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Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by prettyjo(f): 11:23pm On Sep 20, 2015
very pathetic advises...

hmmmmmmmmmmm
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by Geesarki(m): 11:26pm On Sep 20, 2015
BUTCHCASSIDY:
This one na gobe
and na dem sabi jealous pass


What's gobe?
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by Seculent: 11:30pm On Sep 20, 2015
Iwonttell:
Then hide yourself anytime she catches you bleep her and hide again grin

You no well. cheesy
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by Seculent: 11:31pm On Sep 20, 2015
prettyjo:
very pathetic advises...
hmmmmmmmmmmm
What's your own advice to the guy? undecided
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by nnemmpi(m): 11:39pm On Sep 20, 2015
Most women are like that but old and new generation
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by rafeelly(m): 11:41pm On Sep 20, 2015
prettyjo:
very pathetic advises...


hmmmmmmmmmmm
how do we describe yours now huh?? unpathethic
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by kennykg(m): 11:42pm On Sep 20, 2015
Emzyme:
op, is she scared of dogs..holla me make i freestyle u my Rottweiler, anytym weh she come visit you jst commot chain replace am with ugwu twig
i swear after dat she no go follow again, even if she see u for road she go jst turn start to deh run
OR
buy redbull,power horse,magic moment,black bullet and chapman mix all together store in a fridge, invite her over, 30 mins b4 her arrival empty d contents into ur pharyngeal /buccal cavity................when shes discharged from the hospital...lemme knw.... shocked
Bro you wicked o. This na liquid bomb.. Na d babe go visit am for hospital
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by Tamakay(m): 11:43pm On Sep 20, 2015
I think d way u sound u must b a nice dude. I sense that when u said "I don't want to send her out thru d wicked way". A rational guy who wants to treat human as human despite their shortcomings. My advise is be her friend.pls no sex. I repeat no sex. Prove a big boy to her and if giving is part of ur life style give her without expecting anything from her. Don't give her room to feel u still love her until if u are convinced dat she has changed. Pls no sex because she will take u for granted and not respect or appreciate ur kind gestures because her bizness is giving and taking. Prove a different person to her. And if all these tactics fails,get a new babe ASAP talking from experience. Good luck!!

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Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by Nobody: 11:49pm On Sep 20, 2015
ChiSun27:
It all started sometimes early this year...it just happend and we connected. On my own part....I never knew she was a runs girl. She's jovial and caring.

I actually took her serious until I discovered her true identity and ever since that day....my emotional attachment to her reduced speedily.

I confronted her and she admitted living such a life but that she's willing to change if I'm ready to make her my 'one and only'. But to my utmost dismay, this girl no gree change. Her urge for money is on the high side and she believes that all those her runs yields faster income.

Wetin dey pain me be say, this girl get better handwork. But she doesn't want to manage her life with the income that comes from her handwork as she tags it 'not enough'.

I have tried my possible best to advise her on how she can improve on her hand work because the income is mouth watering yet she is not satisfied with it due to her extravagant life style.


As a matter of fact, I don pursue her on countless occasions, but she will still come back with her stylish way of begging, change kwanu...she won't change.

Peeps, I'm tired...I want to send this girl away from my life (but not the wicked way) because her life style is gradually tarnishing my good image and reputation especially amongst my friends.

Don't know if anyone in the house has been in this kind of crossroads before...if yes....how did you solve the problem?

Which one is runs girl. Do you mean that you are dating an ashewo or what?
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by cyprus000: 11:49pm On Sep 20, 2015
bigerboy200:
someone said ur brain is fried like fried plantain....is that true?
grincheesy
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by kennykg(m): 11:50pm On Sep 20, 2015
Bro just take her out to a cool place and have fun (not sex) explain to her you guys can't date but u can be best of friends, having good friendship time and help each other in time of need ( exclusive of sex). That even though she changes now you can't get her the feelings and affections you would have done in the initial state..

Just keep on her good side cause the harder u try to rush out the more you sink in...

With time she would let go when she sees you can't give more than that
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by jt2damoney(m): 11:53pm On Sep 20, 2015
report to police for sexual harassment


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Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by StarFlux: 11:57pm On Sep 20, 2015
FriedPlantain:
Haha, now we are getting somewhere. cheesy At least, what you wrote up here is way more comprehensible than the gibberish you wrote earlier. By the way, it is 'advise him' and not' advice him' and 'shut the _fuck up' not 'shut the_fuck off'. (no offeinse) grin grin
Ehn baba plantain, wetin concern you now? Na naija forum be this. White man's language be ur pride? abeg, hand me some of dat plantain and make we go chop.

