tete7000:


The sermon is meant for nairaland. Church gets its own for today. Happy sunday to you. Have a blessed week.

A blessed week 2 yhu,too..

Oliviaarims:

I agree things happen...but certain co-incidences are difficult to believe. I'm not the one yhu should be trying to convince bout anyfin,though. Give it a rest.

he's a cheat then




Happy now?




Op pls break up with him asap



The perfect man is waiting for you in the corner



Awon onirase

Frankdamaxx:


And if all the men are dead who will comfort you at that moment when its a man's touch you need. Well, you may be L...... Who knows?

Heheh. U r free to talk. Free world. Jus complete wotu wanted to say

Pineapp:
1a. He cares about you and is playing safe not to infect you with whatever infection he might be dinning with.

1b. He no wan give the girl belle.



2a. He's cheating and its glaring to you.

2b. If you cant stand it,walk away now that he's just a fiance.



3.... He might have gotten the job of a major distributor for condoms

ROTFL ... Your Faaather! that number 3 though "He might have gotten the job of a major distributor for condoms"

[quote author=standingtall post=39297823]hi guys,

I have been dating my fiance for 3 years now. In the beginning everything was cool until recently. About a month ago, I found condoms an, empty pack of condoms in his bag, I confronted him about it and he told me he saw the pack on the floor and he liked the colour of the pack so he picked it up.

I let it go because I didn't want to upset him since he started getting upset.

Fast forward to today, I was looking for change in his bag and this time I found 3 different brands of unused condoms in his bag.

I didn't say anything and I won't say anything. I am hurt and crying inside.I just don't understand what he wants again. I hate him so much right now.
U ought 2 hv slapped d lying sh!t outta him. . . Oni ro, '. . . He liked d colour'
kai but u ladies can b so gullible.

If he is not doing you with condom, then the other chick is the side chick. Be happy or where you thinking he was hooked on okra soup only? Babe, if you love him, just look the other way and nurture your relationship till marriage if possible. When you run away from this one, what is the guaranty that the next one wont make you a side chick? Na you sabi shaa

styno:




ROTFL ... Your Faaather! that number 3 though "He might have gotten the job of a major distributor for condoms"

no na RETAILER him b!

akike:


Who are you? It is fine if you have a low self esteem and cannot do without a man. Blame it on your mother because no child born of a hardworking, strong minded and proud woman will make such statement.

bless your soul,some comments here are nauseating,as if all of em sent they brain cells on exile!!!and to think this comments are from ladies who oughta speak out against this shameful act from guys makes me speechless,one slut was telling the op she was lucky to have such a fiance,claiming all guys cheats like its the norms!!I hate it when ladies subjects themselves to such poetic bullshits, apparently they are from broken homes who didn't enjoy the warmth and love of faithful parents,hence they believe a man can never stick to his wife,and a woman can never stick to her husband,what now is the essence of getting married and exchanging vows?y'al should just stick to your baby mamas and baby daddies tag,rather than soil that sacred institution with your low self esteem and low self worth..

raayah:


Yet your husband and his family will kick and embarass you if they catch you cheating.

Why are you advising a woman to put her life in danger?
Cheating is not even the issue, the emotional pain is there. Knowing that the man /woman who you've given your all to thinks you are not enough.

Look the pains of cheating don't show now..
Its when you can't pay kids school fees because hubby is spending all his money on his hoe.
When you are constantly being told that someone else can do it better than you.
When during death, you have to fight another woman to share properties and children you didn't know he had.
Or when he kukuma leaves you in your 40's to run off with a younger woman.

He has no respect for her. He is blatantly lying to her face. My dear, I've seen my fair share of cheating men and they all think low of their wife.
One day, One man whose wife just gave birth an hour before, Told me we should go book an hotel to hangout with. Leaving his poor wife. He couldn't care less.
He will abandon you in times you want him.

Cheating in marriage or where the man is apologetic is different but if he cannot respect you few weeks to your marriage, he won't in the next 10 years.

Concerning the condoms, it only takes one day for him to forget to bring it. In the heat of things, he will knack his mistress raw after that, he realizes it tastes better and continue.

Seems like you know a lot about infidelity.

Who taught you all these?

Most men love sex,even those that don't run after women do too.
Firstly, I will advice you to talk to him gently and with wisdom
secondly, pray seriously over it.
thirdly, know that this kind of behavior cannot change over night It takes time and constant counseling.
don't be deceived that after saying I do he will stop looking outside. Ask yourself will you be able to tolerate this kind of habit?
Know that patience and understanding with endurance are some of the secret of successful marriage life
Thanks

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dazzlingd:

see u comparing men and women....
u like it or not, a man can have many wives and still seen as normal. A woman with two husbands is unheard. that's the society for you.
even in your religious books, we had men and Kings with several wives but no no no no for the reverse

not an excuse to cheat anyway.....

But your religious books condemns Adultery!!!
I cannot believe that you would support cheating for a man but not a woman. The double standards is crazy.
Lets agree to disagree.
Let us just end it here. Don't mention me again. Thanks

missyadorable:


Mrs title.

that sounds lovely, I wish u best of God in d marriage and @ diz time of ur prep 4 d marriage.

standingtall:
I can't deal with it.I was worried about what people will say.we have already done our intro and our wedding is slated for December. I will do what is best for me before I commit a crime.thanks for your sensible response

Your husband to be is a good sower/afurugbin allow him till december he will be a good husband to you. don't commit any crime u will be at receiver end, pls.

Pineapp:
1a. He cares about you and is playing safe not to infect you with whatever infection he might be dinning with.

1b. He no wan give the girl belle.



