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Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by ChiSun27(m): 2:41am On Sep 21, 2015
Tamakay:
I think d way u sound u must b a nice dude. I sense that when u said "I don't want to send her out thru d wicked way". A rational guy who wants to treat human as human despite their shortcomings. My advise is be her friend.pls no sex. I repeat no sex. Prove a big boy to her and if giving is part of ur life style give her without expecting anything from her. Don't give her room to feel u still love her until if u are convinced dat she has changed. Pls no sex because she will take u for granted and not respect or appreciate ur kind gestures because her bizness is giving and taking. Prove a different person to her. And if all these tactics fails,get a new babe ASAP talking from experience. Good luck!!


Thanks man.

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Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by christinie(f): 2:47am On Sep 21, 2015
So that anyone interested can venture into it too to augment their income, abi o?
delishpot:


Me sef been wany ask am o. The mouth watering hand work
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by Donbasi(m): 2:52am On Sep 21, 2015
Repent Jesus is coming very soon

Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by brocab: 3:57am On Sep 21, 2015
cool It seems you have been playing the field with this woman, no-wonder she's hanging around-what's wrong with you man, a decent guy would speak up front from the beginning of any friendship-relationship ordeal..
If none of the above work for you, honesty is the only way-just tell her the truth and tell her your gay.
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by kennybrasco: 4:13am On Sep 21, 2015
Why do you want to send her away because she is a runs girl?

You: Been sleeping with different girls.

She: Been sleeping with different guys.

Me: Both of you are same.

After Swindling her Fanny....you now come here looking for how to discard her.

Why judge her? You can't be a Player and hate a Player.

Stop condemning people because of their lifestyle or shortcomings.

Getting rid of her? Not Ideal.

Swindling Her Fanny? Not a good Idea.

Have you discarded all your male friends who Swindle Fannies at random?

If you have not. Do so before discarding her...EQUITY.
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by Obynolee(f): 4:37am On Sep 21, 2015
Youngpo413:
naija ladies are like that,so guys should get used to it...no matter what,guys should know that they are not the only one pounding that gf pusy no matter how gentle and innocent looking she may appear,there is another guys somewhere pounding her hard and for free too.

Not all bro,because my babe isn't like that(i can bet that with my life).You might say most......
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by sniperr007(m): 4:45am On Sep 21, 2015
ChiSun27:
It all started sometimes early this year...it just happend and we connected. On my own part....I never knew she was a runs girl. She's jovial and caring.

I actually took her serious until I discovered her true identity and ever since that day....my emotional attachment to her reduced speedily.

I confronted her and she admitted living such a life but that she's willing to change if I'm ready to make her my 'one and only'. But to my utmost dismay, this girl no gree change. Her urge for money is on the high side and she believes that all those her runs yields faster income.

Wetin dey pain me be say, this girl get better handwork. But she doesn't want to manage her life with the income that comes from her handwork as she tags it 'not enough'.

I have tried my possible best to advise her on how she can improve on her hand work because the income is mouth watering yet she is not satisfied with it due to her extravagant life style.


As a matter of fact, I don pursue her on countless occasions, but she will still come back with her stylish way of begging, change kwanu...she won't change.

Peeps, I'm tired...I want to send this girl away from my life (but not the wicked way) because her life style is gradually tarnishing my good image and reputation especially amongst my friends.

Don't know if anyone in the house has been in this kind of crossroads before...if yes....how did you solve the problem?
dat was enuf reason to run cos d change isn't genuine but conditional.

Guy, run frm d na babe. She fit use belle hold u.

