raayah:

Sorry i meant, how would you feel emotionally?

Hahahahaha! Emotionally? Nothing.

missyadorable:
Op,You are a very lucky lady and your fiance is a very good reasonable man...

He is bleeping other ladies,its not a big deal.All men do that!

Besides, he doesn't even owe you any faithfulness.

Your husband after taking vow of fidelity will still bleep other women..the difference is using protection.

You should be happy and thank him whenever you find condoms in his bag,drawer,wallets.

I congratulate you for having a man who knows and understands the implications of unprotected se.x and he is taking necessary steps to protect himself and YOU from STIs including deadly HIV and also prevent having kids from side chics

What else do you want a man to do for you? Isn't that enough?

Stop making a big deal outta nothing.

No man bleeps only one woman!!

If you are looking for a man who will be 100% faithful to you,take clay and mould him and make sure you don't give him a deek.

HML in advance!!

Shey na advice we go call this one?

Na this kind woman dey f.uck/snatch other women fiancé/husbands without sending anybody.

Just because your man/husband na serial cheat make you think Ali men be cheat?

Oliviaarims:
Very clear pointer he's cheating...if yhu decide to still marry him,don't come bk to NL looking 4 advise on how to deal with a promiscuous husband.
As 4 coping,well,put urself 2gether..d world hasn't come to an end. Just don't dwell on the issue. But sincerely,if u can't deal with infidelity,then don't marry him.

see your mouth



How are you sure he's cheating when there's no other sign than the condom?



I've been in that situation before when I bought a condom for a friend and then boom!



You ladies really need to calm down

missyadorable:
Op,You are a very lucky lady and your fiance is a very good reasonable man...

He is bleeping other ladies,its not a big deal.All men do that!

Besides, he doesn't even owe you any faithfulness.

Your husband after taking vow of fidelity will still bleep other women..the difference is using protection.

You should be happy and thank him whenever you find condoms in his bag,drawer,wallets.

I congratulate you for having a man who knows and understands the implications of unprotected se.x and he is taking necessary steps to protect himself and YOU from STIs including deadly HIV and also prevent having kids from side chics

What else do you want a man to do for you? Isn't that enough?

Stop making a big deal outta nothing.

No man bleeps only one woman!!

If you are looking for a man who will be 100% faithful to you,take clay and mould him and make sure you don't give him a deek.

HML in advance!!

Not all men cheat. I am a man and I have NEVER cheated on my partner.

ure are crazy lolzzzz but amazingly correct

Pineapp:
1a. He cares about you and is playing safe not to infect you with whatever infection he might be dinning with.

1b. He no wan give the girl belle.



2a. He's cheating and its glaring to you.

2b. If you cant stand it,walk away now that he's just a fiance.



3.... He might have gotten the job of a major distributor for condoms

Not all men!

missyadorable:
Op,You are a very lucky lady and your fiance is a very good reasonable man...

He is bleeping other ladies,its not a big deal.All men do that!

Besides, he doesn't even owe you any faithfulness.

Your husband after taking vow of fidelity will still bleep other women..the difference is using protection.

You should be happy and thank him whenever you find condoms in his bag,drawer,wallets.

I congratulate you for having a man who knows and understands the implications of unprotected se.x and he is taking necessary steps to protect himself and YOU from STIs including deadly HIV and also prevent having kids from side chics

What else do you want a man to do for you? Isn't that enough?

Stop making a big deal outta nothing.

No man bleeps only one woman!!

If you are looking for a man who will be 100% faithful to you,take clay and mould him and make sure you don't give him a deek.

HML in advance!!

standingtall:
hi guys,

I have been dating my fiance for 3 years now. In the beginning everything was cool until recently. About a month ago, I found condoms an, empty pack of condoms in his bag, I confronted him about it and he told me he saw the pack on the floor and he liked the colour of the pack so he picked it up.

I let it go because I didn't want to upset him since he started getting upset.

Fast forward to today, I was looking for change in his bag and this time I found 3 different brands of unused condoms in his bag.

