MarieSucre:

here are some precautions you can take. You can ask other peeps for suggestions.

*Ensure this date takes place in a public facility. A restaurant or a park preferably one of your choosing.

*Inform your a relative or some family members where you will be going to and give that person or those people his number. If you're in a different state with friends. Do the same with your friends.

*If you take alcoholic drink, take it at a minimum. Avoid taking things that could be injected into i.e 5 alive, hollandia yoghurt or things that can be opened in your absence. As the above could impair your thinking faculty.

*Set a time limit for your date preferably when visibility starts getting low.

*Pay great attention to his body language, where his eyes rest? Does he get touchy-feely? These should raise red flags.

Now going into a date with such a mindset is obviously not healthy but we live in a wicked world.
If you go into with a free mind, people will say "Why can't you be more cautious?"
If you going into it being cautious, they will say "why're you acting like you expect him to be rapist?".

Remember your safety is paramount.

You can ask other nairalanders for better tips.

chymystique:
LOL!! Jenny1010 for your mind you are smart. Haven't you heard one day bush meat do catch the hunter? This is a very silly risk... what if he laced those alcoholic drinks with drug related substances like ecstasy?... what if he whisked you away into a nearby building or bush? Just tell us you are a pathetic alcholic wannabe who wanted to drink free alcohol unto sharp babe. Anyways this story is fake.

Why bust the bubble now? You should have let her enjoy her ghost ride while it lasts
Aint a rapist though, and will never be one. But I smell cow dungs from afar

Jenny1010:
Most people often think that rape is only when there is an element of force, coercion or threat on the victim. The law says any person who had sexual intercourse with a girl without her consent has committed the offence of Rape. This means having sex with a sleeping or intoxicated girl had amount to rape. Some guys even stupefy a girl's drink in other to have their way. This type of rape is often difficult to prove absent of consent, thereby most girls don't even bother to launch a complain to the police.

My Story ( The trick)

This guy had been asking me out for sometime, yesterday evening I decided to give him a shot. He took me to a nice bar somewhere around town. As we got seated, he ordered for a bottle of alcoholic wine. I told him I don't have a head for alcohol (which is a lie), that a little sip might make me tipsy (big lie), except he will promise to take me home if I get tipsy. He promised me that he will take me home. As we got drinking, this dude keep telling me how much he love me and want me to be the mother of his unborn kids, and that he will never hurt me, that I should give him a chance blah blah blah... He looked so innocent, charming and convincing. I told him to give me sometime to think about his proposal.

After emptying several glass of wine, at a point I decided to start the trick to test him, I started acting like I was drunk. I started talking out of point, dangling my head and making awkward hand gestures. He was convinced that I was drunk, yet he was still persuading me to drink more. At that moment I knew he was up to something, but I need to be sure. I took more glass of wine as he requested, after that I increased my acting. At a point he decided it was time to go , he held me as we were walking out toward his car i was staggering . As he help me into the car, he slightly touched my boobs. He did it to look like it was a mistake, but I knew he wanted to confirm my state of intoxication, so I didn't bug. As he gets into the car and drove the car, I pretended to have dozed up. At a point he stopped the car, got out and rushed into a pharmacy shop, I was just lying there like I was deep asleep with my eyes slightly open peeping at him. I guessed he was buying condoms , but I wasn't sure.

The next stop was in front of a hotel, he got down again and rushed inside. I guessed he went to book a room. He got back , helped me out of the car and inside the hotel. As we got to the reception, I decided the acting was enough, I forcefully pulled myself away from him, I called him a bloody liar , a rapist and all other hideous names I can't even remember. He was so astonished to see my eyes wide open. I also castigated the receptionist , I asked her how could she be their and watch a man drag an unconscious girl into a room . I even threatened to call the police to arrest them both. After that I walked out of the hotel gallantly leaving him there ashamed of himself. I took a taxi back home.

This is the 7th guy I have used this trick on , and they all failed woefully. The moment you start acting like you are intoxicated, the demon beneath the handsome, cool loving guy comes out to manifest. This got me thinking, are all guys rapist ? Is there any guy out there who can take an intoxicated girl to her house , without trying to take advantage of her condition? May God help us all.

naijaboiy:
Everything in their eye now is rape rape rape.

A guy will be attracted to a girl the natural way and they'll tag him a rapist.

Is that the only crime in the world?

Only you seven potential rapist. Are you the only girl in the world?

How come you keep attracting men that want to rape you? You have not asked yourself that question.