On topic: Dwelling on what you're going to do will only make things take longer. Tell her face to face and be done with it. It's really not that difficult all things considered.
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by Khez: 12:06am On Sep 21, 2015
[quote author=SeverusSnape post=38188283]I've experienced this before, It happened about two years ago. There was this hot and sexy girl in my department, She was asking me out, Now I don't have a problem with a female asking for a relationship with me because it's not something new to me, But I had to decline because she was a mad runs girl, mehn hers was just too much. I didn't mince words, I just told her simply, "You're just not my type, and there's nothing that can go on between us", I'm not the type that 'chop and clean mouth' if not so eh...I would have done the undo able with her.
I was not giving in, She had to find her way. [/quote

So what's your advice to him bro? smiley
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by saintneo(m): 12:14am On Sep 21, 2015
QueenHeart:
Tell her you have a serious date n infct u r thinking of settling dwn wt d persn asap. Den arrange wt a femala frnd to pretnd as ur babe den invite ds one to cme arund n see4herslf. Na d only way to chase her out be dat o if not she wuld keep cming bck,all ds runs girls cn go extra miles2gt wat d want. Act fast
I don't think such women run from competition. They don't mind their man having another chic by the side.
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by toludadon(m): 12:19am On Sep 21, 2015
run away from a runz girl before she ruins you

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Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by Nobody: 12:24am On Sep 21, 2015
move on... you can't change her.
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by Nobody: 12:25am On Sep 21, 2015
StarFlux:
Ehn baba plantain, wetin concern you now? Na naija forum be this. White man's language be ur pride? abeg, hand me some of dat plantain and make we go chop.
Bros, I have no problem with his grammar, it was his style of writing that was really irritating. How can a grown _ass man be writing 'her' as 'ha', ' can' as 'cn', 'going' as 'goea' as you expect me to take the person seriously?

My guy nobody holy pass, no be say my own English too gel like that sef.

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Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by IamAtribalist: 12:31am On Sep 21, 2015
You are a fool. She obviously sees potential in you and hopes one day she can retire from her runs-girl business and you will take care of all her needs/wants. That is what she sees not that she is in love with you. Grow a facking brain and think for a change.
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by acehood907(m): 12:34am On Sep 21, 2015
Guy you don catch fire
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by newspostng(m): 12:53am On Sep 21, 2015
its easy....fcukkkk her and then leave her

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Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by deniyor: 1:04am On Sep 21, 2015
otakah101:
Its simple always make her to be close to you. If possible make sure she goes to her working place before u leave for work and while at work always make out time to call to know how she is doing and don't forget to go to her shop or office in d evening . just make her your best friend. Believe me she will definitely change. Her attitude is because u are not always with her so her former friends can influence her. Make her your hand bag. Don't chase her away. Runs girls always make a good wife. Am a living witness

you married a runs girl? Pls do tell

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Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by mbulela: 1:18am On Sep 21, 2015
ChiSun27:



She's a juice expert.
Which kain juice?
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by CHUKSKALIDONN: 1:25am On Sep 21, 2015
ChiSun27:
Don't know if anyone in the house has been in this kind of crossroads before...if yes....how did you solve the problem?
How can we be on the kind of crossroad ur asking when there is non in naijeria? Av never seen any crossroad in naigeria tongue
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by sorextee(m): 1:33am On Sep 21, 2015
I agree to that..

afolag:
The concept of religion could be the way out.
Dnt tell her to stop but bring her closer to religious teachings.
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by Papyamanda(m): 1:36am On Sep 21, 2015
simple,just tell her ur HIV+

Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by CHUKSKALIDONN: 1:41am On Sep 21, 2015
Wetin she dey give others collect money, naaa she dey give u u dey run......u no get packaging.
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by MVLOX(m): 2:03am On Sep 21, 2015
SeverusSnape:
I've experienced this before, It happened about two years ago. There was this hot and sexy girl in my department, She was asking me out, Now I don't have a problem with a female asking for a relationship with me because it's not something new to me, But I had to decline because she was a mad runs girl, mehn hers was just too much. I didn't mince words, I just told her simply, "You're just not my type, and there's nothing that can go on between us", I'm not the type that 'chop and clean mouth' if not so eh...I would have done the undo able with her.