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Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by Nobody: 4:53am On Sep 21, 2015
Both of you should go for HIV test together and repeat same after like one month.
And stop sleeping with her, see her as just a friend.
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by meImyself(m): 5:04am On Sep 21, 2015
Don't expect a loose girl to make a good house wife
cuz once a loose girl, always a loose girl.
Wise up OgaAde!!!
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by meImyself(m): 5:08am On Sep 21, 2015
Obynolee:


Not all bro,because my babe isn't like that(i can bet that with my life).You might say most......
. Even ur boo gety boo.
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by babadem2much(m): 5:17am On Sep 21, 2015
NAIRALAND ladies no de try at all, so none of u is here to help this guy out this messy deal he got himself.
una no try at all as una allow only one OLOSHO to frustrate this guy effort.


una de form sleep by 9 pm while Na peep una de peep ba ? Olodumare is watching
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by persius555(m): 5:24am On Sep 21, 2015
Muyiwhy:
She is in luv wt u,yet goea afta every d*ck..wat sort of luv z dat..guy u beta wise up nd knw dat a bad gf can neva mk a gud wyf..yes she might luv u,bt if ur luv aint enuf 2 stop ha lyfstyle,den notin cn stop ha. U beta save ursef nw b4 its too late nd u'll regret neva doin it earlier..
Is this english or alien language?shocked

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Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by Abayor7: 5:28am On Sep 21, 2015
FriedPlantain:
Eh ehn, now you are writing like a sane person, maybe your IQ isn't completely low after all. grin
Whoever said I was confident of my English? I was only pointing out that you write like someone without a brain. If not, why would you be abbreviating 3-letter words like 'can, but, her, you, two', haba Bros, shey you no dey shame? I'm sure you must have passed through the four walls of a school...... such a disgrace. I'm surprised you didn't abbreviate the word 'it' as well. Werey grin grin
won't u just rest and stop beinq the perfect type? At least u ain't and the dude is nagging ur brain and knocking u off perch, chill prick!
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by hathiba: 5:41am On Sep 21, 2015
@chisun, i can see that you are only playing kite with ur entire life and destiny. if u by chance gets married to this girl out of pity, u have by yourself ruined ur life and if all good things that God has promised u never came through, it is your fault and not God.
Let me tell u frankly, God has not given any man any right to change anybody, it is only HIM that can change.
this girl is only working on ur weak point wc is the fact that u are not the aggressive type.
God said, he has given us life and death, the choice is yours. Be warned!!!!!

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Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by kobonaire(m): 5:44am On Sep 21, 2015
Runs babes always give you the best sèx but too bad you can't marry them ...

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Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by mohdimplez(m): 5:44am On Sep 21, 2015
Muyiwhy:
She is in luv wt u,yet goea afta every d*ck..wat sort of luv z dat..guy u beta wise up nd knw dat a bad gf can neva mk a gud wyf..yes she might luv u,bt if ur luv aint enuf 2 stop ha lyfstyle,den notin cn stop ha. U beta save ursef nw b4 its too late nd u'll regret neva doin it earlier..
well said
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by Menace2Society(m): 5:48am On Sep 21, 2015
FriedPlantain:
Eh ehn, now you are writing like a sane person, maybe your IQ isn't completely low after all. grin
Whoever said I was confident of my English? I was only pointing out that you write like someone without a brain. If not, why would you be abbreviating 3-letter words like 'can, but, her, you, two', haba Bros, shey you no dey shame? I'm sure you must have passed through the four walls of a school...... such a disgrace. I'm surprised you didn't abbreviate the word 'it' as well. Werey grin grin
Must u always put people down?
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by Menace2Society(m): 6:01am On Sep 21, 2015
Muyiwhy:

I can only assume your brain is fried just like your plantain. You just opened your mouth to spill nonsense,if you can't advice him,why not shut the Bleep off..id*ot
Never mind the bully but don't go down to his level
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by mmbs: 6:01am On Sep 21, 2015
SeverusSnape:
I've experienced this before, It happened about two years ago. There was this hot and sexy girl in my department, She was asking me out, Now I don't have a problem with a female asking for a relationship with me because it's not something new to me, But I had to decline because she was a mad runs girl, mehn hers was just too much. I didn't mince words, I just told her simply, "You're just not my type, and there's nothing that can go on between us", I'm not the type that 'chop and clean mouth' if not so eh...I would have done the undo able with her.

She persisted, But when she realized I was not giving in, She had to find her way.
did you even read the OP's write up at all.

How's your experience the same with the OP's own.

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Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by TDstarr: 6:11am On Sep 21, 2015
ChiSun27:
It all started sometimes early this year...it just happend and we connected. On my own part....I never knew she was a runs girl. She's jovial and caring.

