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Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by urchbarbie(f): 7:40am On Sep 15, 2015

mrsmith11:
You people should stop interpreting what you don't know

they will talking about something and somebody.
We will not know except we have the begining of the conversation

What you showed here is just a fraction of it

oh yh! I am sorry to read too many meanings......my profession has sharpened my 6th sense. its not my fault

Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by urchbarbie(f): 7:41am On Sep 15, 2015

kingreign:
I can't smell a scam, pali could mean document (any document), pali could mean friend (just like you na my pal) still giving op wrong ideas?

haaaaa.....in pidgin-yoruba, pali means documents. I dont know d other one u said.

Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by urchbarbie(f): 7:43am On Sep 15, 2015

kingreign:
Baby, don't aid in scattering another woman/man union with this imagination. Stop giving the negative, judgemental and suspicious thoughts to the woman.

I am not giving any negative thoughts. A confused person came to seek advice, there must av been signs to make her believe sometin fishy, if from my explanations, the obvious is revealed, its no fault of mine.

Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by Nobody: 7:46am On Sep 15, 2015*

I dont know what to think about

Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by IamLEGEND1: 7:51am On Sep 15, 2015

urchbarbie:
lolx. how na? Person wey ask qiestions no dey lose, and person wey answer nko?

you dey tell the woman say the girl in question get EXTREME bedmatic abilities........

u suppose spare the woman of any potential heart attack.....
just tell am say the "Samson sister" na mother Mary she be..

Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by Nobody: 7:51am On Sep 15, 2015*

I realy try

Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by urchbarbie(f): 7:56am On Sep 15, 2015

IamLEGEND1:
you dey tell the woman say the girl in question get EXTREME bedmatic abilities........

u suppose spare the woman of any potential heart attack.....
just tell am say the "Samson sister" na mother Mary she be..

hahhahahaha. now ure one funny bro

Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by Nobody: 7:56am On Sep 15, 2015

Cityink:
I treat him very understandful and i try always. But he never tell me where he was...even he stay out of house over night!
He is whole time ugly, boring and selfish...just to get something like help or expanation or sex he is short nice & apologize for what he said or did day before...after he is in bad mood again
I dont know what to think about

Is he someone just want easy life

I don't know why I find this particular post hilarious but it is for some reason. Where are you from, girl?

Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by Nobody: 7:58am On Sep 15, 2015*

Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by Nobody: 8:05am On Sep 15, 2015

Am I the only sane person who doesn't get the Relationship between The Topic and the screen Shot? shocked

Someone help me huh

Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by Nobody: 8:05am On Sep 15, 2015*

Why has a married man, another woman in his mind...

Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by kingreign(m): 8:06am On Sep 15, 2015

Cityink:
Germany

Oh here we go again, pls don't upload any profile picture we are fine without your face in the profile picture.... I see you're a fan of the UAE king.

Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by Nobody: 8:07am On Sep 15, 2015*

Sorry but i dont understand.

Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by mrsmith11(m): 8:08am On Sep 15, 2015

Cityink:
I treat him very understandful and i try always. But he never tell me where he was...even he stay out of house over night!
He is whole time ugly, boring and selfish...just to get something like help or explanation or sex he is short nice & apologize for what he said or did day before...after he is in bad mood again
I dont know what to think about

Is he someone just want easy life

You should know that in marriages there are always up and down at a time so your case is not different from any other marriage having issue of this nature

I think your husband might just be one of those men who doesn't understand the meaning and responsibility of been a married man

He might be living as a single man from the comfort of his home like still enjoying the company of his male friends,hanging out in bars/clubs at the detriment of his home

He might even be cheating with other women but the conversation up does not prove so

I think you need a long talk with your husband or both of you seek a marriage counsellor

He might be going through somethings which you are unaware also

Stop listening to different interpretation here

My advice

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Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by kingreign(m): 8:13am On Sep 15, 2015

Cityink:
Sorry but i dont understand. You need an unhappy pic? I dont know what you mean? Shall i delete the pic? What is the problem with my pics?

Delete the picture.

Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by Nobody: 8:16am On Sep 15, 2015*

Thx so much

Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by Nobody: 8:20am On Sep 15, 2015*

kingreign:
Delete the picture.

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Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by mrsmith11(m): 8:31am On Sep 15, 2015

Don't delete the pic....you look lively and cheerful on the pic

You were in UAE last, was your husband with you...I guess not
Does he has his complete document now

Mayb your marriage is a bit boring like normal routine (wake up,goto work,come back and sleep then repeat again)

I think maybe you need to rekindle the fire in the marriage

Why don't both of you spend sometime outside germany like 1-2 weeks together. You can come to venice (italy) is a beautiful city

Or goto dinner in a quiet restaurant then just talk to him

Just my opinion

Cityink:
Why? Whats the matter with my pic or face? Yes i like VAE, was there for holiday last month, was realy cool!

Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by Nobody: 8:42am On Sep 15, 2015*

You're right

Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by Nobody: 8:46am On Sep 15, 2015*

He always tell me, if i like i shall go alone.

Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by Nobody: 8:52am On Sep 15, 2015*

Stubborn

Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by Nobody: 8:53am On Sep 15, 2015

I could forget & forgive much...but never if there is an other woman in his mind

Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by ebamma(m): 8:54am On Sep 15, 2015

Cityink:
I could forget & forgive much...but never if there is an other woman in his mind

it seems, English is not your first language?

Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by Nobody: 8:57am On Sep 15, 2015*

Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by ebamma(m): 9:00am On Sep 15, 2015

Since down here in Nigeria, ,

People only respect you when you are rich,

Many who travel abroad in search of greener pastures,

Will do all the can to make it over there,

Including marrying a woman, the don't love,

Or even care about,

If he is telling you lies, not contributing anything to the relationship, hiding things from you, it's time you quit the relationship,
:

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Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by ebamma(m): 9:05am On Sep 15, 2015

Cityink:
No i am german

that's what I thought,

Sometimes a Nigerian man's will to make it abroad, always surpasses his sense of compassion and integrity,

Many enter fake relationships, fake marriages and even fake conversion to another religion, if that's going to help them make it abroad,

If he doesn't contribute anything to the relationship and is always lying to you,

There is no need of being in that relationship

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Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by Richy4(m): 9:06am On Sep 15, 2015

I'm just wondering what the fuss was in this conversation.

The most harmless guy to guy conversation any one could possibly have.

OP, if your marriage collapse, I guess you contributed to it 80%. For the fact that trust is dead in most relationship, does not mean that there are people who are not in great relationship.

Try and strengthen your relationship. Stop sniffing around. That alone can damage a great relationship

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Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by Nobody: 9:11am On Sep 15, 2015*

Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by Nobody: 9:12am On Sep 15, 2015*

Yes

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Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by Nobody: 9:13am On Sep 15, 2015*

How

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Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by Nobody: 9:22am On Sep 15, 2015*

Omo badoo
Seems to mean
I am so bad

Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by ebamma(m): 9:23am On Sep 15, 2015

Cityink:
How can i strenghen our realationship alone...how if he dont even talk or listen to me? How

according to my basic knowledge of relationships,

He doesn't talk much with,

He only visits you when he needs money or sex,

He is always lying to you,

Hiding things from you,

Those are are red flags,

I will say quit now before you are heavily invested in that relationship,

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