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Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by BeastOfNoNation(f): 3:28am On Sep 29, 2015
all4naija:

The most interesting about her is that she is very quick to generalize about men. That is what feminists do. Men are always their nightmares yet some of them want to get married to them! cool

Who told you a man is my nightmare You say I'm quick to generalize men but I haven't. This thread is about misogynistic men. If you are not misogynistic then clap for yourself. You are a decent human being. If you believe that a woman is a slave to you then this thread is for you.
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by Nobody: 3:29am On Sep 29, 2015
BeastOfNoNation:


I have the capability of doing both so don't underestimate me. My mother always told me that I can have everything I want in life. A family and A legacy. Obviously I won't compromise either one and I will take things one step at a time. But to tell me that I can only do one for the rest of my life will be a disservice to the people I'm planning on helping in the future. I'm a born humanitarian this much is true. I will have a name that will last all of history but I will also have that family that will love me for even longer. #LevelsDonChange


N.B when I said meticulous planning smiley ... That you're planning to do things the Jordin Sparks way is cooooool. Family first right?
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by Nobody: 3:29am On Sep 29, 2015
pinceprinz:


husband
1) Someone who has your back when you
need it, but knows when to get the hell out of
your way when he has to. Always fixing
things, keeping you warm, and that fuzzy soft
happy feeling that he usually creates.
2)Also, apparently something most of the
previous definition submitters haven't the
personality to attract.
3)
Superman to the right woman.

cheesy
She is going to kill you for these palpable connotations!

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Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by BeastOfNoNation(f): 3:29am On Sep 29, 2015
all4naija:
That is submissiveness though! When nature calls! Bwahaha... You aren't a feminist!

What are you saying? Is it only men that enjoy in sex? undecided undecided
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by Nobody: 3:32am On Sep 29, 2015
BeastOfNoNation:


Who told you a man is my nightmare You say I'm quick to generalize men but I haven't. This thread is about misogynistic men. If you are not misogynistic then clap for yourself. You are a decent human being. If you believe that a woman is a slave to you then this thread is for you.
Lol... You admit the error of the title yet refuse to change it. You are very hypocritical while looking at your dismissal of generalizing men in this post.

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Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by Nobody: 3:33am On Sep 29, 2015
all4naija:

The most interesting about her is that she is very quick to generalize about men. That is what feminists do. Men are always their nightmares yet some of them want to get married to them! cool

Beast here is a confused beast! She can hardly place the difference between a snake-like eel and a real rattle snake cheesy

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Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by Nobody: 3:35am On Sep 29, 2015
BeastOfNoNation:


What are you saying? Is it only men that enjoy in sex? undecided undecided
I am saying as feminist you are supposed not to open your legs but the man. As an equal-head of the home. No,it is not!

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Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by Nobody: 3:38am On Sep 29, 2015
all4naija:
She is going to kill you for this palpable connotations!


cheesy cheesy cheesy

Somebody has to die for our 'truth' y'know cheesy
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by Nobody: 3:39am On Sep 29, 2015
pinceprinz:



cheesy cheesy cheesy

Somebody has to die for our 'truth' y'know cheesy
The truth hurts! She is going to date the dude, see the family, have his hand in marriage and foot the bills.

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Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by Nobody: 3:40am On Sep 29, 2015
all4naija:
The truth hurts!
That's so obvious
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by BeastOfNoNation(f): 3:41am On Sep 29, 2015
all4naija:
Lol... You admit the error of the title yet refuse to change it. You are very hypocritical while looking at your dismissal of generalizing men in this post.

Has it ever occurred to you that since this is my first thread, I don't know how to change it? I've been trying to for some time now. I don't see the need for insult. And when I created this thread, I asked for constructive discussion. Aand what I've gotten from you and @pinceprinz is prayer that I will fail in life, be divorced, move to Jupiter, sleep my way to the top, not find anybody to marry me, be a slave if I want to marry, be objectified, and I've been told that I can't differentiate between a snake and an eel. All of this because I'm a woman who wants to achieve and have a name in the future the same way any man would want to achieve. God punish the both of you
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by Nobody: 3:42am On Sep 29, 2015
all4naija:
The truth hurts! She is going to date the dude, see the family, have his hand in marriage and foot the bills.

cheesy cheesy cheesy

Yh! Equal rights kikikikiki

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Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by Nobody: 3:45am On Sep 29, 2015
BeastOfNoNation:


Has it ever occurred to you that since this is my first thread, I don't know how to change it? I've been trying to for some time now. I don't see the need for insult. And when I created this thread, I asked for constructive discussion. Aand what I've gotten from you and @pinceprinz is prayer that I will fail in life, be divorced, move to Jupiter, sleep my way to the top, not find anybody to marry me, be a slave if I want to marry, be objectified, and I've been told that I can't differentiate between a snake and an eel. All of this because I'm a woman who wants to achieve and have a name in the future the same way any man would want to achieve. God punish the both of you
Why didn't you say so when I repeatedly ask the same thing in my posts? Nobody is trying to threaten you here. Oh, please...! You are becoming emotional now. A feminist is supposed to man-up for feminism sake! grin grin grin

