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My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated / Guy Shares Pics With Cousin & People Are Reacting With The Way He Is Holding Her / Is My Brother Lusting Over Me???? (2) (3) (4)

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Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Nobody: 6:05pm On Jun 26, 2015
Nawa o,what is this world turning to,why lust,do you want to place curse on your self and also destroy your husband cousins marriage,plsjust erase your mind from the sinful thinking ok,approach your husband,tell him your pains,if there is no solution,then forward it to the family meetings ,let them say something,and if he still continues,then maybe you can divorce,its better than illicit affair with his relation,or were you a LovePeddler before you met him?pls control your urge woman.+
ArchEnemy:
Why not sit down and have a 'heart to heart ' discussion with your husband. You need to dig deep to know the reasons for his action. And kill that lust Sister before it kills your home
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Nobody: 6:07pm On Jun 26, 2015
I think say una dey claim say una fit stay months or a year without sex... undecided

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Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by abercrombie(m): 6:13pm On Jun 26, 2015
Dis konji no dey swit am?

Ehm madam ur case must be lack of libido for him....he need to watch porn alwayz,nd start wit d romancin stuff bfor u push him down there

I think my litle advice will help




Cc;lalasticlala

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Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Israel5(m): 6:16pm On Jun 26, 2015
Kill ur husband, sell ur baby on olx, yuck d cousin and becme a prostitute. Simple! Sex addict!
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by jpphilips(m): 6:20pm On Jun 26, 2015
biaka1994:
Please I just need your advice or advices which ever of them. I met my husband in 2013 things were going on well and sweet. We normally make love almost every minute of the day so much dat I got used to it. When we got married and I got pregnant my husband became so cold towards sex I thought maybe he was scared of my pregnancy. Some times i'll have to beg him to make love to me. After much begging he'll reluctantly do it. I gave birth and I thought things would change but it's all the same. I keep begging and begging embarassed I have just decided to be myself and take my mind of it. The only person I talk to is his cousin and have become so close to him that am beginning to lust after him he is married tho but he lives close to us. Just this evening I nearly kissed him and I felt so embarrassed. Please guys help me it's Getting out of hand. What do I do? sad sad Please no bashing we all are humans and we do silly things atimes.




Cc: Lalasticlala



Your hubby has a Girlfriend now, get yourself a Bf but definitely not his cousin, what is the financial situation at the home front?
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by ajibutter: 6:26pm On Jun 26, 2015
[quote author=precisionindepth post=35179683]the life of a woman! D's world is so unfair... she should do this ...do that...do this and that. what is marriage is there is only one sided? oh...the life of a woman![/quote

Don't mind them, am sure the op will be more than confused after reading all these their comments. Nobody has advised the op to go outside and look for men to satisfy her;not that I advice that anyway. Let it be the other way round, you will see the way they would be advising the man to immediately go outside and find girls to satisfy him.
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by PMIcon(m): 6:27pm On Jun 26, 2015
OnyeIbo:

see a specialist for something u dont know about (subconscious)? Its either u tryna play with words or... Attend to ur marriage and stop giving excuses

You make me laugh. I'm a student of psychology; I know what I'm talking about. That's why a specialist is a specialist anyway; s/he attends to what the patient does not know. Right questions brings up the issues to consciousness
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by semochendo1(m): 6:40pm On Jun 26, 2015
You seem jobless, sorry to say. What do you do for a living? The devil engages the idle hand, get something doing to get yourself busy. You can't be demanding for sex every minute when you have something doing. A candid advice, no insult intended please.
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Nobody: 6:46pm On Jun 26, 2015
Bluetooth2:

grin grin grin
How did you know ?
I read it in a book grin
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Nobody: 6:47pm On Jun 26, 2015
sukkot:
grin grin grin i did get banned for a week though lmao for tribalizing threads. trust you are fine
Yes o.

Eeyah, no wonder I no see your break light.

grin repent!!!
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Nobody: 6:54pm On Jun 26, 2015
try to dress in a way he will always want to put his eyes on u.since ur child is still young,wear half bra n g-string wen u are together.
The thing is we men suffer from things like that not because the love has reduced, we don't just have explanations to it.
try what I said n see how it goes
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Rotimi47: 7:08pm On Jun 26, 2015
biaka1994:
Please I just need your advice or advices which ever of them. I met my husband in 2013 things were going on well and sweet. We normally make love almost every minute of the day so much dat I got used to it. When we got married and I got pregnant my husband became so cold towards sex I thought maybe he was scared of my pregnancy. Some times i'll have to beg him to make love to me. After much begging he'll reluctantly do it. I gave birth and I thought things would change but it's all the same. I keep begging and begging embarassed I have just decided to be myself and take my mind of it. The only person I talk to is his cousin and have become so close to him that am beginning to lust after him he is married tho but he lives close to us. Just this evening I nearly kissed him and I felt so embarrassed. Please guys help me it's Getting out of hand. What do I do? sad sad Please no bashing we all are humans and we do silly things atimes.



You must be out of your mind! Why should a married woman lust after another man? You better learn how to control yourself before you help your husband to take another woman. Have the courage to sit your husband down and talk sense into him; make him see reason why he have to meet his obligation.
Cc: Lalasticlala
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Nobody: 7:16pm On Jun 26, 2015
Joavid:

I read it in a book grin

Lmao

I will tell your mummy smiley
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by iyke4ever: 7:19pm On Jun 26, 2015
Sister, please understand in a very clear terms that men don't like women that beg for sex most often, it irritates men. Try everything possible to let the opposite be your experience, you will see him loving you like mad again. Above all, go to his maker in praying & fasting, He will turn back his heart to you. However, before u go to GOD, ensure you confess that evil thought of lusting after his cousin & stop forever, then God will bring your husband back to you. Good luck & don't give up. God bless you.