I didn't say anything and I won't say anything. I am hurt and crying inside.I just don't understand what he wants again. I hate him so much right now.

Please my sisters, I need a coping mechanism until am safely far from him. Sorry about my epistle. I needed to let it out.

abeg talk another thing joor, which kind bag man dey carry? if na wallet u talk, I for believe u small.

missyadorable:

Stop lying na! haba! we all know u won't walk away except u are not a Nigerian lady.Marriage is d greatest n most important achievement for a woman here and All men are polygamous in nature.if you keep walking away cos a man decided to be a man,you will end up being insulted everytime like genevieve nnaji,linda ikeji,rita Dominic n other matured single ladies

*shudders*

Such a carnal advice.

standingtall:
hi guys,

I have been dating my fiance for 3 years now. In the beginning everything was cool until recently. About a month ago, I found condoms an, empty pack of condoms in his bag, I confronted him about it and he told me he saw the pack on the floor and he liked the colour of the pack so he picked it up.

I let it go because I didn't want to upset him since he started getting upset.

Fast forward to today, I was looking for change in his bag and this time I found 3 different brands of unused condoms in his bag.

I didn't say anything and I won't say anything. I am hurt and crying inside.I just don't understand what he wants again. I hate him so much right now.

Please my sisters, I need a coping mechanism until am safely far from him. Sorry about my epistle. I needed to let it out.

When you date someone for 3 years, you should have an idea of how your marriage will look like.
2nd time you found condom in his bag - A Cheat/A Womanizer/He was Hot/He sells them which I believe is not his job. Where does he fall in this category?
He got angry when you spoke about it the 1st and 2nd time won't be any better. Would worse happen if you accuse him on his bad day? Think!!
And I'm sure it's not his second time nor third and he will continue to lie about it.
Marriage is a big commitment. Don't go into it with someone who won't give you peace of mind and happiness. You can't travel for 3 weeks knowing fully well he can't control himself. That's not who you want to spend your entire life with.
All these being said he sweet caring charming in his way to you but dear, if he isn't happy and expectant of your December wedding as the first time you guys met or even more, check deep down if you are. If you are not, think and act wisely. The last thing you want is getting engaged to someone who cares less about your trust for him. Don't listen to people saying it's normal or he is doing a good thing by using condom how does that make you trust him or make you feel safe or happy or love him as you used to? In life people will say but not see what you are passing through. One month disappointment of a postponed or cancelled wedding is better than a 1 week of dealing with a infidel. Be strong willed and brave, don't settle for less except you know you do the same to him. If he ain't worth you or your trust don't manage it. You need someone who is 75% willing to marry you also not 75% sure to cheat on you after a eye pleasing and mouth gasping wedding ceremony. Be strong girl and pray. Good men are out there. Don't think you can change him only he can if he likes to.

Oliviaarims:
Very clear pointer he's cheating...if yhu decide to still marry him,don't come bk to NL looking 4 advise on how to deal with a promiscuous husband.
As 4 coping,well,put urself 2gether..d world hasn't come to an end. Just don't dwell on the issue. But sincerely,if u can't deal with infidelity,then don't marry him.

Both are cheating on themselves. Are they legally married? No! So when they have sex together, they do it as what? Legitimate couple? People have been deceiving themselves since Adam and Eve ate forbidden fruit. If a man/woman have premarital sex, their is no guarantee they will be faithful to themselves. If he sleeps with you before he marries you, he can equally and justifiably sleep with another. Afterall it is an open relationship with no marital commitment. Each can decide to take a walk away when tired. Harsh truth.

these generation of nigerians have become so dumb it hurts, why haven't anyone ask the most basic question before all these mouth diarrhea? the question is do you sleep with your fiance? do you use condom with him? these are the questions to ask first before running mouth,

missyadorable:
Op,You are a very lucky lady and your fiance is a very good reasonable man...

He is bleeping other ladies,its not a big deal.All men do that!

Besides, he doesn't even owe you any faithfulness.

Your husband after taking vow of fidelity will still bleep other women..the difference is using protection.

