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Re: Why Do Guys Go Blank When Asked This One Simple Question? by unite4real: 2:46pm On Sep 10, 2015
Jenny1010:

Guys are known to be open-minded and don't hesitate to give a simple, straight and direct answer to questions.. But, I still wonder why they go totally blank and sometimes furious when a girl ask them this one simple questions.


1. How much do you collect as salary every month?

Gender war don begin
Re: Why Do Guys Go Blank When Asked This One Simple Question? by DICKtator: 2:46pm On Sep 10, 2015
prettytasha:
why should u ask him? that's a very ridiculous question ', do u intend adding to the salary or you are just a scavenger .. abi you be minister of finance that wants to plan his budget ...

6th to comment ...i dedicate this space ..to all lovers of quantum physics , my bestie , mtn nigeria for fast network and to all my friends in webmaster section lol ...#dancing etighi

6th to comment and all this?

Seriously, how old are you ?(forget the virgin part!!)


grin grin grin grin
Re: Why Do Guys Go Blank When Asked This One Simple Question? by Nnemuka(f): 2:48pm On Sep 10, 2015
the only time a man tells you how much he earns is when he truly loves you,wants to marry you and he knows his salary cannot pay all the bills alone.
he will tell you just to remind you that he's a poor churchrat that needs support incase you are thinking of becoming obiagelliaku

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Re: Why Do Guys Go Blank When Asked This One Simple Question? by cruzyteejay(m): 2:48pm On Sep 10, 2015
Jenny1010:
I know all this guilty conscious selfish guys will come here to attack me coupled with some low self esteem girls.

How does asking your boyfriend how much he earns make you a local or hungry girl. What is the foundation of a relationship? isn't trust?. If you want a long lasting relationship, you have to open up on everything. You want a girl to tell you everything about herself, but you assume it an offence when she ask you how much you earn.

If you can't open up to your girl on how much you earn, then you have to ask yourself "what are you doing with her" , because clearly you don't trust her, except you just want to use and dump her.
first of all, you have to know that he is not your husband......but for God sake what the hell on earth do you have to do with that?,you are just there to assist him,and as you know this bf and gf stuff is likely among sec school and university students, and most of them take their school fees and pocket money from their parents, and certainly with no job,what do you now expect from the guy? To start telling you stories about his family's financial status?,i can assure you that no working class lady will ever as a guy such question,its just like asking a girl were she buys her undies?,i just wanna make common sense.............one lovecheesy

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Re: Why Do Guys Go Blank When Asked This One Simple Question? by Nobody: 2:48pm On Sep 10, 2015
Goodboiyy:



and u think u re smart insulting Others ? I pity ur bf..

pls mr learn to understand....wha2 did you mean by insulting guys here? Are you among the mentioned category or yhu dnt knw wat it means to insult again......
Re: Why Do Guys Go Blank When Asked This One Simple Question? by chigoizie7(m): 2:49pm On Sep 10, 2015
honeygirl17:
Broke Guys Association of Nairaland (BGAN) will soon come for your head



The same way I am coming for your head.
Re: Why Do Guys Go Blank When Asked This One Simple Question? by iwatchandlisten(m): 2:51pm On Sep 10, 2015
Jenny1010:
I know all this guilty conscious selfish guys will come here to attack me coupled with some low self esteem girls.

How does asking your boyfriend how much he earns make you a local or hungry girl. What is the foundation of a relationship? isn't trust?. If you want a long lasting relationship, you have to open up on everything. You want a girl to tell you everything about herself, but you assume it an offence when she ask you how much you earn.

If you can't open up to your girl on how much you earn, then you have to ask yourself "what are you doing with her" , because clearly you don't trust her, except you just want to use and dump her[/color].

If two people are in a relationship that didnt work, how come the female claims being used and dumped? What does it mean to USE someone? if the brother USES, doesnt this presupposes that the sister also USES him?

Meanwhile, before, you ask a guy how much he earns, have you told him how much you earn? What do you bring to the relationship, to him, are you trustworthy? what level is that relationship, do both parties want the same thing in/from the relationship?

Pls dont think guys who cringe when you ask that question are broke brothers, that query raises many alarm signals and many questions about you for the guys to begin to ponder...why is she asking, is she worth it? wetin dey worry this babe sef? is she trying to use my income as a basis to determine weda i am good enuf for her? is there another guy in the picture who she feels earns well and want to compare our income?

Again, note that some guys dont tell their wives what they earn, so i dont think they told their girlfriends, it doesnt mean that they value or dont value you. For those who are predisposed to revealing such info, what guides them is whether they consider you an OBIAGELI[color=#990000] or an ODOZIAKU?[color=#990000][/color]
Re: Why Do Guys Go Blank When Asked This One Simple Question? by riczy(m): 2:53pm On Sep 10, 2015
:Douh

Re: Why Do Guys Go Blank When Asked This One Simple Question? by tohpahz(f): 2:54pm On Sep 10, 2015
[quote author=Eltigre7 post=37867090][/quote]

I don't do such.. angry
Re: Why Do Guys Go Blank When Asked This One Simple Question? by Nobody: 2:54pm On Sep 10, 2015
igwejay67:
Gini I've been married for 5 years now and have two kids and my wife doesn't even know how much my salary is talk less of a broad. Abeg park well joor ...
smh....u even seem proud!!

