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Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by Mekky05(m): 12:09pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
teddybear007:You don't need to apologize cuz u quoted me.. My dear, Jeahova's witness,Seven Days Adventist,Cherubim and Seraphim. You can only marry there if u will convert to there church. Pentecostal churches will always tell u that Catholic church is an evil church and therefore u cannot be yoked with an unbeliever! A girl I would have engaged by now but didn't work out was cuz she worships in Redeem,and they don't marry outside unless im willing to convert/become a member of Redeem! So my dear,every party is guilty so don't try to apportion blame. 2 Likes |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by kleppur: 12:12pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
Touching story.. why not marry her and worry about church later |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by Cutehector(m): 12:12pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
maryhaam:alright leme gv u an insight.... Long time ago, thr was a man called martin luther, he used to be a catholic priest... He brought forth questions regarding the catholic church and made so many theories whch were contradicting the catholic faith, this led to a break up in d catholic church and he was ex communicated... Some people who believed in his teachings left d catholic church and followed him.. Martin luther protested against the teachings of d catholic church and that led to the birth of a new faction called the protestants... Martin luther is the founder of the protestant church, examples of thesse churches are redeemed christain church of God, salvation ministeries, dominion city, etc... Do u understand? U can google martin luther (founder of protestant church) and get to know more... Its not a bad idea to do so.. I google d history of islam too u knw.. 2 Likes |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by DavidEsq(m): 12:24pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
missyadorable:Make him fes punch ur okpolo eye before u go knw say na strongling abi!!!!! |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by DavidEsq(m): 12:26pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
IamLEGEND1:Spot on!! |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by Nobody: 12:28pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
Setaje: You are right. I never saw it from that angle |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by Nobody: 12:30pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
So4baba:I will die with Christ a catholic. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by deebrain(m): 12:32pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
Cutehector: As in! I just wonder what the focus of churches is nowadays. Rapture will not be funny at all. |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by Luckygurl(f): 12:32pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
Setaje: LMFAO Epic!!!! 1 Like |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by Nobody: 12:39pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
Ayauche:Catholics be acting like their "faith" is different from that of other Christians... Please explain ur 'faith' and let's understand what's so special about being Catholic. Its almost like its another religion.. 1 Like |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by Drfinn: 12:44pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
To those wonderful people who are of the opinion that I should have played along. Got married on her father's terms, and then revert to status quo. My fiancee's in law and a few people advised same. However, it was a pill of deceit I detest. Her father had narrated a story of how some guy deceived a Catholic lady in same act. Besides, this old man in all honesty have been plain with me. He even called me his son on several occasions . To betray such trust will make a Brutus out of me. I may not have applied sound judgment on some aspects of my failed engagement. But to sign a document before the Catholic Church and renege later will subtly rob me of my wife's respect, and make me less of a man. In addition, how do I teach my children the importance of trustworthiness when am far from same? It's better to take a stand even if the world is against you. It may not the best of decisions, but it's far better than following a fickle crowd. Thanks once again for your timely comments. 10 Likes |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by rosalieene(f): 12:53pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
0coded80: Proudly Catholic 1 Like |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by rosalieene(f): 12:55pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
funkybully: funny you! 1 Like |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by silverspringle(f): 12:57pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
I think there's something about kids that were raised in catholic and Anglican homes (especially catholic) i used to think i was more reserved and dedicated until i met my catholics friends in uni. At some point, i joined them in mid-week service cos my church (Anglican) will not allow you wear trouser but their reverend father understands that most of us come to church from lectures and it was quite encouraging...people should endeavor to make their stance from the on set of every relationship to avoid stories like this. For me, i'll stick to Anglican and wouldnt mind to marry a catholic (infact, i'll love to) and wouldnt settle for anything else not because i dnt love other churches but for reasons best known to me. 1 Like |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by rosalieene(f): 12:58pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
Mekky05: I tire oo I wish all Christians are one just like the Muslims |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by funkybully(f): 1:20pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
rosalieene: My dear Na true na. Hope u are Catholic, I fit begin eye u now. |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by smsshola(m): 1:29pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
Oliviaarims: My dear if he do don't blame the guy there is an extent one can go in life in term of endurance. The issue wt love has to do with matter of the heart and even though he looks healthy he is suffering within I wish him d best. By the way u got a nice pics there. |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by Adaeze003(f): 2:05pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