She persisted, But when she realized I was not giving in, She had to find her way.


Am currently in ur former kinda of predicament now. Mehn dis babe in question get body and fine die but na beta runs gal. since we got close and she found out i am a virgin at my age she never allow me to rest again ooo. To make matters worst she does not want to even hear or know if am in a very serious relationship or not. whenever she see my babes pic on my dp na war. she even promised to be the first to slp with me and have seduced me once but i pasted the test wella. Anyway wat i did was stop calling her or pinging and caring less. but when she calls i pick and we talk.....thankful we wont be seeing each other for the next 6months, and her calls have drastically reduced. i just hope returns and have totally gotten the message .....which is dat both of us cant work......we can be friends oooo and i can still help her out in other ways cha but LOVERS.....no way.....i too LOVE my babe and cant allow a runs gal spoil gud 12years friendship which will soon end up in a happy marriage life.....

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Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by DedeNkem: 2:06am On Sep 21, 2015
ChiSun27:
It all started sometimes early this year...it just happend and we connected. On my own part....I never knew she was a runs girl. She's jovial and caring.

I actually took her serious until I discovered her true identity and ever since that day....my emotional attachment to her reduced speedily.

I confronted her and she admitted living such a life but that she's willing to change if I'm ready to make her my 'one and only'. But to my utmost dismay, this girl no gree change. Her urge for money is on the high side and she believes that all those her runs yields faster income.

Wetin dey pain me be say, this girl get better handwork. But she doesn't want to manage her life with the income that comes from her handwork as she tags it 'not enough'.

I have tried my possible best to advise her on how she can improve on her hand work because the income is mouth watering yet she is not satisfied with it due to her extravagant life style.


As a matter of fact, I don pursue her on countless occasions, but she will still come back with her stylish way of begging, change kwanu...she won't change.

Peeps, I'm tired...I want to send this girl away from my life (but not the wicked way) because her life style is gradually tarnishing my good image and reputation especially amongst my friends.

Don't know if anyone in the house has been in this kind of crossroads before...if yes....how did you solve the problem?

You got exactly what you deserved because you're still keeping her. What stops you from ending the disatrous relation? Is it her kitten?

The girl is a professional slut and doesn't give a shit about you and you still give her, for no good reason!

If you like ashawo then stop pretending! You came here pretending to not want her. You actually cam here to validate your (who knows) reason for keeping her.

Only an insane man would keep such a slut. YOU know why you still keep her. You don't need any help from people here to do what a sane person woukd do!
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by ManTiger(m): 2:23am On Sep 21, 2015
ChiSun27:
It all started sometimes early this year...it just happend and we connected. On my own part....I never knew she was a runs girl. She's jovial and caring.

I actually took her serious until I discovered her true identity and ever since that day....my emotional attachment to her reduced speedily.

I confronted her and she admitted living such a life but that she's willing to change if I'm ready to make her my 'one and only'. But to my utmost dismay, this girl no gree change. Her urge for money is on the high side and she believes that all those her runs yields faster income.

Wetin dey pain me be say, this girl get better handwork. But she doesn't want to manage her life with the income that comes from her handwork as she tags it 'not enough'.

I have tried my possible best to advise her on how she can improve on her hand work because the income is mouth watering yet she is not satisfied with it due to her extravagant life style.


As a matter of fact, I don pursue her on countless occasions, but she will still come back with her stylish way of begging, change kwanu...she won't change.

Peeps, I'm tired...I want to send this girl away from my life (but not the wicked way) because her life style is gradually tarnishing my good image and reputation especially amongst my friends.

Don't know if anyone in the house has been in this kind of crossroads before...if yes....how did you solve the problem?
Pleas first go for HIV/AIDs test.
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by ChiSun27(m): 2:32am On Sep 21, 2015
kennykg:
Bro just take her out to a cool place and have fun (not sex) explain to her you guys can't date but u can be best of friends, having good friendship time and help each other in time of need ( exclusive of sex). That even though she changes now you can't get her the feelings and affections you would have done in the initial state..

Just keep on her good side cause the harder u try to rush out the more you sink in...

With time she would let go when she sees you can't give more than that


Thanks man.

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