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8 Things Guys Secretly Love But Won’t Tell You. by Mekzmoney(m): 10:49am On Aug 11, 2015
I got this online and I decided to share it with female nairalanders so that they can learn.
You know Whether a guy is just starting to date a woman or is in a committed relationship with her, there are small things that she may do without thinking twice that guys secretly love.

While there are many, here are eight to start.

1) Laying your head on his chest.

When laying on the couch watching TV or laying in bed after a long day, it’s one of the best feelings when a woman lays her head down on your chest and puts her arm over you.

As men, we enjoy feeling as though we are being protective, and this signifies that she feels safe in our arms.

2) When you text him first.

There is a lot of pressure on guys to always initiate conversation. Sometimes he may not know if he’s being too pushy or texting too much — he might overthink it and not text you at all, which could leave you wondering.

Guys like to feel affection too, and if he’s really into you, he will be thinking about you. Sending him a quick text will brighten his day and spark a good conversation.

3) When you tell him you appreciate him.

Some people are more affectionate than others, and there’s nothing wrong with however you are. Just remember, if a man puts in a lot of effort into your relationship (as he should), he will never complain about hearing how much you appreciate him.

While he should be able to read your feelings from your actions, some guys need a more direct approach. It will make him feel all warm and fuzzy inside.

4) Play with his hair while he’s driving.

I didn’t realize how great this one was until my girlfriend randomly did it one day. If you’re riding shotgun, reach over and lightly scratch the back of his head for awhile. Guaranteed to make him smile. (Don’t distract him too much though, he’s driving!)

5) Brag about him on Facebook.

Some girls go overboard with this. Way overboard. But, if your guy does something nice for you, it never hurts to talk about it or snap a photo of the impromptu dinner he had arranged when you got home from work.

It will show him that you appreciate him and are willing to share your appreciation and love for him with the world.

6) Really listen.

Women know better than anyone that really listening isn’t just a passive activity. It’s actually an action and it takes effort. Sometimes a guy has something important going on in his life, is working towards a goal, or is just stressed out about work.

When you really sit down, keep his eye contact and become genuinely engaged in a conversation about something important to him, it will let him know you care (even if he already does).

7) Text him when you’re out with your friends.

I’ve heard some really bad stories about guys who are insanely jealous or don’t “let” their girlfriend go out with friends, and especially with other guys. While I understand the apprehension, a man should be secure enough in his relationship (and trust his girlfriend enough) to not worry every second she is out without him.

If you have a man who is mature enough to tell you to go have a good time, text him every now and then during the course of the night just saying hello. It will make him smile and let him know that you’re still thinking about him when you’re out.

cool Be affectionate.

You don’t have to jump on him in public, but small things like taking his hand while you’re walking, hugging him in line at the grocery store, or hooking your arm into his as you walk into a party, will make him feel close to you and that you’re proud to be with him.

The little things go a long way.

I wish our female friends luck in their relationships n marriages. grin

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Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love But Won’t Tell You. by Nobody: 10:51am On Aug 11, 2015
OP...you no put this ones.
VERY PERTINENT!!.
9)resting her hand on top her man zippers..
10)shaving the guy beards.
11)wiping the guy yansh after toileting.
12)carrying handkerchief closeby incase her man sweat.
No mind me o...am just being crazy,maybe na because say i be d FTC...lol.

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Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love But Won’t Tell You. by PMBfirstson(m): 10:51am On Aug 11, 2015
Coming to comment later
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love But Won’t Tell You. by powerfulsettingz: 10:51am On Aug 11, 2015
cheesy
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love But Won’t Tell You. by Medunah: 10:52am On Aug 11, 2015
Every other thing is cool except for no.5

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Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love But Won’t Tell You. by CUM4WHAT(m): 10:53am On Aug 11, 2015
NONSENSE
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love But Won’t Tell You. by Tapout(m): 10:58am On Aug 11, 2015
Medunah:
Every other thing is cool except for no.5


y?? undecided
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love But Won’t Tell You. by Tapout(m): 11:00am On Aug 11, 2015
really don't like letting hands on my head...
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love But Won’t Tell You. by Mekzmoney(m): 11:23am On Aug 11, 2015
Davhid:
OP...you no put this ones.
VERY PERTINENT!!.
9)resting her hand on top her man zippers..
10)shaving the guy beards.
11)wiping the guy yansh after toileting.
12)carrying handkerchief closeby incase her man sweat.
No mind me o...am just being crazy,maybe na because say i be d FTC...lol.
grin grin grin
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love But Won’t Tell You. by Mekzmoney(m): 11:28am On Aug 11, 2015
So u dnt wnt d world to knw abt him? Ur nt proud of him? Or do u hav oda guys?
Medunah:
Every other thing is cool except for no.5
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love But Won’t Tell You. by Mekzmoney(m): 11:30am On Aug 11, 2015
And how's ur r/ship going ma'am? grin
CUM4WHAT:
NONSENSE
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love But Won’t Tell You. by vizkiz: 11:38am On Aug 11, 2015
Tapout:
really don't like letting hands on my head...

that is my nigga! These hoes are not to be trusted with that grin

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Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love But Won’t Tell You. by Nobody: 12:06pm On Aug 11, 2015
Tapout:
really don't like letting hands on my head...


