elguaje:
Well,i don't think i have self esteem issues.but i'm like the most 'introverted loner',but when i drink i'm more likely to take risk and talk to people.i'm most definitely not saying shyness is an excuse to drink...but it helps me feel more relaxed and at ease when i'm around alot of people i don't know.

angieberry:
Hello wallflowers,
So, I have a brief question. Does it ever happen to you that sometimes you don't feel like talking to anyone, you don't take calls, you don't reply messages, you just ignore everyone? I go through this phase sometimes, but it never lasts as long as I'm having it now. This is the seventh day.
I'm not depressed or sad or anything, but the thought of actually talking to someone irritates me or seems like a chore. I know it's a bad habit as people may have been trying to reach me to no avail but I can't just help it. Does anyone else experience this? How do I break this habit? Does it have anything to do with being a recluse?


Olarewajub can you answer?

bringbackdgirls:

nice 1. I'm more of an electronics and micrococontrollers lover/programmer. I love electronics, softwares development and computers than any woman.

leadzeal:

My undergrad was on the oil sector. But after coming bck from my Msc(it was on energy management) ., it is now tilted to trading it, in form of stocks and futures. Presently using fx to learn it since futures involves huge capital. After this stage, i will have to work or intern in a consulting firm, so has to ve contacts.. The goal for me is to be a fund manager of energy products someday.. Not easy, but i've gone too far to give up.

Olarewajub:
#IntrovertFact.
Majority of introverts have hard time uploading their pics on social network.

eipreel:
Exactly...I know that feeling

WhiteWalker1:
Hi Ei.preel

eipreel:
Hi guys,how did the day go?no power tonight,battery low so i'll be less active. I love this family already. Will say more about me when i'm back.

aadesanmi:
hello

Krystalxxx:
Wow, a set of people who don't always ask : why are you alone, don't you have friends? And don't always act like you're weird or weak or stu.pid cuz u don't talk much.

Ive been seriously trying to be an extrovert, mostly cuz at my university people, especially in the hostel, act like your life is over or you're mentally insane if you're not all over d place or communicating often with others. Don't know if this is everywhere though . I think I'm almost there to an extent

eipreel:
Hi guys,how did the day go?no power tonight,battery low so i'll be less active. I love this family already. Will say more about me when i'm back.

epelumi42:
An introvert can be something else in the presence of people he loves or trusts. Understanding is really crucial.

leadzeal:


Thanks for sharing. If i'm not wrong, from what i read from ur comment, are u making a move to become extroverted? ... For i know it is possible but the probability is quite low. The core of the matter is happiness. If u ll be more happy, i encourage u if u can.

Krystalxxx:


If I can't just be an extrovert at the end of the day I'll just stop trying. No matter what anybody says it just doesn't define me. I have decided that they can't possibly understand

leadzeal:


My advice.. Be you.
I was in your shoes before, but glad i sticked to my God given me.

SocialRecluse:

I'm alright

Have a nice day too

eipreel:
Hi guys,how did the day go?no power tonight,battery low so i'll be less active. I love this family already. Will say more about me when i'm back.

hemor:
Is there anyone who has been able to overcome problem of maintaining conversation for long and stage fright? It'd be nice if you share how you were able to overcome that.


I think this should extend to every other common issues like being shy e.t.c. Instead of just sharing our problems we should also help ourselves overcome it. If the Op can rename the thread to Introverts support group I think that'd be better what do you guys think?

nurd:

i think this sometimes happen do to an event that has happened in the the past. i sometimes experience this. when im hurt by someone, i just try to break away from ppl for sometime. i think MOST introvert dont have the strength to hurt ppl, so when they are hurt, they try to withdraw from ppl.

however, since u stated that ur not sad or anything, it means u just chose be in that state. since its a thing of the mind, i advice you take action everytime you experience this.

just pick up your phone, call ur mum or dad or brother or sister, and tell them u have missed them. just brace up and reply those messages and cheer. thank God u know its a bad habit . so break it by reply those messages, calls, talk to ur family. JUST DO IT

My opinion...

adeaks:

Yes. We are patiently waiting to hear about you.

Ferdybaba:

Waiting