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Re: How Do I Go About Confessing My Feelings To Her.... Pls Help by Tallesty1(m): 11:23am On Jun 07, 2015
AgapeCharis:
Really?? undecided
Yes
Re: How Do I Go About Confessing My Feelings To Her.... Pls Help by fretfingers: 12:00pm On Jun 07, 2015
elantraceey:
I don't know why guys can't learn how grow a relationship from friendship , there are times where you won't necessarily need to do the asking like will you be my girlfriend and all those bullcrap , for me that's so stale, A lady comes to your house and watches movies whenever she's leaving you tease her , the next day you jokingly tell her I like you a lot and watch her reaction , from there you'll know if she has feelings for you or not and you'll know your next move , playfully tell you look her and watch her reaction too , with time if she has feelings for you she'll start replying I love you too instead of going through the stress of being turned down if you go straight to the point once and at the end your friendship is still intact if it doesn't graduate to relationship.


My dear, if u were a guy. U wouldnt want a girl to get d impression that u r her friend wen wat u actually want from her is a relationship. Wat u said can only n only apply to a girl whom u've (as a guy) been friends with.

For every girl there is always atleast 10toasters (could be less or more) and the xteristics a girl seeks in a potential bf varies depending on d girl... But I tink one is constant.. That is--- come out straight with what u want from me... Right?! Proove me wrong...

So I am a fan of the call a spade a spade approach... For me I'd tell u wat I want, if I av a chance with u I'd ask... Than I would let u now decide if wat u see in me is wat u like in a guy or not.. And at the right time... we sail on or not!

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Re: How Do I Go About Confessing My Feelings To Her.... Pls Help by Nobody: 12:01pm On Jun 07, 2015
I must confess!
I like you!

misssclassy:
Op it seems this girl sees you as a friend, as a companion, as someone she can trust.
The fact that she broke up with her boyfriend and she still finds time to spend with you means that you have a place in her heart.
I know many girls who after break-ups just decide to stay away from guys for a while, but this girl still decided to spend time with you.
This should tell you something.

I'd advise you just create time and tell her how you feel. Maybe whenever she comes to your place, or when both of you are alone, just garner courage and tell her you love her.

Ladies admire confidence in guys and i am sure the lady will respect the fact that you were confident enough to tell how feel about her.
Re: How Do I Go About Confessing My Feelings To Her.... Pls Help by Nobody: 12:03pm On Jun 07, 2015
Tallesty1:
If a girl comes to your house to watch movies

or

If you invite a girl over to watch movies and all you did was actually watch movies then you have failed as a man.
Exactly.

He is not a man if he doesn't fornicate.
Re: How Do I Go About Confessing My Feelings To Her.... Pls Help by Nobody: 12:06pm On Jun 07, 2015
@drizzy009

If i were you, i will start acting as her boyfriend and see how that turns out.
If it works out well, trust me, you wouldnt know when you will both start saying the L word!
Re: How Do I Go About Confessing My Feelings To Her.... Pls Help by elantraceey(f): 12:11pm On Jun 07, 2015
fretfingers:



My dear, if u were a guy. U wouldnt want a girl to get d impression that u r her friend wen wat u actually want from her is a relationship. Wat u said can only n only apply to a girl whom u've (as a guy) been friends with.

For every girl there is always atleast 10toasters (could be less or more) and the xteristics a girl seeks in a potential bf varies depending on d girl... But I tink one is constant.. That is--- come out straight with what u want from me... Right?! Proove me wrong...

So I am a fan of the call a spade a spade approach... For me I'd tell u wat I want, if I av a chance with u I'd ask... Than I would let u now decide if wat u see in me is wat u like in a guy or not.. And at the right time... we sail on or not!


True that every girl is different but there are some things that just works for most persons , sometimes you just need to learn how to read the handwriting on the wall.
Re: How Do I Go About Confessing My Feelings To Her.... Pls Help by daveP(m): 12:35pm On Jun 07, 2015
elantraceey:
I don't know why guys can't learn how grow a relationship from friendship , there are times where you won't necessarily need to do the asking like will you be my girlfriend and all those bullcrap , for me that's so stale, A lady comes to your house and watches movies whenever she's leaving you tease her , the next day you jokingly tell her I like you a lot and watch her reaction , from there you'll know if she has feelings for you or not and you'll know your next move , playfully tell you look her and watch her reaction too , with time if she has feelings for you she'll start replying I love you too instead of going through the stress of being turned down if you go straight to the point once and at the end your friendship is still intact if it doesn't graduate to relationship.