Give us guys a break abeg! If one bad egg will make you throw the remaining good ones away then don't eat eggs at all.

Tallesty1:
I used to have two sisters, one elder sister and a younger one. The older one is dead and the younger one is happily married so you prayer will rebound.

Secondly, the younger one before she married didn't follow random guys to bar to know if they will rape her. That increases the bounce rate of your prayer by 90% so get ready. Your heart is evil, he asked just to hang out and you harbored evil thoughts that he will rape you........... Don't you know that you attract what you focus your mind on? You didn't stop there, you even took countless glasses of alcohol[height of irresponsibility] and threw your sex starved body on him to arouse him and claim rape if he reacts. You are lucky it is not in some of the hotels around here, they don't care if you are being bleeped in a room or a car park, you are on your own.
I wish I am, I would have tracked you down and bleeped you until your right leg falls off and you will have to walk with crutches for the rest of your life Like I said, you are a foolish woman and you reason like a kid.

Grow up and stop choping or get ready to be raped.

Good luck.

Jenny1010:
Most people often think that rape is only when there is an element of force, coercion or threat on the victim. The law says any person who had sexual intercourse with a girl without her consent has committed the offence of Rape. This means having sex with a sleeping or intoxicated girl had amount to rape. Some guys even stupefy a girl's drink in other to have their way. This type of rape is often difficult to prove absent of consent, thereby most girls don't even bother to launch a complain to the police.

My Story ( The trick)

This guy had been asking me out for sometime, yesterday evening I decided to give him a shot. He took me to a nice bar somewhere around town. As we got seated, he ordered for a bottle of alcoholic wine. I told him I don't have a head for alcohol (which is a lie), that a little sip might make me tipsy (big lie), except he will promise to take me home if I get tipsy. He promised me that he will take me home. As we got drinking, this dude keep telling me how much he love me and want me to be the mother of his unborn kids, and that he will never hurt me, that I should give him a chance blah blah blah... He looked so innocent, charming and convincing. I told him to give me sometime to think about his proposal.

After emptying several glass of wine, at a point I decided to start the trick to test him, I started acting like I was drunk. I started talking out of point, dangling my head and making awkward hand gestures. He was convinced that I was drunk, yet he was still persuading me to drink more. At that moment I knew he was up to something, but I need to be sure. I took more glass of wine as he requested, after that I increased my acting. At a point he decided it was time to go , he held me as we were walking out toward his car i was staggering . As he help me into the car, he slightly touched my boobs. He did it to look like it was a mistake, but I knew he wanted to confirm my state of intoxication, so I didn't bug. As he gets into the car and drove the car, I pretended to have dozed up. At a point he stopped the car, got out and rushed into a pharmacy shop, I was just lying there like I was deep asleep with my eyes slightly open peeping at him. I guessed he was buying condoms , but I wasn't sure.

The next stop was in front of a hotel, he got down again and rushed inside. I guessed he went to book a room. He got back , helped me out of the car and inside the hotel. As we got to the reception, I decided the acting was enough, I forcefully pulled myself away from him, I called him a bloody liar , a rapist and all other hideous names I can't even remember. He was so astonished to see my eyes wide open. I also castigated the receptionist , I asked her how could she be their and watch a man drag an unconscious girl into a room . I even threatened to call the police to arrest them both. After that I walked out of the hotel gallantly leaving him there ashamed of himself. I took a taxi back home.

This is the 7th guy I have used this trick on , and they all failed woefully. The moment you start acting like you are intoxicated, the demon beneath the handsome, cool loving guy comes out to manifest. This got me thinking, are all guys rapist ? Is there any guy out there who can take an intoxicated girl to her house , without trying to take advantage of her condition? May God help us all.

oyb:
The real question is what is it about the op that attracts only aspiring rapists?

Jenny1010:


Don't get me wrong. I never said all guys are rapist. I know there are nice guys out there.

sevule:


He took her to a hotel to sober up? REALLY??
Even Nollywood wouldn't put that in a script.

Come on bro, we are not kids and we all know there is only one reason he took her to a hotel.

otiigba1:
if this is an invitation to join you for a drink? It's a yes! From me

Tallesty1:
So you have started following men to bar right?



Mama will hear this.



The op is a foolish woman and I pray the next guy rapes her until she's not able to walk.

She's busy eating guy's money and pretending she's' testing if they are rapists but one day will be her day of sorrow.

Who send her?

Instead of learning from her mom how to be a woman she's busy going from bar to bar, drinking like her father.

Like I said, the bush meat will catch the hunter one day.

