wil love to have a virgin as a bonus for her good conduct. Let me be blunt a little... I guess the op. Ve shamelessly lost her virginity,thats why she is creating a topic against it. Bt u shld advice her to go close to guys,including those that visit prostitutes and drugs addict, they all love that bonus about having a wife who is a virgin

1 reply to you......fuckingglyy overrated!!!

eww

Spreads my mat,open my bobo and startin waitin 2 read coments

Non virgins be like yes it is.

virginity is not over rated, infact, its under rated.

Dat our ladies married as non virgins n our men accepted them, does not mean its a gud tin.

Marrying a girl as a virgin is also not a criteria of a perfect home but the man will be rest assured that her allegiance rest wit him n no one else (although not in all cases).

softnipples:
Personally, I think virginity is highly overrated because some ladies think that alone will guarrantee them a happy home even when they don't know how to cook, they are dirty, proud, agressive, nag and are not even willing to succumb to the dictates of marriage.
Indeed, we have seen couples who's marriage lasted forever even when none of the parties met each other a virgin.
My fellow ladies, please keep your virginity if you so desire but don't ever see it as a passport to a happy and fulfilled marriage. A husband that will cherish you will still do so even if you are not a virgin.


Who else thinks virginity is overrated??
#teamvirginityisoverrated#

Hmmmmmm***Very surprised This is coming from a Lady***

But whatever the case may be, If it is Overrated,Then it Worth it..