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Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by Nobody: 3:50am On Sep 29, 2015
@ BeastOfNoNation

What kind of man would you like to get married to? Let me put it properly. What kind of man are you going to marry?
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by BeastOfNoNation(f): 3:52am On Sep 29, 2015
all4naija:

Why didn't you say so when I repeatedly ask the same thing in my posts? Nobody is trying to threaten you here. Oh, please...! You are becoming emotional now. A feminist is supposed to man-up for feminism sake! grin grin grin

I'm becoming emotional? I'm being humble as I'm hearing your immature comments. I'm pointing out the kind of abuses you've been throwing my way. I'm not going to sink to your level and start insulting people and cursing people I've never met. How can you tell someone she will divorce while she is still pregnant? Have I become your enemy that you will be wishing for these kind of things on me? Did I say you should be rendered impotent and live in a constant state of poverty for the rest of your life because I disagree with your point of view? I'm holding myself now because God knows I won't be banned from Nairaland on my first thread.

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Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by BeastOfNoNation(f): 3:55am On Sep 29, 2015
all4naija:
@ BeastOfNoNation

What kind of man would you like to get married to? Let me put it properly. What kind of man are you going to marry?

An independent man whose manhood is not easily threatened by a working and goal driven woman. A man who also has goals to achieve and a name to make for himself. A husband who respects me the way I respect him. Understands that YES I'm a woman but that doesn't mean my brain is working at half capacity. A man who is my best friend and loves me the way I love him. Gbam. Is anything I wished for impossible?

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Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by Nobody: 3:57am On Sep 29, 2015
BeastOfNoNation:


Has it ever occurred to you that since this is my first thread, I don't know how to change it? I've been trying to for some time now. I don't see the need for insult. And when I created this thread, I asked for constructive discussion. Aand what I've gotten from you and @pinceprinz is prayer that I will fail in life, be divorced, move to Jupiter, sleep my way to the top, not find anybody to marry me, be a slave if I want to marry, be objectified, and I've been told that I can't differentiate between a snake and an eel. All of this because I'm a woman who wants to achieve and have a name in the future the same way any man would want to achieve. God punish the both of you


cheesy cheesy grin cheesy


Ok ok now let me take it one step at a time wink

To change the topic, Go back to your profile, click on this very thread, brings you back to page zero , scroll down your supporting write up and click on modify. On clicking modify, brings you to that write-up page where you'll be able to change your topic to suit warever wink


Is this discussion not constructive enough? I mean you dot expect éveryone to share your thoughts on a thread this controversial. That we actually sounded metaphorical don't amount to insult sweet! We were only trying to make our point sink into your big head suffering from high degree af entropy cheesy


You know what? We're MEN ! The dominant specie, the alpha positive, the rugged and we RuLE the world cos I ts our birth right. Now, that doesn't mean you don't have the right to be warever u wanna be as a woman, but warever you are or u become will / should be to support / complement warever the man has already visualized /created wink

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Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by BeastOfNoNation(f): 4:00am On Sep 29, 2015
pinceprinz:



cheesy cheesy grin cheesy


Ok ok now let me take it one step at a time wink

To change the topic, Go back to your profile, click on this very thread, brings you back to page zero , scroll down your supporting write up and click on modify. On clicking modify, brings you to that write-up page where you'll be able to change your topic to suit warever wink


Is this discussion not constructive enough? I mean you dot expect éveryone to share your thoughts on a thread this controversial. That we actually sounded metaphorical don't amount to insult sweet! We were only trying to make our point sink into your big head suffering from high degree af entropy cheesy


You know what? We're MEN ! The dominant specie, the alpha positive, the rugged and we RuLE the world cos I ts our birth right. Now, that doesn't mean you don't have the right to be warever u wanna be as a woman, but warever you are or u become will / should be to support / complement warever the man has already visualized /created wink

Thank you for telling me how to change the topic name smiley
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by Nobody: 4:03am On Sep 29, 2015
BeastOfNoNation:


I'm becoming emotional? I'm being humble as I'm hearing your immature comments. I'm pointing out the kind of abuses you've been throwing my way. I'm not going to sink to your level and start insulting people and cursing people I've never met. How can you tell someone she will divorce while she is still pregnant? Have I become your enemy that you will be wishing for these kind of things on me? Did I say you should be rendered impotent and live in a constant state of poverty for the rest of your life because I disagree with your point of view? I'm holding myself now because God knows I won't be banned from Nairaland on my first thread.
Yes, you did in your prior post. You can't deny that. After all you claim to be a feminist. Nevertheless, I am not against fighting for gender equality but trying to use feminism as an avenue to have your way through is going to be difficult and may cause you more emotional harm like we've just witnessed in your previous comment.