Nah person wey go river water dey carry shey? It will be her turn one day.

The story won't always end the same and I pray it happens soon.

otiigba1:
Until an innocent man goes to prison or get killed by mobs you women won't stop this obsession with rape.
Leave rape cases to the police, as much as i do not condone rape ( genuine rape)

lordsbiz:
Here my own story my dear sister, i'm a kind of a bussiness person that holds a lot of cash at home, over time everytime a girl visits me i give them a litmus test of money, before we get intimate, i put a few bucks of cash on a table or somewhere not too hidden and as soon as we get drinking i form all tired and sleepy to the extent that even as time pass and shes anxious to leave i form overdose sleep, all the girls av tested took the cash and fail woefully and neuer talk about the money, mind you, am not having any sektual relationship wit them oh. Which makes me wonder, are all ladies thieves, or highly disoriented at the sight of cash. May God help us oh

Tallesty1:
So you have started following men to bar right?



Mama will hear this.



The op is a foolish woman and I pray the next guy rapes her until she's not able to walk.

She's busy eating guy's money and pretending she's' testing if they are rapists but one day will be her day of sorrow.

Who send her?

Instead of learning from her mom how to be a woman she's busy going from bar to bar, drinking like her father.

Like I said, the bush meat will catch the hunter one day.

Nah person wey go river water dey carry shey? It will be her turn one day.

The story won't always end the same and I pray it happens soon.

Jenny1010:
Most people often think that rape is only when there is an element of force, coercion or threat on the victim. The law says any person who had sexual intercourse with a girl without her consent has committed the offence of Rape. This means having sex with a sleeping or intoxicated girl had amount to rape. Some guys even stupefy a girl's drink in other to have their way. This type of rape is often difficult to prove absent of consent, thereby most girls don't even bother to launch a complain to the police.

My Story ( The trick)

This guy had been asking me out for sometime, yesterday evening I decided to give him a shot. He took me to a nice bar somewhere around town. As we got seated, he ordered for a bottle of alcoholic wine. I told him I don't have a head for alcohol (which is a lie), that a little sip might make me tipsy (big lie), except he will promise to take me home if I get tipsy. He promised me that he will take me home. As we got drinking, this dude keep telling me how much he love me and want me to be the mother of his unborn kids, and that he will never hurt me, that I should give him a chance blah blah blah... He looked so innocent, charming and convincing. I told him to give me sometime to think about his proposal.

After emptying several glass of wine, at a point I decided to start the trick to test him, I started acting like I was drunk. I started talking out of point, dangling my head and making awkward hand gestures. He was convinced that I was drunk, yet he was still persuading me to drink more. At that moment I knew he was up to something, but I need to be sure. I took more glass of wine as he requested, after that I increased my acting. At a point he decided it was time to go , he held me as we were walking out toward his car i was staggering . As he help me into the car, he slightly touched my boobs. He did it to look like it was a mistake, but I knew he wanted to confirm my state of intoxication, so I didn't bug. As he gets into the car and drove the car, I pretended to have dozed up. At a point he stopped the car, got out and rushed into a pharmacy shop, I was just lying there like I was deep asleep with my eyes slightly open peeping at him. I guessed he was buying condoms , but I wasn't sure.

The next stop was in front of a hotel, he got down again and rushed inside. I guessed he went to book a room. He got back , helped me out of the car and inside the hotel. As we got to the reception, I decided the acting was enough, I forcefully pulled myself away from him, I called him a bloody liar , a rapist and all other hideous names I can't even remember. He was so astonished to see my eyes wide open. I also castigated the receptionist , I asked her how could she be their and watch a man drag an unconscious girl into a room . I even threatened to call the police to arrest them both. After that I walked out of the hotel gallantly leaving him there ashamed of himself. I took a taxi back home.

This is the 7th guy I have used this trick on , and they all failed woefully. The moment you start acting like you are intoxicated, the demon beneath the handsome, cool loving guy comes out to manifest. This got me thinking, are all guys rapist ? Is there any guy out there who can take an intoxicated girl to her house , without trying to take advantage of her condition? May God help us all.

vickylala239:


This ur gist is a bloodly lie.

U pretend to b brunk and all of dem took u to hotel.

So all of dem Dnt Hv an apartment.

U Evn enter his car n said u Whr Nt raped.

So a rapist Mst Hv u a drink to rape u?

Wat stop a man from inviting n raping u in a well plan apartment?

lies!!!!

