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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Tinyemeka(m): 8:15am On Oct 25, 2015 |
standingtall: You came to NL to lament so I'll give you my advice. He says he likes the colour of the packs which was why he keeps them? No problem. For the remaining unopened packs, they require certain "treatments" to improve their visual quality for his viewing pleasure: 1) Use a tiny needle to poke very tiny holes in the centre of the first condom. 2) In the second condom, poke same holes. But this time, introduce small amounts of any foul venereal disease-causing agent your imagination can concoct. It's your deal. You'll know where to get them if you are sufficiently motivated. 3) For the 3rd condom (this is an overkill) I don't think it's necessary as it may give your game away. But you know how you women and ice cold revenge are pallies na. So here goes. Prepare a concentrated (when I say concentrated I mean thick) solution of hot pepper in water. The type that can blind someone by merely looking at it. Do the same holes in the third condom, soak it in this solution for as long as possible, bring out the condom, allow it to dry and return back to it's former location in your dearie's bag. Since he likes looking at them, I don't see how the above stated treatments will not enhance the likeness the more. Sorry, before I forget, make sure you do not sleep with him for at least one week after the treatment. You can cook up any of thise excuses (periods, yeast, bla bla bla). If by the end of that period those same condoms are still there, sit him down and explain to him that by being in a committed relationship he should have graduated from anyhow bachelor to a serious one. He should tell you what you are not doing well that is prompting him to seek sexual gratification elsewhere, so that you can work on that. Erm... I didn't see in your post where you said you are not cool with it so I do not know your position, but I'll assume by general consensus that you do not like the idea of him doing outside. By the way, why do you call him your fiance? Has he proposed to you? |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by akike: 8:16am On Oct 25, 2015 |
Mancity26: Blood no dey run for her blood or she no get crush wey she wan bed if not for fiance What is loving about a man who causes you heartache? What responsibilities? You mean she had to babysit him , monitor his movements and beg him to stop making her sad abi? , If that is the way it is, She is better off charming him with strong juju 1 Like |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Awoofawo(m): 8:20am On Oct 25, 2015 |
standingtall: The honest truth of the fact is that 9 out of 10 married men play-away games at one point or the other in their marital journey. It is hard to find loyal spouses these days and same goes for the married women...the best you can do is learn to accept the ups and downs that come with being marry or just stay out of it. Sit down and think about what you real want in a man and how much you can cope with the negative tendency that your man may exhibite when you less expect..... Good luck!!! 1 Like |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by akike: 8:22am On Oct 25, 2015 |
raayah: They donty change. BF/GF is understandable but husband in three months! I don't know what he is looking for. Given the geographical proximity, he has no excuse not to holla at her if the need arises. She could poke the condoms before breaking things off |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by HaneefahRN(f): 8:25am On Oct 25, 2015 |
missyadorable:This is the most well-constructed NONSENSE I'av ever read on NL. Do u listen to ur own advice? I beg u don't. I'm sure u av no fiance or husband, and probably if u av one, u'll be the one buying him condoms and hailing him when he sleeps with other women, maybe even a party will do well with u, since no man can do without cheating. Listen to urself, he doesn't owe her faithfulness, but she owes him faithfulness right? Cos if she were the one sleeping around, it's a different ball game, right? Being unfaithful to a partner is not a good thing, whether from the male or female, so stop making excuses for nonsense. My advice to women is never fully trust a man 100% cos when he shows his true colour as a cheat, it won't hit u too hard. Some women are in Aro because they av cheats as husbands. And to think this lady said she is lucky! I can't believe someone thought this out. @ OP, this lady is telling u to go for testimony cos ur fiance is cheating on u with condoms, which is a totally good and beneficial thing for u and ur union. Smh for some pple and their likeminds 5 Likes |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by lomprico(m): 8:26am On Oct 25, 2015 |
mimicious:If he respects her, he wont cheat on her! 2 Likes |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by akike: 8:26am On Oct 25, 2015 |
Awoofawo: The honest truth is that most married women want an affair too They haven't gotten any where for you to claim that 9/10 married man have had an affair at one time in their lives. If he can't control himself now, what assurance is there that he is going to control himself after marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by olamisowon1(f): 8:26am On Oct 25, 2015 |
vision2050: she asked for an advice, you should have shut your mouth up when u knew u had nothing sensible to say. Empty barrel. 1 Like |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Mancity26(m): 8:27am On Oct 25, 2015 |
akike:are u male or female pls? To quit after three yrs of enuf banging is not good.. If she can talk 2 d guy and possibly change him, i swear she wil be happiest girl ever.. Her wedding is december oooo. #funnyNation comedian coming soon! |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by byvan03: 8:27am On Oct 25, 2015 |
akike: Thank you!! 2 Likes |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by raayah(f): 8:27am On Oct 25, 2015 |