I actually took her serious until I discovered her true identity and ever since that day....my emotional attachment to her reduced speedily.

I confronted her and she admitted living such a life but that she's willing to change if I'm ready to make her my 'one and only'. But to my utmost dismay, this girl no gree change. Her urge for money is on the high side and she believes that all those her runs yields faster income.

Wetin dey pain me be say, this girl get better handwork. But she doesn't want to manage her life with the income that comes from her handwork as she tags it 'not enough'.

I have tried my possible best to advise her on how she can improve on her hand work because the income is mouth watering yet she is not satisfied with it due to her extravagant life style.


As a matter of fact, I don pursue her on countless occasions, but she will still come back with her stylish way of begging, change kwanu...she won't change.

Peeps, I'm tired...I want to send this girl away from my life (but not the wicked way) because her life style is gradually tarnishing my good image and reputation especially amongst my friends.

Don't know if anyone in the house has been in this kind of crossroads before...if yes....how did you solve the problem?
once a hoe always a hoe..only God can change her...thats when she becomes a true christian...tell her without fear that she should choose between you and her runs and don't be scared of the answer. It seems you like her...I have been in your shoes before
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by Felimax(m): 6:15am On Sep 21, 2015
ChiSun27:



Bro I don try...but she keeps on coming back.

She knows that I'm not the violent type...so believes I can't harm her.

I have used insultive words on her...both secretly and openly but this girl no wan just go.


I didn't bargain for this kind love. She has promised to change but still she doesn't pick her numerous calls that comes in when she's around me.


My guy....I'm confused.
Good morning forumites, guy, one thing I will advice u if u really want to leave this girl is this, if u attend a church go to any matured lady, matured enuf to be her age or evn older, tell her ur story n tell her to help u out.

Now this is d game plan, don't push her away again pls for ur own good, Ask ur New church friend to come in wen it is hot, remember everything is pretense. Ignore ur fun girl completely n go after ur church friend begging her to forgive u dat it was by mistake, on no account must she talk to ur fun girl, she must carry her bag n leave while u go after her. Come back n explain to ur fun girl dat she is ur wife to be n regret everything u re doing with her. The next time she will call u on fone give it to church sister, she will not call u again. Warning, ensure church sister is not d type dat will fall in love with u o if not na her own go worst. My little piece.

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Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by Eyop: 6:16am On Sep 21, 2015
Obynolee:


Not all bro,because my babe isn't like that(i can bet that with my life).You might say most......

Why do you have to bet your life because of a babe I understand what you meant was you trust her implicitly but that doesn't warrant betting with your life because you can't give life.
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by Bigcake: 6:21am On Sep 21, 2015
ChiSun27:



She's a juice expert.
No wonder you said she has a watering income. Lol
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by SeverusSnape(m): 6:29am On Sep 21, 2015
Truckpusher:
See as you take miss flight - Chop kpomo,chop money clean mouth. grin grin

Yeye boy - How can you waste resources like this? angry grin
grin grin sir, The fear of STDs is the beginning of wisdom.
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by SeverusSnape(m): 6:31am On Sep 21, 2015
mrjangaweed:


guy you be bastard infact you be gay grin

you see free pucccy you no fork chaii i feel like woosing you a dirty slap now.

mugu grin

this a delicious free pucccy on a platter of mini skirt shocked
Hehehehehehehehehehe grin grin

Bros, You no go understand. I considered many factors, besides, I was in a relationship then. And I dey also fear to contact disease, because e no dey show for face o.
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by funkyglitz: 6:31am On Sep 21, 2015
Have you eva heard d statement dat pig will always be a pig no matter how you try to clean it up simply put a runs grl wil always be a runs grl ad yours is even bad cos the so kald grll is nt willing to change and very greedy at that even doe she has smth else dat can give her moni but she chose continue..she is beyond redemption cos sm of these runs grl can also change esp wen they finally meet sm1 dat can actuali take kia of them.

