Ok

Mod abeg maybe FP go fit help my matter as it stands now.

After reading every word of the epistle...your scenario further confirms my fears that dating a student when you're not in the same school is not worth it.Countless times they will always have a school boyfriend,you play the maga role.This is a vicious cycle bro.Move on or tolerate it...those art thy options.

Do you need a prophet? Stop this distance relationship, it never works. Date someone you can see daily or weekly not someone you can't see in 5months. Sorry to say bro you have been a source of steady income for her and I think she is done with you. Look for a lady around you with similar interests and goals... You live in nertherlands and ur dating a lady in her early 20s in a Nigerian University and spending on her..... Hahahaha.... Sometimes I wish am a pretty lady..




Bro you are a Maga. You better move on.

This kind of lady is not a keeper...follow what's ryt for u. Don't feel like u have to oblige urself to marry her when u have full of doubts, this will juz make u unsettled. If u think calling off the d wedding is the right thing for both of u,then do it as early as possible.

She's cheating on you mehn. Don't tell me u don't know that by now. My advice, dump that cheating b*tch. Forget about thinking otherwise, no matter how u try you can never satisfy a b*tch. I don talk my own. Next pls

That is it Only
Nigeria ladies that will watch Mexican Movies
They will be Dreaming for a Guy as Caring as one Mumu *Eduardo*
Now the Got what they want
They will miss use it.
Well when a lady is with you that is the Only time she is your Boo..
The moment she step Outside
She is for everyOne
Kindly delete the marriage idea for now
IT IS ONLY NIGERIA GUYS THAT USE LAPTOPS TO SCAM
Our Ladies Use their No.6
They scam you
Emotionally
Financially
Spiritually
Physically
Scamming made Easy
Tell me who does it Better than OUR LADIES??

KashyBaby:
This kind of lady is not a keeper...follow what's ryt for u. Don't feel like u have to oblige urself to marry her when u have full of doubts, this will juz make u unsettled. If u think calling off the d wedding is the right thing for both of u,then do it as early as possible.

thanx dear, what got me confused @times is that many people in that campus voiced for to be a decent gal unlike her twins sister, i have come across of her frnds screets chats on whatsapp how she does not have sch bf and always indoor reading, but those her behavious lately made me doubt their chats.

JumpingChicken:
Do you need a prophet? Stop this distance relationship, it never works. Date someone you can see daily or weekly not someone you can't see in 5months. Sorry to say bro you have been a source of steady income for her and I think she is done with you. Look for a lady around you with similar interests and goals... You live in nertherlands and ur dating a lady in her early 20s in a Nigerian University and spending on her..... Hahahaha.... Sometimes I wish am a pretty lady..




Bro you are a Maga. You better move on.

no bro i live in naija here, i work offshore mostly thats why i am always in such condition, believe me everybody that knows the gal confess she of gud character, both families is involve in our plans, the only problem i have with her is only thsese two occations i mentioned above, evry other things is perfect for nw

@Tonyebarcanista. Omo that bae is no more loyal oo

Cc: @ihatenaija

scantee:
thanx dear, what got me confused @times is that many people in that campus voiced for to be a decent gal unlike her twins sister, i have come across of her frnds screets chats on whatsapp how she does not have sch bf and always indoor reading, but those her behavious lately made me doubt their chats.

U bliv wat her frnds says?
Wat were dey supposed to say?
Mehn u shd b wise abeg
Quit d damn marriage before u father anoda man's child
U wud b shocked to find out that she spends ur money on the guy a lot
Imagine she respects other guys than u her husband to be
She prefers to hang up ur calls for them
U worth nothing to her honestly she doesnt respect u one bit

halfrica:

U bliv wat her frnds says?
Wat were dey supposed to say?
Mehn u shd b wise abeg
Quit d damn marriage before u father anoda man's child
U wud b shocked to find out that she spends ur money on the guy a lot
Imagine she respects other guys than u her husband to be
She prefers to hang up ur calls for them
U worth nothing to her honestly she doesnt respect u one bit

Well said. A word they say, It's enough for who? complete am

halfrica:

U bliv wat her frnds says?
Wat were dey supposed to say?
Mehn u shd b wise abeg
Quit d damn marriage before u father anoda man's child
U wud b shocked to find out that she spends ur money on the guy a lot
Imagine she respects other guys than u her husband to be
She prefers to hang up ur calls for them
U worth nothing to her honestly she doesnt respect u one bit

i really do appreciate ur input, we had misunderstanding sometime last year i called of the r/ship, guess what? SHE FAINTED AND PASS OUT WE RUSHED HER TO THE HOSPITAL FOR TWO DAYS SHE WAS IN COMA, the Dr warned we should avoid anyting that we make her think deep or angered that she has fregile heart, and is fond of crying and fainting anytine i threaned to quit the r/ship, her mum has been the one controling her heart if i may put it that way.

scantee:
i really do appreciate ur input, we had misunderstanding sometime last year i called of the r/ship, guess what? SHE FAINTED AND PASS OUT WE RUSHED HER TO THE HOSPITAL FOR TWO DAYS SHE WAS IN COMA, the Dr warned we should avoid anyting that we make her think deep or angered that she has fregile heart, and is fond of crying and fainting anytine i threaned to quit the r/ship, her mum has been the one controling her heart if i may put it that way.