So all of dem gv u drink Without putting sumtin inside d drink,u Dnt knw Wat a rapist is,Cuz if u knw Dey cnt gv u drink without sumtin inside.

A rapist drove u in his car,instead of parking on d road side,Since Dnt Hv a place!!!Hmmmm lies.

Rapist spend all dis amount rada Dan get a slut for Jst 2k up n u call Dat a rapist?

rapist Evn park to buy CD?.wen thief Dey rape dem Dey cum with cd?

for Mi u Dnt Evn knw Wat a rapist is??

Do u tink rapist Hv tym to waste Lik dis?

rapist Evn buy u drink sef.


For Mi guys Lik dis r Nt rapist,guys Lik dis wnts to tke deir share After u Mst Hv finish drinking him.

Pls I wnt to ask Weda d drink u drank was free,was it Nt paid for?.Wat did u gv d guy in return.

Wat hppn is Dat there are gels,Dat are tagged stingy gel,Dey cn Neva gv u deir tiiti, no mata Hw Dey eat u,d only way of getting ur moni bck is to find a way n fckk dem.

Dat is Wat hppn in ur case.

If u Whr Not eating Dat guy,he will Hv no reason to find easy way.

MarieSucre:

You're right. Some cases have been false alarm. Women who were shunned after sex or bear grudges after a sexual act and maliciously resort to ruining an innocent man's life.

And for those women may the full wrath of the law fall on them. In fact I suggest the penalty of rape be applied to them since they raped a man of living a normal life again in society and if jungle justice(i don't not support this) is applied to the man let her be charged with manslaughter. Gbam!

EggovinMma:


Man wey no drink, wey no smoke, wey no womanise, no be nigerian man, Na ALIEN!

EggovinMma:


Man wey no drink, wey no smoke, wey no womanise, no be nigerian man, Na ALIEN!

EggovinMma:


Sure! What brand do you like?

Jenny1010:
Most people often think that rape is only when there is an element of force, coercion or threat on the victim. The law says any person who had sexual intercourse with a girl without her consent has committed the offence of Rape. This means having sex with a sleeping or intoxicated girl had amount to rape. Some guys even stupefy a girl's drink in other to have their way. This type of rape is often difficult to prove absent of consent, thereby most girls don't even bother to launch a complain to the police.

My Story ( The trick)

This guy had been asking me out for sometime, yesterday evening I decided to give him a shot. He took me to a nice bar somewhere around town. As we got seated, he ordered for a bottle of alcoholic wine. I told him I don't have a head for alcohol (which is a lie), that a little sip might make me tipsy (big lie), except he will promise to take me home if I get tipsy. He promised me that he will take me home. As we got drinking, this dude keep telling me how much he love me and want me to be the mother of his unborn kids, and that he will never hurt me, that I should give him a chance blah blah blah... He looked so innocent, charming and convincing. I told him to give me sometime to think about his proposal.

After emptying several glass of wine, at a point I decided to start the trick to test him, I started acting like I was drunk. I started talking out of point, dangling my head and making awkward hand gestures. He was convinced that I was drunk, yet he was still persuading me to drink more. At that moment I knew he was up to something, but I need to be sure. I took more glass of wine as he requested, after that I increased my acting. At a point he decided it was time to go , he held me as we were walking out toward his car i was staggering . As he help me into the car, he slightly touched my boobs. He did it to look like it was a mistake, but I knew he wanted to confirm my state of intoxication, so I didn't bug. As he gets into the car and drove the car, I pretended to have dozed up. At a point he stopped the car, got out and rushed into a pharmacy shop, I was just lying there like I was deep asleep with my eyes slightly open peeping at him. I guessed he was buying condoms , but I wasn't sure.

The next stop was in front of a hotel, he got down again and rushed inside. I guessed he went to book a room. He got back , helped me out of the car and inside the hotel. As we got to the reception, I decided the acting was enough, I forcefully pulled myself away from him, I called him a bloody liar , a rapist and all other hideous names I can't even remember. He was so astonished to see my eyes wide open. I also castigated the receptionist , I asked her how could she be their and watch a man drag an unconscious girl into a room . I even threatened to call the police to arrest them both. After that I walked out of the hotel gallantly leaving him there ashamed of himself. I took a taxi back home.

This is the 7th guy I have used this trick on , and they all failed woefully. The moment you start acting like you are intoxicated, the demon beneath the handsome, cool loving guy comes out to manifest. This got me thinking, are all guys rapist ? Is there any guy out there who can take an intoxicated girl to her house , without trying to take advantage of her condition? May God help us all.