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Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by SeverusSnape(m): 6:33am On Sep 21, 2015
kobe79:
quote author=SeverusSnape post=38188283]I've [s]experienced this before, It happened about two years ago. There was this hot and sexy girl in my department, She was asking me out, Now I don't have a problem with a female asking for a relationship with me because it's not something new to me, But I had to decline because she was a mad runs girl, mehn hers was just too much. I didn't mince words, I just told her simply, "You're just not my type, and there's nothing that can go on between us", I'm not the type that 'chop and clean mouth' if not so eh...I would have done the undo able with her.

She persisted, But when she realized I was not giving in, She had to find her way.[/s]

babe whey toast ugly bastard like you must be one scary hell of an ugly orangutan.

babe toast you? you! [size=14pt]LWTMB[/size]
I beg find another wailing poster boy of [size=15pt]TonyeTHEBASTARD[/size]
You think say I ugly like you? grin
I hardly woo girls, They are the ones that woo me. Believe it or not...
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by DICKtator: 6:35am On Sep 21, 2015
christinie:
What handiwork does she have?

Prolly good at BLOW-JAB AND HAND-JOB!!!!

OP said she's a juice Expert meaning she makes guys release their juices easily!!!!

I need a number!!!!


grin grin grin grin
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by SeverusSnape(m): 6:36am On Sep 21, 2015
MVLOX:



Am currently in ur former kinda of predicament now. Mehn dis babe in question get body and fine die but na beta runs gal. since we got close and she found out i am a virgin at my age she never allow me to rest again ooo. To make matters worst she does not want to even hear or know if am in a very serious relationship or not. whenever she see my babes pic on my dp na war. she even promised to be the first to slp with me and have seduced me once but i pasted the test wella. Anyway wat i did was stop calling her or pinging and caring less. but when she calls i pick and we talk.....thankful we wont be seeing each other for the next 6months, and her calls have drastically reduced. i just hope returns and have totally gotten the message .....which is dat both of us cant work......we can be friends oooo and i can still help her out in other ways cha but LOVERS.....no way.....i too LOVE my babe and cant allow a runs gal spoil gud 12years friendship which will soon end up in a happy marriage life.....
Bro, What a coincidence!, I was also a virgin (I still am), and I was also in a relationship then. That babe was very very jealous, If my girlfriend should call me when I'm with her (the runs girl), Na real war o. That girl nearly crashed my relationship then, I passed through a lot that period. I wish you good luck with your babe. smiley

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Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by christinie(f): 6:43am On Sep 21, 2015
Next time don't quote me if you don't have anything reasonable to type. Ghetto thing.
DICKtator:


Prolly good at BLOW-JAB AND HAND-JOB!!!!

OP said she's a juice Expert meaning she makes guys release their juices easily!!!!

I need a number!!!!


grin grin grin grin
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by omene3321: 6:46am On Sep 21, 2015
Ask dick and money
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by ben1daEbiri(m): 6:48am On Sep 21, 2015
ChiSun27:
It all started sometimes early this year...it just happend and we connected. On my own part....I never knew she was a runs girl. She's jovial and caring.

I actually took her serious until I discovered her true identity and ever since that day....my emotional attachment to her reduced speedily.

I confronted her and she admitted living such a life but that she's willing to change if I'm ready to make her my 'one and only'. But to my utmost dismay, this girl no gree change. Her urge for money is on the high side and she believes that all those her runs yields faster income.

Wetin dey pain me be say, this girl get better handwork. But she doesn't want to manage her life with the income that comes from her handwork as she tags it 'not enough'.

I have tried my possible best to advise her on how she can improve on her hand work because the income is mouth watering yet she is not satisfied with it due to her extravagant life style.


As a matter of fact, I don pursue her on countless occasions, but she will still come back with her stylish way of begging, change kwanu...she won't change.

Peeps, I'm tired...I want to send this girl away from my life (but not the wicked way) because her life style is gradually tarnishing my good image and reputation especially amongst my friends.

Don't know if anyone in the house has been in this kind of crossroads before...if yes....how did you solve the problem?
I just broke up with my girl cos of a similar issue 2weeks ago,op shey na ibo girl

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