teddybear007:


Sorry if I ve to quote u, but truth has to be said. The pentecostal churches ve no issue with d catholics or other denomination but it is d Catholics who thinks that they re more holy dan d other denomination. Gracias.

maryhaam:
now am lost too,i know catholic even thou am a muslim but protestant or what,please explain.

missyadorable:
This op sounds like a weakling.Gosh!

IamLEGEND1:


pls God had nothing to do with your extreme myopia and close mindedness......... just look at the nónsense you wrote up there and you want to say God made that happen?

"Giving up my faith"...... WTF!!!??

So the girl you were dating wasn't a true Christian like you abi?
since she is not Catholic.

if that is what your church teaches you, then you're just a brainwashed ídiot.

Setaje:



Am not joking. Don't be deceived. Whether catholic or protestant. Many people have spiritualist they visit. Some of your kinsmen have alfas (islamic cleric) they visit. You think they would come out and tell u the real source of their wealth. U don't want to know how much they have prayed, how many churches they have been to and how many sacrifices they have made. U just see them doing hail Mary and assume it is mother Mary that interceded on their behalf. Lol! This guy is not osu or ohu as u people call it. He is a pure igbo man. I have forgotten where is family compound is in nnewi. I new him through a family friend whose mum was my teacher in primary school. They are also from nnewi. Their family compound is close to each other. They are also cherubim and seraphim. Just pray you don't encounter problems that will push u to places u never imagined u will go.

So4baba:

Wdnt you want to die with Christ rather than die a Catholic?? Just saying...

Cutehector:
I thought we are christains...



Why the segregation? Chei wat the lord will judge on d judgement day no be here....

Setaje:




Hehhehehehhe. Am sure its the thought of an igbo man wearing white garment ba? From the look of things, He is not living that church. I would automatically go and buy white garment to. Hiaaaaaaaan

Ayauche:
Am also a catholic and I dnt see myself giving up my faith for anything or any1. If u both really love each other as u proclaim then u can come to an agreement. Dis isn't a new situation and couples do overcome them. Dnt end ur love story if really there is one. Dnt listen to advise 4rm anyone rather do what ur heart tells u. Advises will only confuse u the more.

0coded80:
catholic is the 1st church of the world while protestant are those that break away 4m it.

funkybully:
Na so one babe wey I dey eye give me condition of either I join Christ embassy or no relationship / marriage.

I did 180° u turn, me no fit leave my Catholic faith for anything.

So I have narrowed my search to Catholicism.

Mekky05:
Its the same way that Protestants/Pentecostal families issue out there own order! I have 1st hand experience and info about this stuff,so Op chin up and go look for a wife. You've opened up this thread for peeps who don't have "wisdom" to start insulting and bashing the Catholic church. The rate at which pentecostal churches breed hate and rage for Catholic leaves much to be desired!

rosalieene:


funny you!

Oliviaarims:
Are u putting a final full stop to ur love story? Given up hope already?

flyca:
OP, I'm going to share two stories briefly with you.
1. June-July 2013, a suitor approached me - he was directed by some of my relatives. But my mum said NO!, same reasons: he is Catholic, I am Anglican. My dad was indifferent. He was an OK guy and all but personally I wasn't feeling him enough to push. So everything went.
But here is one thing the guy told me I really respect. He said we can go to any church to wed. Not that he has anything against my church but that me taking him to my church would break him as a man.
My point is changing church for a woman "would break you as a man". I mean, who is going to run the home, you or her dad?

2. My cousin changed his church to Catholic church for his girl. I don't have a problem with church, but I personally think its a girl that should accept the guys people, customs, religion etc

funkybully:
Na so one babe wey I dey eye give me condition of either I join Christ embassy or no relationship / marriage.

I did 180° u turn, me no fit leave my Catholic faith for anything.

So I have narrowed my search to Catholicism.

fabre4:
Catholics are too close-minded even to their fellow Christians they don't understand the meaning of unity and communal leaving .They are like the Jews in the bible they think faith is based on church and religion.

CORRECTMAN78:


That is because you've not truely loved anyone. If you have loved someone to heart, not lust, then you would have understood how he feels.

I don't see him as a weakling. But then, he has to put together himself and move on.

repogirl:
What is so special about being a catholic sef? There is only one way to God and it is through Jesus Christ his son!

The bible never said only Catholics will make it into heaven so whoever is carrying catholic on the head as if it is an automatic passport to heaven is deluding himself!

Jesus is the only way, truth and life! Not the church you attend or the Pope, Priest, Pastor, Bishop, Evangelist or Reverend that you think is the epitome to holiness. They are all men and can fall.

funkyglitz:
Wait oooo I tot we ladies dnt hv a particular religion till we gt married so y d big fuss....anyways d man neva ready to allow the daughter marry ad d grl isn't worth it abeg dis hapnd 2 my frnd ad gues wat my frnd did #she go carry belle# for d guy ad d dad had no choice buh to rush d wedding as a last resort after mch beggin frm d parents,so she took dat as a last resort ad dey r happily married...al dis staunch catholic parents can b annoyin esp those wey b knights 4 d church

Drfinn:


Thanks bro. Its good knowing someone had been in my shoes before. I had my reservations when she told she was catholic. I specifically sought counsel from my Pastor. He gave me the go ahead. In his reasoning, marriage should be based not on religious affiliation but on compatibility, and the ability of both parties to compromise. You can imagine the nightmares when things started unfolding. I had 'abstained' from committed relationships for a year plus with the hope anyone I go into will end in marriage.

I have moved on. But the scars?? Time heal all wounds.

Lawsimon:
stop spreading lies, Catholic is never the first church. Were peter and paul who established many churches catholics. Abeg park well with this your dogmatism.

Setaje:
There is this igbo man from anambra that wants to marry me. Nnewi to be precise. The guy speaks good yoruba and English. Offcourse he speaks igbo well. He is also doing well financially. Never stops talking about how proud he is off his igbo heritage. But Do u no what?










































He attends cherubim and seraphim. A very strong member from birth. He doesn't joke wiv them. Infact he and his family are strong members. Just like don jazzy. He said so many of his kins men in lagos are secret members. So if I marry him, na white garment people go wear come my wedding. MBANU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Gaidenk:
I was born and raised a catholic,was an alter boy for years at a major seminary ,one time even thought I'd be a priest lol,I'd tell you this bro. My questions and convictions took me out of the catholic church,if you do that its like the muslims killing a convert just that in this case u will be a mini outcast,excommunicated kinda,we refered to people who left the faith as "born again people,they say they have seen the light" lol funny tho. My elder sister married a protestant against relatives wills,some people didn't even attend her wedding,and until today some still feels she doesn't "have a marriage" cos it wasn't in the catholic church. So take my cue bro,don't force it,if she's yours she will come by,leaving the catholic cult like faith is only done by conviction no be gra gra. And I'd tell you from experience,DO NOT covert,Catholism as Christianity is questionable,but that's not what this topic is for So I'd leave it at this. Receive Grace to make the right choice.