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Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 5:09pm On Jun 26, 2015
pickabeau1:
Gradually coogar 's words ring true
If you don't give a woman good sex or she feels ashamed after a tryst, she can sue you for assault
Its a long read but ive bolded some interesting parts
Lessons?
cc: Timbuktou, cougar, naijababe, coogaluta crackhaus Kimoni

I wonder if these kinda ruling will apply to husbands? grin grin grin grin grin

So, pickbeau, wetin you want make I talk for this matter nau? cheesy But seriously, this ruling is BS, I read things like this and I become even more afraid for my son sad
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 5:13pm On Jun 26, 2015
naijababe:


I wonder if these kinda ruling will apply to husbands? grin grin grin grin grin

So, pickbeau, wetin you want make I talk for this matter nau? cheesy But seriously, this ruling is BS, I read things like this and I become even more afraid for my son sad

As in.. i tire...its actually more for the next generation

At the rate this is going.. marriage will really really go extinct

Learning points
- Get written consent before the act. That way you can peove everyone was in the appropriate mental state
- Never drink at any time before, after or during the act. Worst case ensure you are not above the legal limit (2 units for men,1 for women)
- Sign a pre nup before marriage and ensure you assets are bought in the name of a corporation
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 5:23pm On Jun 26, 2015
pickabeau1:


As in.. i tire...its actually more for the next generation

At the rate this is going.. marriage will really really go extinct

Learning points
- Get written consent before the act. That way you can peove everyone was in the appropriate mental state
- Never drink at any time before, after or during the act. Worst case ensure you are not above the legal limit (2 units for men,1 for women)
- Sign a pre nup before marriage and ensure you assets are bought in the name of a corporation




Bolded, i don't think that is foolproof though grin

A friend told me a really sad story a while back, honestly, I don't know what I'd do if I was parent in that kind of predicament.

So basically, two teenagers a boy and a girl both aged 12 maybe 13 had consensual sex, I dunno how the girl's parent found out but they filed charges and the boy got charged for statutory rape, all entreaties by the boy's parents to settle out of court were rebuffed and the boy basically got sentenced at 13 sad sad sad sad and these are supposedly upper middle class folks in the USA. I am just saddened by the callousness of the girl's parents every time i remember this story. The world is turning on its head.
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 5:30pm On Jun 26, 2015
naijababe:


I wonder if these kinda ruling will apply to husbands? grin grin grin grin grin

So, pickbeau, wetin you want make I talk for this matter nau? cheesy But seriously, this ruling is BS, I read things like this and I become even more afraid for my son sad

I have not ready the post, too long, will read later in the night.

But @ the bolded - I am thinking of enrolling mine in a seminary to avoid stories that touch lipsrsealed lipsrsealed that will shield him away from all the problems outside the seminary walls. Care to join me? tongue tongue
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 5:31pm On Jun 26, 2015
naijababe:


Bolded, i don't think that is foolproof though grin

A friend told me a really sad story a while back, honestly, I don't know what I'd do if I was parent in that kind of predicament.

So basically, two teenagers a boy and a girl both aged 12 maybe 13 had consensual sex, I dunno how the girl's parent found out but they filed charges and the boy got charged for statutory rape, all entreaties by the boy's parents to settle out of court were rebuffed and the boy basically got sentenced at 13 sad sad sad sad and these are supposedly upper middle class folks in the USA. I am just saddened by the callousness of the girl's parents every time i remember this story. The world is turning on its head.

Yes I have heard of such

One cannot be too careful

Then imagine the future where a guy saying hi to a boy may not be an ordinary greeting.
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 5:38pm On Jun 26, 2015
Kimoni:


I have not ready the post, too long, will read later in the night.

But @ the bolded - I am thinking of enrolling mine in a seminary to avoid stories that touch lipsrsealed lipsrsealed that will shield him away from all the problems outside the seminary walls. Care to join me? tongue tongue

Lazy woman! If na to chop ayamase now, you go sabi nau tongue Did not read the epistle either, only read the parts pickabeau bolded and a few lines around above and below.
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 5:40pm On Jun 26, 2015
grin grin

Kimoni....

Give her a topic on nhs...she will bite
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 6:55pm On Jun 26, 2015
naijababe:


Lazy woman! If na to chop ayamase now, you go sabi nau tongue Did not read the epistle either, only read the parts pickabeau bolded and a few lines around above and below.

pickabeau1:
grin grin

Kimoni....