flyca: Stop with the who is meant to do what, in marriage, both parties are meant to make sacrifices. If the man's is to switch church, it shouldn't be a problem. It doesn't "break" anything, different men are defined by different things so, it'll only break people that are defined by church. That said, the father in law giving conditions should marry his daughter na? Like wth?? Any compromise to be made should come from the person and not external sources. I also think the girl is weak and probably undecided I mean, all you have to do is get married in the Catholic Church and after that, in agreement with your wife, you raise your kids as protestants. It's really not something to give up your marriage for... in my opinion. |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by Roland17(m): 2:36pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
Personally, i would never sacrifice or compromise my Catholic faith for anything and I mean anything..it has brought me soooo far. Would I share intimate, Marital/ personal relationships with a non Catholic lady/wife? Absolutely yes, it's all about maturity and understanding as it differs with personalities..but i am not circumventing my Faith to please anyone. I am not a Catholic today because I was born and raised in a Catholic family, I am proud Catholic in faith because I have personally discovered God in his infinite mercies through the Catholic faith and its doctrines. @OP My brother, the road would be a rough path but move on with an open mind, may God give you the grace, courage and strength to overcome this situation. I would be praying for you. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by Wislet(f): 2:47pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
Mmmmmm |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by Wislet(f): 2:55pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
WE ALL CLAIM WE ARE CHRISTIANS, YET WE ARE DIVIDED ALONG CATHOLIC, ANGLICAN, METHODIST, DEEPER LIFE, PENTECOSTAL, CHERUBIM AND SERAPHIM LINES. IT WILL BE AN INTERESTING GATHERING IN HEAVEN WHEN CHRIST COMES. MAY IT NEVER BE OUR HATRED AND SEGREGATIONS OF PEOPLE WHO ARE OF A DIFFERENT DENOMINATION THAN US THAT WILL BE A STUMBLING BLOCK TO OUR MAKING IT. I DONT REMEMBER CHRIST MAKING SUCH DISTINCTIONS WHILE ON EARTH. It will never be a "which church did you belong to while on earth?" Question. But one of "Is Christ in you?" And "how you lived your life". Let us beware how we call ourselves unclean. God forbade us to call unclean animals he created, how much more HUMAN BEINGS HE CREATED IN HIS OWN IMAGE. Ha! Eternity. It's small things that make one to miss the mark. The Bible says "Be not unequally yoked with unbelievers". Not "Be not yoked with a believer from catholic or protestant churches". Food for thought. 1 Like |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by lovethchioma(f): 3:13pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
@op did all this happen to you? or it's just a story. I want to know before giving my thought on it |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by murphyibiam15(m): 3:56pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
funkybully:'one babe wey u dey eye' but u've got a female monicker....fake people everywhere on nairaland 1 Like |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by murphyibiam15(m): 4:02pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
fabre4:you better dont start a denominational war am sure u cant finish...the issue is on both side of catholics and protestants so why use those derogatory words against catholics. una too like segregation i swear....like say our ancestors be christains sef 1 Like |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by missyadorable(f): 4:11pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
CORRECTMAN78:Hahahahaha! True love? Even foooools no longer fall for such scam |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by murphyibiam15(m): 4:14pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
repogirl:seems u didnt read the whole story...why all these hate for catholics when we know that protestants lack the tolerance more or didnt u see that the guy didnt shift ground as well |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by murphyibiam15(m): 4:19pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
funkyglitz:can oyedepo or oyakhilome or any pastor allow their children to marry a catholic? why all these hypocrisy when we know is two-sided 1 Like |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by CoCoLav(f): 4:28pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
Drfinn: Awww... My brother was in your shoes. The dad was even a knight but my brother agreed and today they attend both churches, this month they might both attend catholic and next month Redeemed....no big deal. |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by murphyibiam15(m): 4:28pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
Lawsimon:yes...peter was the first pope of the church which is catholic church...u can check it up |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by murphyibiam15(m): 4:31pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
Setaje:hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahhhahahaha.....u've made my day...some ppl dont get it that denomination counts 1 Like |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by sthugo: 4:35pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
Religious dogmatism.. Christianity has long being divided by some biased hypocrites. Most of them chasing thesame selfish acclaimed righteousness,instead of an open welcome hands to all that gets closer. The Almighty God is so merciful and enduring,I pray the so-called followers which are Christians should have an open eye to see what are truly required of them from the most High. @op ur ex,as u call her doesn't love you that unconditionally,you are lucky you moved on. Umu nnunnu de every where,no dull to be the eze nnunnu |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by murphyibiam15(m): 4:37pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
Gaidenk:u must be sent from the pit of hell trying to demonise the same catholic church which is the root of other churches today. shame shame on the devil's agents 1 Like |
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