Oh, my goodness! So you take the divorce part of my earlier post very serious when you know it is part of the arguments. Excepting you aren't willing to face reality of defending what you advocate for. It takes all those to be what you have to fight for in the course of your movement. Nobody is going to hand the rights to you on a platter of gold. You must be strong and daring to take them. Come on, lady, go and fight for your rights - the rights of gender equality not feminism! kiss

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Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by Nobody: 4:05am On Sep 29, 2015
BeastOfNoNation:


An independent man whose manhood is not easily threatened by a working and goal driven woman. A man who also has goals to achieve and a name to make for himself. A husband who respects me the way I respect him. Understands that YES I'm a woman but that doesn't mean my brain is working at half capacity. A man who is my best friend and loves me the way I love him. Gbam. Is anything I wished for impossible?


Baby, I swear to God, feminists don't sound this way! Human rights activist is exactly the it I feel you are ! Chikena!! grin

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Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by Nobody: 4:06am On Sep 29, 2015
BeastOfNoNation:


Thank you for telling me how to change the topic name smiley
Is that all you have to say? I think there is more to the post than the steps to modify the title of the thread.
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by Nobody: 4:08am On Sep 29, 2015
pinceprinz:



Baby, I swear to God, feminists don't sound this way! Human rights activist is exactly the it I feel you are ! Chikena!! grin
The problem is that she doesn't understand what feminism is all about. The worse thing of the argument is that she is denying it.

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Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by Nobody: 4:11am On Sep 29, 2015
all4naija:

The problem is that she doesn't understand what feminism is all about. The worse thing of the argument is that she is denying it.


Its unusual ! Folks find it hard to admit 'I don't know what I was saying' cheesy

At least we know what she stands for now , so maybe she is forgiven smiley
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by Nobody: 4:14am On Sep 29, 2015
BeastOfNoNation:


An independent man whose manhood is not easily threatened by a working and goal driven woman. A man who also has goals to achieve and a name to make for himself. A husband who respects me the way I respect him. Understands that YES I'm a woman but that doesn't mean my brain is working at half capacity. A man who is my best friend and loves me the way I love him. Gbam. Is anything I wished for impossible?
That is so wonderful. A perfect man in a real world indeed! No, it is not! That wish is not impossible at all. One thing I am skeptical of is that it looks more of a fantasy than reality of the world we live in.

It is not going to be easy to come by but it is very possible!

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Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by Nobody: 4:15am On Sep 29, 2015
pinceprinz:



Its unusual ! Folks find it hard to admit 'I don't know what I was saying' cheesy

At least we know what she stands for now , so maybe she is forgiven smiley
You are right! She is forgiven! I didn't say that! You did! That is chauvinistic in nature.
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by BeastOfNoNation(f): 4:17am On Sep 29, 2015
all4naija:
Is that all you have to say? I think there is more to the post than the steps to modify the title of the thread.

What else will I say that I haven't said before? "Don't be misogynistic" "Don't view women as lesser beings". I've said it before. undecided undecided undecided
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by BeastOfNoNation(f): 4:21am On Sep 29, 2015
pinceprinz:



Its unusual ! Folks find it hard to admit 'I don't know what I was saying' cheesy

At least we know what she stands for now , so maybe she is forgiven smiley

I didn't ask for your forgiveness because I'm not wrong.
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by Nobody: 4:22am On Sep 29, 2015
BeastOfNoNation:


What else will I say that I haven't said before? "Don't be misogynistic" "Don't view women as lesser beings". I've said it before. undecided undecided undecided
How can I be those when I support gender equality? You see, my posts are there to prove me right. grin grin cheesy cheesy cool cool cool
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by BeastOfNoNation(f): 4:25am On Sep 29, 2015
all4naija:

That is so wonderful. A perfect man in a real world indeed! No, it is not! That wish is not impossible at all. One thing I am skeptical of is that it looks more of a fantasy than reality of the world we live in.

It is not going to be easy to come by but it is very possible!

Thank you. I plan on finding him someday. I know these guys exist only issue is that the guys I know of are not Nigerian
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by BeastOfNoNation(f): 4:26am On Sep 29, 2015
all4naija:

How can I be those when I support gender equality? You see, my posts are there to prove me right. grin grin cheesy cheesy cool cool cool

I was talking about @pinceprinz post that you said I didn't reply to well
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by Nobody: 4:29am On Sep 29, 2015
BeastOfNoNation:


Thank you. I plan on finding him someday. I know these guys exist only issue is that the guys I know of are not Nigerian
Yes, they exist! I am one of them. I also think princeprinz is one of them by heart. Why are you biased a little bit? What has nationality got to do with that? Huh!
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic? by Nobody: 4:31am On Sep 29, 2015
BeastOfNoNation:


I was talking about @pinceprinz post that you said I didn't reply to well
Okay! That makes a lot of sense. You are a very smart lady and I don't know why you have to choose feminism over gender equality. Perhaps you would have to read more on it to have a better understanding of the ideology.

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