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Re: Desperate For A Husband. by Gurgle(f): 8:10am On Jul 31, 2015 |
AngelJennifer: Lol hope youre not referring to that notorious land of the 5 villages...hmmm |
Re: Desperate For A Husband. by Gurgle(f): 8:10am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Re: Desperate For A Husband. by Nobody: 8:12am On Jul 31, 2015 |
ednut1:not funny. |
Re: Desperate For A Husband. by youngalex(m): 8:12am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Marriage Palaver |
Re: Desperate For A Husband. by Happiness87(f): 8:13am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Gurgle:where are you based?? |
Re: Desperate For A Husband. by Toks2008(m): 8:13am On Jul 31, 2015 |
jnrbayano: I guess you need to assimilate and decipher my point. You will agree with me that there is a general mindset that Igbo ladies are expensive right? So im not saying that is true yet that seem to be the belief in many quarters especially the non igbo tribes so that was why i wrote that it is the duty of the lady to let the guy in her life understand that her case is not so. Have you realized that Igbo guys now come for Yoruba ladies and some have argued that its because they are cheap but HELL NO.Its a cultural practice and been cheap is very relative. Is been cheap about bride price or cost of marriage,Nah i think been cheap is about the decency of the lady in question. |
Re: Desperate For A Husband. by Gurgle(f): 8:13am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Happiness87: London and you |
Re: Desperate For A Husband. by iamnemo(m): 8:13am On Jul 31, 2015 |
So all the pretty ladies looking for a ready made Dangote. I offer the following analysis of your predicament. In economic terms, you are a depreciating asset and I am an earning asset. Not only are you a depreciating asset, your depreciation accelerates! Let me explain: you’re 25 now and will likely stay pretty hot for the next 5 years, but less so each year. Then the fade begins in earnest. By 35, stick a fork in you! Your looks will fade and my money will likely continue into perpetuity … in fact, it is very likely that my income increases but it is an absolute certainty that you won’t be getting any more beautiful! It doesn’t make good business sense to “buy you” (which is what most of them are asking) so I’d rather lease. In case you think I’m being cruel, I would say the following: if my money were to go away, so would you, so when your beauty fades I need an out. It’s as simple as that. So a deal that makes sense is dating(leasing), not marriage. But rational arguments rarely win the day in dating, love, and marriage. Good luck in your search. 4 Likes |
Re: Desperate For A Husband. by Happiness87(f): 8:14am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Gurgle:oh no, thought you were in Nigeria, precisely Lagos |
Re: Desperate For A Husband. by absoluteSuccess: 8:16am On Jul 31, 2015 |
jnrbayano:Anyway, Ethnic Aspirations differs from Self-Actualization, we are not competing for the most travelled tribe. To the point, people may have stereotyped the Igbos from their own perspectives, viewing the Igbos 'eyes on details weddings' as 'extravagance' compare to what obtains in their own. Cultural difference reactions. I once saw the list on a bride price for an Igbo babe, its demanding. In Lagos, people says Igbo guys marry late because of bride price, but I always felt chidi is searching for mammy-water-fine-bride to bring to 'travel'. Can you pluck such from the nest without paying the price? warever |
Re: Desperate For A Husband. by Gurgle(f): 8:16am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Happiness87: What made you think so Ok. I'll mail them to you 1 Like |
Re: Desperate For A Husband. by Toks2008(m): 8:16am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Happiness87: Lol sorry but your profile pics got me thinking... I will advice you replace it with a more decent one because you might attract the wrong admirers.My candid take. Don't ask why i checked your profile pics,most of us are guilty of the act. |
Re: Desperate For A Husband. by alvin000(m): 8:20am On Jul 31, 2015 |
I. Am also Seeking of a serious Yoruba lady who is ready for relationship that will lead to marriage. |
Re: Desperate For A Husband. by Toks2008(m): 8:20am On Jul 31, 2015 |
iamnemo: You are right bro Do you know that despite the fact that i really want to settle down with a good lady,anytime i se a lady in her thirties i tend to pause and take a deep look unlike when i see 20something year old lady. The moment a lady clocks 30 and she is yet to marry i will advice her to be very very careful because at this point on,even if she is not desperate at all,that age automatically puts her at a precarious situation. |
Re: Desperate For A Husband. by Happiness87(f): 8:23am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Toks2008:thanks but Am not gonna pay attention to useless tales. I have automatic filters |
Re: Desperate For A Husband. by Collins87: 8:23am On Jul 31, 2015 |
I shall not marry until I get a good Job! I don't want disgrace. |
Re: Desperate For A Husband. by Happiness87(f): 8:24am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Gurgle:am waiting o o |