PASS OUT?
Ok stay with her till d day she does wat will make u PASS OUT too
Wats ur own with her?
She is nt been sincere wit u bt trappin u wit passin out
U dnt av to tell her its over
Find ursef anoda gf or stay alone
U nt entitled to tell her anytin she doesnt tell u too wateva is happening


Just quite any form of communication even if she kills her sef its her fault
If she wasnt acting strange u wont leave her
Please LOVE YOURSELF FIRST BEFORE ANY OTHER PERSON



SHE WOULD ONLY MAKE YOU PASS OUT WHEN YOU FIND OUT THE TRUTH ABOUT HER

SHE FAINTED COS HER ONLY SOURCE OF INCOME IS LEAVING GET THAT!

scantee:
@Tonyebarcanista. Omo that bae is no more loyal oo

Bros, this story carry weight o. But I actually laughed when I saw "I HAVE NEVER CHEATED ON MY DATE" part . Even the devil, the father of all lies was marvelled at the line. As for the situation on ground, you have to take your time to know her but personally, I won't think twice to call off the relationship. Unfortunately, you won't do that anytime soon because you sounded like you over-love the babe.

By the way, you try o to give babe 22 Missed calls.

ekundayoalo:
Well said. A word they say, It's enough for who? complete am

The mumu
wise no need word na
Mumu need am

Misspicy night walker

scantee:
i really do appreciate ur input, we had misunderstanding sometime last year i called of the r/ship, guess what? SHE FAINTED AND PASS OUT WE RUSHED HER TO THE HOSPITAL FOR TWO DAYS SHE WAS IN COMA, the Dr warned we should avoid anyting that we make her think deep or angered that she has fregile heart, and is fond of crying and fainting anytine i threaned to quit the r/ship, her mum has been the one controling her heart if i may put it that way.

Hey mister, u'll av to choose btw dis two: Pity her & smh for ur marriage later or pity urself nw & enjoy ur marriage with someone else

scantee:
i really do appreciate ur input, we had misunderstanding sometime last year i called of the r/ship, guess what? SHE FAINTED AND PASS OUT WE RUSHED HER TO THE HOSPITAL FOR TWO DAYS SHE WAS IN COMA, the Dr warned we should avoid anyting that we make her think deep or angered that she has fregile heart, and is fond of crying and fainting anytine i threaned to quit the r/ship, her mum has been the one controling her heart if i may put it that way.

Hey mister, u'll av to choose btw dis two: Pity her & smh for ur marriage later or pity urself nw & enjoy ur marriage with someone else. Choose wisely

KashyBaby:
This kind of lady is not a keeper...follow what's ryt for u. Don't feel like u have to oblige urself to marry her when u have full of doubts, this will juz make u unsettled. If u think calling off the d wedding is the right thing for both of u,then do it as early as possible.

babe, is that you @ DP?

TonyeBarcanista:

Bros, this story carry weight o. But I actually laughed when I saw "I HAVE NEVER CHEATED ON MY DATE" part . Even the devil, the father of all lies was marvelled at the line. As for the situation on ground, you have to take your time to know her but personally, I won't think twice to call off the relationship. Unfortunately, you won't do that anytime soon because you sounded like you over-love the babe.

By the way, you try o to give babe 22 Missed calls.

haa haa u know well, guy believe me i have never, remember i use to tell u that on our chat. MAYBE YOUR RIGHT I OVER LOVED HER, it has been my nature to show total love and commitment.

halfrica:
The mumu wise no need word na Mumu need am

lolz. funny you

halfrica:

PASS OUT?
Ok stay with her till d day she does wat will make u PASS OUT too
Wats ur own with her?
She is nt been sincere wit u bt trappin u wit passin out
U dnt av to tell her its over
Find ursef anoda gf or stay alone
U nt entitled to tell her anytin she doesnt tell u too wateva is happening


Just quite any form of communication even if she kills her sef its her fault
If she wasnt acting strange u wont leave her
Please LOVE YOURSELF FIRST BEFORE ANY OTHER PERSON



SHE WOULD ONLY MAKE YOU PASS OUT WHEN YOU FIND OUT THE TRUTH ABOUT HER

SHE FAINTED COS HER ONLY SOURCE OF INCOME IS LEAVING GET THAT!

