shizzy7:
it depends;; if it's my husband OR just any Man ~ different rules apply..

dmcdad:

Paid you to support his club?

Captainswag225:
ur husband, then how do u react?

shizzy7:
He's just passionate about his club and getting more Supporters for Arsenal..

Stellaenefa:
Physical abuse from the man is more guilty. I always tell people not to be physical instead use your mouth(voice) to fight for your right.

shizzy7:
The first time I will let it pass,
*2nd time report to his parents,
*third time think of my children and still stay
*Fourth time runaway...

Captainswag225:
then u have to stay away from my friend! I dont want u to destroy his heart.

LadyAimy:











Lolll, he can compete for it

chigoizie7:





Yes love, I can't help it. That's why I said "Not Again".



I don't know why some people will see certain things to be good for A and not good for B. It sulks.



Women just think that verbal abuse Is their birth right and with that, they see nothing wrong with it while there is everything wrong with it.




Well, to answer OP's question, VERBAL abuse Is the worst form of abuse. As 80% of physical abuse today is caused by a verbal abuse. Hardly will u see a man just beating a woman without the woman saying a word to him in the first place, that is to show u how BAD it is to men, we all have our soft spots,


What is good for the goose is good for the gander.


U will never know how the shoes pain unless u wear them.

To me, I would rather u beat/hit me than abuse me verbally. @times it brings out the beast in me.

Oahray:
tell that to the stammerer who can only manage two words for every ten the wife spits.

Generally women are better at being verbal and men more physical. When the shyte hits the fan, it's only normal to reach for one's favourite weapon. Women would go physical too, if they had the strength.

If Mr Y slashes at Mr Z with a razor-sharp knife, and Mr Z cuts off the offending hand with a razor-sharp sword, I do not believe Mr Z is more evil than Mr Y. They both used weapons on each other with the intention of causing harm.

Captainswag225:
really? I dont believe it! I think ur first, u will let it go

2. U will report him to his parents


3. U will react and retaliate. Come on gal, i know u.

Captainswag225:
hahaha, the lady says no so its of no use. He will jux be wasting his time.

shizzy7:
come on boy, you don't know me..

LadyAimy:









Maybe he needs a cuc

dmcdad:
Lets talk domestic abuse... Physical abuse from the man, or verbal abuse from the woman. Who is more guilty? And why? Please, discuss the above with respect to relationships and/or marriages.


I attended a relationship programme a fortnight ago, and this was one of the issues raised. Mind you, it wasn't a programme for kids, but adults made up of mainly married couples. Surprisingly, the women who gave their views, said verbal abuse is worse.


Lets try as much as possible to be objective with our views.

Remember! Your comments should be with respect to relationships and/or marriages.

dmcdad:

You are very correct.

I hate all forms of abuse. And I will never be a party to any form of abuse. Yet, these are salient things that are killing relationships and marriages today without being taken cognizance of.

Thanks for your honesty and objectivity.

Captainswag225:
i do, atleast i know u dont go down without a fyt.

shizzy7:
uuhhh true...
I still don't know anything about you,, very soon I will

UyiIredia:


I think physical abuse is worse NOT verbal abuse physical abuse can be fatal, but not verbal abuse. I do believe that verbal abuse can be very damaging psychologically, and have experienced so myself, but verbal abuse doesn't translate to physical injury although it could cause stress. Physical abuse OTOH in most cases comes along with psychological harm. Depression, stress suicidal tendencies etc are possible results.

BTW I think men are far more guilty of physical abuse than women are of verbal abuse. In fact, as is seen clearly on Nairaland, men can be verbally abusive.

Captainswag225:
that will be ur second assignment. I hope u succeed like u did in ur first assignment.

shizzy7:
That can't be an assignment!!!!!! abegi,, I.have things to do observing you is not on my list..... height of joblessness...

Captainswag225:
ur mouth.

shizzy7:
Okay ooo good night
Take it easy with First she needs your full attention

dmcdad:

Why did you try to hide this in the first place? We need more people with good heads. Thanks for this.

Like you, I would take a hit rather than verbally abused. Not because I can't stand verbal abuse, on the contrary, nothing can make me change my stand of making sure I never hit a woman I love or care about.

But, verbally abusing me would call for my full wrath. Not with any form of abuse (maybe emotional abuse), but with something more lethal and painful. Something that might just make her hate me for life.

shizzy7:
Lol, I Like your last sentence...

UyiIredia:


Thanks. But that one no mean say women no get their own comma o !

UyiIredia:


I think physical abuse is worse NOT verbal abuse physical abuse can be fatal, but not verbal abuse. I do believe that verbal abuse can be very damaging psychologically, and have experienced so myself, but verbal abuse doesn't translate to physical injury although it could cause stress. Physical abuse OTOH in most cases comes along with psychological harm. Depression, stress suicidal tendencies etc are possible results.

BTW I think men are far more guilty of physical abuse than women are of verbal abuse. In fact, as is seen clearly on Nairaland, men can be verbally abusive.

chigoizie7:




We are on the same lane bro. The truth is, I ve never raised a hand on a girl except my ex gf( u know the lovey dovey kinda play, I am d playful type, I can wrestle wella, and she enjoys it,we both enjoy it). To surprise u, she has never ever abused me verbally. sound weird?

I just hate it when u justify certain things that does not need any form of justification, justifying some things makes it seem cool and normal and right.



I ve been abused verbally,by certain female folks,but certainly not my GF(ex), but the worst verbal abuse Is from my Dad,he practically does that to everyone, and he believes its normal to him(and I can't abuse him as well either physically or verbally and that's very painful and demeaning) , that's why I ve been trying so hard to make people see to it that it is not normal. It is just as bad as physical abuse.




All d same bro, let's say no to any form of abuse.

shizzy7:
@dmcdad, you see Verbal abuse is not just peculiar to women... You guys abuse physically and verbally while for women its just Verbally....
When I said to some people its like a way of life I knew what I was talking about








You have a lot of work to do with your awareness campaign...

chigoizie7:




We are on the same lane bro. The truth is, I ve never raised a hand on a girl except my ex gf( u know the lovey dovey kinda play, I am d playful type, I can wrestle wella, and she enjoys it,we both enjoy it). To surprise u, she has never ever abused me verbally. sound weird?

I just hate it when u justify certain things that does not need any form of justification, justifying some things makes it seem cool and normal and right.



I ve been abused verbally,by certain female folks,but certainly not my GF(ex), but the worst verbal abuse Is from my Dad,he practically does that to everyone, and he believes its normal to him(and I can't abuse him as well either physically or verbally and that's very painful and demeaning) , that's why I ve been trying so hard to make people see to it that it is not normal. It is just as bad as physical abuse.




All d same bro, let's say no to any form of abuse.

chigoizie7:







Nice write up, I know u do not support any form of abuse. But please stop making preference of one to the other, they are very very very bad in all aspect of being bad.


I doubt if u ve been abused verbally, I mean, in the real context of verbal abuse, until u experience such (I pray u don't my dear) u will know that most of the suicide cases are as a result of verbal abuses.
Come to ireland here, u will know what I mean by verbal abuse being synonymous with suicides, especially amongst the teens. They just can't handle it, and its the same all over.

Let me not go further.

shizzy7:
@dmcdad, you see Verbal abuse is not just peculiar to women... You guys abuse physically and verbally while for women its just Verbally....
When I said to some people its like a way of life I knew what I was talking about








You have a lot of work to do with your awareness campaign...