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Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by pryd(m): 11:58am On Sep 25, 2015 |
femidejulius: LoL thanks bro Leave those yeye hypocrites 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by Vinshu(f): 12:08pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
Reading in 3D.... I can't believe some comments here 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by lilmax(m): 12:13pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
femidejulius:the most hypocritical part about feminists 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by mablie(m): 12:18pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
Vinshu:Women across all cultures generally prefare masculine men to feminized ones.Take the rugby world cup for example,have you seen how physically "built" the players are?Tell me you don't like what you see 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by mablie(m): 12:24pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
BeastOfNoNation:There is nothing generally wrong with seeking for equal opportunities for the female folk.My grouse with these so called feminists is the way they don't want to pay thesame sacrifices men paid to attain the top positions.They seem to want everything to be handed to them on a silver plate and the way they demonize men inorder to justify their point of view completely disgusts me.You want something?Strive hard to get your desires instead of trying to guilt men into giving you handouts 5 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by ronald4lif(m): 12:32pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
Interesting comments. I admire and have nothing but love for women who takes financial responsibility in relationship/marriage and don't have a problem relating with them on equal footing. But I find it hypocritical and selfish for any woman who doesn't or can't take up equal share of bills in a relationship to champion gender equality crusade. Until feminists and their pseudo egalitarianism cronies learn to take up responsibility their equality charade is dead before it even commences. May amadioha disfigure the mouth of any lady who would expect and demand I fund her hairdo, dinner dates and other monetary gesture and expect equality. What codswallop. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by gj22(m): 12:43pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
pryd: Your argument is invalid because if he offered the same seat to a guy, the guy will gladly take it too. It does not follow. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by Vinshu(f): 12:50pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
mablie: Of course I admire guys who are well-built but that is not my point. My point is respect and equality to females. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by Nobody: 12:56pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
Nigerian men aren't just macho and that ordinary one get as e be sha, but let's presume it's not bad. From NL was where I learned how deeply misogynistic they are and tbh I think it's a frustration thing. Everyone wants to be better than someone else, that's just human nature. And so the more 'base' a guy is, as in the more lowly his mentality and his prospects, the more he will harp on the 'fact' that he's better than women. Essentially the losers among them feel good that no matter how useless they are, they're still 'better' than all females. It's a psychological issue I'm not sure it can be fixed They're not all like that tho 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by mablie(m): 1:07pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
Vinshu:if you admire guys who are physically well built,(thereby alpha by their very nature)why were you trying to shame african men for their "alphaness" in your earlier post? As for respect and equality,I see nothing wrong with that as long as women are ready to go through the difficult trajectories to the top men always experience without a helping hand(no quota,no positive discrimination,no affirmative action)Nothing The pic below is that of the feminist actress emma watson and her rugby player boy-toy on the beach 4 Likes
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Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by pryd(m): 1:22pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
gj22: Young man, what do you think you're talking about? Didn't you see the part where I stressed why he chose to offer his seat to a girl?! 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by Nobody: 1:57pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
mablie: What are you saying? |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by porozhniy(m): 2:14pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
yes some men look down on women. that is due to upbringing & culture. the good thing is; naija men are flexible, ever willing to compromise, especially the educated ones. the problem is naija women refusing to stand up & be counted. no man looks down on NOI, Ezeakwesili et al. men dnt respect other men cos of there gender but cos of achievements and hard work. so ladies, WOMAN UP and go get ur respect. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by tosyne2much(m): 2:17pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
Precious91:Baba I hail ooooo |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by gj22(m): 2:22pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
pryd: Lol. That was his choice, the girl didn't tell him she was weak. He made the assumption. Your argument is still invalid. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by mablie(m): 2:32pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
coolsix:I merely used my post to correct "vinchus" notion that being an alpha man is a negative quality rather than a positive and desired trait(by women including feminists) in men.That was why I also included the photo of a high profile actress and self proclaimed feminist emma watson with her rugby playing alpha bf matt janney.I simply exposed "vinchus" hypocrisy 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by tommychow(m): 3:15pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
Vinshu: The same chick will be like I wanna marry an alpha male who can make me feel secured, who can provide for my needs and take care of me. Good luck marrying a soft nigga with no balls. One day, you'll wake up and start hating him "what a weakling". You feminists say you want equal rights but be honest, how many women put equal efforts? How many women want to become police women, SOLDIERS, engineers, boxers (LOL) etc. They are too difficult for you women abi? You want to do fashion designing, accounting, business management, law etc. Jobs that don't involve RISKING YOUR LIVES! Please I'm talking in general o, I don't care if your aunt is in the army. You're blinded by your own ideas you don't wanna face facts, facts that women are dependent, softer, emotional creatures and men are the dominant, tougher, logical creatures. God designed things this way for balance: Day/night, man/woman, good/evil, life/death etc. BUT if you still wanna continue being a feminist (thank you for wasting my time) STOP ATTACKING MEN FOR BEING STRONGER AND ATTACK WOMEN FOR BEING WEAKER! Start with, blaming your kind for being financially dependent, physically weak and too damn emotional. Tell them to be the providers and the protectors...or just, PLAY YOUR ROLE AND SHUT YOUR MOUTH! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by BeastOfNoNation(f): 3:29pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