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Re: Why Do Guys Go Blank When Asked This One Simple Question? by ruffDiamond: 2:55pm On Sep 10, 2015
angry
misspicy:
Those broke niggas are coming for your head OP...hope u can take d heat grin
Pple like BlackrulesDworld


modified..

Seem they r coming for my head insteadgrin
M only here for the fun please

I stand gidigba holding my sword...lol
Cnt u guys take a joke...besides m not d reason for your misfortune @all the broke boys quoting me


Btw,lalasticlala why is that every thread I mention broke niggaz makes FP,r u pple using my comment to draw traffic,coz dis niggaz be mentioning me like say na me coz their brokeness
yeah BROKE ASS BIT.CH we get yr point but I can't even begin to imagine HOW MANY DEEK U TAKING IN A DAY TO GET ALL THAT GOLD AND SILVER PLUS ALL THOSE FALSIES shocked gal like u hate the TRUTH and can't assimilate let alone comprehend simple intelligent point as it's common with naija gals u will rather live in denial and adamant so you re ever quick to fling the jaded and dry refrain broke nigga whareva na EVERY DUDE BE BROKE NIGGA BECAUSE U CAN. SEE OUR BANK BALANCE FROM YOUR SYSTEM SCREEN NO BE SO?? but we how ya all longathroat golddigga operate fuvkin maga up and down, loose moral ,indecency, ill mannered, unresourcefulness are the problems guys have you lot and not necessarily the money or salary issue I live right here in FCT so I know what I'm talking abt loose gals all over the place TRADING THEIR TOTO RVERYNIGHT and forming decent girls in day time ,such a gal might some unsuspecting and unlucky dude fiance or galfriend now u can imagine such a tart asking such a ridiculous question mtchewww
Re: Why Do Guys Go Blank When Asked This One Simple Question? by joebeckz(m): 2:57pm On Sep 10, 2015
KashyBaby:
coz they might feel tat we women juz after their cold cash grin grin grin
very true, why should she ask when she aint my wife yet? a lady once asked me same and i was just smiling, not like i couldnt answer but its always a surprise question and things tend to run on the guys mind at that moment like, 'is she ok? is she a thief in womans clothing? etc'. lolz
Re: Why Do Guys Go Blank When Asked This One Simple Question? by tohpahz(f): 2:57pm On Sep 10, 2015
cristweeezy:
so to ask abt virginity status don become work abi? so to ask abt virginity status don become work abi? so to ask abt virginity status don become work abi?


grin i don't care..
Re: Why Do Guys Go Blank When Asked This One Simple Question? by deetomee: 2:57pm On Sep 10, 2015
Does that girl wanna raise your salary? I will simply ask her to go meet my boss if she is that inquisitive.
Re: Why Do Guys Go Blank When Asked This One Simple Question? by controlG(m): 2:59pm On Sep 10, 2015
I think it is a personal question.. That's why I don't tell..I would only tell you if We really close and understand each other pretty well.
Re: Why Do Guys Go Blank When Asked This One Simple Question? by oyinbogirl(f): 2:59pm On Sep 10, 2015
Jenny1010:

Guys are known to be open-minded and don't hesitate to give a simple, straight and direct answer to questions.. But, I still wonder why they go totally blank and sometimes furious when a girl ask them this one simple questions.


1. How much do you collect as salary every month?


I agree with you there... guys do go blank - over a lot of questions. Salary would not be what I'd be asking first though, just sayin! lol
Re: Why Do Guys Go Blank When Asked This One Simple Question? by GodblessNig247(m): 2:59pm On Sep 10, 2015
EggovinMma:
NA STINGY NESS DEY WORRY THEM NA. angry angry angry angry



THEY WILL NEVER TELL YOU THE TRUTH!

Go make Ur money if u have not made urs and leave us alone. must u girls be dependent on us forever? haba

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Re: Why Do Guys Go Blank When Asked This One Simple Question? by chinedujazzy(m): 3:07pm On Sep 10, 2015
Guys who re in for a serious relationship will answer the question,but the players will either hype their salary or evade the question!
Re: Why Do Guys Go Blank When Asked This One Simple Question? by sandave(m): 3:08pm On Sep 10, 2015
how is that your business..... is my salary not ours
Re: Why Do Guys Go Blank When Asked This One Simple Question? by sandave(m): 3:09pm On Sep 10, 2015
how is that your business.....







is my salary not ours
Re: Why Do Guys Go Blank When Asked This One Simple Question? by Kennedyiheme: 3:14pm On Sep 10, 2015
Jenny1010:
I know all this guilty conscious selfish guys will come here to attack me coupled with some low self esteem girls.

How does asking your boyfriend how much he earns make you a local or hungry girl. What is the foundation of a relationship? isn't trust?. If you want a long lasting relationship, you have to open up on everything. You want a girl to tell you everything about herself, but you assume it an offence when she ask you how much you earn.