Re: Desperate For A Husband. by Toks2008(m): 8:25am On Jul 31, 2015 |
alvin000: It was my searching that made me realize how desperate some ladies can be.I will advice ladies in their early twenties and mid twenties to please and please be reasonable because one wrong affair at your early twenties can destroy you totally and you will see the guy just keeping mum and and licking the whole honey in you just to dump you in your late twenties and then wahala don start. Watch out for my next article and you will realize that you don't really need to date a man for more than a year at most before he proposes to you even if he is living in face me i face trouble. |
Re: Desperate For A Husband. by Gurgle(f): 8:27am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Happiness87: **Sending** |
Re: Desperate For A Husband. by iamnemo(m): 8:29am On Jul 31, 2015 |
True..true... Why did they wait so long? Me sef na atawewe (21-24) I dey find o. But I still fit consider 25 sha if she is slim. The slim ones tend to get prettier as they age. Toks2008: |
Re: Desperate For A Husband. by kwiin: 8:31am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Even the rich who are ready to do everything for their daughter's groom are still stuck with their daughters, tradition has nothing to do with a lady not having the right attitude to attract the right guy for marriage. Another point u never mentioned is that at a point in every woman's life, there were influx of men asking for their hands in marriage, irrespective of whether their bride price is high or low or nothing, but they never were ready at the time - they usually would be busy chasing their fantasies. So for me, the categories you are trying to describe missed their turn by error or omission. 2 Likes |
Re: Desperate For A Husband. by Happiness87(f): 8:34am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Gurgle:make i follow you?? |
Re: Desperate For A Husband. by Gurgle(f): 8:36am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Happiness87: For where? stay there, it will reach your house na |
Re: Desperate For A Husband. by sinaj(f): 8:37am On Jul 31, 2015 |
danbrowndmf: lol errione farts jore |
Re: Desperate For A Husband. by Happiness87(f): 8:37am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Gurgle:ok o, finally i like you |
Re: Desperate For A Husband. by jaybee3(m): 8:39am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Gurgle:My submission was a response to the OP not necessarily you. Don’t you think we have to lobby the government to recognise either of the 3 methods legally since it may or may not have direct impact on why eligible men aren’t taking the bold step Gurgle:So the OP can’t really be making assertion of what he has no clue about. Gurgle:The top reasons for divorce have nothing to do with upgrade in financial status Gurgle: I insist on past not determining the future so long as there is complete honesty between the two couple You are usually supposed to base your decision to accept your bf’s proposal using the experience gained whilst dating them. That’s the only reliable indicator on how someone will perform once you agree to share the rest of your life with them |
Re: Desperate For A Husband. by sinaj(f): 8:39am On Jul 31, 2015 |
PastorAji:*soliloquies* so evn pastor de use vaseling too |
Re: Desperate For A Husband. by jaybee3(m): 8:43am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Toks2008: Yet again you are going ahead making wrong assumptions even though it's really non of your business I'm sure she never claimed to be looking for admirers on NL so why can't she be free to post whatever she likes so long as it conforms to forum rules? You come across as someone very stuck up in old archaic ways |
Re: Desperate For A Husband. by Neplusultra(f): 8:43am On Jul 31, 2015 |
The Igbo expensive bride price is just overrated! Stop saying what you don't know OP, if it were,how come Igbo gals get married everyday! 1 Like |
Re: Desperate For A Husband. by mrkay101(m): 8:43am On Jul 31, 2015 |
ronald4lif: That's a bit bias..I'm sure if ur sister or family relative brings home a conductor or bus driver to marry you would be the 1st to raise the alarm. The thing is we are all humans and every Human wants the best. So u won't entirely blame a lady for going after what she wants. The problem there is when greed sets in... you find out that some ladies want an already made guy someone who already has 3 cars and houses. That's why ladies date married Men some even become second wives. They fail to acknowledged that hustling graduate with a goal. That man in a rented apartment with one Toyota. They become too choosy, that's where the problem is. |
Re: Desperate For A Husband. by Gurgle(f): 8:47am On Jul 31, 2015 |
jaybee3: Ok, the thing is that my parents only did a traditional wedding and the certificate was recognised both in Nigeria when they travelled, so im not sure which laws you are referring to jaybee3: Yeah I think enough people have already corrected him jaybee3: I cant say whether its a top reason but I know for sure that it is definitely present jaybee3: Yeah that's true |
Re: Desperate For A Husband. by toprealman: 8:48am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Gurgle:*BRIDE PRICE |
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