You should be happy and thank him whenever you find condoms in his bag,drawer,wallets.

I congratulate you for having a man who knows and understands the implications of unprotected se.x and he is taking necessary steps to protect himself and YOU from STIs including deadly HIV and also prevent having kids from side chics

What else do you want a man to do for you? Isn't that enough?

Stop making a big deal outta nothing.

No man bleeps only one woman!!

If you are looking for a man who will be 100% faithful to you,take clay and mould him and make sure you don't give him a deek.

HML in advance!!

Lady be careful what you wish for. Cuz u will just have it someday.

I don't know if what you just typed is supposed to be soothing to a woman who is going thru an unpleasant moment in her relationship.

I mean, how did u even arrive at the misguided conclusion that every man cheats

I am a man and if I have one good woman who is faithful to me, I couldn't ask for anything more.

Be sincere to yourself, if by tomorrow now u see ur fiance or husband or whatever, hanging out with a different woman and they are chatting and laughing and probably touching each other, so u are saying the only question u would ask him is whether he is using protection

Pls don't be sarcastic at someone's problem. Thank u dear lady.

Are you availqble for his use ?
Why shouole you be hoarding your cunt but dont want the goy to go let off steam somewhere with someoneone teady and willing to make her own body available for use .

my dear i hate to tell you this but if you love your life please leave that relationship and run very fast.AIDS is real.I have a family memebr who is a very calm person.This family member was diagnosed of HIV/AIDS last year (december) but my family has been hiding it from me.To the extent that the disease has gotten to the second stage.It is today that they broke the news to me and i have been crying like a baby since morning.It is from his situation that i have come to terms to this reality.He is a very calm person and i don't know where he picked up the disease from but i would do my best to help him.I hear women say that if a man cheats on you stick with him because all men are cheats.Please i advice you to leave before someone contracts a dangerous disease and come and give you to suffer with your family.Well i don't know what more i can say

standingtall:
hi guys,

I have been dating my fiance for 3 years now. In the beginning everything was cool until recently. About a month ago, I found condoms an, empty pack of condoms in his bag, I confronted him about it and he told me he saw the pack on the floor and he liked the colour of the pack so he picked it up.

I let it go because I didn't want to upset him since he started getting upset.

Fast forward to today, I was looking for change in his bag and this time I found 3 different brands of unused condoms in his bag.

I didn't say anything and I won't say anything. I am hurt and crying inside.I just don't understand what he wants again. I hate him so much right now.

Please my sisters, I need a coping mechanism until am safely far from him. Sorry about my epistle. I needed to let it out.

missyadorable:
Op,You are a very lucky lady and your fiance is a very good reasonable man...

He is bleeping other ladies,its not a big deal.All men do that!

Besides, he doesn't even owe you any faithfulness.

Your husband after taking vow of fidelity will still bleep other women..the difference is using protection.

You should be happy and thank him whenever you find condoms in his bag,drawer,wallets.

I congratulate you for having a man who knows and understands the implications of unprotected se.x and he is taking necessary steps to protect himself and YOU from STIs including deadly HIV and also prevent having kids from side chics

What else do you want a man to do for you? Isn't that enough?

Stop making a big deal outta nothing.

No man bleeps only one woman!!

If you are looking for a man who will be 100% faithful to you,take clay and mould him and make sure you don't give him a deek.

HML in advance!!

How would you say no man beep only one woman? I have done it, and i believe many men out there will do the same

stop confusing the young girl please

What if he is really a condom collector or has some reasonable explanation for them.You saw an empty pack the first time and his response was that he loved the pack design. the second time you saw three different brands. He really didn't need to buy three different brands if he just wanted condoms. So don't be hasty about walking away but talk this through with him. If you aren't satisfied with his explanation then you can call off the wedding or still go ahead depending on your expectations.

Sometimes things are not really the way they seem.

standingtall:
I feel peace by just letting this out.this is a red.I don't know how to walk away from all the wedding preparations but I will walk away.I deserve to be happy.now I know why some women never want to get married. its too much work

THE REASON I DON'T ADVICE IS BECAUSE MOST PEOPLE ALREADY KNOW WHAT THEY WANT TO DO..