tommychow: If your daughter told you that she wants to be an engineer, would you tell her she should play her role and shut her mouth? Would you tell her that she is supposed to be dependant on a man her entire life? And why are you assuming that I attack men for being strong? All these anti-feminist rants don't make sense. Feminism means DON'T TELL ME THAT BECAUSE I'M A WOMAN I CAN'T DO ANYTHING. Gbam. That is feminism. If a woman begins hating men, then that is misandry. There is a difference between feminism and misandry. I am a feminist (as some guys are) but I am in NO way a misandrist. You said that women want to work in easy jobs and not the same jobs as men? In Sweden, men and women are equal in ANY job place. Sweden is ranked as the most gender equal country in the world. Nigeria on the other hand is at 118 out of 142 countries. Even India was ranked above us and that country is known as the rape capital of the world. The way they disrespect women is appalling. I'm telling you that female brains are not made lesser than males. It's society and culture that raises women to be inferior. God didn't create them that way. |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by pryd(m): 3:52pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
gj22:WoW! The only thing invalid here is your reasoning . I guess the special attention accorded WOMEN & children during emergency situations is also out of place; because by your submission, they never asked for it. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by BeastOfNoNation(f): 3:58pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
pryd: They actually didn't ask for it. If the guy thinks the woman is weak so he should stand up, that is his decision because he believes women are weak. The girl didn't open her mouth to say she wants to sit down. In fact she may have been fine standing. |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by BeastOfNoNation(f): 4:01pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
Etetejake: George Orwell's Animal Farm was about communism........ and he was also a well-known feminist so your entire argument is invalid. |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by Vinshu(f): 4:03pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
tommychow: Trash 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by pryd(m): 4:24pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
BeastOfNoNation: hahahaha I swear you're so funny. Why can't you and other "feminists" protest against such gender based favours? Of course you wouldnt; your sole interest lies in selective equality. Equality only when it's rosey. You want to have your cake and eat it right? LoL goodluck with that. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by tommychow(m): 7:00pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
Vinshu: 'Trash' without pointing out why? Typical from women when they are cornered and can make a comeback. Now I'll reply the other female that I can constructively argue with and learn a thing or two from. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by porozhniy(m): 7:39pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
pryd:i wonder why they turn a blind eye to benevolent sexism but will raise hell when the odds are against them. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by pryd(m): 9:25pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
porozhniy: You can say that again bro. Feminism is simply a topic created to engage and amuse, it has no substance. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by tommychow(m): 9:37pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
BeastOfNoNation: Before I begin, I respect you for arguing logically. To me, feminism is saying "Look, I'm not financially dependent , physically weaker and emotionally needy like majority of the women. So, I wanna change how men look at ALL WOMEN because of me and a few other exceptional women". You and other feminists are suffering from the reputation women have shown since the beginning of time...THEN YOU BLAME MEN FOR IT (the funniest part). You should be blaming majority of women for being the traditional woman. Concerning the the job sector, the most lucrative jobs require aggressive qualities men MAINLY possess: oil and gas, construction, computer and engineering technology etc. not modelling, fashion designing etc dominated by women because they are more interested in looking nice. Ranting for Nigerian women will not do anything. Why? Because they are busy enjoying the benefits of being taken care of, of being protected. But who protects and provides for the man? The woman? I categorically doubt that. Maybe in Sweden, women are ACTUALLY PROVING to be as capable in every job sector. Definitely not in Nigeria, where women focus more on getting married or being in a relationship with a made man than being a MADE WOMAN. All I hear is: SHOPPING, BIG WEDDING, MARRIAGE, RELATIONSHIP, KIDS, FASHION, OTHER WOMEN, HANGING WITH BFFS, CELEBRITY GOSSIP, HAVING 2000 NICE PICTURES OF HERSELF, HOT GUYS, VACATION etc. Too many distractions. Do you know what we men think of here? Being successful and showing the world, being a provider, being alpha, sex, sports, the end. Men here in Nigeria are more driven to make money. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by Nobody: 10:05pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
ilobasama: Well said I celebrate your sir |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by Nobody: 10:13pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
muphasar11:thank you 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by BeastOfNoNation(f): 11:34pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
tommychow: I also commend you for arguing logically and respectfully. you have a point but Feminism is still very important. Misandry and Misogyny should be completely eradicated from all societies. On an additional note, I suppose Nigeria's backwardness is too complex. I personally do not dedicate my entire life to fighting the for the Feminist Movement because Nigeria has bigger problems BUT I am still a feminist. If everyone was feminist, there would be no reason for women to shout FEMALE INEQUALITY because it wouldn't be a problem. Also please Sir when you see a woman, try not to assume that she is without ambition because she knows about the last episode of the kardashians. That same woman may know every single detail of the current oil crisis and may better Nigeria in the future. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by tommychow(m): 1:27am On Sep 26, 2015 |
BeastOfNoNation: I have enjoyed this argument so far. I get you and I'm pretty sure I would have been a feminist if I was Swedish. Maybe in Sweden, women are enjoying equal rights in workplaces because women are equally driven professionally NOT because they simply ranted about it on YouTube lol. Hope you get my point. You sef, you should know your fellow naija gals and being typically too dependent on her man. Feminist movement in naij is a big joke on a crack ya ribs level lol. No offense. This brings me to a good question though. In Nigeria, do you think women being equally financially capable will be good for relationships/marriages? Think Hollywood before you answer. Do you find smart guys like me attractive? I mean, a guy that can challenge you the way I'm doing now has to be appealing somehow. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by UncleLondon: 1:32am On Sep 26, 2015 |
BeastOfNoNation: When women don't want to settle for someone who will give them peace of mind. Alpha males have spontaneous mind and their mission is always to seek, sample and destroy as much female entities as they can. Try Betta, Gamma males and you will forget the word misogynist. 1 Like |
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