Give her a topic on nhs...she will bite

grin grin grin

May God forgive you all
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 7:40pm On Jun 26, 2015
Pickabeau1, he shoulda made a sexx tape. He's so old school. A picture is worth a thousand words. *smh*
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 7:45pm On Jun 26, 2015
Timbuktou:
Pickabeau, he shoulda made a sexx tape. He's so old school. A picture is worth a thousand words. *smh*

He now has a conviction

Imagine if he was black....
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by coogaluta(f): 7:49pm On Jun 26, 2015
Timbuktou:
Pickabeau1, he shoulda made a sexx tape. He's so old school. A picture is worth a thousand words. *smh*

can't this even be used against him? undecided

@post, the way the world is going, women don't seem to know when to stop with all these feminism and emancipation ish again, I think men will also need a movement of their own to keep things in check. Can start with you, dear pickabeau tongue you can tag it 'masculinism' undecided tongue
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 7:51pm On Jun 26, 2015
pickabeau1:

He now has a conviction
Imagine if he was black....
Yeah, I'm sure he can't believe what has become of the world. sad
He'd have been given the death sentence for sure.
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 7:55pm On Jun 26, 2015
coogaluta:


can't this even be used against him? undecided

@post, the way the world is going, women don't seem to know when to stop with all these feminism and emancipation ish again, I think men will also need a movement of their own to keep things in check. Can start with you, dear pickabeau tongue you can tag it 'masculinism' undecided tongue

Not if he let's her know before-hand what he's doing. He may also offer a copy, on record of course.

Men don't do whining, the MRA has been in existence since the 70s and most men don't take them that seriously. We just generally suck it up and move on. What's going on, though, is men taking a different route MGTOW.
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by coogaluta(f): 8:01pm On Jun 26, 2015
Timbuktou:


Not if he let's her know before-hand what he's doing. He may also offer a copy, on record of course.

Men don't do whining, the MRA has been in existence since the 70s and most men don't take them that seriously. We just generally suck it up and move on. What's going on, though, is men taking a different route MGTOW.


An average girl won't let a 1-night stand guy tape her....you'll need to do some conviction, which you might not get time for. My point-too tedious!

Y'alls best bet is to start taking my point seriously tongue
Cos it's common men like you that will suffer, if this guy in question was all that in terms of looks, money, swags, fame etc, this girl would become his Anaesthesia sharpaly cheesy

Women are beginning to want to eat their yams and have it.....do I blame them? undecided
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 8:01pm On Jun 26, 2015
coogaluta:


can't this even be used against him? undecided

@post, the way the world is going, women don't seem to know when to stop with all these feminism and emancipation ish again, I think men will also need a movement of their own to keep things in check. Can start with you, dear pickabeau tongue you can tag it 'masculinism' undecided tongue

Kinda reminds me of Fathers for Justice.
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 8:04pm On Jun 26, 2015
Timbuktou:


Yeah, I'm sure he can't believe what has become of the world. sad

He'd have been given the death sentence for sure.

lol.....

the black guy will have been a goner....


coogaluta:

can't this even be used against him? undecided
@post, the way the world is going, women don't seem to know when to stop with all these feminism and emancipation ish again, I think men will also need a movement of their own to keep things in check. Can start with you, dear pickabeau tongue you can tag it 'masculinism' undecided tongue

The sexxx tape will have been evidence for him to show if it consensual or not

No such need for masculism
We will all reach the tipping point together


Samuel price - The dude

The woman Elizabeth Sandlin


The assault bites or love bites on her thigh
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 9:54pm On Jun 26, 2015
coogaluta:



An average girl won't let a 1-night stand guy tape her....you'll need to do some conviction, which you might not get time for. My point-too tedious!

Y'alls best bet is to start taking my point seriously tongue
Cos it's common men like you that will suffer, if this guy in question was all that in terms of looks, money, swags, fame etc, this girl would become his Anaesthesia sharpaly cheesy

Women are beginning to want to eat their yams and have it.....do I blame them? undecided

On the contrary, she wouldn't mind We live in the freakiest of times, Coogal. If the guy is good enough, he'll have her begging for a sexx taPe wink

fortunately, common men like me live in Nigeria where this sort of craziness isn't given any attention yet. If a girl says I bit her while having sexx....what am I even saying, dem never born her papa to even tok say I shine the congo proper grin
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by coogar: 10:03pm On Jun 26, 2015
this one pass me.......
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by bellong: 10:36pm On Jun 26, 2015
Kimoni:


I have not ready the post, too long, will read later in the night.