If you can't open up to your girl on how much you earn, then you have to ask yourself "what are you doing with her" , because clearly you don't trust her, except you just want to use and dump her.
madam, you said why do "guys" you didn't say boyfreind, intelligent people don't ask that kind of question, its totally irrelevant, you can ask your boyfreind tht question but not at the early stage of your relationship, asking just any guy, gives a him a wrong impression about you, the same goes to guys, only ask your gf if she's a virgin. So many unwise people nowadays, how do you even feel when you just ask anyguy how much he earns? Its so unethical and for hungry people
Re: Why Do Guys Go Blank When Asked This One Simple Question? by vinelli(m): 3:15pm On Sep 10, 2015
Jenny1010:

Guys are known to be open-minded and don't hesitate to give a simple, straight and direct answer to questions.. But, I still wonder why they go totally blank and sometimes furious when a girl ask them this one simple questions.


1. How much do you collect as salary every month?
You know whether him get work
Re: Why Do Guys Go Blank When Asked This One Simple Question? by Kennedyiheme: 3:15pm On Sep 10, 2015
chinedujazzy:
Guys who re in for a serious relationship will answer the question,but the players will either hype their salary or evade the question!
you just said nonsense

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Re: Why Do Guys Go Blank When Asked This One Simple Question? by Kennedyiheme: 3:17pm On Sep 10, 2015
controlG:
I think it is a personal question.. That's why I don't tell..I would only tell you if We really close and understand each other pretty well.
you are wise

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Re: Why Do Guys Go Blank When Asked This One Simple Question? by Aude(f): 3:17pm On Sep 10, 2015
It's so funny to see how men will justify asking a woman if she is a virgin and then turn around and vilify women who ask about their boyfriends' salaries. Both questions are very probing and should only be asked if the couple are intimate. A man should not walk up to a girl he barely knows and ask her if she is a virgin. In the same light, a woman should not ask a man she has just started dating how much he makes. These are topics that should come up when the couple are intimate and in a serious, committed relationship.

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Re: Why Do Guys Go Blank When Asked This One Simple Question? by Obaf16(f): 3:17pm On Sep 10, 2015
prettytasha:
why should u ask him? that's a very ridiculous question ', do u intend adding to the salary or you are just a scavenger .. abi you be minister of finance that wants to plan his budget ...

6th to comment ...i dedicate this space ..to all lovers of quantum physics , my bestie , mtn nigeria for fast network and to all my friends in webmaster section lol ...#dancing etighi
Gbosa
Re: Why Do Guys Go Blank When Asked This One Simple Question? by Negos1(m): 3:19pm On Sep 10, 2015
Jenny1010:

Guys are known to be open-minded and don't hesitate to give a simple, straight and direct answer to questions.. But, I still wonder why they go totally blank and sometimes furious when a girl ask them this one simple questions.


1. How much do you collect as salary every month?
Cos the day you tell her, that day your troubles increases!
Re: Why Do Guys Go Blank When Asked This One Simple Question? by zaralady: 3:21pm On Sep 10, 2015
bercarray:
only gold diggers ask such questions,bt y go blank,as 4 me even if i dy earn #500,i go tell her say na 50000,if i get d chance sef i go bleep her like mad,makin her rest assure say at d end of d month,i go buy her brazilian hair,make her dreams come true,i go come ask nlanders what to tell her at d end of d month like i wasnt paid ma salary or .....any other lies sha,i'm sure after 2 months or 3,she go take her digger to anoda land go search 4 gold.i go even open thread narrating how i bleep a gold digger without payn kobo. Rubbish pple

Is bleeping something you should be proud of?? undecided
Re: Why Do Guys Go Blank When Asked This One Simple Question? by Toks2008(m): 3:28pm On Sep 10, 2015
afolag:
The answer to the question depends on many factors.
1. previous dating experience
2. where and how you met your girl.
3. How long av u guys been together
4. the type of lady she is, a case study of EBINA, AJEBO or Mix
and lastly take home to mama or roller caoster.
5. Over to the big boys to do the final analysis.

Only my wiife or a lady im seriously considering as my wife is qualiiified to ask that question and we must have developed a level of closeness.

A lady im just meeting should not even think about it let alone voicing it except she has a real cogent reason for asking.

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Re: Why Do Guys Go Blank When Asked This One Simple Question? by Ifebazz(m): 3:29pm On Sep 10, 2015
Jenny1010:

Guys are known to be open-minded and don't hesitate to give a simple, straight and direct answer to questions.. But, I still wonder why they go totally blank and sometimes furious when a girl ask them this one simple questions.


1. How much do you collect as salary every month?
How many guys have you slept with?
Re: Why Do Guys Go Blank When Asked This One Simple Question? by possibilita(m): 3:30pm On Sep 10, 2015
Jenny1010:


The same reason why you guys often ask a girl if she is a virgin or how old she is
sorry I don't usually ask a girl if she is a virgin anymore its kinda childish knowing they won't b truthful so wat I do is comfirm it myself
Re: Why Do Guys Go Blank When Asked This One Simple Question? by ELITE0911(m): 3:30pm On Sep 10, 2015
because it is a trick question.

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