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How Do You Turn Her Down Without Hurting Her Feelings? by Ataegbiti: 5:05pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Peeps, help a brother out. There is a guy, he's been confronted repeatedly by a lady, expressing her feelings/love for the guy. He is not interested in a romantic relationship and doesn't want to take advantage of her. How will you say "No" without hurting her? Please advise. |
Re: How Do You Turn Her Down Without Hurting Her Feelings? by Cutehector(m): 5:11pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Hav sex wit her and say no.. |
Re: How Do You Turn Her Down Without Hurting Her Feelings? by Segse(m): 5:13pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Seriously once the lady is the one showing affection, there's no way to turn her down without hurting her feelings. Just be bold enough to turn her down & leave her to her feelings.... 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Turn Her Down Without Hurting Her Feelings? by Ataegbiti: 5:14pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Cutehector:Really? What if she is your sister? 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Turn Her Down Without Hurting Her Feelings? by freecocoa(f): 5:16pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Cutehector:I hope you don't mean this. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Turn Her Down Without Hurting Her Feelings? by Ataegbiti: 5:16pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Segse:Thanks. Input noted |
Re: How Do You Turn Her Down Without Hurting Her Feelings? by Cutehector(m): 5:16pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Ataegbiti:pay her dowry and marry her and hav sex with her.. Are u happy 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Turn Her Down Without Hurting Her Feelings? by Ataegbiti: 5:17pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
freecocoa:I very well meant that |
Re: How Do You Turn Her Down Without Hurting Her Feelings? by Nobody: 5:18pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
BiigTInzs |
Re: How Do You Turn Her Down Without Hurting Her Feelings? by freecocoa(f): 5:19pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
OP just say something in the lines of "You are an amazing girl but I am not romantically attracted to you, it wouldn't be wise to start a relationship like that, I hope you understand that it's not about you, I just don't feel the same way" If she's a sensible girl, she would back down. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Turn Her Down Without Hurting Her Feelings? by freecocoa(f): 5:20pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Ataegbiti:I don't remember asking you any questions. |
Re: How Do You Turn Her Down Without Hurting Her Feelings? by Ataegbiti: 5:21pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Cutehector:Haha. Funny u 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Turn Her Down Without Hurting Her Feelings? by Cutehector(m): 5:21pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
freecocoa:naah, I want to derail the thread... I put up a catchy comment so ppo will quote me and I drag the thread to d mud... Savvy 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Turn Her Down Without Hurting Her Feelings? by Segse(m): 5:22pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Hmmmmm.........the post by cutehector may seem harsh but @times it's better one goes that way. I had one lady during my service year who wanted me to date her by all means, visited me @ odd times, even tried to stay overnight @ some instances which I never allowed. When I was able to break free from her, she said maybe I couldn't perform that's why I was avoiding her. Don't castigate @cutehector too much, that's how desperate some ladies behave @ times and his suggestion may be what they want. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Turn Her Down Without Hurting Her Feelings? by Cutehector(m): 5:22pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Ataegbiti:lolz.. So are u man enough to hav sex with my sister? |
Re: How Do You Turn Her Down Without Hurting Her Feelings? by freecocoa(f): 5:23pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Cutehector:I thought as much, but that's not nice na. I bet you won't like it if someone did that to your thread. |
Re: How Do You Turn Her Down Without Hurting Her Feelings? by Cutehector(m): 5:24pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Segse:this is my son, in whom I am well pleased. Listen to him |
Re: How Do You Turn Her Down Without Hurting Her Feelings? by lekjons(m): 5:24pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
so simple, tell her you already have a gf |
Re: How Do You Turn Her Down Without Hurting Her Feelings? by Ataegbiti: 5:24pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
freecocoa:Nice one. |
Re: How Do You Turn Her Down Without Hurting Her Feelings? by Cutehector(m): 5:25pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
freecocoa:I like it.. I like fun... I dnt like seriousness... |
Re: How Do You Turn Her Down Without Hurting Her Feelings? by Segse(m): 5:27pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
freecocoa: I like that clause 'if she's a sensible girl' but sorry to say, only few are sensible because from my experiences with ladies, once they are the 1st to show feelings to you, it will be a tough battle before they leave u alone. |
Re: How Do You Turn Her Down Without Hurting Her Feelings? by freecocoa(f): 5:28pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Cutehector:It's not fun goofing around when someone's serious, one can't always be serious or "fun" as there's time for everything but, goodluck with whatever you decide to do. |
Re: How Do You Turn Her Down Without Hurting Her Feelings? by Segse(m): 5:28pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Cutehector: Ur son U must be kidding.... |
Re: How Do You Turn Her Down Without Hurting Her Feelings? by PunkyOh(f): 5:28pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
First of all, she's not some ornament made of fragile material. I really dislike it when some guys say things like, "I don't wanna hurt her feelings by saying a, b & c". Who cares? Tell her you aren't interested if you aren't & let her deal with her own emotions. If she displays some borderline personality traits by becoming unhinged at the rejection, then you take the legal route. A "normal" woman WILL leave you alone after you tell her you aren't interested. Hurt feelings WILL be there but that's again none of your business. I doubt she's normal though, so good luck to your friend trying to get rid of her. |
Re: How Do You Turn Her Down Without Hurting Her Feelings? by freecocoa(f): 5:31pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Segse:Lol. It's true that it's often hard for a woman that wants you to back down sha, I guess OP just has to forget about how she will react to the rejection, should he try to let her down easy to no avail, he doesn't have to be rude if my method fails, he just has to be firm/stern. She'll get over it eventually. |
Re: How Do You Turn Her Down Without Hurting Her Feelings? by Junaknoni(m): 5:32pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
freecocoa:Gbam! |
Re: How Do You Turn Her Down Without Hurting Her Feelings? by Ataegbiti: 5:33pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
PunkyOh:No offences intended, u sound too harsh for a lady. |
Re: How Do You Turn Her Down Without Hurting Her Feelings? by Twaci(f): 5:34pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
PunkyOh: Very true. OP just be sincere and in time too. Don't lead her on when u know u don't have feelings for her, that will reduce the hurt. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Turn Her Down Without Hurting Her Feelings? by adebayo201: 5:34pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Define the relationship once and for all. Give boundaries and other things. It might be that they're or is a trait(s) that draws the lady to the guy. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Turn Her Down Without Hurting Her Feelings? by freecocoa(f): 5:35pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
PunkyOh:Why do you doubt she's normal? |
Re: How Do You Turn Her Down Without Hurting Her Feelings? by PunkyOh(f): 5:39pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
freecocoa: By continuing to pester him with her "love". Who does that? It's just odd to me because I don't know of many women who'll do something like that. |
Re: How Do You Turn Her Down Without Hurting Her Feelings? by PunkyOh(f): 5:42pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Ataegbiti: Maybe I'm a dude What does a lady sound like? Lol! |
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