(to a crowd of dudes hiking and rollerskating nearby) try this if you damn crazy and wana let mooma hug you when you sulk..
Thats if your Jack-bauer incarnate(risk taker)
wink
Re: How Do I Go About Confessing My Feelings To Her.... Pls Help by fretfingers: 12:39pm On Jun 07, 2015
elantraceey:


True that every girl is different but there are some things that just works for most persons , sometimes you just need to learn how to read the handwriting on the wall.


Well, I tink every relationship is determined by, the circumstances surrounding how or where u guys met n if u av been friends before-the type of friend u guys were before it became a relationship proper.

@op there is a tin line between friendship n relationship between two opposite sex. And with my lil experience...( Most girls know as in really know how to draw that line )... So be smart about it! The way u express ur feelings goes a long way to transforming d friendship into a relationship or into foes....

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Re: How Do I Go About Confessing My Feelings To Her.... Pls Help by elantraceey(f): 12:40pm On Jun 07, 2015
daveP:



(to a crowd of dudes hiking and rollerskating nearby) try this if you damn crazy and wana let mooma hug you when you sulk..
Thats if your Jack-bauer incarnate(risk taker)
wink


It works like magic tongue
Re: How Do I Go About Confessing My Feelings To Her.... Pls Help by daveP(m): 1:00pm On Jun 07, 2015
elantraceey:



It works like magic tongue
fephew! shocked jst getting da hint...... lipsrsealed
Re: How Do I Go About Confessing My Feelings To Her.... Pls Help by Vick4rill(m): 1:13pm On Jun 07, 2015
misssclassy:
Op it seems this girl sees you as a friend, as a companion, as someone she can trust.
The fact that she broke up with her boyfriend and she still finds time to spend with you means that you have a place in her heart.
I know many girls who after break-ups just decide to stay away from guys for a while, but this girl still decided to spend time with you.
This should tell you something.

I'd advise you just create time and tell her how you feel. Maybe whenever she comes to your place, or when both of you are alone, just garner courage and tell her you love her.

Ladies admire confidence in guys and i am sure the lady will respect the fact that you were confident enough to tell how feel about her.
you didnt even care to know how old the op. Realy is
Re: How Do I Go About Confessing My Feelings To Her.... Pls Help by drizzy009: 5:16pm On Jun 07, 2015
chybykee
daben1
Acekidc4
misssclassy
beautycrush24
EroticAngelina


i got the confidence to tell her 3hours after her arrival from church, as usual she came to my room to watch movie and charge her phone,I told her how I felt about her, but her reply was that it wasn't possible, that we should just keep at the friendship level, I asked why, her reply was "friend zone"............
Re: How Do I Go About Confessing My Feelings To Her.... Pls Help by Nobody: 6:18pm On Jun 07, 2015
drizzy009:
chybykee
daben1
Acekidc4
misssclassy
beautycrush24
EroticAngelina


i got the confidence to tell her 3hours after her arrival from church, as usual she came to my room to watch movie and charge her phone,I told her how I felt about her, but her reply was that it wasn't possible, that we should just keep at the friendship level, I asked why, her reply was "friend zone"............

hmm, tz ok. at least u told her smiley

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Re: How Do I Go About Confessing My Feelings To Her.... Pls Help by beautycrush24(f): 7:17pm On Jun 07, 2015
drizzy009:
chybykee
daben1
Acekidc4
misssclassy
beautycrush24
EroticAngelina


i got the confidence to tell her 3hours after her arrival from church, as usual she came to my room to watch movie and charge her phone,I told her how I felt about her, but her reply was that it wasn't possible, that we should just keep at the friendship level, I asked why, her reply was "friend zone"............
Oops! She might change her mind. Just give her a reason to.
Re: How Do I Go About Confessing My Feelings To Her.... Pls Help by daben1(m): 7:23pm On Jun 07, 2015
drizzy009:
chybykee
daben1
Acekidc4
misssclassy
beautycrush24
EroticAngelina


