A lot of ladies complain that guys walk away from them
simply because they refused to give them sex, some are
even tempted to give away their virginity just to keep the
guys.

Let me be very blunt here. Virginity may not be the real
reason the guys go away. Yes, no doubt, there are several
guys who want sex, and if they don’t get it, they walk away.
The problem may not be with the virginity or the sex.
The story of the Ten virgins in the Bible reveals that both the
wise and foolish were both virgins, the other five were not
refused from seeing the bridegroom because they were
virgins or because they lost their virginity, but because they
were foolish; they were called foolish because they had no
EXTRA OIL.

Most ladies don’t have any EXTRA OIL to sustain any
relationship. While many brag about their virginity, that is all they have to offer, they forget that virginity ends the night after the wedding, but EXTRA OIL is what will keep the
marriage going.

If a man ask a lady for sex and she says NO, the man can
walk away if what he really wanted was sex and also if that is all he thinks the lady can offer him. A man may not come to a lady for sex, along the line he may be tempted to ask for sex, if the lady turns him down, the man may still stay in the relationship if he sees other things that are valuable to him, but if he doesn’t, he may walk away. Before you think guys are walking away because you are a virgin, look inwardly. Some ladies who brag about virginity are somewhat timid, some impolite, uncultured and aggressive. Why would a guy stay with such a lady? Some ladies do not have manners, some do not have much upstairs, some are not social, some are dull, and maybe the best thing they have is their hips, nice backside, nice breast and nice lips, and so when a guy comes because of all the physical shapes and wants sex, if he is turned down, he walks away because there is nothing else interesting about the lady.

Most men now are even scared of marrying such virgins.
Their fears prompt them to want to test before they discus
marriage because many ladies who got married as virgins
have caused their husbands to be looking elsewhere
because they are too naïve on bed. However, you don’t need to test to be sure she will be good, you can know a lady who will be good at home and bed by her decent conversation, by the level of knowledge acquired, by her quest/zest/ passion for knowledge and by God’s leading.

I know of many ladies who are still virgins, they have great
relationships, they have many friends around them, you
may not even know they are still virgins unless they tell you.
Do not break your virginity because a guy wants to walk
away, unless you don’t have anything else to off in .
relationship. It is not all about virginity, work to build up
virtue. Virginity is good, but to your virginity, add knowledge, add EXTRA OIL….“And beside this, giving all diligence, add to your faith virtue; and to virtue knowledge; And to knowledge temperance; and to temperance patience; and to patience Godliness, And to Godliness brotherly kindness; and to brotherly kindness charity.” 2 Pet. 1:5-7

Do not break your virginity because a guy wants to walk away.
nice point.

Though I respect virgins & encourage chastity, I think it is more expedient to "know" your partner before tying the knot.

I mean, who doesn't "test-run" an automobile before purchasing?

Michellla:
Do not break your virginity because a guy wants to walk away.
nice point.

you mean some ladies are that naive?

Nice write up

ArchEnemy:
you mean some ladies are that naive?

aha you'ld be surprised..

Loving this write up.!

RexKex:
As much as I respect virgins, I think it is better to "know" your partner before tying the knot.

I mean, who doesn't "test-run" an automobile before purchasing?

but these are not automobiles; they are humans o
Besides, getting a good test run does not always guarantee a problem free usage

And thirdly, giving excuses to disobey God wont stand on the D-day

ArchEnemy:
but these are not automobiles; they are humans o
Besides, getting a good test run does not always guarantee a problem free usage

And thirdly, giving excuses to disobey God wont stand on the D-day

Test running might not always guarantee safe usage. But blindly purchasing an automobile without first test-running is far more drastic IMO.

What if the two persons eventually get married after "test-running", will it still be disobedience? Just curious.

RexKex:
Test running might not always guarantee safe usage. But blindly purchasing an automobile without first test-running is far more drastic IMO.

What if the two persons eventually get married after "test-running", will it still be disobedience? Just curious.

Fornication is still fornication even if they marry 4 times and over.
Bro, we just look for excuses to disobey that part.....how the hell did our fathers marry right without test running?

ArchEnemy:

Fornication is still fornication even if they marry 4 times and over.
Bro, we just look for excuses to disobey that part.....how the hell did our fathers marry right without test running?

Our fathers probably never told us the truth. Our fathers "test-runned", they probably even "test-runned" more than we will ever "test-run".

RexKex:
Our fathers probably never told us the truth. Our fathers "test-runned", they probably even "test-runned" more than we will ever "tes-run".

hmmmm Rex baba I don't know where you got that from o
Anyway, it looks justifiable when we go with our carnal human mindset . But excuses won't help against God
I rest my case

ArchEnemy:

hmmmm Rex baba I don't know where you got that from o
Anyway, it looks justifiable when we go with our carnal human mindset . But excuses won't help against God
I rest my case

lol. To be thoroughly sure, ask dad.


Case rested.

At last someone gets it. How some air brains equate virtue with virginity befuddles me.

Even if virginity is not full blown virtue but we need to applaud the ladies that stood their grounds amidst all these high sexual tension prevalent in our time. A lot of us, me inclusive, couldn't. It does not make us worse or better persons, but a round of aplause should be given to those that deserve it.

i like that ...nice write up op

you ate right op ••••••••very right

RexKex:
Our fathers probably never told us the truth. Our fathers "test-runned", they probably even "test-runned" more than we will ever "test-run".

