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Feminism as a word has been viewed with much hatred by male and female folk alike even though the feminist movement is supposed to be a noble cause i.e fighting gender discrimination.

So what has caused such strong animosity between feminists and other sane individuals? I think females who exhibit feminism to the extreme are to blame and they usually have the following characteristics :

1. Extremely rude. One cannot hold a reasonable discussion with these feminists without it turning to an insult fest especially when the other respondent is male.

2. Disrespectful. Just because you are a feminist doesn't mean you should be rude to others around you.

3. Man hating. Anything to do with the male folk they are immediately up in arms about it. Everything about men is bad. Except for thier brothers, fathers and husbands.

4. Biased. As long as it's an argument/fight concerning a man and a woman such feminists will always support the woman even if what she did was totally wrong.

5. Delusional towards themselves and society. They believe a single mother or divorced woman is more appealing to the male folk than women without any excess baggage. They are ready to defend this anywhere since it falls in line with a woman being empowered and able to leave a marriage at anytime.

6. Anti-marriage. They don't believe in making marriage work. Once the man is giving you a little stress it's time to pack up and leave. Marriage is not a loving union to them, rather it is slavery. Divorce is the solution to every little problem. And thier mantra is they will be happy when divorced. This is a blatant lie but they would want to believe it with all thier heart.

7. Anti-christ. Of course since Christianity used that terrible phrase "submit to your husbands" they have been crying foul. Many of them would rather turn atheist than follow this simple principle of leadership i.e a follower must submit to a leader. They would rather deceive themselves by saying they are a "team" and taking decisions "jointly."

8. Seeing evil in everything male. They make Hasty generalizations with every male they come across. Any male that does not agree with the feminist view is a cheat, a slave master who sits in the parlour all day and drinks beer while his slave wife works in the kitchen, a wife beater or a rapist. This comes across as very infuriating and discouraging for the good men out there.

9 Naive/Young. Many of these rude hateful feminists have not really had any real life experiences. They just blab at things they can't do if they were the ones in the same situation.

10. They like using the word "Hypocrite", even though by their very actions they are the most hypocritical bunch of people.


Many other characters of nairaland extreme feminists abound. You can add yours.

Lol!!!

OP please mention usernames.

OP, please stop trying to dig for bait

Hehhehehehhe. Lmao!

Time to dust my mat and grab popcorn and beer
Who wants to join me here? I need the company, biko
no body or mouth odour, please

raayah:
Lol!!!

OP please mention usernames.

They know themselves.

.. I've just put the kettle on.. getting ready to sip some tea..

@OP .. seems ur looking for trouble from the NAPW (National Association of Pained Women) aka "feminists"

The swallow what ever chichi say,even when she supports gays,our nairaland terminists still support it

They are confused and blind,how many of them are we even talking about?

they are like that because of frustration. No happy, reasonable woman will exhibit such traits.
Feminist my left nyansh!

lolaredvelvet:
@OP .. seems ur looking for trouble from the NAPW (National Association of Pained Women) aka "feminists"

Did you really have to type this?

coogaluta:
Did you really have to type this?

Yea, I typed it and??

lolaredvelvet:
Yea, I typed it and??

Makes you come across as senseless, no offeinse
You don't have to agree with their movement/opinion but calling them 'pained women'? Really?
To what end, actually?

coogaluta:
Makes you come across as senseless, no offeinse
You don't have to agree with their movement/opinion but calling them 'pained women'? Really?
To what end, actually?

I see ur tryna pick a fight but I refuse to oblige. I said what I said. Bye.

lolaredvelvet:
I see ur tryna pick a fight but I refuse to oblige. I said what I said. Bye.

Naaahhhhh, I wasn't tryna pick a fight.....just stating the obvious.
Have a good day

Am I a "feminist"? Yes

Is the OP right? No

Do I care? You guessed right


*keeps sipping P-juice*

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Hmm

damseyl:
Hmm

go and vote joor,.

[color=#000050]First of all, most Nairaland feminists are smarter and more intelligent than their other female counterparts.
Prove me wrong if you can.

Now watch as I debunk your baseless claims.

1. Feminists are not extremely rude. In fact, they are very polite. It's only when you provoke or insult them that they show you their other sides.

2. Like I said before, Nairaland feminists are not rude or disrespectful. If by being respectful you mean "licking asss" or being sycophantic in their comments, then you must be on a long thing, because We don't like asss.

3. Feminists don't hate men. We only hate the fact that men feel they are better or of a higher class than us. And as such we should treat them like our superiors and accord them such respect.
Feminism is all about a believe in the equality of the sexes so if we see a man who feels he is above us, or he is more superior than us, we will prove to him that he is not. Not that we hate him.

4. Nairaland feminists are not biased. I myself I am not biased. I say things as I see them and I know a lot of ladies who aren't biased in anyway.

5. Feminists are not delusional to themselves or the society.
And who the hell told you that feminists find single or divorced mother more appealing?
A lot of feminists embrace the concept of marriage and long for the day they get married. The only thing is that she would want her husband to respect her views on feminism, even if he doesn't support it.
Come on, there are acclaimed feminists who are happily married. You have the likes of Beyonce and Chimamanda

6)I don't know where you got this idea from but you are wrong. Most feminists here on nairaland are not even married so how would they understand a marriage situation and what to do when they have issues.
That being said, a feminist would never advice a lady to leave her marriage because of simple issues that can be handled through other means.
Except the person isn't using her brains.