It sounds so good and true right? Why because it is a one sided story,i believe every story in life has 3 sides d complainant,d defence and the observer,with this the judge can judge effectively

Now,i think lady is cheating,and its not scantee's fault buh in situations like this one needs to be diplomatic and sensitive so as not to be seen as bad,u said her parents and ur parents are involved,i will advice u to be patient,u dnt catch a fish by its tailcu catch a fish by its teeth,trap her and have reasonable evidence n.proof as ur defence to her parents and urs too till then,u r only working on suspiscion......secondly no gv me d i have never cheated on mx date story brother

halfrica:
Misspicy night walker

i woke up to drink water

ekundayoalo:
lolz. funny you

niggi4life:
Bros, that girl is cheating on you, you know what that means? She is fcking another dude behind your back. It really hurts you know? If you can deal with the thought of someone screwing your wife to be then you can go ahead with the marriage, if not, kindly break up with her before it's too late o.
A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage o....

bro i understand ur point, though my problem now is how do i present it before my parents and hers? Especially my dad who had already made her favorite wife among all my elder brothers wife even when we are not married yet, also u know i don't have any strong evidence to present since i never caught her red handed. My only regret now is that i rushed introduce her to my parents which i should'nt have, any ma dad/elder bros then and uncle questioned me well b4 the introduction if am really sure that shez ma final i said YES, i even had serious misunderstanding with my elder bro when he tried to stop my dad them frm approving the plans. How do i face them nw? Note; she has a very gud character in any oda tin except this one am suspecting which she still denying.

misspicy:

i woke up to drink water

You sleep walk?

scantee:
no bro i live in naija here, i work offshore mostly thats why i am always in such condition, believe me everybody that knows the gal confess she of gud character, both families is involve in our plans, the only problem i have with her is only thsese two occations i mentioned above, evry other things is perfect for nw

If she ignores your calls for any reason other than she is about to die, then she is not a gud girl. She should know that you work offshore hence you naturally would be insecure so she has to always pick ur calls. And when ur fiance tells you that she had her ex or whoever it is spend 2 weeks in her room, dude u shouldn't even be seeking advise... Guy u dey craze? Abi you be yoruba boy? Bro wisen up oh.


I had a friend in the university, a very close friend and she was in a relationship with a guy who lives in lagos and we were schooling in delta state. She had issues with her boyfriend and he travelled down from lagos to see her, they resolved the issue,yet at night she let her boyfriend sleep in her room while she went to the next vacant room that had not been rented to sleep. She spent her night on the bare floor in an uncompleted room. And she was a virgin and 27yrs. That's a gud girl. Not a girl that let's her ex sleep in the same bed with her for 2 week when she is already engaged to another man. Bro unless you want to quit ur offshore job after u get married dump that chick o.... These are signs don't ignore them. You will feel heartbroken but trust me its o.k and it will only be for a while. Unless...hmmmnn. You may find urself raising another man's child or die of heart attack.


A wink is enuff for the wise.






Marry that girl, the kind slap wen I go give ehn?

misspicy:

It sounds so good and true right? Why because it is a one sided story,i believe every story in life has 3 sides d complainant,d defence and the observer,with this the judge can judge effectively

Now,i think lady is cheating,and its not scantee's fault buh in situations like this one needs to be diplomatic and sensitive so as not to be seen as bad,u said her parents and ur parents are involved,i will advice u to be patient,u dnt catch a fish by its tailcu catch a fish by its teeth,trap her and have reasonable evidence n.proof as ur defence to her parents and urs too till then,u r only working on suspiscion......secondly no gv me d i have never cheated on mx date story brother

You really understands my situation here, the evidence is my major concern now, CHEATING? believe me my only best frnd is SHARK i spend my 90% time on water who then do i cheat with?

misspicy:

It sounds so good and true right? Why because it is a one sided story,i believe every story in life has 3 sides d complainant,d defence and the observer,with this the judge can judge effectively

Now,i think lady is cheating,and its not scantee's fault buh in situations like this one needs to be diplomatic and sensitive so as not to be seen as bad,u said her parents and ur parents are involved,i will advice u to be patient,u dnt catch a fish by its tailcu catch a fish by its teeth,trap her and have reasonable evidence n.proof as ur defence to her parents and urs too till then,u r only working on suspiscion......secondly no gv me d i have never cheated on mx date story brother

Op should wait for prove can he stand the scene?
Can he stand it to watch her cheat?
If it was mere bf gf thing he can do it
Nt watch sumone u call a WIFE to be mehn wen a guy wants to marry a girl mentally to him she is his WIFE only d ceremony that makes it official nd av full access to d girl
So he wud wait to catch her in bed with anoda dude grinding her

Op abeg giv d girl space wen she realises her mistake she wud locate u
If u take chances ehn nd u open a thread of ow u wana divorce her i wud laff u real good! Nd assist in disgracing u
Abeg b smart obviously wat do u want the girls Mother to say?

Please leave my daughter??


op is d one to live with her for the rest of his life so
Parents av no say in this just op misspicy ok