I WILL JUST GIVE YOU THE FACTS AND U DECIDE

#1 HE'S CHEATING ON YOU.

#2 MOST MEN OUT THERE DO.

#3 HE'S NOT SMART TO COVER HIS TRACKS.

#4 MOST MEN COVER THEIR TRACKS.

#5 IF YOU LEAVE HIM FOR ANOTHER, YOU WILL DISCOVER SAME EVENTUALLY, TIME MAY DIFFER.

#6 A WISE WOMAN BUILDS HER HOME. PROV..

#7 MEN ARE LOYAL TO WOMEN WHO KNOWS THEIR SHORTCOMINGS AND STILL STICK.

#8 ONLY JESUS CAN SAVE.

Babe, I feel ur pain, but dere is something u ARE and SUPPOSED to have known by now, MOST ,pls quote me MOST men are POLYGAMOUS in nature, its just their God given talent and no one can take DAT away from them except God. how do u think your fiancé is having sex with just u? ma dear am nt so sure about that. ND kinda b happy cos he choose to marry u and is playing safe. dere won't be and their is no one that's gonna b more righteous than him. sit him down ND talk to him. if u love him well enough marry him, but if not take a bow. life's too short for heartache

All men are cheats, they cant stick to one pucci...
Ladies say this everyday yet they complaint their man aren't faithful. If u already know its in the nature of men to cheat, I see no reason why u should commit slender.
Yea, I call it slander because seeing him with condoms doesn't mean u have evidence he has cheated on u and moreover even if he cheats, he knows where his heart is.
My sisters, am telling u, if u decide to quit there are thousands of ur advisers who are ready to accept him dat way. Wise up!!!!

Please and please, don't be childish... lemme ask u some questions... 1, how often are u with him. 2, how often do u have sex with him? 3, how good are u on bed? 4, do u really love him? 5, do u want him to go skin on another but u?.. babe, mistake are bound to happen, if he ain't using it on u, then u d special one, but if he does u r his side chick. Some men/guys do this before marriage, they explore before getting married and after getting married, they stop... though it's best known to them what they are looking for.. while some, they don't, but do so after getting married. A girl is trying to take ur man, it might be your friend... if u love your and u know he is going to be a good father and husband... pls fight for him... there is no perfect man out there... don't allow ur self to be misguided and make u walk out of the whole wedding stuff. Na still them go laugh at u... you can call me if u wish, I am man with experience of what u r talking about... mind u he may not have used it on anyone.. probably keeping it incase of emergency... some dudes keep dis stuff in their wallet... in this issue, u have to b smart... no give ur man to another woman... fight for him...if he is worth fighting for... no man good finish... 08134214545.. thanks

Oliviaarims:
Very clear pointer he's cheating...if yhu decide to still marry him,don't come bk to NL looking 4 advise on how to deal with a promiscuous husband.
As 4 coping,well,put urself 2gether..d world hasn't come to an end. Just don't dwell on the issue. But sincerely,if u can't deal with infidelity,then don't marry him.

Lol
Hw far you.

he is obviously cheating on you and also protecting himself.the thing is don't stress yourself out about it.its your call whether you want to continue with this relationship ir not but when you are taking the decision, ask yourself the real quetsions.all the best
therapistmrs..com

God bless u

Bunchersstab:
All men are cheats, they cant stick to one pucci...
Ladies say this everyday yet they complaint their man aren't faithful. If u already know its in the nature of men to cheat, I see no reason why u should commit slender.
Yea, I call it slander because seeing him with condoms doesn't mean u have evidence he has cheated on u and moreover even if he cheats, he knows where his heart is.
My sisters, am telling u, if u decide to quit there are thousands of ur advisers who are ready to accept him dat way. Wise up!!!!

missyadorable:
Op,You are a very lucky lady and your fiance is a very good reasonable man...

He is bleeping other ladies,its not a big deal.All men do that!

Besides, he doesn't even owe you any faithfulness.