HaneefahRN: Thank you for calling her out. This thread shocked me down to my bone 2 Likes |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by raayah(f): 8:30am On Oct 25, 2015 |
Mancity26:How can you change someone who gives a basic lie like 'he likes the condom color'.? Marrying him will be the greatest mistake of her life. |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by megley(f): 8:31am On Oct 25, 2015 |
Pineapp: Lmao @ no.3. Dear Lord! |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by raayah(f): 8:31am On Oct 25, 2015 |
lomprico: GBAM!!! |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by akike: 8:31am On Oct 25, 2015 |
Mancity26: You cannot and do not change people Three years of banging does not reduce her worth. If you think that is all that matters, you are a sexist. The vagina is made of muscles that means it can always go back to its original state with ot without exercises. |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by dazzlingd(m): 8:32am On Oct 25, 2015 |
akike:madam, are u married? wat do u know. btw was I referring to u. u need to take a lesson on minding your business. op keep taking advices from these single ladies. |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by akike: 8:32am On Oct 25, 2015 |
Awoofawo: The honest truth is that most married women want an affair too They haven't gotten any where for you to claim that 9/10 married man have had an affair at one time in their lives. If he can't control himself now, what assurance is there that he is going to control himself after marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by raayah(f): 8:34am On Oct 25, 2015 |
dazzlingd: Would you stay with your wife if she was shagging random men.? 1 Like |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by akike: 8:35am On Oct 25, 2015 |
dazzlingd: Madam or Sir! Are you married? If you are a sir, thank your star you married an abnormal woman If you are a madam, don't assume everyone has self esteem issues like you do. No one is perfect but it is too early for a fiance to start lying pathologically. 2 Likes |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by litaninja(m): 8:35am On Oct 25, 2015 |
Beht, you haven't answered the first quexion.... DO YOU GUYS USE CONDOMS TOGETHER |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Awoofawo(m): 8:40am On Oct 25, 2015 |
akike: Seems you didn't read me well......my post clearly included women as well. Am simply saying in marriage it is my God's grace that one find a faithful spouse. Thank!!! |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Xmen149(m): 8:40am On Oct 25, 2015 |
Dnt tell me two of u dnt use condom too (it might be 4u guys)..cos thats dirty act in 1st place..until ua married |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Mancity26(m): 8:41am On Oct 25, 2015 |
raayah:see babe, i don't know for others but b4 i quit any relationship, i must try all my possible best to let u knw hw i feel, don't keep shut, xpress urself, d truth is dat cheaters can lie but ask him d owner of d condom. One of my guy do work in hotel as cleaner, he always come home with varieties of condom, so d case maybe dsame.. Am not supporting any of them..#funnyNation comedian coming soon! |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by akike: 8:43am On Oct 25, 2015 |
Awoofawo: I am sorry. It is but don't you think that it is too early for him to start that nonsense |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by petrelli07: 8:44am On Oct 25, 2015 |
intbizoil:so much wisdom in one statement... Pray tell.. what category does your dad belong to? |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by megley(f): 8:44am On Oct 25, 2015 |
Like someone said, in one of the comments above 'if u can't deal or cope wit a cheating husband, then don't go thru wit the wedding' Now is d time 2decide on wat's best 4u. 4get about wat anybody'll think or say. Its ur life not theirs. Ur not yet married. But again, if u break up wit him, wats d guarantee that d next person won't do same or even worse? Yes, it hurts. But again, he's sensible enof to use protection. Plz giv ur mind rest & stop goin thru his stuff. Some folks can handle a cheating spouse, ur obviously not one of them. |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Mancity26(m): 8:46am On Oct 25, 2015 |
akike:babe i love ur point of view.. But e come be like say u wan vex join dis our cheerful conversation.. Am just trying to say dat no man is 100percnt perfect.. #funnyNation comedian coming soon! |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Sunnypar(m): 8:47am On Oct 25, 2015 |
missyadorable:Sweetheart, you just nailed it. This is the reality in Nigeria.................... Na who them catch na im be thief. I know of many married men that have side Chics and I personally know of a girl that does not want to be married but wants to be a mistress. I love your comment.......1 zillion likes...... can we date? |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by ojialo(m): 8:48am On Oct 25, 2015 |
you've been dating him for 3years, hmmmmmm I hale u. |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by akike: 8:49am On Oct 25, 2015 |
Mancity26: No man/woman is but there are things that are inexcusable I am vexes because I know of a man who exhibited the same behaviour and did not change after marriage. |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Sunnypar(m): 8:50am On Oct 25, 2015 |
Ray360:Nigerians can't handle the truth...... the babe hit the nail on the head...... Have you been to joints, club, fun spot e.t.c even newly wed they cheat...... my next door neighbor just found out that the husband is cheating on their nanny. No man is perfect and no woman is a saint. |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by otiigba1(m): 8:52am On Oct 25, 2015 |
Use it to cook for him |
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