But @ the bolded - I am thinking of enrolling mine in a seminary to avoid stories that touch lipsrsealed lipsrsealed that will shield him away from all the problems outside the seminary walls. Care to join me? tongue tongue

No.. NO..... NO...

Don't turn him to a paedophile..... cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 1:48am On Jun 27, 2015
bellong:


No.. NO..... NO...

Don't turn him to a paedophile..... cheesy cheesy cheesy

sad sad
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by bellong: 1:58am On Jun 27, 2015
Kimoni:


sad sad

Stories of peadophilic priests abound. The testosterone can't be imprisoned for too long... cheesy
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 1:59am On Jun 27, 2015
bellong:


Stories of peadophilic priests abound. The testosterone can't be imprisoned for too long... cheesy

Wrong! Ask the Pope lipsrsealed
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by bellong: 2:40am On Jun 27, 2015
Kimoni:


Wrong! Ask the Pope lipsrsealed

Pope.... cheesy grin grin

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Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by formerlyMbulela: 6:33am On Jun 27, 2015
netotse:
@pickabeau1 and Ajanlekoko
hey...there was this site you guys were discussing sometime back you could pay a token to talk to more experienced people, trying to remember the site, shopping for advice.
What sort of advice?
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by formerlyMbulela: 6:35am On Jun 27, 2015
AjanleKoko:


Why not just pay AjanleKoko directly grin grin grin

Not sure I remember what you're referring to sha.
Unless the guy rob bank, how him Wan take afford your fees?
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Parisfran(f): 6:37am On Jun 27, 2015
pickabeau1:


As in.. i tire...its actually more for the next generation

At the rate this is going.. marriage will really really go extinct

Learning points
- Get written consent before the act. That way you can peove everyone was in the appropriate mental state
- Never drink at any time before, after or during the act. Worst case ensure you are not above the legal limit (2 units for men,1 for women)
- Sign a pre nup before marriage and ensure you assets are bought in the name of a corporation




I actually really don't share your sentiment. MoSt women are raped by men they know. A good case in point is "for coloured girls who have considered suicide when the rainbow is enuf". I personally think that if at a point the relations get bad the man should stop.

Sorry to spoil your party but the fact that they had dated is not the prosecutor's best line of argument.
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by formerlyMbulela: 6:42am On Jun 27, 2015
coogar:


send the money jor....
pickabeau is related to ambode - he's utterly minted. about 55 contracts have been awarded to him already & there's more to come.....
How Ambode wan take award am 55 contracts when Jagaban never take him cut finish?
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by formerlyMbulela: 6:51am On Jun 27, 2015
coogaluta:



it they do it right, what's bad in it? tongue

I have never seen it done right. Never saw a person who looked better with bleaching ati toning.
The psychology of it beats me.
I might be biased as I have a thing for dark skinned ladies and I find toning to be a libido killer.
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by formerlyMbulela: 7:05am On Jun 27, 2015
Kimoni:

A Infact, the more experienced you are in the game, the less likely you'll become a single mother. I read recently Wizkid babymama saying she became a single mother at 19, her very first sexual experience, she didn't even realize she was pregnant until after 5 months. Now compare her to a 25 year old lady who has carried out 10 abortions, and she got pregnant each time her contraceptives fail. Which would you go for if you were to choose?




Flawed example. Those who know her say the wizzy'd babymama na runs girl. Leave all that first time story.
In my books sex outside marriage without protection is an unforgivable sin. Together with nude pics and consensual sex tapes, they are acts you can never defend, in my books.
The pregnancy matter is obviously secondary.
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by formerlyMbulela: 7:13am On Jun 27, 2015
moca:


It's u guys. Instead of u to wear protection,u will deceive the gal for skin to skin.
This lie don reign pass.
Any girl that has consensual sex without protecation has herself alone to blame.

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Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 8:43am On Jun 27, 2015
formerlyMbulela:


Flawed example. Those who know her say the wizzy'd babymama na runs girl. Leave all that first time story.
In my books sex outside marriage without protection is an unforgivable sin. Together with nude pics and consensual sex tapes, they are acts you can never defend, in my books.
The pregnancy matter is obviously secondary.


undecided undecided I don't know her so I see no reason to discredit her story.

I am not an apostle of "them say....them say..."

She was a runz girl but wizzy was a virgin baa undecided

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