Your husband after taking vow of fidelity will still bleep other women..the difference is using protection.

You should be happy and thank him whenever you find condoms in his bag,drawer,wallets.

I congratulate you for having a man who knows and understands the implications of unprotected se.x and he is taking necessary steps to protect himself and YOU from STIs including deadly HIV and also prevent having kids from side chics

What else do you want a man to do for you? Isn't that enough?

Stop making a big deal outta nothing.

No man bleeps only one woman!!

If you are looking for a man who will be 100% faithful to you,take clay and mould him and make sure you don't give him a deek.

HML in advance!!

# mould him.

Dyt:


Your signature says it all
Kudos

hmmm,naso

missyadorable:
Op,You are a very lucky lady and your fiance is a very good reasonable man...

He is bleeping other ladies,its not a big deal.All men do that!

Besides, he doesn't even owe you any faithfulness.

Your husband after taking vow of fidelity will still bleep other women..the difference is using protection.

You should be happy and thank him whenever you find condoms in his bag,drawer,wallets.

I congratulate you for having a man who knows and understands the implications of unprotected se.x and he is taking necessary steps to protect himself and YOU from STIs including deadly HIV and also prevent having kids from side chics

What else do you want a man to do for you? Isn't that enough?

Stop making a big deal outta nothing.

No man bleeps only one woman!!

If you are looking for a man who will be 100% faithful to you,take clay and mould him and make sure you don't give him a deek.

HML in advance!!

best advice I've read so far. well said lady. it's so against the law of nature for a man to be 100% faithful. it's not possible. just pray for a man that will always apply moderation in all. don't let him go just because of that, the next man u will meet again won't guarantee u faithfulness. use ur head lady.

SmooshCHN:

When you date someone for 3 years, you should have an idea of how your marriage will look like.
2nd time you found condom in his bag - A Cheat/A Womanizer/He was Hot/He sells them which I believe is not his job. Where does he fall in this category?
He got angry when you spoke about it the 1st and 2nd time won't be any better. Would worse happen if you accuse him on his bad day? Think!!
And I'm sure it's not his second time nor third and he will continue to lie about it.
Marriage is a big commitment. Don't go into it with someone who won't give you peace of mind and happiness. You can't travel for 3 weeks knowing fully well he can't control himself. That's not who you want to spend your entire life with.
All these being said he sweet caring charming in his way to you but dear, if he isn't happy and expectant of your December wedding as the first time you guys met or even more, check deep down if you are. If you are not, think and act wisely. The last thing you want is getting engaged to someone who cares less about your trust for him. Don't listen to people saying it's normal or he is doing a good thing by using condom how does that make you trust him or make you feel safe or happy or love him as you used to? In life people will say but not see what you are passing through. One month disappointment of a postponed or cancelled wedding is better than a 1 week of dealing with a infidel. Be strong willed and brave, don't settle for less except you know you do the same to him. If he ain't worth you or your trust don't manage it. You need someone who is 75% willing to marry you also not 75% sure to cheat on you after a eye pleasing and mouth gasping wedding ceremony. Be strong girl and pray. Good men are out there. Don't think you can change him only he can if he likes to.

only you and God can give u peace... not man.

standingtall:
hi guys,

I have been dating my fiance for 3 years now. In the beginning everything was cool until recently. About a month ago, I found condoms an, empty pack of condoms in his bag, I confronted him about it and he told me he saw the pack on the floor and he liked the colour of the pack so he picked it up.

I let it go because I didn't want to upset him since he started getting upset.

Fast forward to today, I was looking for change in his bag and this time I found 3 different brands of unused condoms in his bag.

I didn't say anything and I won't say anything. I am hurt and crying inside.I just don't understand what he wants again. I hate him so much right now.

Please my sisters, I need a coping mechanism until am safely far from him. Sorry about my epistle. I needed to let it out.

Show me a man that is not cheating or has not cheated and I will ask you to leave. Think about his good sides also. Nuf said

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ipledge10:
wow...you guys think d same way

;Dif i hear...this person has more than account with diff moniker