Y? I like touching d hair on a guy's head
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love But Won’t Tell You. by Nobody: 12:08pm On Aug 11, 2015
vizkiz:


that is my nigga! These hoes are not to be trusted with that grin



Lol who asked u to date hoes? undecided

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Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love But Won’t Tell You. by Nobody: 12:09pm On Aug 11, 2015
MhizDeedy:



Y? I like touching d hair on a guy's head
wow! thats nice,but am willing to date you if you can count the number of hairs on my head,agree?
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love But Won’t Tell You. by Nobody: 12:09pm On Aug 11, 2015
No.5 is just not it.....undecided

But d rest are so on point cool

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Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love But Won’t Tell You. by Nobody: 12:20pm On Aug 11, 2015
Davhid:

wow! thats nice,but am willing to date you if you can count the number of hairs on my head,agree?


Lol but d hair on ur head seems countable, I like my fingers getting missing in his hair tongue

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Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love But Won’t Tell You. by misspicy(f): 12:22pm On Aug 11, 2015
I know some guys will start claiming this points are feminine buh in secret they want it o,by d way,OP shey you know all dis will not stop some men from cheating
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love But Won’t Tell You. by kayo80(m): 12:23pm On Aug 11, 2015
hmm! They are all true...at least for me.
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love But Won’t Tell You. by Nobody: 12:34pm On Aug 11, 2015
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Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love But Won’t Tell You. by Nobody: 12:35pm On Aug 11, 2015
MhizDeedy:



Lol but d hair on ur head seems countable, I like my fingers getting missing in his hair tongue
*puts on wig*
oya count am now mek i see,na yur whole arm go miss for my head..aiSwear!.
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love But Won’t Tell You. by Nobody: 12:43pm On Aug 11, 2015
Davhid:

*puts on wig*
oya count am now mek i see,na yur whole arm go miss for my head..aiSwear!.


Lmao we both know that's not possible..... Nd y shld use wig ehn, u shld be proud of ur hair tongue

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Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love But Won’t Tell You. by yemstok(m): 12:48pm On Aug 11, 2015
I so much love my small beards to be played with.
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love But Won’t Tell You. by Nobody: 12:48pm On Aug 11, 2015
MhizDeedy:



Lmao we both know that's not possible..... Nd y shld use wig ehn, u shld be proud of ur hair tongue
lol....try telling that to the ladies who fix peoples hair tu...or is dat yur hair yu r having on yur head?...dont lie.
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love But Won’t Tell You. by Nobody: 12:51pm On Aug 11, 2015
Davhid:

lol....try telling that to the ladies who fix peoples hair tu...or is dat yur hair yu r having on yur head?...dont lie.


Yes nau.....what those it look like? Weaves can't look like that nau cheesy
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love But Won’t Tell You. by Nobody: 12:56pm On Aug 11, 2015
MhizDeedy:



Yes nau.....what those it look like? Weaves can't look like that nau cheesy
i no know o...i neva enter geh saloon before o...anyway,i bet yu fit still no fit count my own hair now,i dey kip dada...yu sef no go fit differ me wit bob marley hairstyle very soon.
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love But Won’t Tell You. by popweezy(m): 12:59pm On Aug 11, 2015
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Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love But Won’t Tell You. by jashar(f): 1:01pm On Aug 11, 2015
Tapout:
really don't like letting hands on my head...


why? So they will not steal your glory baa? grin grin grin
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love But Won’t Tell You. by Nobody: 1:01pm On Aug 11, 2015
Davhid:

i no know o...i neva enter geh saloon before o...anyway,i bet yu fit still no fit count my own hair now,i dey kip dada...yu sef no go fit differ me wit bob marley hairstyle very soon.


Lol hahhahaaa that's even worse tz seems u want to be rearing animals in ur Dada tongue
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Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love But Won’t Tell You. by Nobody: 1:03pm On Aug 11, 2015
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Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love But Won’t Tell You. by Nobody: 1:04pm On Aug 11, 2015
MhizDeedy:



Lol hahhahaaa that's even worse tz seems u want to be rearing animals in ur Dada tongue
lol...what do you expect from a zoology student...babies??.

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