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Good Afternoon, Madam

Jamean:
Op forgot to add that African men have ego. Me is fine

Ferdybaba and therealadonye good moreen

kandiikane:
Where is your self worth? Are you a table?

I dnt understand u

Tex42:
Louder!

lwkmd

na u b jjc ni

jamex93:
lwkmd

na u b jjc ni

I be him African brother Noni

Tex42:
I be him African brother Noni

hahahaha DAT is good

otiigba1:
i appreciate your honesty on FAKE ORGASM atleast, now i know all that hard work is for nothing, and No! You are not "ashewo" for making your opinion known,just one question is it all black/ african women who fakes orgasm? And what/how can we african men do to satisfy their women since it appears that all that orgasm is fake

Loool! It can't possibly be all, of course...

The thing is that some of our African men are so egocentric that it has to be all about them especially when it comes to sex. They really don't bother about the woman's satisfaction. pre-intimacy is out of the question. They had rather just go in bang bang bang and out!

A woman needs to be stimulated much longer than a man. How many men are that patient? Plus as I said earlier, some women need to tell their men what trully burst their stars. BUT EVEN THE WOMEN THEMSELVES DON'T KNOW, cos they are "forbidden" to discover them selves sexually and even if they do, they are "forbidden" to voice it out.

The fact that the average naija man feels he "OWNS" the woman cos he has spent some money on her and thus she is supposed to PAY him back by sexually gratifying him is not helping matters...

The size may be there, but the skills "which is the most important" is usually missing!

FINALLY, most Nigerian women are not HAPPY in their marriages cos their men cheat a lot and untop that treat them as crap! So sex just becomes routine for them cos the connection they had with their men is lost and gone... Sex also has to do with your mindser, its hard to reach that cloud 9 as a woman if you have "ill feelings" towards the man you are doing it with...


Its complicated, my dear....

adorable29:
Loool! It can't possibly be all, of course...

The thing is that some of our African men are so egocentric that it has to be all about them especially when it comes to sex. They really don't bother about the woman's satisfaction. pre-intimacy is out of the question. They had rather just go in bang bang bang and out!

A woman needs to be stimulated much longer than a man. How many men are that patient? Plus as I said earlier, some women need to tell their men what trully burst their stars. BUT EVEN THE WOMEN THEMSELVES DON'T KNOW, cos they are "forbidden" to discover them selves sexually and even if they do, they are "forbidden" to voice it out.

The fact that the average naija man feels he "OWNS" owns the woman cos he has spent some money on her and thus she is supposed to PAY him back by sexually gratifying him is not helping matters...

The size may be there, but the skills "which is the most important" is usually missing!

FINALLY, most Nigerian women are not HAPPY in their marriages cos their men cheat a lot and untop that treat them as crap! So sex just becomes routine for them cos the connection they had with their men is lost and gone... Sex also has to do with your mindser, its hard to reach that cloud 9 as a woman if you have "ill feelings" towards the man you are doing it with...


Its complicated, my dear....

Its sure is COMPLICATED! I am more confused than i was, just so you know its not all of us fits your descriptions , and don't forget it takes two to tango perhaps nigerian/african women should let their feelings known more

As more than half of them claims to be VERY RELIGIOUS thus any discussions about sex/orgasms are seen be a sin, which is why some men seeks excitement else were perhaps.

I appreciate your finding the time to educate me on this issue, because i care about how who ever my partner may be, feels sexually and otherwise, in a relationship as they are also human even though they are also females.

No surprise here. Most men are this way.