i got the confidence to tell her 3hours after her arrival from church, as usual she came to my room to watch movie and charge her phone,I told her how I felt about her, but her reply was that it wasn't possible, that we should just keep at the friendship level, I asked why, her reply was "friend zone"............
u don't expect her to say yes after a first trial, she's only being a woman... Keep telling her and she'll know how serious you are
a girl told me 'no' five times, and after my persistency and several trials, guess what...?
Re: How Do I Go About Confessing My Feelings To Her.... Pls Help by Acekidc4(m): 7:33pm On Jun 07, 2015
drizzy009:
chybykee
daben1
Acekidc4
misssclassy
beautycrush24
EroticAngelina


i got the confidence to tell her 3hours after her arrival from church, as usual she came to my room to watch movie and charge her phone,I told her how I felt about her, but her reply was that it wasn't possible, that we should just keep at the friendship level, I asked why, her reply was "friend zone"............

Don't Rush it Guy, she will definitely come around!!
It's good as she don know your feeling towards her!!

Girls will always be girls, they will always Play Hard to get!!
Re: How Do I Go About Confessing My Feelings To Her.... Pls Help by sneak3(m): 7:39pm On Jun 07, 2015
Just lift this lines and she will be yours if she feels de same abt you... During one of the attention catching movie scene, just pause d moveie and tell her these " call her name first nd proceed I knw this might not be d right time or approach to say this to u but sincerely I value ur friendship and companion, I look forward to seeing you everyday and whenever you are around me i quietly wish u don't have to leave.."

Stop there and leave her to ponder on what u have told her, continue the movie....

Thank me later wiv 1500 MTN
Re: How Do I Go About Confessing My Feelings To Her.... Pls Help by chybykee(m): 7:50pm On Jun 07, 2015
drizzy009:
chybykee
daben1
Acekidc4
misssclassy
beautycrush24
EroticAngelina


i got the confidence to tell her 3hours after her arrival from church, as usual she came to my room to watch movie and charge her phone,I told her how I felt about her, but her reply was that it wasn't possible, that we should just keep at the friendship level, I asked why, her reply was "friend zone"............


She just wants you take things slowly
She just broke up remember?
Don't loose it, keep showing her love and care. She just wants to know she can trust you.
Build that trust and confidence. The best relationship is all about friendship, someone you can tell everything with the fear of nothing>

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Re: How Do I Go About Confessing My Feelings To Her.... Pls Help by Rowlandjude(m): 7:59pm On Jun 07, 2015
drizzy009:
there's this one girl i really like in my hostel, but i don't know how to go about confessing my feelings to her, we are close friends, she does come to watch movies in my room till 10:30pm, but i don't think her presence up till that time justifies that she also has feelings for me....its always me and her in the room coz i don't have a roommate, but i still don't know how to tell her how i feel, she also just broke-up with her boyfriend 2 weeks ago.....so please dear nairalanders help me on this one.....

how should i go about it

https://only1jude./2015/06/04/how-to-tell-a-friend-you-like-her-without-ruining-the-friendship/
Re: How Do I Go About Confessing My Feelings To Her.... Pls Help by Bamidele539: 2:36pm On Jan 12, 2021
drizzy009:
chybykee
daben1
Acekidc4
misssclassy
beautycrush24
EroticAngelina


i got the confidence to tell her 3hours after her arrival from church, as usual she came to my room to watch movie and charge her phone,I told her how I felt about her, but her reply was that it wasn't possible, that we should just keep at the friendship level, I asked why, her reply was "friend zone"............
its past 5years. What is the current situation of things. Am sure its either you guys ended up together or both went seperate ways...
Re: How Do I Go About Confessing My Feelings To Her.... Pls Help by onyibest2020(f): 4:44pm On Jan 12, 2021
Tell her ur mind nd don't act silly.

Silly in de sense of forcing her to ur bed.
Re: How Do I Go About Confessing My Feelings To Her.... Pls Help by anthonyuncle(m): 7:11pm On Jan 12, 2021
onyibest2020:
Tell her ur mind nd don't act silly.

Silly in de sense of forcing her to ur bed.


did you see the date that this post was created?
Re: How Do I Go About Confessing My Feelings To Her.... Pls Help by Brunicekid(m): 9:28pm On Jan 12, 2021
Tallesty1:
If a girl comes to your house to watch movies

or

If you invite a girl over to watch movies and all you did was actually watch movies then you have failed as a man.
You can be a good guy if you really want to... Must MOVIES lead to something else

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