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Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by adjoviomole(m): 7:26pm On Jun 26, 2015
biaka1994:
No

Ok den,u have to sit him down n talk it out...._ are a woman b seductive,seduce him,make urself irresistable......good luck I wld have loved to know more bout ur sexual life with him...majority of women don't know how to satisfy their man sexually...if he satisfy's u ,u have to return the favor....

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Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by sukkot: 7:35pm On Jun 26, 2015
Joavid:

Yes o.

Eeyah, no wonder I no see your break light.

grin repent!!!
grin
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Nobody: 7:44pm On Jun 26, 2015
Bluetooth2:

Lmao
I will tell your mummy smiley
grin
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Nobody: 7:45pm On Jun 26, 2015
Bluetooth2:

Lmao
I will tell your mummy smiley
grin
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by OCTAVO: 7:49pm On Jun 26, 2015
biaka1994:
Please I just need your advice or advices which ever of them. I met my husband in 2013 things were going on well and sweet. We normally make love almost every minute of the day so much dat I got used to it. When we got married and I got pregnant my husband became so cold towards sex I thought maybe he was scared of my pregnancy. Some times i'll have to beg him to make love to me. After much begging he'll reluctantly do it. I gave birth and I thought things would change but it's all the same. I keep begging and begging embarassed I have just decided to be myself and take my mind of it. The only person I talk to is his cousin and have become so close to him that am beginning to lust after him he is married tho but he lives close to us. Just this evening I nearly kissed him and I felt so embarrassed. Please guys help me it's Getting out of hand. What do I do? sad sad Please no bashing we all are humans and we do silly things atimes.




Cc: Lalasticlala
I like your honesty, not everyone can boldly post this. Just talk to your hubby. It is well.

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Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Nobody: 8:14pm On Jun 26, 2015
We ain't poor we ain't rich!quote author=jpphilips post=35183699]



Your hubby has a Girlfriend now, get yourself a Bf but definitely not his cousin, what is the financial situation at the home front?
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Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by kUnimke: 8:23pm On Jun 26, 2015
Pregnancy comes with so many changes, both hormonal and physical, your hubby might probably be sensing a foul oudor which u might not notice. Try using hot water to wash down below and always have ur bath b4 going to bed. Also use body spray and deodorant, which should help enhance his sexual urge. The truth is that most men get tired of one women. Pray and try talking to him when he is in a good mood, the Lord is ur strength.

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Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by paulibling(m): 9:13pm On Jun 26, 2015
lilmax:
You have to look sexily presentable to him

Red pant and white bra thats all you need

When she wears it make she post the pix so that nairalanders go confirm am before she go proceed the next step. grin
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Krisddon: 9:14pm On Jun 26, 2015
masquellett:
Konji
Receive sense in jesus name! Oya take it!!
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by maxmyluv(m): 9:22pm On Jun 26, 2015
The truth is that your husband got to know your past some how which was dirty and he is no longer interested in you. Madame go work on your husband and win him back.
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Gurgle(f): 9:25pm On Jun 26, 2015
maxmyluv:
The truth is that your husband got to know your past some how which was dirty and he is no longer interested in you. Madame go work on your husband and win him back.

Do you really think so
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by lilmax(m): 9:26pm On Jun 26, 2015
paulibling:


When she wears it make she post the pix so that nairalanders go confirm am before she go proceed the next step. grin
wisdom cheesy
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by masquellett(m): 9:29pm On Jun 26, 2015
Krisddon:
Receive sense in jesus name! Oya take it!!
Wetin this one dey talk
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by masquellett(m): 9:29pm On Jun 26, 2015
Krisddon:
Receive sense in jesus name! Oya take it!!
Wetin this one dey talk
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by maxmyluv(m): 9:35pm On Jun 26, 2015
Gurgle:


Do you really think so
. I know so. Do what I ask u to do and u will thank me later. Madame his mind is very far right now. What he is not offering at home now he is paying to do it outside. Work on him with love and seduction and silently saying your prayers as u go along.
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Gurgle(f): 9:40pm On Jun 26, 2015
maxmyluv:
. I know so. Do what I ask u to do and u will thank me later. Madame his mind is very far right now. What he is not offering at home now he is paying to do it outside. Work on him with love and seduction and silently saying your prayers as u go along.

but how will you assume a dirty past would cause this. shebi he would have done it regardless
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by mcfoxy(m): 9:44pm On Jun 26, 2015
U should go back to the drowing board , start doing actractive thing dat tun him up
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Youngpo413: 9:45pm On Jun 26, 2015
fem29:
My dear, my mantra is don't let anything anyone does stake away my joy. I TRY to live my life by this motto God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
The courage to change the things I can,
And the wisdom to know the difference.

Hun sex is not food. Fact is you can live without it. Also try to lose weight and stop begging him. prob if he sees you looking all sexy and you are no longer begging him for sex, he may come round. Develop an air of mystique.

I also suggest you get a rampant rabbit for times when you are really turned on. Sometimes we need to stop expecting our spouse to make us happy when they have shown they cannot and find our happiness outside of them. Empower yourself.
she can empower herself but not her pusy,you know the pusy need serious pounding to keep it happy.

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