7)There are many Nairalanders who are championing the cause of feminism and at the same time are still dedicated to their religions.

8 )You are the one making a hasty generalization with this point you gave.
Everyone has a right to their opinion and views. You can't force someone to join in your cause. Because someone doesn't support your views doesn't mean the person is "bad"
Feminists don't see men who don't share their views in the way you just described.

9) I am a feminist and I won't describe myself as naïve. I have had experiences in life and those experiences have shaped my mind and the way I view things.
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You people wont stop mentioning me on NL . Wetin I do you

I created this account to see how many mentions I will get in a day

Feminist:
You people wont stop mentioning me on NL . Wetin I do you

I created this account to see how many mentions I will get in a day

I don't really understand feminists and I probably won't.. I understand those who fight for grander equality tho.. I have never met a feminist in real life and probably won't meet one

5minsmadness:
Feminism as word has been viewed with much hatred by male and female folk alike even though the feminist movement is supposed to be a noble cause i.e fighting gender discrimination.

So what has caused such strong animosity between feminists and other sane individuals? I think females who exhibit feminism to the extreme are to blame and they usually have the following characteristics :

1. Extremely rude. One cannot hold a reasonable discussion with these feminists without it turning to an insult fest especially when the other respondent is male.

2. Disrespectful. Just because you are a feminist doesn't mean you should be rude to others around you.

3. Man hating. Anything to do with the male folk they are immediately up in arms about it. Everything about men is bad. Except for thier brothers, fathers and husbands.

4. Biased. As long as it's an argument/fight concerning a man and a woman such feminists will always support the woman even if what she did was totally wrong.

5. Delusional towards themselves and society. They believe a single mother or divorced woman is more appealing to the male folk than women without any excess baggage. They are ready to defend this anywhere since it falls in line with a woman being empowered and able to leave a marriage at anytime.

6. Anti-marriage. They don't believe in making marriage work. Once the man is giving you a little stress it's time to pack up and leave. Marriage is not a loving union to them, rather it is slavery. Divorce is the solution to every little problem. And thier mantra is they will be happy when divorced. This is a blatant lie but they would want to believe it with all thier heart.

7. Anti-christ. Of course since Christianity used that terrible phrase "submit to your husbands" they have been crying foul. Many of them would rather turn atheist than follow this simple principle of leadership i.e a follower must submit to a leader. They would rather deceive themselves by saying they are a "team" and taking decisions "jointly."

8. Seeing evil in everything male. They make Hasty generalizations with every male they come across. Any male that does not agree with the feminist view is a cheat, a slave master who sits in the parlour all day and drinks beer while his slave wife works in the kitchen, a wife beater or a rapist. This comes across as very infuriating and discouraging for the good men out there.

9 Naive/Young. Many of these rude hateful feminists have not really had any real life experiences. They just blab at things they can't do if they were the ones in the same situation.

10. They like using the word "Hypocrite", even though by their very actions they are the most hypocritical bunch of people.


Many other characters of nairaland feminists abound. You can add yours.

and I wouldn't even care a rat's ass about feminists.

Show me an African feminist and I will show you a sad , ftustrsted , psychologically maladjusted she-man who lost out in the world of love, affection and promise.

Frigid biitches with corrupted hormones.

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Op, better to answer my question on how your juju has worked on someone as you planned.

Mynd44:
Am I a "feminist"? Yes

Is the OP right? No

Do I care? You guessed right


*keeps sipping P-juice*

you mean you are a she-man . I have known you for all my time in NL and I have HONESTLY THOUGHT YOU ARE MAN .

You can ban me, it's like a medal to me now

But tell me, are you a lesbian too ?

Lamispaco:
go and vote joor,.

oh

lezz:
you mean you are a she-man . I have known you for all my time in NL and I have HONESTLY THOUGHT YOU ARE MAN .

You can ban me, it's like a medal to me now

But tell me, are you a lesbian too ?

High on Otuoke grade again weed I see

I term men who hate feminism but are 100% glued to their matter as "Association of angry misogynists".

If you hate feminists, just ignore them and marry non feminist. Why being butthurted? really?

I'm a supporter of egalitarianism.

Mynd44:
Am I a "feminist"? Yes

Is the OP right? No

Do I care? You guessed right


*keeps sipping P-juice*

*Pops collar*

I guess "we" male supporter are also frustrated. Silly logic!

FrancisTony:
*Pops collar*

I guess "we" male supporter are also frustrated. Silly logic!

It is quite amusing when the OP says a group of people are angry and frustrated yet he is the one who opened a thread to rant and blab.

They are rude, bias, disrespectful, delusional, naive etc yet it is a non-feminist (lezz) who has shown how angry he/she is.

This world is just somehow. But as Black Magic said "Based on the Chi"

Mynd44:
It is quite amusing when the OP says a group of people are angry and frustrated yet he is the one who opened a thread to rant and blab.

They are rude, bias, disrespectful, delusional, naive etc yet it is a non-feminist (lezz) who has shown how angry he/she is.

This world is just somehow. But as Black Magic said "Based on the Chi"

You've a point really.
I have been on this section for quite sometimes and feminists have been accused of being frustrated, yet I haven't seen a feminist creating a thread to bash men or support feminism.
Whereas, multitudes of thread has been created to bash women and feminism.

Indeed, frustration has to be redefined.
These guys are pained; big time.