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lilmax:
No

BISIXCLUSIVE:
Please your candid advice needed. No insult

KanwuliaJara:
Na who 'break' the home? Nor be the MEN?

KanwuliaJara:
Na who 'break' the home? Nor be the MEN?

Timbuktou:
It's a risky proposition. Most children from broken homes haven't been taught how to keep a relationship or home together and make one work; and most of them never bother to learn. E no dey hard dem to divorce at the slightest marital inconvenience or check out emotionally. They are usually biased against the estranged parent and the parent's gender due to one-sided accounts from custodial parents.

Anybody intending to marry a product of a broken home would do well to ensure due diligence in determining their marriage ideals and conflict resolution beliefs and methods.

Dyt:
There's almost nothing Nigerians don't tag discrimination with
Discriminate albinos
Stammers
Dumb
Handicapped
Sickle cell
Dwarf
Single mum
I can't name them all and now this

Grow up

TooNoisy:
Marriage itself is very discriminatory. If as a young lady, I have about 100,000 men that could potentially be a partner and I had to choose only one, then I will discriminate a whole lot. You will have to discriminate based on religion, height, weight, looks, character, feelings, culture, education, intelligence, background, etc

If you don't want to discriminate, you can go ahead and marry any man that proposes to you! The act of making one choice among so many potential choices is discriminatory.

Timbuktou:
It's a risky proposition. Most children from broken homes haven't been taught how to keep a relationship or home together and make one work; and most of them never bother to learn. E no dey hard dem to divorce at the slightest marital inconvenience or check out emotionally. They are usually biased against the estranged parent and the parent's gender due to one-sided accounts from custodial parents.

Anybody intending to marry a product of a broken home would do well to ensure due diligence in determining their marriage ideals and conflict resolution beliefs and methods.

yetseyi:
You are entitled to your opinion but using the word "most" in the first paragraph is wrong. Just say the ones you know. So children from complete families are the only ones taught how to keep a relationship or home together right?

Are you saying one should not find out the marriage ideals and conflict resolution methods of a "product" of a complete home because it is assumed that once you are from a complete home your marriage ideals are the best.

Shymm3x:
He's right though. Most women broken homes are somewhat problematic due to the lack of father figure in their lives, whilst growing up. It's a mental thing and once they get with a guy - they automatically expect him to provide what's lacking.

I don't know how to explain it...but you have to be with one to know how messed up they're.

yetseyi:
Hi, where have you been?

I have a problem with the word "most" and you are using it again lool. Father figure? What if its a mother figure that is absent?

How many people from broken families do you know, or have you met. So people from broken families are messed up abi.

What about the families that are living together but they are apart in the real sense. Is this assumption applicable to them?

Shymm3x:
I'm good, sis...and you?

Lmao @ how many people from broken families do I know and have I met.

Well, I know gazillion of them and I'd say I know gazillion of them. Heck, most of the folks I grew up with were from broken homes and if you know how the black family is out here, you'd know that there are more people from broken homes than folks who had their mums and dads in their lives.

Anyway, I agreed with him cos I've been with chics from broken homes and the emotional baggage that comes with them, is just too much pressure.

And you also have the nonsense their mums must have subconsciously instilled in them over time about men cos of their dads. So they always deal with guys based on the image they have in their heads about men. That's just the reality.

yetseyi:
I am good thank you.

Loool I almost forgot you are a NID.

Anyway I don't agree with the both of you. . I just don't like all this discrimination that's all, I have met a lot that are the opposite of what you are talking about.

Shymm3x:
Nah, I'm not a Nigerian in Diaspora like these village ones - I'm a Nigerian from diaspora. So the experience speaks for itself.

Anyway, chics from broken homes do make great mums but in relationships and maybe as wives (not married so I don't know if they make good wives), they are just too problematic. Only a patient guy who doesn't care about being a dad and a partner at the same time can deal with them. If you don't have that type of patience - it is always better to stay away from them.

Are you from a broken home?

yetseyi:
Loool let "them" catch you I wont defend you at all.


Another assumption and I don't agree with you.


About your question what do you think? just guess.