2a. He's cheating and its glaring to you.

2b. If you cant stand it,walk away now that he's just a fiance.



3.... He might have gotten the job of a major distributor for condoms

gbam, case closed
next please

@ op did u find the change?

jazz04:

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please speak with him on this serious issue . is clear he is cheating in you and now is the time to think fast .

[color=#000099][/color] my sister think fast . He will cheat on you in the future after marriage ,just speak with him mildly .

vision2050:
Man must protect himself, swear you don't have another person wey dey nack your kpekus. His is protecting himself from witches out there, after all you guys have not legally married. You self, you don't know maybe he will marry u. continue open hole, hole of hole.

Baddest. Badder than Baddest sef.

Mancity26:
hello bae! U no go church abi?

Just came back

Nothing to worry about,He simply likes ballons. This is your opportunity, need additional income?, then you can check this out real quick its kinda cool. Earn quick and easy with just 3 steps, visit: http:// PayTaski.com/ ?ref=9426 you've got nothing to lose

missyadorable:



Thank you very much..Whenever I make such comment,am seen as a devil.the same men who brag abt how many women they conquer will turn around to claim they are faithful...and the women folk? they cry foul and call me names.I have come to realize se.x is not love.one woman can never satisfy a man,he would want more n more till he dies.in the olden days when women were decent and se.x was sacred,men were still very much unfaithful.Fast forward to today where everything depicts se.x up to the air we breathe and food we eat.Getting a partner is just a click away, thanks to the various social media platforms and dating sites.The no of married men on these sites is alarming.It really baffles me when my fellow ladies expect a man to bleep only one woman n be faithful to them in this age and time..Personally,i just understand.I don't have a problem wt my man as long as he is playing safe.HIV/AIDS is the only challenge with adultery.

Pls don't vouch for anybody(male n female)on sexual morals.You will be utterly disappointed.

marriage is a commitment and its not meant for all....its only selfishness that makes a man/woman tink of marriage wen he/she ain't ready to forgo some bullshit.....its better you remain single than getting married nd still messing arnd.....I personally can't stand a cheat cos it disturbs my peace of mind,and trust me nothing gives me so much joy like having peace in my heart...your theory is good for you cos you rily dnt care about how ur spouse lifestyle affects yours (you rily dnt give a fu*ck)

This happened to me several times wen my GF travel, I smush other girls n wen she suddenly return she will see some unused CDs tho I will lie... But one day, one bitch I no de Bleep came without informing me, mehn my finance no need explanations she just parked. I begged tier she no gree, I involved my neighbors who promised her it will never happen again.
Wot am saying in essence is this;
I did mine cos I was playing my last game
I love my fiance that I can't even replace her for gold so I had to involve 2 neigbors as a proof and she confessed after that is then she believed I love her.
My advice;
Pretend to park be serious after showing him the CDs and see his reaction, if he loves u he will confess n stop it cos since then, if I see a fine girl I close my eyes.
If he fails to beg u just go n if he seriously doesn't return apologising girl run

missyadorable:
Op,You are a very lucky lady and your fiance is a very good reasonable man...

He is bleeping other ladies,its not a big deal.All men do that!

Besides, he doesn't even owe you any faithfulness.

Your husband after taking vow of fidelity will still bleep other women..the difference is using protection.

You should be happy and thank him whenever you find condoms in his bag,drawer,wallets.

I congratulate you for having a man who knows and understands the implications of unprotected se.x and he is taking necessary steps to protect himself and YOU from STIs including deadly HIV and also prevent having kids from side chics

What else do you want a man to do for you? Isn't that enough?

Stop making a big deal outta nothing.

No man bleeps only one woman!!

If you are looking for a man who will be 100% faithful to you,take clay and mould him and make sure you don't give him a deek.

HML in advance!!

The rate might be low but we still have men that are faithful to their wives in the society.
Faithful men still exist.!

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kill him... ..

olamisowon1:


she asked for an advice, you should have shut your mouth up when u knew u had nothing sensible to say. Empty barrel.

e pained her. you too kontinu open hole, time will tell on your hole.

salomycruz:
marriage is a commitment and its not meant for all....its only selfishness that makes a man/woman tink of marriage wen he/she ain't ready to forgo some bullshit.....its better you remain single than getting married nd still messing arnd.....I personally can't stand a cheat cos it disturbs my peace of mind,and trust me nothing gives me so much joy like having peace in my heart...your theory is good for you cos you rily dnt care about how ur spouse lifestyle affects yours (you rily dnt give a fu*ck)

Pity! A cheat disturbs your peace of mind.May you not die of hypertension....You sound like a very emotionally weak person.Its really a pity! sorry oh!!

styno:
If he is not doing you with condom, then the other chick is the side chick. Be happy or where you thinking he was hooked on okra soup only? Babe, if you love him, just look the other way and nurture your relationship till marriage if possible. When you run away from this one, what is the guaranty that the next one wont make you a side chick? Na you sabi shaa

No mind am!! She is not serious.As Beyonce fine reach,Jay Z dey bleep others.Who she be wey her fiance go chop only her? impossicant! the guy sef has sense,he is using condoms,others r hitting it raw n bringing back all sorts of baby mamas n sTDs..na she sabi sha

Malawian:

abeg talk another thing joor, which kind bag man dey carry? if na wallet u talk, I for believe u small.

HMMMM!!!!!! I just guessed you are not into office work. If you are, where do you put your laptop/ tablets,car-keys etc? there are so many men executive bags sold all over the world.

Even men that does construction jobs, got bags that they can put change of cloths. I am sorry to ask this but where in the world do you come from?