Lmao...

Richiy:
Even if virginity is not full blown virtue but we need to applaud the ladies that stood their grounds amidst all these high sexual tension prevalent in our time. A lot of us, me inclusive, couldn't. It does not make us worse or better persons, but a round of aplause should be given to those that deserve it.

Will d applause buy dem a happily ever after marriage?

virginity is not virtue yeah. But, what if she has the virginity and the virtue? Oh jibijibijibi

Speechless3:
At last someone gets it. How some air brains equate virtue with virginity befuddles me.

Loool. At 1st I thought it was the "Nigerian mentality" but its actually d same in the US, esp amongst d religious folks so I guess its religion dat makes people think dat way, altho religion in itself never really equated virginity to virtue, well I can say dat abt christianity not really sure abt others

Though I respect virgins & encourage chastity, I think it is more expedient to "know" your partner before tying the knot.

I mean, who doesn't "test-run" an automobile before purchasing?

*raises hand* I don't

Wat exactly is d aim of d "test run" sex? What ar u testing for? Whether or not she has a hole inbetween her thighs?

Speechless3:
At last someone gets it. How some air brains equate virtue with virginity befuddles me.

Take this piece home to momma:U can't eat your cake and have it. If you've kept yourself chaste and have the good morals to match, How full the self respect and value from others will be? If you'd become everybody's _fuck hole, you expect to be treated like a rare gem? Oh No!

pinceprinz:
virginity is not virtue yeah. But, what if she has the virginity and the virtue? Oh jibijibijibi

To me it doesn't really add to her value, she's d one I'm interested in not her hymen

CountDracula:


To me it doesn't really add to her value, she's d one I'm interested in not her hymen

All I can relate with from your pot of belief is You don't care if she's a hoe so far she has the good nature. It's yo life!

pinceprinz:

Take this piece home to momma:U can't eat your cake and have it. If you've kept yourself chaste and have the good morals to match, How full the self respect and value from others will be? If you'd become everybody's _fuck hole, you expected to be treated like a rare gem? Oh No!

Nobody is askin u to bcome a glory hole for all manner of colors, types, and sizes of the D, but because ure not a virgin doesn't make u any less respectable dan a woman dat has a double layer of hymen because she's never even seen porn bfor talk less have sex, chastity is not equal to respect. I don't knw if ure a christian, if u are u wil understand wat am abt to say, Jesus respected a LovePeddler... And till date people bear her name, I can't say dat for d countless virgins dat met Jesus but were never mentioned because dey made no impact, virginity doesn't make u any better its who u are dats d difference

pinceprinz:

All I can relate with from your pot of belief is You don't care if she's a hoe so far she has the good nature. It's yo life!

Lool. Its funny u assume a "non-virgin" is automatically a hoe, little bit short sighted too, seriously dis days 90% of d tym u don't knw d kind of girl ure datin, her being a virgin wil not make u understand her any better or make her a good cook or make her good wit kids or make her understandin or make her intelligent

having a flab of skin tissue covering a orifice in your body does not make you a virtuous person. Humans are too dumb.

CountDracula:


Nobody is askin u to bcome a glory hole for all manner of colors, types, and sizes of the D, but because ure not a virgin doesn't make u any less respectable dan a woman dat has a double layer of hymen because she's never even seen porn bfor talk less have sex, chastity is not equal to respect. I don't knw if ure a christian, if u are u wil understand wat am abt to say, Jesus respected a LovePeddler... And till date people bear her name, I can't say dat for d countless virgins dat met Jesus but were never mentioned because dey made no impact, virginity doesn't make u any better its who u are dats d difference

OH I'm no xtian but I know stuffs bout Mary Magdalen, Who bears Magdalen today? What is the population when compared to those people who bear Mary - "Virgin" Mary- Mother of Jesus? Anyway, she ( Mary from Magdalen) ain't no hoe as you've been made to erroneously believe, she actually a woman who is actually vulnerable to men's abuse (sexually)-She lived at the city's wall(outskirts) where men commit atrocities - full blown, + she is possessed by some demonic spirit, Jesus casting that out, she became one of the faithful disciples ... Btw, who were the virgins that met Jesus that made no impact? Educate us.
You also said chastity is not respect but I say to you chastity earns you respect in the sight of God the mighty and Men who haven't lost their senses to the love of the World and the ephemeral bounty that comes with it.

CountDracula:


Lool. Its funny u assume a "non-virgin" is automatically a hoe, little bit short sighted too, seriously dis days 90% of d tym u don't knw d kind of girl ure datin, her being a virgin wil not make u understand her any better or make her a good cook or make her good wit kids or make her understandin or make her intelligent

Before you go deep, are you trying to tell me Virgins don't have all these vibrant womanly qualities and more? Are you kidding me or something?

pinceprinz:

Before you go deep, are you trying to tell me Virgins don't have all these vibrant womanly qualities and more? Are you kidding me or something?

I'm saying virginity doesn't "give" u dis qualities... Virginity doesn't make u brilliant. Pls understand